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What’s more personal?

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By *ovestruk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

What’s more personal sucking a cock or fucking?

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Fucking, particularly with eye contact

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think they can both be as personal or as impersonal as you make them

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think both. And also, depending on how much you know and like to person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think both. And also, depending on how much you know and like to person."

very much so.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Yep both can be personal, I guess the soft swap convention is that oral is less so but I’m not convinced that for example having sex doggy style with no eye to eye contact is more personal than oral with…

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I would find both personal. So if i wanted to be impersonal, just wanking someone off will suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With ever one is done slow and sensual.

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By *hocolateBrownMan
over a year ago

bris

oral for me is always personal with ou without eye contact, however fucking can be either..

oral almost always ends in fucking, but not necessarily the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the levels you take em to its about the moment not the act stroking someones hair as she sleeps or simply looking into her eyes can feel as powerful as either act

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

with out a doubt both,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the levels you take em to its about the moment not the act stroking someones hair as she sleeps or simply looking into her eyes can feel as powerful as either act"
i remember those moments as if they just happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucking a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock sucking

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Well for me, when I'm sucking on a penis it definitely feels more personal than when I'm fucking them... and I feel completely the opposite when the roles are reversed and it's happening to me.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

sucking, putting a cock in the same place that you use for talking/kissing/eating & its one of the first things people see when they look at you.

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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago

Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else

Both once it's all sensual and that eye contact that says fuck ya this is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s more personal sucking a cock or fucking? "

Oral

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We both think oral is more personal

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"What’s more personal sucking a cock or fucking? "

For me fucking. I don't know if it's my neurodivergent brain but I rarely make eye contact during oral; giving or receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That depends on what people see as personal

For me none off them are

Personal to me is cuddling afterwards

I have a awesome saying I will only make love to a select few but will let most have a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question, for me probably oral. Especially giving.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What’s more personal sucking a cock or fucking? "
fucking on top more personal face to face

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"I think they can both be as personal or as impersonal as you make them"

Exactly. It very much depends how they're done

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think they can both be as personal or as impersonal as you make them"

Yes, agreed. Right now I think they're both quite equal for me, oral tends to go down into aj almost worshipping route and that's very personal and intimate. But fucking with the eye contact and intensity of the proximity of the other, the orgasms I have... it's also quite a personal thing. I don't think I could do either of those things if it wasn't.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

The only thing I find really personal is putting my tongue in a ladies asshole.

Everything else is absolutely personal in a sex kinda way but I only put my tongue in the asshole of ladies I really feel completely comfortable and connected with.

I don’t suck penis’s so I’ve elaborated on your question so I can join in with this interesting thread.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"The only thing I find really personal is putting my tongue in a ladies asshole.

Everything else is absolutely personal in a sex kinda way but I only put my tongue in the asshole of ladies I really feel completely comfortable and connected with.

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Oh you giant softie. This is so romantic and lovely, you should really consider writing for Mills and Boon.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"The only thing I find really personal is putting my tongue in a ladies asshole.

Everything else is absolutely personal in a sex kinda way but I only put my tongue in the asshole of ladies I really feel completely comfortable and connected with.

Oh you giant softie. This is so romantic and lovely, you should really consider writing for Mills and Boon. "

Sometimes you just get that old fashioned feeling, when you'd do anything to tongue their asshole

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Both are personal

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Depends on the levels you take em to its about the moment not the act stroking someones hair as she sleeps or simply looking into her eyes can feel as powerful as either act"

That's such a nice comment

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tricky one but I think sucking a cock. I cannot have a woman suck my cock without looking at her doing it. I can however close my eyes when she fucks me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you do it

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I find that receiving oral is the most intimate act for me, and i need to be relaxed with the person to be able to enjoy it. As others have said, having sex and giving oral can both either be really intimate or not. It totally depends on my connection with the person im doing it with. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s more the intensity of the connection that’s personal for me, all the build up, the flirting, the kissing, touching and teasing, I find those more personal and exciting than the actual sex ….. sometimes.

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By *amsubMan
over a year ago

hyde

As a guy I think sucking a cock for me

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

Both really, for the simple reason that if someone agrees to have sex with you it's the most personal intimate thing that two people can do together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking.

Both feel the benefit.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s all personal. If I didn’t feel it was I wouldn’t be in either situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a cock after it had been sucked and fucked

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