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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

MY ARSE! For an experiment on Thursday I took all my filters off when I posted my new Xmas pictures...been away shagging for England over the weekend, thought I'd come back to these oodles of messages that single fems get inundated with - NOT THIS SINGLE FEM...How many messages not from existing friends did I have?????

TWO - and of course, they hadn't read my profile

My filters are now back on, but to be fair, as I'm obviously such a munter, I don't need really need them anyway

**scuttles off to hijack one of Funky/Viccie's almost sentient timewaster profiles, see how I can do with that**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lucky you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You should have asked me in advance then I would have sent you one. If I was closer, I'd give you one.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've never had an epic amount either. 10 at the most

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By *ornishBiLoverMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Ha ha, revenge of the single guy. Makes a refreshing change hearing that the lady has not had many messages. Had a look at your profile and you are not a munter so it cant be that

Maybe its just a quiet season

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

But on the upside did you have a fabulously naughty weekend?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I've had more messages since I said I wasn't going to be meeting or checking my messages than I did when I was available.

Apparently now I'm a challenge! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nor me, sometimes between 5-10 a day, mosy of those are from guys who regularly message me. Unless I`ve been on cam, I don`t get that many.

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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"But on the upside did you have a fabulously naughty weekend?"

I most certainly did thank you Femme...sat with a huge on my face and a bag of frozen peas between my legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried:

Flirting and private messaging every guy on the forum

Go into chat and flirt with guys in there, hinting that they may have a chance to have sex with you if they fab your pictures

Get your tits or vagina out on cam

Have no filters and have the status 'looking for lots of sex as I am a very horny greedy girl'

Have a clear and large pussy shot

Try those and see how you get on.

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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Have you tried:

Flirting and private messaging every guy on the forum

Go into chat and flirt with guys in there, hinting that they may have a chance to have sex with you if they fab your pictures

Get your tits or vagina out on cam

Have no filters and have the status 'looking for lots of sex as I am a very horny greedy girl'

Have a clear and large pussy shot

Try those and see how you get on.

"

Now I know where I've been going wrong!!! Thanks Iconic

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Have you tried:

Flirting and private messaging every guy on the forum

Go into chat and flirt with guys in there, hinting that they may have a chance to have sex with you if they fab your pictures

Get your tits or vagina out on cam

Have no filters and have the status 'looking for lots of sex as I am a very horny greedy girl'

Have a clear and large pussy shot

Try those and see how you get on.

"

Hahaha!! Yeah that should do it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never been one to receive hundreds of messages either not even when i first signed up,

i saw the thread about that lady who got 1000 messages and thought 'seriously?!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have received 3 today, yippee aren't I popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried:

Flirting and private messaging every guy on the forum

Go into chat and flirt with guys in there, hinting that they may have a chance to have sex with you if they fab your pictures

Get your tits or vagina out on cam

Have no filters and have the status 'looking for lots of sex as I am a very horny greedy girl'

Have a clear and large pussy shot

Try those and see how you get on.

"

Right, off to change my profile before hitting the chat rooms........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused..is this a complaint or do you not want messages?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well, i can beat that. I put a meet today up (more just to see what happened) and only got three replys so took it down after half an hour lol

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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Confused..is this a complaint or do you not want messages?"

Neither really...just a bit of an experiment and a light-hearted post about the results

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

[Removed by poster at 09/12/12 16:26:11]

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh and years ago, a female friend and i put and advert up for a ffm, not even one reply pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raflmao

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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Oh and years ago, a female friend and i put and advert up for a ffm, not even one reply pmsl

"

Blimey O'Reilly...were you asking for George Clooney lookylikes???

