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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered,do these ever work when you put you're looking to meet today?

I'd never meet someone on a whim personally, but just wondered if it works!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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If a woman asked I suspect the answer would be yes

It wouldn’t work with me.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think it can be as good a way as any to start a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman asked I suspect the answer would be yes

It wouldn’t work with me. "

Yeah probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my very early days on here I met a couple that put a meet up one late evening, found myself in Abingdon about 11pm about an hour or so after first contacting them.

But I guess it’s easier for couples / females seeking men than men seeking couples / females ..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just wondered,do these ever work when you put you're looking to meet today?

I'd never meet someone on a whim personally, but just wondered if it works!"

Yes they do work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my very early days on here I met a couple that put a meet up one late evening, found myself in Abingdon about 11pm about an hour or so after first contacting them.

But I guess it’s easier for couples / females seeking men than men seeking couples / females .. "

I just see alot of local single men put it up daily, and wondered if it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspect it never works for the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a couple of socials putting a meet me up on the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my very early days on here I met a couple that put a meet up one late evening, found myself in Abingdon about 11pm about an hour or so after first contacting them.

But I guess it’s easier for couples / females seeking men than men seeking couples / females ..

I just see alot of local single men put it up daily, and wondered if it works"

Very unlikely. Unless they want other men to suck their willies ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Suspect it never works for the men "

It actually does though the odds are far less likely than with women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes flying the meet now flag has worked for me plenty off times in the past

I would suspect it would work

For everyone seeking men

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"In my very early days on here I met a couple that put a meet up one late evening, found myself in Abingdon about 11pm about an hour or so after first contacting them.

But I guess it’s easier for couples / females seeking men than men seeking couples / females .. "

I’ve never been to Abingdon, is it nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never worked for me. I’ve posted one or two in the past when I’m bored and would meet up with someone new for a laugh.

And as a shameless promotion for a group social (please check out the meets forum ) that doesn’t seem to work for a single guy too.

I do suspect single women or couples will be inundated though.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

When you reply to those messages they never open your message or it may be just mine

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've often wondered when men post meets like that in the forums they are asked if they really expect women to meet some randomer with no concern for their safety but yet women often post statuses looking for similar meets in whatever hotel they may be staying in. What's the difference in regard to safety?

Meeting a random stranger like that carries risk regardless of who initiates it.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Never posted a meet now request as far as I know..

Maybe in the early days god only knows

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've often wondered when men post meets like that in the forums they are asked if they really expect women to meet some randomer with no concern for their safety but yet women often post statuses looking for similar meets in whatever hotel they may be staying in. What's the difference in regard to safety?

Meeting a random stranger like that carries risk regardless of who initiates it. "

Absolutely, not a situation I'd put myself in, unless d*unk..and thank god I'm sober

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Done it twice and had meet off one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naaa without build up of excitement i may as well be going for a haircut and iv no hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Naaa without build up of excitement i may as well be going for a haircut and iv no hair "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered,do these ever work when you put you're looking to meet today?

I'd never meet someone on a whim personally, but just wondered if it works!"

I suspect as a single man it would never work, but having never tried it i wouldnt know, as a guess i would think couples and women get lots of response to meet posts

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think a lot of these are men working away from home staying in hotel's

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I think a lot of these are men working away from home staying in hotel's

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Good to see you're still here after all this time, you're still on my hot list! X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not something that would work for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never! I’ve used the ‘looking to meet today feature’ and it’s never worked for me. Not the same as sending tens of ‘meet now’ messages. They might work

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Rarely for guys but probably 9 out of 10 times if you're female

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve used this once and it worked perfectly - better than expected actually.

We met a guy when we were in Cambridge and he turned out to be Italian, which was a fantasy of C’s to have an all Italian talking meet as C’s fluent. It was hot…

K

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Just wondered,do these ever work when you put you're looking to meet today?

I'd never meet someone on a whim personally, but just wondered if it works!"
I've responded to one of these and yes one of my first FB who I met for years was one such meet

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I prefer some sort of connection with people I meet so wouldn't even reply to a meet now request.

I just delete then.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've not used it often, usually just when a meet has fallen through and I had planned to do something that night.

I received plenty of messages saying they couldn't do that night, but could do another, so it worked out well in that regard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I did this the woman didn’t look like her photos

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It's not something we've intentionally used but we did fat finger a meet now a few weeks ago without realising and the number of messages we came back to a few hours later suggests it would have worked.

Was a bit of a shame we weren't available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put that we’d be at a club once and a couple of guys turned up especially and expected to play….they’d paid to get in and everything!

Last bloody time we do that!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Not for me, thank you.

However, if you wish to meet for afternoon tea then I may be marginally amenable.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Yeah, they work.

I've used them for a coffee when I'm away, it's nice to have a lil' hour with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it don’t think I could but saying that I might be tempted to meet same day for a social if someone caught my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put up a meet request for a social but loads of men replied assuming I meant sex.

So I shagged them all.

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