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Swinging is about people

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes swinging is about people

Most people look like People

A good half on here looking like your mother and father

The old term dolly Birds are few and far between

Some join thing swinging is a free for all which its not

Swinging isn't porn is about people

For me its about the person first

So why have some got the wrong idea of what swinging is about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean they have got the wrong idea?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Maybe for some it’s not about the person first and it’s about the sex first. Have they got it wrong? Must admit I’m not sure of the swinging rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was about shagging fellas wives

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

The whole thing is very personal and blanket statements just don’t work.

Your lifestyle choices are just that… lifestyle choices.

If you’re not enjoying yours then change them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I thought it was about shagging fellas wives "

I thought it was about shagging women's husbands !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes swinging is about people

Most people look like People

A good half on here looking like your mother and father

The old term dolly Birds are few and far between

Some join thing swinging is a free for all which its not

Swinging isn't porn is about people

For me its about the person first

So why have some got the wrong idea of what swinging is about?

"

Some people just want sex and nothing else. Some want friendship and sex.

Those types of people just aren't compatible. Neither are wrong.

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe


"Maybe for some it’s not about the person first and it’s about the sex first. Have they got it wrong? Must admit I’m not sure of the swinging rules "
First rule is cos you are talking to someone dont mean for sure sex is going to happen

No one should ever assume its going to it just find its self

not every one in the swinging swings some are just living their life style in place where can be their selfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was about shagging fellas wives

I thought it was about shagging women's husbands !"
so close to the truth

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Can we please not sexualise people.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

When I first joined here, I assumed it was the blanket description of couples having extra marital sexual enrichment.

But it's so much more, the variety of people on here is immense and their different wants and needs, do not all fit under the swinger umbrella

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe


"When I first joined here, I assumed it was the blanket description of couples having extra marital sexual enrichment.

But it's so much more, the variety of people on here is immense and their different wants and needs, do not all fit under the swinger umbrella"
This person got it dead on you can never assume

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think it is about the sex _and_ it is about the people. I love to meet for one offs - the thrill of anonymous sex is great but sex does better over time as you get to know a person or couple. You can explore different things. What you might hate with one person you will absolutely love with another and vice versa.

The rich tapestry of life is what make fab so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a "swingle". I use clubs to meet, socialise and play with couples and I use this site to find what I cannot find in everyday day life. I agree its not a free for all but I use what ever resources are available when I need them. There is not a swingers "one stop shop" you have to explore and try different things on offer.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Can we please not sexualise people. "

Sorry.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Can we please not sexualise people. "

I'm disinclined to acquiesce to your request.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I keep getting told it’s a sex site.

I joined because I was getting fed up of the Fetish Club scene. So I thought I’d see what other clubs I could attend whilst dressed.

The site itself isn’t something I rely on for meetings but it has happened in the past. But I mainly use it for the club listing and making new friends.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s whatever YOU make it, for YOU, it doesn’t matter the slightest what others believe it is.

Stop complaining.

If you don’t like the messages you get , switch them off. If you don’t like the forum posts , don’t click the big button that’s says Forums. If you don’t like OF , don’t click on hot photos

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Yes swinging is about people

Most people look like People

A good half on here looking like your mother and father

The old term dolly Birds are few and far between

Some join thing swinging is a free for all which its not

Swinging isn't porn is about people

For me its about the person first

So why have some got the wrong idea of what swinging is about?

"
they watched a ch5 documentary and think swinging is full of people who are here to fuck anyone that asks…if they did a proper documentary where people go into forums to discuss current events / seek help from other users on anything from legal to car problems/ and generally have a form of community which has nothing to do with sex - it would be accurate and incredibly dull viewing I guess xx

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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago

hull

The way I look at it is,Us swingers have evolved we have taped into something that the ‘normals’ haven’t and they can and will never understand unless they venture out of there square box.But they still judge us.

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