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Do you find it easier to love or hate

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

For me love everytime. I find hate a really strong word. Very profound for a Sunday evening .

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

I don't think I have ever hated anyone.

Mr

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"I don't think I have ever hated anyone.

Mr"
Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it much easier to love.

I casually throw the word hate around day to day but I truly only hate one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find in easier to complain but thats because im like karl pilkington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

hate is a strong word, no i dont hate anybody

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Much easier to love. To hate someone I imagine could be a self destructive emotion. Why waste time on negative emotions.

Ruby

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"I find it much easier to love.

I casually throw the word hate around day to day but I truly only hate one person. "
true we do throw the word about . You are honest though my friend stating there is only one person you hate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it much easier to love.

I casually throw the word hate around day to day but I truly only hate one person. "

You know what, I actually do hate a lot of people. But when it comes to real life, only one. But I'm much more of a love kind of person. I always try to focus on the positives.

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury


"I find it much easier to love.

I casually throw the word hate around day to day but I truly only hate one person. "

Make it two and I can agree with someone for a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very easy to hate all the Bullshit in the world very few things I love and get to enjoy

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love is easier to do, you can't control it. It's natural and just happens. But it is a hell of a roller-coaster and can make things extremely difficult at times.

Hate, you as good as choose to feel that way. But once you do, it's effortless. Your mind set molds around it.

Keep in mind love and hate are not opposites.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is easier, I find these days I am indifferent to people I don't get on with. Hate is a waste of energy x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Love is easier, I find these days I am indifferent to people I don't get on with. Hate is a waste of energy x"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can no longer do either really the only way to survive is without emotion at all

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Love, but never hated maybe disliked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you consider them as opposites then why would you put that much of yourself into hating someone?

Doesn't seem worth it.

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

It’s so much easier to love or at least give the benefit of. Love may mean folk get along or at least try. Hate though conjures images of conflict, ongoing grief and obviously worse to come. Polar opposites and I’m sure i know which is preferable.

In today’s climate, I very much wish others did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is easier to do, you can't control it. It's natural and just happens. But it is a hell of a roller-coaster and can make things extremely difficult at times.

Hate, you as good as choose to feel that way. But once you do, it's effortless. Your mind set molds around it.

Keep in mind love and hate are not opposites."

This is a brilliant answer and I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To hate wastes to much energy

To love is easier and lasts a lifetime

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth


"Love is easier to do, you can't control it. It's natural and just happens. But it is a hell of a roller-coaster and can make things extremely difficult at times.

Hate, you as good as choose to feel that way. But once you do, it's effortless. Your mind set molds around it.

Keep in mind love and hate are not opposites."

I don’t think you choose to hate someone, sometimes it’s the only emotion your left with

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If you really love someone it should cost you everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is easier to do, you can't control it. It's natural and just happens. But it is a hell of a roller-coaster and can make things extremely difficult at times.

Hate, you as good as choose to feel that way. But once you do, it's effortless. Your mind set molds around it.

Keep in mind love and hate are not opposites."

Satan was a fallen Angel after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you really love someone it should cost you everything "

Yes, I had a divorce like that.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Hate is such a strong word and I reserve only for Gogglebox

I love many things though

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Love is easier to do, you can't control it. It's natural and just happens. But it is a hell of a roller-coaster and can make things extremely difficult at times.

Hate, you as good as choose to feel that way. But once you do, it's effortless. Your mind set molds around it.

Keep in mind love and hate are not opposites.

I don’t think you choose to hate someone, sometimes it’s the only emotion your left with"

Hate is generally a lack of being able let go of negative emotions.

Hate is very unique in that's its not just an emotion, it's an attitude too. As I said a mind set. Love can end, but we have very little control over it. It's usually (in a way) forced upon us to stop loving and it's replaced with other emotions.

Hate on the other hand goes away when we accept or forgive, things we ultimately choose to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you really love someone it should cost you everything "
it did thats why im now insane

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Love, it's much more positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love easily and for a long time.

I hate fleetingly.

Which is probably just as well because if I took the time to put my mind to it…

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t think I hate anyone really

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I don't hate people. I try to understand the reason behind their behaviour. I don't really love either. I am strange.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think I love easily in a platonic sense but if we're going for that big, sweeping idealised love that would be the opposite of such a strong response as hate... well I find that almost as difficult as hating. I can't hate. I find it uncomfortable. A waste of energy, of headspace. Love is.. well gosh.

So generally avoid both and talk myself out of such daft feelings; I can dislike behaviour, love someone's traits but hate and love when you're putting them as opposing factions like that? I can't say I find it easier to do either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate is a very strong word although I do hate my ex. More often, I dislike but I'm more for love than anything else. It's not healthy feeling any kind of animosity towards anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love requires effort from the donor

Hate requires effort from the recipient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make love not war

Xxxxx

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Love, I don’t waste my time or emotions on hate

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