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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m not bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope wouldn’t bother me as long as I was left satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bothers me.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I think as long as both parties are satisfied then I don't think it matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not bothered just means I can bonce all night long on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather you didnt tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd just ask that it was all ok and you were satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me a couple of times with new girls I just put it down to nerves trying to impress and it just gets the better of you as you don't want to disappoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the men who cum numerous times, does this bother you women?

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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"This has happened to me a couple of times with new girls I just put it down to nerves trying to impress and it just gets the better of you as you don't want to disappoint "

See I've had this issue since I lost my virginity at 17 and I tried figuring out why and so far, I'm nowhere near to figuring that out still lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter? "

As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.

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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?

As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes."

I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?

As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.

I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol"

Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit I do enjoy receiving multiple cum loads. luv creampies & facial glazing to wear as a souvenir; allowing cum to drip dry whilst my arsehole is being pummelled...

have only met one guy to-date who never cums but he can fuck for hrs so it’s all good...!

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

I like cumming. I would plough on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it bother or worry you at all? I dont in general cum from sex either so we would be at it all night if we hadnt talked before hand

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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"Does it bother or worry you at all? I dont in general cum from sex either so we would be at it all night if we hadnt talked before hand

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Doesn't bother me really.. well fab has taught me that I can be who I want to be and to accept myself as myself. Just recently talking to someone outside fab and she mention how insecure she would be if she was unable to make a guy cum so it kinda knocked me a little. I won't want someone to feel insecure about it even though its not something I can or anyone can control but kinda got me thinking really

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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?

As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.

I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol

Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot"

Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it bother or worry you at all? I dont in general cum from sex either so we would be at it all night if we hadnt talked before hand

Doesn't bother me really.. well fab has taught me that I can be who I want to be and to accept myself as myself. Just recently talking to someone outside fab and she mention how insecure she would be if she was unable to make a guy cum so it kinda knocked me a little. I won't want someone to feel insecure about it even though its not something I can or anyone can control but kinda got me thinking really "

Can you cum when it is just you? I think just talking beforehand will help with insecurities from both sides. I would appreciate the honesty and it wouldnt then bother me at all, if she is making you hard then you are enjoying her company still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Climaxing and cumming are two separate actions. The pheromones are released regardless whether a male cums, you can build this up by masturbating and stopping before you reach climax, then repeating and repeating and so on. Some of the best climaxes I've had have been without cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?

As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.

I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol

Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot

Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though "

Pretty sure there would be, not sure how ethical would be though lol

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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"Does it bother or worry you at all? I dont in general cum from sex either so we would be at it all night if we hadnt talked before hand

Oh I wank til the cows cum home and no problem at all. But sex wise, be it penetrative, oral, hand job.. nothing at all. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but very rarely it happens. But on occasions it does happen, recreating the same situation won't have the same effect

Doesn't bother me really.. well fab has taught me that I can be who I want to be and to accept myself as myself. Just recently talking to someone outside fab and she mention how insecure she would be if she was unable to make a guy cum so it kinda knocked me a little. I won't want someone to feel insecure about it even though its not something I can or anyone can control but kinda got me thinking really

Can you cum when it is just you? I think just talking beforehand will help with insecurities from both sides. I would appreciate the honesty and it wouldnt then bother me at all, if she is making you hard then you are enjoying her company still. "

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"This has happened to me a couple of times with new girls I just put it down to nerves trying to impress and it just gets the better of you as you don't want to disappoint

See I've had this issue since I lost my virginity at 17 and I tried figuring out why and so far, I'm nowhere near to figuring that out still lol"

Some medicines can cause this so if you are on medication it might be worth talking to your dr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely at the other end of the cumming spectrum lol!

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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?

As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.

I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol

Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot

Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though

Pretty sure there would be, not sure how ethical would be though lol"

Its fine.. I'll just waiver that lol

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.

I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?

As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.

I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol

Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot

Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though "

After being with someone and not cumming do you then finish yourself off or do you not bother?

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

i really want my man to cum for me, its like a reward for a job well done

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By *xydadbod OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I don't bother as I'm sure it normally leads to round 2, then 3 and so forth. Does kill your ab muscles though lol I think I get to a point where I've exhausted myself then I will make myself cum but I do try to get the company I'm with at the time involve as well as I do

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Mmmm I think he must have cum at least once if he now has a sexy dad bod, unless science lent a hand.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If I’m totally honest yeah it probably would. I’d never say that to them though as I wouldn’t want to make someone feel bad etc. I’d rather know beforehand if it could/or couldn’t! happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say no but like us they get an ego knock dont let em fool you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A regular partner? No.

Someone from Fab? Honestly? Yes. I would rather know beforehand.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"They say no but like us they get an ego knock dont let em fool you"

I would. I’ll be honest. I’d probably think it was me.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Sometimes if I've been having a long session with someone, I might eventually lose that feeling you need to cum. By then we'd usually be pretty tired, so I'm happy to sleep on it... the orgasm will come when it's ready. I think ploughing on relentlessly trying to get there isn't actually fun for either party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it would be bother me lol I’d feel I’d failed in some way

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