FabSwingers.com forum: If someone messages you saying

By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

When you get messages from people saying can you send me a face pic if your my type I'll send one back.. most of these are them messaging me first.. what's your response ?

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

None. Straight delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None. Straight delete."

My face is public but this would be my reaction too. Message sender should send face pic first IMO.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I tend to ignore. I only send a pic to those I reckon I may actually meet, not to every person who asks for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No can’t say I’ve ever had one of those messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i do the choosing round here wench now pour me a beer and be gone with you

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Never had a message like that

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I rarely message first.

My response is a polite "no thank you" if their opening gambit is to leech a photograph from me.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I've had a couple of msgs like this I just delete them.

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"None. Straight delete.

My face is public but this would be my reaction too. Message sender should send face pic first IMO. "

Your genuine and your a legend.. and thank you .. if someone messages you asking for a face pic you'd expect them to send one.. I've explained this to 3 different couples in the last half hour messaging me saying send us your face .. then they get annoyed.. amazing !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get messages?

That's news to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get messages from people saying can you send me a face pic if your my type I'll send one back.. most of these are them messaging me first.. what's your response ?"

We just tend to politely decline. I at least try not to just flat out ignore people, but J has no problem doing this if he gets to the message first haha.

F (Mrs)

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By *mac94Man
over a year ago

belfast

I have one in my friends only photos but I’ll send one if they send one back even tho 50% of the time I don’t get one back lol

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

My motto is if they want to see yours OP then they send one first! It’s only polite. And yours is stunning so I’m sure you won’t have any issues, just delete and move on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I delete

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"My motto is if they want to see yours OP then they send one first! It’s only polite. And yours is stunning so I’m sure you won’t have any issues, just delete and move on

Thank you !! This is a normal legit genuine approach..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I message first I'll include a mugshot so they can decide if I frighten then or not. I'll also bung one in normally during general craic if I'm enjoying chatting with the person. A you show me yours & I'll maybe show you mine would get nil points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a little strong to be fair.

I wouldn't like it so much.

It doesn't surprise me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove unless I think we would meet in person. xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If it was a first message ,delete.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex

Had it where first message asks for a face pic, but not where they’ve said they’ll only send one back if they like mine.

Response depends on their profile. If I think we could be a good fit I’d explain I only send face pics to people we’re going to meet fairly imminently.

Otherwise it’s a straight delete.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

No reply delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them if that’s their first message to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight up delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its even better when random judgemental women messages you out of the blue just to tell you how to live your life

for all future random strangers heres a tip keep ya beak out if i want life advise il ask for it and total strangers wont be who i ask

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've been asked a few times when they've messaged first if we have face pics, we reply "Yes we have". We note it in the private notes for when they wink or message in a couple of months.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

If they have messaged you first then they should provide the face pics first. Different kettle of fish if you initiated the convo; they asked you for a face pic but didn't supply one themselves till they see the mugshot of the messenger. Latter happens to me all the time

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They never vet a face pic, if demanding without sharing 1st.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

If I were to reply it would be to point out we are not their type!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ur gawjus. Best on here. Send face pic hunni xxx

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

#offyoufuck

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I actually never send pics - to anybody.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I just delete the message.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Too many pic collectors. Plus I'm ugly so it never leads to anything

just another person who can put a face to my naked body. I also made all my pics for friends only

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By *utty FruttyCouple
over a year ago

south wales

had message the other week sayin hi, i replied sayin hi etc, they then replied sayin "at least send face pic" yet they haf none on thire profile or didnt send 1 so i blocked them

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've got plenty on my profile. Otherwise I'd delete or explain why

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