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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way " can’t be many left for a man of your years  | |||
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"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life " Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Makes sense | |||
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"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life " A real body ? | |||
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"  hahahaha very true "Use reply +quote so we know who you are replying to  | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way " Is that like having a second-hand face...  | |||
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"Always happy to play with a young cute guy as long as their not full of themselves! We may be older but claims of I know what I'm doing will be laughed at or I can be your daddy!! "excellent reply | |||
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"Lived in body?" Hahaha. Never heard that one before  | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Is that like having a second-hand face... "Like a clock face... Second-hand, minute-hand and hours-hand... | |||
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"define older? lol" For me its 50+ but technically that's younger than me
As my age increases its no longer older, but around the same age.
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"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life " Here we go again!  | |||
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"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit. If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list. I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not "This is totally true, but I suck it up because they’re young and excited  | |||
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"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life Here we go again! "Agreed - being "chosen" for age and "lived in" are such a great way of selecting, isn't it? | |||
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"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit. If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list. I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not "I find the selection criteria a bit offputting. You phrased it really well! | |||
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"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit. If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list. I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not
This is totally true, but I suck it up because they’re young and excited "I’ll meet people younger than me, but if they approach me talking about my age then it’s a no from me. | |||
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont " To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody. I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. | |||
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"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life Here we go again!
Agreed - being "chosen" for age and "lived in" are such a great way of selecting, isn't it? "I find women older than myself very attractive but I think that's partly down to their attitude and sense of humour rather than anything physical necessarily. Just easier to get on with and more fun, I've found. | |||
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody. I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. "Same here. The lady thing I’m looking for it anyone in need of sexual instruction. I want someone who’s lived a bit and knows their way around a body. | |||
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody. I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection.
Same here. The lady thing I’m looking for it anyone in need of sexual instruction. I want someone who’s lived a bit and knows their way around a body. "that's me then I have a badge for it  | |||
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody. I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection.
Same here. The lady thing I’m looking for it anyone in need of sexual instruction. I want someone who’s lived a bit and knows their way around a body. "Could not have put it better myself! | |||
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody. I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. "open n close Brackets . | |||
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"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life Here we go again! "Careful, you’re not allowed your own opinion or to call things out, or you’ll get all sorts of accusations | |||
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody. I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. open n close Brackets . "Said in a Scottish accent? | |||
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"OP, Yes correct it’s just you Not a single man here other that you likes older women. As evidence I bet your inbox is full of offers of sex from all those desperate older women now. " That is hysterical! | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way " Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way " don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way " In fairness to you, OP, I can see you meant no offense or harm. It is just that most women do not want to be fetishised by their age, colour, race, accent etc. We are people and want to be treated as that. We come as a package with different attributes and want to be celebrated as a whole female human being. Does that make sense? (I am not being patronising, I am genuinely trying to explain where so many guys go wrong when they post this.) | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently "You know it has nothing to do with being liberal (I am pretty liberal in most regards) but more with the issue of being fetishised. Now I can understand that some guys do not understand that and that is cool. It suffices if a guy understands that most women do not like it, find it offputting. You dont always need to understand why you are irritating or upsetting somebody, just realise that you do in order to avoid it? | |||
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"If face palmed myself too many times with these "granny fanny/vintage vag" posts today. "I'm well into sex with a sexagenarian but all my photos are hidden" Whys that then? don't want the lads to know you're boning the crypt keeper. " Vintage vag
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way " You have to think VERY VERY carefully how you word things on here! | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently
You know it has nothing to do with being liberal (I am pretty liberal in most regards) but more with the issue of being fetishised.
Now I can understand that some guys do not understand that and that is cool.
It suffices if a guy understands that most women do not like it, find it offputting. You dont always need to understand why you are irritating or upsetting somebody, just realise that you do in order to avoid it? "in regards to the OP it looks like he’s fairly new to fab and the forums he’s even admitted to how he worded his original post I’m glad a few have gave him some pointers | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently
You know it has nothing to do with being liberal (I am pretty liberal in most regards) but more with the issue of being fetishised.
Now I can understand that some guys do not understand that and that is cool.
It suffices if a guy understands that most women do not like it, find it offputting. You dont always need to understand why you are irritating or upsetting somebody, just realise that you do in order to avoid it? in regards to the OP it looks like he’s fairly new to fab and the forums he’s even admitted to how he worded his original post I’m glad a few have gave him some pointers "Absolutely agree - and we all could (I include myself here) probably do with remembering at times that opening posts are usually not intended to cause offense. | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way " I’m not offended. I understand that people like all kinds of things. My post was just a hint that you sometimes have to careful with how you word stuff. If a younger guy messages me and tells me he thinks I’m hot; great. If he messages me and tells me he loves old mature women with bodies like mine I won’t like it and I won’t want to meet him. | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way I’m not offended. I understand that people like all kinds of things. My post was just a hint that you sometimes have to careful with how you word stuff. If a younger guy messages me and tells me he thinks I’m hot; great. If he messages me and tells me he loves old mature women with bodies like mine I won’t like it and I won’t want to meet him. " That is a clear way of explaining | |||
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"I can assure you, we don't always know what we're doing. Age doesn't equal experience. " Bites things that go in her mouth. ^ | |||
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So at least this isn’t that bad OP | |||
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"I am open to approaches from young cubs "I'm sure the Cub Leaders will have warned them about ladies such as you. And don't consider scouts either!!! | |||
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"I can assure you, we don't always know what we're doing. Age doesn't equal experience. Bites things that go in her mouth. ^" True story | |||
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"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit. If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list. I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not "This | |||
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"My lady 77 and very sexy" So why are you on here? | |||
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way " Quite a lot of them go gym most young girls don’t exercise and live off takeaway mature women have more social experience making them more attractive during conversation just my take from personal experience | |||
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"Older women are grateful for the attention "Ahem - nope! | |||
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