FabSwingers.com forum: "Treat her with respect"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

Thoughts?"

It shouldn't need to be said.

But in doing so publicly many will hope for a second opportunity to get their dick wet, as well as looking like one of the 'good guys', 'genuine' and 'not like all the other men on Fab'.

*other clichés are also available of course

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I prefer to treat women with Ronseal, one coat and you're done. Does what it says on the tin.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers

I’m sure some are but there are definitely serious ones as well. I will have a Snickers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers

I’m sure some are but there are definitely serious ones as well. I will have a Snickers though

I’d eat a snickers from your hole

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers

I’m sure some are but there are definitely serious ones as well. I will have a Snickers though

I’d eat a snickers from your hole

My cake hole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers

I’m sure some are but there are definitely serious ones as well. I will have a Snickers though

I’d eat a snickers from your hole

My cake hole?

Stop talking dirty to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone mention cake? I'm here for cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

Thoughts?

It shouldn't need to be said.

But in doing so publicly many will hope for a second opportunity to get their dick wet, as well as looking like one of the 'good guys', 'genuine' and 'not like all the other men on Fab'.

*other clichés are also available of course"

Totally agree, it is more about the guy itself that the woman they are verifying.

it is often followed by : she is a good friend.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I prefer to treat women with Ronseal, one coat and you're done. Does what it says on the tin."

Doh, here's me thinking it was fake tan. Face palm time.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

Thoughts?"
they're just stock sayings like " don't mess this one around" and " she's a keeper" and "I'm definitely going back for more"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers condom

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bit forward arnt ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to treat women with Ronseal, one coat and you're done. Does what it says on the tin."

Nah hah haaaaa :

Have you ever seen the banned Kiwi Ronseal deck advert? Classic

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Saying it won't make the disrespectful change.

Saying it implies that they think some women aren't deserving of respect.

Saying it implies that disrespect is the default

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to respect women with treats.

And if they wee outside, I might tickle their belly.0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to respect women with treats.

And if they wee outside, I might tickle their bellend.0"
i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

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Just one of the worn out phrases commonly used on here. To me sounds bit patronising to other men to follow;)

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

I think its white knighting, 'i,ll protect you love' kind of behaviour hoping for a followup meet.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

It’s up there with “if you get the chance ladies, don’t pass this one by” as a veri cliche. Think people just see it and repeat it without much thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go’s with out saying!

Single guys should treat every woman with respect

Plenty of fun can be had

if you take the right approach when meeting couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short hand for "I can't think or don't want to say anything specifically nice about the person or what we did, so I will just provide a general platitude in lieu of original content"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has always read to me as a rather school-boyish bro-code for "nudge nudge wink wink, she'll give you a good rogering & do the 'super naughty' things if you butter her up enough so don't eff it up mate"

So yeah, charming.

Plus all the bits others have posted about why respect is a basic not an extra

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

Thoughts?

It shouldn't need to be said.

But in doing so publicly many will hope for a second opportunity to get their dick wet, as well as looking like one of the 'good guys', 'genuine' and 'not like all the other men on Fab'.

*other clichés are also available of course"

100% right

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If you saw some of the messages we get, then yes, you'd realise it really does need to be said!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Women and couples write it too. We assume they're not that good with words and copy what they've seen on other verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone "

Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone

Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets! "

Brutal and completely true.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Even better is treat ‘this one’ with respect….. sounds a bit disrespectful to me when sexual exploits are referred to as ‘this one’ on veris

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

Thoughts?"

Interesting!

I haven’t read all the reply’s and obviously you have been inundated with the calm down retorts

But!

You have a point. We get told respect us earned.

So.. “treat her with respect” , is it earned ?

Lots of guys have advised to treat me sigh respect in my verifications, and I have always been grateful… but I don’t feel I need to be treat with respect …

If I meet a guy and he doesn’t treat me with any respect, I can deal with it ( I keep a fucking big hammer in my handbag )

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.

Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?

Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?

Thoughts?"

I wonder how many who write this on verifications also have Sydney university or since Fab became a, on their profiles.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone

Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets! "

This was an argument Fabio used. However if the bad behavior causes couples and single women to stop meeting single men, does that not make meeting couples and single women more difficult by reducing the pool of people available to meet.

I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone

Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets!

I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.

I’m not convinced it reduces the pool since new women and couples join all the time!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone

Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets!

I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.

I’m not convinced it reduces the pool since new women and couples join all the time! "

I thought about that, but there are no statistics either way, just individual gut feeling. Thanks.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Treat her like a dyson is my favourite piece of verification text ever.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"Saying it won't make the disrespectful change.

Saying it implies that they think some women aren't deserving of respect.

Saying it implies that disrespect is the default"

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even better is treat ‘this one’ with respect….. sounds a bit disrespectful to me when sexual exploits are referred to as ‘this one’ on veris"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone

Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets!

I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.

The crappy people do often put people off meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To treat someone with respect you must first respect yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of warning to treat people with respect that I’m never going to meet.

It must be the ‘big brother’ in them, it’s cute.

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