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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I think I'm just weird! I got a coffee date today! And I get a thrill of wondering weather or not he will show! This is not first time I've felt like this! Half of me hopes he won't show! Not for any reason as he looks and sounds OK!don't get me wrong will b pleased if he shows! As I love meeting/chating to new people! And could lead to fun who knows? I think I've become as my daughter says a serial first dater! I do love the thrill! My first ever meet stood me up! And I came home and cried! But would not even flinch now! Am I just weird?? Think I've answered my own question!! X

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Ha ha I think we're all a bit weird... I go through so many emotions, but it's usually a relief when they actually turn up.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Ha ha I think we're all a bit weird... I go through so many emotions, but it's usually a relief when they actually turn up."

Ohh for sure will enjoy the chat! And love meeting new people! He not been on for 10 hrs but has just popped up to confirm! Am excited and disappointed all in one! Deffo a weirdo me! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie"

Ty yes u right as I said first meet never showed and was really upset! But these days I'm fine! Plus there is a yankee candle discount store there! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie

Ty yes u right as I said first meet never showed and was really upset! But these days I'm fine! Plus there is a yankee candle discount store there! x"

no way now your talking location please lol love my candles, wax melts, and inscence sticks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the thrill of will they or won't they

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's the thrill of the will he or she turn up ...

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie

Ty yes u right as I said first meet never showed and was really upset! But these days I'm fine! Plus there is a yankee candle discount store there! x

no way now your talking location please lol love my candles, wax melts, and inscence sticks "

Yes love em x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Its the thrill of will they or won't they "

Exactly glad I'm not the only one! X

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie

Ty yes u right as I said first meet never showed and was really upset! But these days I'm fine! Plus there is a yankee candle discount store there! x

no way now your talking location please lol love my candles, wax melts, and inscence sticks

Yes love em x"

you can always visit five guys all at once lol

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"It's the thrill of the will he or she turn up ... "

x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie

Ty yes u right as I said first meet never showed and was really upset! But these days I'm fine! Plus there is a yankee candle discount store there! x

no way now your talking location please lol love my candles, wax melts, and inscence sticks

Yes love em xyou can always visit five guys all at once lol "

x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never had a no show in 6 years so I don't understand the thrill of it.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Never had a no show in 6 years so I don't understand the thrill of it. "

Only had a few! Maybe u get one soon! X

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie

Ty yes u right as I said first meet never showed and was really upset! But these days I'm fine! Plus there is a yankee candle discount store there! x

no way now your talking location please lol love my candles, wax melts, and inscence sticks "

Ashford designer outlet btw! Haribo shop as well! X

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

I would have mixed emotions nervous and excited

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Never had a no show in 6 years so I don't understand the thrill of it. "

The anticipation causes mild anxiety/intrepidation. This in turn quickens the heart and puts butterflies in ya belly.

Adrenaline is addictive: just as any ganbler/bingo player/speed junkie.

Success is more enjoyable if you've beaten the odds.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

We're going to need updates on this

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By *asseur77Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Hi I have coffee in Chelmsford and the amount of people that don’t turn up is mad I hold it for mature ladies or couples tick

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"We're going to need updates on this "

B sure 2 post! X

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By *asseur77Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Hi I have coffee mornings in Chelmsford and the amount of people that don’t turn up is mad I hold it for mature ladies or couples rick

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never had a no show in 6 years so I don't understand the thrill of it.

The anticipation causes mild anxiety/intrepidation. This in turn quickens the heart and puts butterflies in ya belly.

Adrenaline is addictive: just as any ganbler/bingo player/speed junkie.

Success is more enjoyable if you've beaten the odds."

I've already beaten the odds by knowing with certainty they will turn up. If there was any doubt I wouldn't be there.

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Good luck, i'm sure it will all be good ??

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I find the whole no show thing a bit weird, if I say I'm going to meet someone then I've already decided I'm going to meet them. If someone was a no show I would just be irritated that my time was wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is amazing how it can make one feel emotionally when someone does not turn up, self esteem and self worth too name a few but just keep an eye on how your feeling. anyway enjoy your meet and be safe

eddie

Ty yes u right as I said first meet never showed and was really upset! But these days I'm fine! Plus there is a yankee candle discount store there! x

no way now your talking location please lol love my candles, wax melts, and inscence sticks

Ashford designer outlet btw! Haribo shop as well! X"

please your making me melt lol okay i am going to make a visit Monday best i bring a bag of cash could be costly oh well x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

So far I've never been stood up but I do worry every time. I do insist on a phone call on the day of the meet. No call and I wouldn't even get ready.

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick


"So far I've never been stood up but I do worry every time. I do insist on a phone call on the day of the meet. No call and I wouldn't even get ready. "

Best way thats why I always give my number and have it on my profile no excuses that way

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I find the whole no show thing a bit weird, if I say I'm going to meet someone then I've already decided I'm going to meet them. If someone was a no show I would just be irritated that my time was wasted."

Absoulutley I would never b a no show! X

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Well he showed up! Went well had a coffee and good chat! And I got yankee candles! X

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