FabSwingers.com forum: When people don’t take no for an answer!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Soo annoying that when you say no it’s a no and they keep messaging you!! Anyone else had this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Block, and you’re sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, we get this most days. Will never understand why they think we will change our minds if they keep pushing when it just puts us off even more. If they can't take someone saying no on the internet what would they be like in person

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

That's what the block button is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that’s why I just block now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah exactly it’s so off putting isnt it! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo annoying that when you say no it’s a no and they keep messaging you!! Anyone else had this?? "

All the time, even more so when I don’t reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard the word "no" directly on here....but doesn't mean I'd keep messaging till I do. Guys just accept the first response and fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if after I've said no I get a follow up message. To me it's quite a good indicator that the person will not respect boundaries.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I have the opposite effect ! I say yes and they say no

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

"I block if after I've said no I get a follow up message. To me it's quite a good indicator that the person will not respect boundaries. "

what Lorna said!

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Wonder whether they also have issues with consent in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point moaning, just block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same for me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they send a second message days or even a week or so later then I just block x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer: erm because

Solution: Menu » Block User

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 12 messages before I blocked the other day. You'd think a no reply would be enough for them to realise

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I block them. If I don't and they keep asking to meet up I keep saying no thanks.

I don't let the little things annoy me.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Soo annoying that when you say no it’s a no and they keep messaging you!! Anyone else had this?? "
nope never had it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete or block....

we have got to the stage where we delete without reply because many take a no thank you message as a nod to continue chatting

the majority of messages we receive are boring / samey / with no real effort so they aren't worth a response

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Can't say it's a problem I have to deal with

#blessed

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Never had it. Also never had any abuse. I just delete and block if I’m not interested. So much easier.

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By *rumfellaukMan
over a year ago

New Oscott, Sutton Coldfield, Birmingham

Chance would be a fine thing bab x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s the same for us! The messages are literally the same every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo annoying that when you say no it’s a no and they keep messaging you!! Anyone else had this?? "

My answer to this is simple , it written in my updated status , that's the way l see , and will always see , the way things are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo annoying that when you say no it’s a no and they keep messaging you!! Anyone else had this?? "

Anyone who accept a polite “no thank you” just gets blocked

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block now. Hi how's you, delete. Next message, you shy?

Nobody had time for that shit.

Also I find it funny when the mak a new account a few weeks later and message you. THE ANSWER IS STILL NO.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If someone says no thank you..replay thanks happy swinging and move on

No issues

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Them: Hey hows u want to meet now?

Me: No, I'm fine thank you.

Them: Oh why not?

Them: ???

(2 days later)

Them: Hey hows u want to meet me now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, I don't give a flying....

Just makes me lol and ignore them but i will block if they get rude

TBH, I feel sorry for them, I pity them and most of all, feel sorry for their OH as most cant accommodate and are single what does that tell you, lol

by all means pm us, again and again, we take it in our strid.

I do pity these type but one persistant chap who reqested a pair of L's worn knickers after i chated about that on the forums here, I gave him the pair and hopefully he is making the most of it

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Soo annoying that when you say no it’s a no and they keep messaging you!! Anyone else had this?? "

just block babes.

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Just reply with “how can i possibly say yes” .

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Happens all the time. Just block these days.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. I just block, so I don't get comeback from it

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

tell them to fuck off then block..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to just block, we've tried to be friendly about it numerous times but plenty of people just don't seem to understand, once we've said no pestering us isn't going to magically change our mind

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"That’s the same for us! The messages are literally the same every time! "

Who are you replying to?

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

All you people saying 'just block', the OP hasn't asked for your suggested solutions. They just asked have you experienced it or not.

So why are you all offering your solution then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

simply delete...!

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