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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I don’t get exclusivity and swinging as a joint term. Surely exclusivity is what it is _not_ about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that happen often?

I’ll shag ya OP, and you’re free to do whoever else you want afterwards

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

People can want what they want. I just don't think a lot of people are realistic about what they are looking when I see how they how they present themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t get exclusivity and swinging as a joint term. Surely exclusivity is what it is _not_ about?"

This is exactly it. If I wanted a boyfriend I'd be on a completely different site. I want to experience different things.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Or say that they're honest... Obviously not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does that happen often?

I’ll shag ya OP, and you’re free to do whoever else you want afterwards "

2 separate guys have recently got annoyed that I wanted/have had meets before them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or say that they're honest... Obviously not "

Definitely. We ask people really early on what their situation is. We don't judge we just appreciate honesty. We are getting better at sniffing out the lies

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't know where else singles would go to meet couples.

I don't think it's hypocritical, it's just a bit niche around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or say that they're honest... Obviously not "

I've got really long hair...... Would you like to meet?

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always been this way

For a site built around swinging and such

There is a lot off judgment at times

Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person

Or this one has to meny meets

Or like you say people expect exclusive

If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like

As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other

Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s always been this way

For a site built around swinging and such

There is a lot off judgment at times

Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person

Or this one has to meny meets

Or like you say people expect exclusive

If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like

As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other

Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead

"

I wish I had that many offers to choose from.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!"

Is this behaviour the exclusivity of single guys??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that happen often?

I’ll shag ya OP, and you’re free to do whoever else you want afterwards

2 separate guys have recently got annoyed that I wanted/have had meets before them"

Ah that’s the male ego being bruised I’d say rather than exclusivity.. what do you mean there’s someone ahead of me in the queue!?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!"
I don't..... No sorry..... After you've been here a while you realise its common place a few women doing it to shock horror, just accept that it exists and you won't be bothered by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s always been this way

For a site built around swinging and such

There is a lot off judgment at times

Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person

Or this one has to meny meets

Or like you say people expect exclusive

If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like

As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other

Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead

I wish I had that many offers to choose from. "

Ha ha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s always been this way

For a site built around swinging and such

There is a lot off judgment at times

Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person

Or this one has to meny meets

Or like you say people expect exclusive

If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like

As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other

Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead

"

Is it judgement though? People just know what they want. All those things you mentioned probably apply to me. Doesn’t mean I judge people who do what they want and meet loads of people and meet people I really don’t like.

I know exactly what I want and that won’t change but I don’t judge others on what they want x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!

Is this behaviour the exclusivity of single guys?? "

I very much doubt it is. Just going by my recent experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does that happen often?

I’ll shag ya OP, and you’re free to do whoever else you want afterwards

2 separate guys have recently got annoyed that I wanted/have had meets before them

Ah that’s the male ego being bruised I’d say rather than exclusivity.. what do you mean there’s someone ahead of me in the queue!?"

I think it was bruised ego from one, the other was definitely that he wanted to be the only one.

Well the queue is pretty short to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!I don't..... No sorry..... After you've been here a while you realise its common place a few women doing it to shock horror, just accept that it exists and you won't be bothered by it "

I didn't say it bothered me, just that it made me laugh. We have been here before so well aware of all the problems that come with it.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!

Is this behaviour the exclusivity of single guys??

I very much doubt it is. Just going by my recent experiences"

So why start a post that specifically digs out single guys ??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I imagine that it happens with single women as well, but as there are more single guys on here, it seems more common

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