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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Oh and years ago, a female friend and i put and advert up for a ffm, not even one reply pmsl

Blimey O'Reilly...were you asking for George Clooney lookylikes??? "

With at least 12 inches

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Well, i can beat that. I put a meet today up (more just to see what happened) and only got three replys so took it down after half an hour lol"

One every 10mins is pretty good Diamond how many did you want lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Have you tried:

Flirting and private messaging every guy on the forum

Go into chat and flirt with guys in there, hinting that they may have a chance to have sex with you if they fab your pictures

Get your tits or vagina out on cam

Have no filters and have the status 'looking for lots of sex as I am a very horny greedy girl'

Have a clear and large pussy shot

Try those and see how you get on.

"

and show an interest in having a friend with benefits

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Well, i can beat that. I put a meet today up (more just to see what happened) and only got three replys so took it down after half an hour lol

One every 10mins is pretty good Diamond how many did you want lol"

Well some say they get 100's lol, thing is i had loads and loads of look at mes but know messages. Good job ive got a thick skin lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Well, i can beat that. I put a meet today up (more just to see what happened) and only got three replys so took it down after half an hour lol

One every 10mins is pretty good Diamond how many did you want lol

Well some say they get 100's lol, thing is i had loads and loads of look at mes but know messages. Good job ive got a thick skin lol"

It was probably at the time when you were viciously murdering people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one don't get thousands BUT I do get quite a few and never complain lol

I think its really interesting to see who gets them and who don't ,suppose it depends on proifile and pics after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I received 100's of messages was within the first few days of joining.

I'm glad you spoke out as I always thought I was doing something wrong when I didn't get 100's a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women exaggerate

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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"women exaggerate "

If I've told you once, I've told you a million times we don't exaggerate

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I got an unclaimed PPI one this morning.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I dont get thousands of messages but I do get a fair few and sometimes I cannot reply to them all the same day. Having said that a fair amount of messages are from my regular friends on here so they take a bit longer to reply as they are more about some indepth exchange rather than arranging a meet.

I sometimes wonder if people really get thousands a day lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, i can beat that. I put a meet today up (more just to see what happened) and only got three replys so took it down after half an hour lol

One every 10mins is pretty good Diamond how many did you want lol

Well some say they get 100's lol, thing is i had loads and loads of look at mes but know messages. Good job ive got a thick skin lol

It was probably at the time when you were viciously murdering people "

half my inbox is from people checking I am still alive ............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get thousands of messages but I do get a fair few and sometimes I cannot reply to them all the same day. Having said that a fair amount of messages are from my regular friends on here so they take a bit longer to reply as they are more about some indepth exchange rather than arranging a meet.

I sometimes wonder if people really get thousands a day lol..."

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I can get anything from 5 to 20 a day - but I think it averages about 8 or less over a week. Suits me fine.

I think people who advertise that they are free any time, will do anything, with anyone and have no filters on will be inundated. If that suits them then that's great.

But people who boast about numbers annoy me - it's not a competition. People are on here for lots of different reasons. If your reason is to shag as many as you can - go for it.

But if you want to be more discerning then that is ok too.

Personally I am not out to impress anyone. All I want is good, regular sex. Mostly, I get that. So it works for me.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Kate and I had our own profiles on here when we first started.

Neither of us had many "hits" though.

Most of mine were from blokes, and most of Kate's were from women

Mind you, we don't get many messages to this profile either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i should think its cos guys have tried to message u before and now remember u for not being able to..

the majority of the influx will be while ur new on the site.

i bet if u open a new account with no filters things would be very different

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By *londeCaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"i should think its cos guys have tried to message u before and now remember u for not being able to..

the majority of the influx will be while ur new on the site.

i bet if u open a new account with no filters things would be very different"

You're probably right Brenda - maybe I should have released the 3 or 400 profiles on my block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hardly get any messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hardly get any messages "

Wow don't know why your gorjus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are mainly looking for bi men or bi couples... there dont seem to be that many around!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You did make it clear on your status that you will be out of action for two months and so this is the last chance didn't you?

As well as all the advice from Iconic (abso-bloody-lutely spot on) you must make them think you it's a clearance sale and everything must go.

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