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Married bi and don’t wanna cheat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always knew I was bi and loved sex with women I’m married to an amazing man Greer sex life have threesomes but I have loads of girls come on to me and I really want to alone but know it’s cheating I would be devastated if he slept with someone behind my back but feel this would be a naughty secret am I’m bad ??

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By *lueeyes3082Man
over a year ago

nr kettering

Ask him if he would like you to do that you might be surprised x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just feel it’s double standards ?? he’s been involved when I have been with a woman in a threesome but he couldn’t touch her felt her was left out but having sex with another woman without him involved somehow is hard because I wouldn’t like him doing it without me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would be cheating yes it would be bad

But you can however sit down and talk about open up your relationship to meeting on your own with his permissions and same back

You can both crate single’s accounts and still have a couples account

Also should be easier to talk about sins your both all ready in the life it’s not like ones in the life secretly and the other isn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be cheating absolutely however I would definitely talk to him about this.

It may be that he's very happy for this to happen, I'm very fortunate that my husband is exceptionally supportive of my bisexuality. We are also very fortunate that we met on here so a lot of conversations were had before we even entered a relationship in relation to sex and sexuality that you probably don't get in a conventional situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just feel it’s double standards ?? he’s been involved when I have been with a woman in a threesome but he couldn’t touch her felt her was left out but having sex with another woman without him involved somehow is hard because I wouldn’t like him doing it without me ??"

So you're already having sex with women and leaving him out? If he can't touch her or fuck other women just go fuck women without him.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say a bit selfish ,not allowing him to get involved or allowing him to have any fun op .

You need to talk to him though and tell him how you feel ,see if there's a solution you can agree on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should have your lady fun

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I always knew I was bi and loved sex with women I’m married to an amazing man Greer sex life have threesomes but I have loads of girls come on to me and I really want to alone but know it’s cheating I would be devastated if he slept with someone behind my back but feel this would be a naughty secret am I’m bad ??"
will he not read this, theirs your problem solved

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By *utty FruttyCouple
over a year ago

south wales

i think if he loves you & know your bi then he should let you, my wife is very bi too, we on this site together & had a few nice cpl meets, im not always up for playing so would love to just watch or even let her meet another woman no probs,, id take her & pick her up, i think if a partner wouldnt allow it then he aint in this for the right reason, my wife comes 1st as all i need she give so i give wa she needs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, so, loads of bi people say they get a bad rep because there's stigma that they'll cheat, that they'll never be satisfied by 'just' one side of their sexuality being fulfilled if they enter a monogamous relationship. This right here says that it is a valid concern and true for some bi people. But no more or less likely than any person in any kind of relationship.

If you are in a 1-1 relationship of whatever kind it is on you to either honour your commitment to be monogamous or dicuss opening the relationship to others but equally for both parties, or to find the balance that suits BOTH parties. It's not a dictatorship, or at least it shouldn't be, even full protocol 24/7 d/s relationships are built on a contract and mutual agreement.

Cheating is cheating, also on you to pick your lane for that one

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You need to talk to your partner and if he is feeling left out because he isn't allowed to touch or anything in these threesomes you have with him then you need to talk to him about that as well .It shouldn't be that he feels left out if he is meant to be involved and it sounds like you already play more or less without him even in that scenario .

You both need to chat and work out how it is you want to swing together. Because at the moment it seems to be to suit what you want and not what he wants or his feelings especially if he is already feeling left out.

As for meeting alone you should chat about that as well and tell him how you feel. He may want to meet others alone as well.

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