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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm new to swinging and have not yet met with anyone.

I have created an honest profile but haven't yet had one response since I joined months ago!

My question is what do women on here look for on a profile?

Do I need to make some changes or just look elsewhere?

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

The endless Power Ranger poses are great, do you have any photos you could upload where you're crouching down holding a really big fish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The endless Power Ranger poses are great, do you have any photos you could upload where you're crouching down holding a really big fish? "

This made me laugh so much I nearly

C h o k e d

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Patience and a good sense of humour.

The ability to self-deprecate.

Friendly, non-stalkerish interactions on the forum, with men as well as women.

Zero sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_arkandlovely, you are savage

OP I really think there are ways you could show your body, or at least hints of it. I’d definitely consider getting rid of all the bike pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point taken!

There are more revealing pictures on my "friends only", just don't see the need for full exposure on public portfolio?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, carry on as you are then…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

welcome to fab and the forum.

I'd say that your profile is informative and tells us all we need to know.

As for what women want, we are all different and there's no one size fits all. Be yourself, interact in a positive way and accept that it might take a little patience.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op take no notice post the pics you want

If you post what others what it will build a profile that isn’t representative off your true self

And will only lead to further hindrance down the line

When meeting as you will have painted a false picture off your self

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful. "

We have talked about it but want to keep it separate for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bulging package a well built body with a six pack and over six foot and you on a winner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A bulging package a well built body with a six pack and over six foot and you on a winner"

I will work on that then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bulging package a well built body with a six pack and over six foot and you on a winner

I will work on that then!"

They will flock to you then, as you can see I have none of the above so guess I should start doing sit ups

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Massive cock, buns of steel, washboard abs… and cake!!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Mmmmm cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmmm cake "

Homemade or store bought as this will narrow down

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By *heCitySocialCouple
over a year ago

London


"It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful. "

Maybe they don't want to meet a couple together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful.

We have talked about it but want to keep it separate for now."

That's fair enough, but it might be worth linking in to each others profile username wise in both bios perhaps? That way someone knows there is definitely consent from the partner happening. Just an observation I've noted with other couples and solo profiles

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful.

We have talked about it but want to keep it separate for now.

That's fair enough, but it might be worth linking in to each others profile username wise in both bios perhaps? That way someone knows there is definitely consent from the partner happening. Just an observation I've noted with other couples and solo profiles "

Definitely this 100%

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Mmmmm cake

Homemade or store bought as this will narrow down "

All cake is good. I love cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll always be at a disadvantage since you’re married even though you say you’re playing with permission. That’s not to say it’s impossible you may just have to be more patient.

I’d advise having your wife’s username in there so women can check for themselves and for your wife to have yours on hers.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Point taken!

There are more revealing pictures on my "friends only", just don't see the need for full exposure on public portfolio?"

You drive need full exposure but what this woman wants is to be able to ascertain how attractive I may find you. When there are lots of men to select from, those that make it easier for me are heaven-sent. The rest take a back seat and are likely to be overlooked and ignored.

Perhaps ask your wife what she expects from a man's profile here?

Read the many posts from single men here, who struggle to achieve anything. Liads of tips. But let it be your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to swinging and have not yet met with anyone.

I have created an honest profile but haven't yet had one response since I joined months ago!

My question is what do women on here look for on a profile?

Do I need to make some changes or just look elsewhere?"

Please also forward me wife's profile so I can inundate her with unnecessary messages

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful.

We have talked about it but want to keep it separate for now.

That's fair enough, but it might be worth linking in to each others profile username wise in both bios perhaps? That way someone knows there is definitely consent from the partner happening. Just an observation I've noted with other couples and solo profiles

Definitely this 100% "

If she's on here herself I suspect she's likely to be having more luck.

Maybe if she's already verified get her to leave you one? You've met her no doubt so nothing untoward. May boost your odds of people not jumping to the conclusion she may not exist...

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful.

We have talked about it but want to keep it separate for now.

That's fair enough, but it might be worth linking in to each others profile username wise in both bios perhaps? That way someone knows there is definitely consent from the partner happening. Just an observation I've noted with other couples and solo profiles

Definitely this 100%

If she's on here herself I suspect she's likely to be having more luck.

Maybe if she's already verified get her to leave you one? You've met her no doubt so nothing untoward. May boost your odds of people not jumping to the conclusion she may not exist...

A"

Surely not? For what it's worth OP I have had a very nice social with a married couple before where the male only was looking to connect with a regular friend on his own. Lovely, honest, and open folk and it definitely interested vs putting me off meeting someone married (with full knowledge/consent)

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

OP, your profile narrative is informative, candid and straightforward. Generally, it's fine. Your photographs probably need some finesse...

It's your profile. Be yourself. Refine it and shape it in the way it best describes you. Add some humour, inject some irreverence, project your personality.

You don't need to justify yourself on here or seek any form of mandate in regards to your wife.

Get yourself to a Fab organised social and meet some wonderful people.

I hope it works out for you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I suggest you crop all the black edges off your pics.

I don't think there is any need to repeat in the profile text what we have already read in the description.

Are you looking to swing with the FWB ?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I'm new to swinging and have not yet met with anyone.

I have created an honest profile but haven't yet had one response since I joined months ago!

My question is what do women on here look for on a profile?

Do I need to make some changes or just look elsewhere?"
you look fine just keep plugging away but I imagine the married with permission thing causes a problem puts some off

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

As your married, I'd link your wife's profile so people can check your ok to meet

My husbands had much more sucesss since doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says in your profile that your wife is on here too. Have you not tried making a couple's account and trying to find another couple? I would imagine that would be more fruitful.

We have talked about it but want to keep it separate for now."

You deleted her from your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The black edges in your pics make it seem like they're not really yours, along with can't accommodate because it's the family home makes a single male profile come across a bit suspicious...

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Now with the wife bit deleted your profile reads even worse. Especially the “family home” sentence is off putting af.

Your pictures look like old screenshots.

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