FabSwingers.com forum: Good cop/ Bad cop

By *iven to the Wild OP Couple
over a year ago

Batley

Whats a good thing you see in profiles that immediately draws you in and a bad thing that you think, uh oh red flag?

I love a good long profile and if all the pics are non nudes (don't mind a nude, just nice to have a bit of mystery in a meet, like unwrapping a present)

I hate the phrase push boundaries, know your limits! Also when I find out a long bio is just a weird warning to a fictional Australian University.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex

Good.

A profile that spells out what they want and don’t want. Good grammar and punctuation are nice to see but not a deal breaker. I don’t care about someone’s standard of written English but a longer profile can be hard to read if there’s no punctuation.

Bad

TBC. Fill in later. Just ask. Anything that shows they can’t be bothered.

And of course the legal threats to anyone copying stuff from their profile. Makes me want to copy stuff and tell them, just so I can see what they do lol.

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By *iven to the Wild OP Couple
over a year ago

Batley

"Good.

I know the disclaimer thing is mad, like someone acting nefariously is going, nope they've copy and pasted some jargon off the internet, I'm will stop my devious deeds immediately

Bad

TBC. Fill in later. Just ask. Anything that shows they can’t be bothered.

And of course the legal threats to anyone copying stuff from their profile. Makes me want to copy stuff and tell them, just so I can see what they do lol. "

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey

Good:

Clear description of what the person(‘s) want.

A variety of pictures (they don’t have to be explicit).

Obviously a profile which lists similar interests to my own.

Bad:

One line profiles.

No photos, but demand face pictures before even replying!

Overly aggressive descriptions of the target audience they are trying to attract!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I agree about long interesting profiles; I just like to read 'stuff' and glean as much as I can about the person. It's not a prerequisite, however.

I'm not put off by negative tones but as long as the narrative isn't overtly 'angsty' then it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An abundance of cock pics or a cock pic avatar is the obvious red flag whilst a decent amount of favourable verifications is a plus

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Good = nice photos

Bad = use of the words 'perve' and 'naughty' or worse still 'norty'.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Good - nice photos (yeah I'm a man, deal with it)

Bad - ranty, you must meet the following criteria and then they run through 30 rounds of guess who.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Whats a good thing you see in profiles that immediately draws you in and a bad thing that you think, uh oh red flag?

I love a good long profile and if all the pics are non nudes (don't mind a nude, just nice to have a bit of mystery in a meet, like unwrapping a present)

I hate the phrase push boundaries, know your limits! Also when I find out a long bio is just a weird warning to a fictional Australian University."

Profiles that are completely generic. Redflag.

Interesting pictures. Green flag

I had a long detailed profile before but deleted it because the only thing people care about are the pictures. If they fancy you then it doesn't matter what you write and if they're a single guy they're not going to read it or understand it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest red flag is if she looks like a cold war russian

I like it best when they have norks or talk to me like a human as well as there ideal dream fuck

As for the profile i dont read them unless my dick is 6 inches from her mouth

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Bad - When they haven’t put in any effort. So a couple of pictures of their cock or if they’re a woman vagina / breasts. Text that’s basically ‘fill in later’ or wants you to suggest what should happen at a meeting.

Basically low or no effort and they’d been on the site a few weeks or months.

Good - Effort

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