FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have been having a lovely chat with a lovely lady, she had proposed a social to which i agreed, carried on chatting all is great.

This morning im blocked......no idea why......frustrating.

I guess people have had this experince or is it just me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No it's all the time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

All the time

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

always for ever and ever ad infinitum

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There are millions of possibilities so dont' ask why cos a million fabbers will try to tell you a reason .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it's all the time. "

^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have been having a lovely chat with a lovely lady, she had proposed a social to which i agreed, carried on chatting all is great.

This morning im blocked......no idea why......frustrating.

I guess people have had this experince or is it just me"

It's just you, see Tom for details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time "

^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always for ever and ever ad infinitum "

^This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"always for ever and ever ad infinitum "

So frustrating, was getting all excited as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are millions of possibilities so dont' ask why cos a million fabbers will try to tell you a reason ......."

^This

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve had similar on a few occasions, get a date in the diary then communication stops dead! Very odd but just move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always for ever and ever ad infinitum

So frustrating, was getting all excited as well lol"

Maybe think back to what you might have said that caused her to block you, and learn from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had similar on a few occasions, get a date in the diary then communication stops dead! Very odd but just move on!

I've not even had a conversation with a women and she blocked me,that's after a got out my shoe box and licked floor clean wit tung

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I preempt the block by blocking first

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Don't let it worry you mate it happens to us all ..

People who block you for whatever reason it's usually to do with their own insecurities

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Don't let it worry you mate it happens to us all ..

People who block you for whatever reason it's usually to do with their own insecurities

Lol this is a nice thing to tell yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup - had it a couple of times - pathetic really… but life goes on and we move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup - had it a couple of times - pathetic really… but life goes on and we move on."

What’s pathetic about it?

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

She'd had her wank, time to move on to the next schmuck...

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You'll never know why OP.

They will have had their reasons, but the odds on them messaging to tell you why are zero.

As previously mentioned, think back to where the conversation ended and the last things that happened before the block. They might give you a clue.

It can be as simple as a single sentence in a message or as complicated as something you wrote on your profile, a new photo, a recent verification or a forum comment.

There's generally a trigger for a block. Unless it's just a scam profile but the way to avoid those is to move from messaging on here to a phone/video call at the earliest opportunity to make sure Martha isn't in fact Arthur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may have realised she knows you from somewhere , too close for comfort type thing!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Don't let it worry you mate it happens to us all ..

People who block you for whatever reason it's usually to do with their own insecurities

Lol this is a nice thing to tell yourself

I thought so too , have a wonderful morning

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's standard for most chats, as most people are not mutually compatible. Blocks stop further hassle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She may have realised she knows you from somewhere , too close for comfort type thing! "

Maybe but we are from different towns

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'll never know why OP.

They will have had their reasons, but the odds on them messaging to tell you why are zero.

As previously mentioned, think back to where the conversation ended and the last things that happened before the block. They might give you a clue.

It can be as simple as a single sentence in a message or as complicated as something you wrote on your profile, a new photo, a recent verification or a forum comment.

Given that it was just general chit chat at the time i dont think its anything i said, but you never know i guess, i am a respectful person and if i done/said something wrong i would appologise, but as you say i will never know. Oh well onwards and upwards

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe life's for busy or she changed her mind op

It happens alot ,ideally people would say that they'd changed their mind etc,but they dear abuse etc if they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its common, it does happen to every guy and it's not a big deal

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Got busy even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s no big deal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe life's for busy or she changed her mind op

It happens alot ,ideally people would say that they'd changed their mind etc,but they dear abuse etc if they do."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was a he

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Was she really a she?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Have been having a lovely chat with a lovely lady, she had proposed a social to which i agreed, carried on chatting all is great.

This morning im blocked......no idea why......frustrating.

I guess people have had this experince or is it just me"
it was a guy or you said something that put him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens, jog on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup - had it a couple of times - pathetic really… but life goes on and we move on."

It's not pathetic if someone blocks you.

Obviously they have changed their minds and don't want to chat or meet you.

What is pathetic is members thinking anyone who chats to them is obliged to meet them or carry on chatting.

Members(male, female, couples ect) are not here to provide a service to others and are quite entitled to block anyone they want to.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Happens to us all op, block back and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup - had it a couple of times - pathetic really… but life goes on and we move on.

It's not pathetic if someone blocks you.

Obviously they have changed their minds and don't want to chat or meet you.

What is pathetic is members thinking anyone who chats to them is obliged to meet them or carry on chatting.

Members(male, female, couples ect) are not here to provide a service to others and are quite entitled to block anyone they want to.

Agreed

Just as the other can block you, so can you - it is no big deal.

Enjoy your weekend

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"always for ever and ever ad infinitum

So frustrating, was getting all excited as well lol"

Never get excited until you see them in the flesh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup - had it a couple of times - pathetic really… but life goes on and we move on.

It's not pathetic if someone blocks you.

Obviously they have changed their minds and don't want to chat or meet you.

What is pathetic is members thinking anyone who chats to them is obliged to meet them or carry on chatting.

Members(male, female, couples ect) are not here to provide a service to others and are quite entitled to block anyone they want to.

I agree its not pathectic at all its anyones right to do that.

Shes obviously changed her mind and thats fine,I would welcome the oppurtunity to appologise if i upset her in some way as im a respectful person who would never intentially upset someone. But hey i will never know and will move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am guilty of this sometimes, sometimes the more the chat goes on you pick up on things, some men get pushy or keep messaging and it feels clingy, another example is a red flag appears and you’re just not sure, it’s easier to block than chance getting abuse or begging messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup - had it a couple of times - pathetic really… but life goes on and we move on."

Don't get how it would be pathetic, but we instantly block if we receive a message that says meet that night or say I want to do this to you, or ones that don't read the profile and will ask what's all ready been stated, to us it doesn't appeal so block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C’est la vie dude.

I don’t mind random blocks. Actually I quite like it, it saves time. What I do mind though is the ones who you spent time with on and outside fab, and one day they just decide that was it.

Instead of talking to you, they just block you to show you that your opinion, voice or feeling do not matter to them. They are above giving explanations to you and they will make you know by blocking you.

Nothing can be done about it unfortunately. But at least now you’ll know where to stand op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a regular occurrence on here who knows why people are like that after all we are all adults, same happens sometimes after sending face pics just say not for me people and move on

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"C’est la vie dude.

I don’t mind random blocks. Actually I quite like it, it saves time. What I do mind though is the ones who you spent time with on and outside fab, and one day they just decide that was it.

Nothing can be done about it unfortunately. But at least now you’ll know where to stand op

I probably would not do that to anybody unless they had done something so outrageous that it would seriously clash with my values.

It is not just guys that get blocked. I have experienced it myself though - I was blocked and had no idea why (I never send pictures so that was not the reason)

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Forget her mate and crack on ,happens to us all , keep ya pint glass half full ??

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