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What on a verification grinds your gears?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep seeing, “she demands the greatest respect”

But when I read a veri like that it’s as though the person typing it doesn’t respect the person they are doing the verification for.

A one else get that impression or is it just me?

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Wow wow wow

Ladies don't pass this one up

I may keep him for myself

I'm sure most are bots

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Treat them with respect! (as if it needs saying)

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't get that thought in my head if I saw a comment like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treat them with respect! (as if it needs saying)

Mrs "

Unfortunately sometimes it does need saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Treat them with respect! (as if it needs saying)

Mrs "

My thoughts exactly (facepalm)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not that I am bother but it does make me smile when (1) the guy is actually verifying himself instead of verifying the person and when (2) it is obvious that they are having fun yet they still need the world to know everytime they meet up and everything they do so they verify every single time.

Like :

If your push the right buttons she will… (underlying that he obviously did and that is something exceptional)

Made her gush ( I am that good)

Made her orgasm twice or forgot how many time she orgasmed on my cock (I am so good)

I can’t count how many times we met (marking my territory)

Check my other verifications… (I am lucky)

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"Treat them with respect! (as if it needs saying)

Mrs

My thoughts exactly (facepalm)"

I also find this both cringe and concerning to read, that people feel they need to remind others about this. And yes you're right OP, it has the opposite effect, kind of highlighting the fact that many won't respect exactly because of her getting a veri (having meets).

I have good reason to believe most veris are rather insincere! Either glossing over the not so amazing parts of a meet or just spouting cliches --- "knows his way around a woman's body", anyone???

But I will confess the veris that annoy me the most is the ones creating mythos, esp. if it's someone I covet but won't get - basic jealousy I'm afraid!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It only ever grinds my gears when it's written by someone I know and it's just another example of their gameplay.

Eg. They have spent months in private demonising the person they have just verified. Sharing their private details, mocking every new pic they post, telling people in group chats how dangerous and nasty this person is and then badaboom a shiny new sycophantic verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am offput if there are multiple verifications by the same person...

Otherwise I don't take too much notice of what they say.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Unless it's unnecessarily and overly graphic doesn't really bother.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Makes us laugh when the veris read like an a cliched eBay listing: “don’t miss out” etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best review in my book is one where the lady wants more afterwards..that doesn’t need to be put in print.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recieving verifications is a bit like Russian roulette. I've had some amazing ones in the past and some shockers. Some guys do write like it's the readers letter page in a porno mag.

When I leave veris I never go into graphic detail. Rarely do mine contain sexual stuff.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The ones where Men verify themselves from their fake Woman's profile make us grin from ear to ear

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'm probably guilty of using most of these in my verifications.

I always have a complete blank when knowing what to say, so they either come out clinical or cheesy.

I don't care really. I'm verifying that I met this person and they don't appear to be a nutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treat them with respect! (as if it needs saying)

Mrs "

It’s just another way of signalling that I’m one of the “Good Guys”®? who obviously respects the ladies and hey, underlings, make sure that you do too. Right on.

Virtue signalling bollox, basically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not that I am bother but it does make me smile when (1) the guy is actually verifying himself instead of verifying the person and when (2) it is obvious that they are having fun yet they still need the world to know everytime they meet up and everything they do so they verify every single time.

Like :

If your push the right buttons she will… (underlying that he obviously did and that is something exceptional)

Made her gush ( I am that good)

Made her orgasm twice or forgot how many time she orgasmed on my cock (I am so good)

I can’t count how many times we met (marking my territory)

Check my other verifications… (I am lucky)

"

Lol yeah seen that loads,bigging himself up

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Don't miss out on this one

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