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"No, not at all. Nowhere near." Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. " I get that. I have had knockbacks with couples already for being inexperienced. Not sure which to progress this. Sure it must be a fantasy for some couple to teach a newbie? Maybe not and I’ll see what happens. | |||
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"I may have a lot to learn, but how do I learn if nobody teaches? I’m feeling my way, I have nervous feelings that I didn’t expect. What am I supposed to do?" I john played with guys before i met jo. She had played with women before she met me. I understand everyone needs to start somewhere but if you have bi feelings why not try a light meet with a bi guy to see if you like playing with guys first. Bi cpls are not really after playing with a guy who suspects he might enjoy sex play with a bi cpl. | |||
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"I may have a lot to learn, but how do I learn if nobody teaches? I’m feeling my way, I have nervous feelings that I didn’t expect. What am I supposed to do? I john played with guys before i met jo. She had played with women before she met me. I understand everyone needs to start somewhere but if you have bi feelings why not try a light meet with a bi guy to see if you like playing with guys first. Bi cpls are not really after playing with a guy who suspects he might enjoy sex play with a bi cpl. " People think I am just pretending so I can get with the Mrs. Its not that. I’m straight (bring on comments) and I love women, but if the guy then touched me, that’s what I’m looking for. | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far." Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand? | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far. Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand?" Thank you! I actually thought it might have been something of a turn on for an established couple to take me into their bedroom and play with me, up for anything, and be their toy for the day/night. | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far. Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand? Thank you! I actually thought it might have been something of a turn on for an established couple to take me into their bedroom and play with me, up for anything, and be their toy for the day/night." I don’t think you’d have an issue tbh. I found the fact I was inexperienced was a turn on for them ! | |||
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"I thought that too, but trying to find a couple willing to try this is proving troublesome! x" That’s quite strange x | |||
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"I thought that too, but trying to find a couple willing to try this is proving troublesome! x That’s quite strange x " Is it? If you can help or point me in the right direction, I’m all ears! x | |||
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"I may have a lot to learn, but how do I learn if nobody teaches? I’m feeling my way, I have nervous feelings that I didn’t expect. What am I supposed to do?" Lots of ways to explore, you just need to use your imagination. We don't know what you could fancy doing with a man, so that could help to guide you. Bi events would also mean that a couple wouldn't need to invest time in arranging to meet a single guy, without any track record or certainty, as you could explore there, without them needing to take such a risk. Think around your desires and think up some ideas. | |||
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"Would like to know what opportunities I might get if I pretended I was a very experienced bisexual!" Don't pretend - it's not good for them, or you | |||
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"I thought that too, but trying to find a couple willing to try this is proving troublesome! x That’s quite strange x Is it? If you can help or point me in the right direction, I’m all ears! x" Loads of ways Try the guys version of this site, Bi events at clubs Male saunas Get some experience, see what you do or don’t like Then when you do meet a couple you’ll all be on the same page and hopefully have a great time | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far. Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand?" I think most cpls will bend the rules if its a woman. But guys who pretend to be bi just to fuck the lady half of the cpl is rife on here. Ladies are less prone to just be "fab" bi we found than straight guys pretending to be bi to get pussy. | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far. Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand?" Look at his reply above yours. He is straight but if the guy touched him its ok | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far. Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand?" To have a vagina I suspect | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far. Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand? To have a vagina I suspect " Or not to say he straight but wants a bi experience also. You know if you are bi curious. You cant be straight and bi or bi curious. Ladies do not lie about being bi to get a fuck. | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. " So should the OP just start off with sucking the tip of it before he becomes comfortable enough to take it up le bum chambre? | |||
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"No, not at all. Nowhere near. Most of us bi cpls would be put off by your reply alone here. That is like saying you want to learn to swim and just jumping in the deep end of the swimming pool. Omg opp you have a lot to learn before going this far. Hmmm really ? Personal experience showed me that couples adored the fact I had limited experience, and I jumped straight in . What does he have to learn beforehand? To have a vagina I suspect Or not to say he straight but wants a bi experience also. You know if you are bi curious. You cant be straight and bi or bi curious. Ladies do not lie about being bi to get a fuck. " His profile say bi curious and you have been nothing but negative towards him no matter what he said on the thread. All your proving is that a guy being honest upfront about his level of experience and how far his curiosity has gone so far will be met with hostility. | |||
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"I’m finding the same issue, I get approached about mmf on here but I’ve been honest and said it’d be my first and I don’t hear back - gutted. I don’t fancy guys but sucking a hard cock in that scenario is a massive turn on " Exactly this! ^^ Thanks for the supportive messages to those who did. Still find myself looking, for the reasons many of you have already mentioned… | |||
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