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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Starting to think this site is just for pic collectors, messaged nearly everyone local who fits the bill not even a reply from most...any help before we delete?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to think this site is just for pic collectors, messaged nearly everyone local who fits the bill not even a reply from most...any help before we delete?"
doest sound all that selective doesnt make people feel all that great to think there just a number

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Lower your expectations?

What did you think it was going to be like? Maybe rethink what you msg people?

Go to a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve been on here 4 weeks and already it’s the fault of the site? Maybe look at what you say I messages, or how you come across in your profile. Also your age(s) work against you on here tbh, as does not being verified as a couple which will make people hesitant to engage with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t understand why you aren’t having your door battered down by unicorns.

May as well give up innit.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

interesting to see other people outlook on this

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Starting to think this site is just for pic collectors, messaged nearly everyone local who fits the bill not even a reply from most...any help before we delete?"

Maybe it’s your profile they don’t like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phrase 'pussy is pussy' is just as bad as 'any holes a goal'

I don't think you come across well in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's the site and everyone else.

Not your expectations, profile or possible conduct.

You're chasing a unicorn while on the move, using damp sugar cubes for bait. How did you think it would go? Falling directly into your laps?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

There’s a whole host of reasons….

You’re looking for a single bi fem to join you as a couple. The unicorn. Most couples on here are looking for that (amongst other things), so there’s lots of competition. And very few unicorns to go around.

You only show one pic and that pic is not exactly a good one.

You’re very specific in your requirements so that going to limit your responses

You’re not verified. Perhaps change your requirements and meet another couple or two for a social to get verified.

You’ve been here 5 mins. A lot of people are very suspicious of new profile, especially unverified newbies

If you’re serious, go to a club. You’ll increase your chances and you may get a verification out of it. You don’t have to play, you can just socialise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've one photo that is badly lit and looks like you are scratching your arse.

Your profile text is a little underwhelming. People will look at these things to help decide if you are interesting enough.

Maybe start there instead of blaming everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from the perspective of a ‘pussy’, albeit one outside your catchment area - that phrase is horrible.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think your profile could be stronger and your messages could be better worded. A few changes may make all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to think this site is just for pic collectors, messaged nearly everyone local who fits the bill not even a reply from most...any help before we delete?"

No replies are common place just persevere you will find the right ones eventually

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Make more of an effort with your bio. 1 pic. "Pussy is pussy" and an "expectation" in there... doesn't come across well.

Fab life is the sane as real life. You get out, what you put in.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Wow ....... this filled up quickly!

O.P. There isn't a pic on this site that someone couldn't get easier on the internet.

Good luck with getting what you are looking for.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You've one photo that is badly lit and looks like you are scratching your arse.

Your profile text is a little underwhelming. People will look at these things to help decide if you are interesting enough.

Maybe start there instead of blaming everyone else"

That is so rude. She is clearly not scratching her arse..... Anyone can see it's a fart catch.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"You've one photo that is badly lit and looks like you are scratching your arse.

Your profile text is a little underwhelming. People will look at these things to help decide if you are interesting enough.

Maybe start there instead of blaming everyone else

That is so rude. She is clearly not scratching her arse..... Anyone can see it's a fart catch. "

Cup missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I wouldn't reply either

Your profile isn't very enticing

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

And you’ve just added a video of a woman sucking cock. Why when you’re looking for bi fem?

You’re sending all the wrong signals. But as you’ve not been back to comment on your own thread, I think this may have been an attention seeking post anyway

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you had messaged me…I wouldn’t have replied either. I’m here for myself, not to please anyone else.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat op. Women and couples get lots of messages every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was looking for couples which I’m not. I would not respond because your profile is very weak and I don’t think we would click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've one photo that is badly lit and looks like you are scratching your arse.

Your profile text is a little underwhelming. People will look at these things to help decide if you are interesting enough.

Lol

Maybe start there instead of blaming everyone else"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...any help before we delete?"

Yes…. Don’t delete! Who knows someone might get in touch later rather than sooner, the stars could slight and sometimes something works out.

Think positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mate your profile pic is of a prawn in a pair of peedos if you can get some conversations surely we can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re called unicorns for a reason! You’ll have to up your game if you’re hoping to attract them you’re also competing with a lot of other couples for their attention.

Is your profile the best it can be, is your username enticing to them and I’d examine your messaging style too.

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