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Stretch marks, turn on or turn off?

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By *ocksareoff OP   Man
over a year ago

Out n About

So off the back of the Scars thread. What's people's thoughts on stretch marks, do they turn you off?

As for me they don't put me off, I actually quite like seeing them on boobs and hips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't give a flying monkeys.

Or any other form of primate in transit.

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By *rissa86Man
over a year ago

WIRRAL

I love them mean there a milf x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Never really notice them not off-putting in any way nor do I search them out.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I really couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got them they don't bother me and wouldnt if someone else had them either.

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By *igGs19Woman
over a year ago

Castle Douglas


"I love them mean there a milf x"

It really doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My stretch marks are my battle scars and reminder of the babies

carried. I make no apology for them. Don't like it, don't come near me then

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I love them mean there a milf x"

Not 100% sure only women get lines of time and adventure on their bodies let alone mothers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Means they're a human who has grown at some point

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By *ocksareoff OP   Man
over a year ago

Out n About


"My stretch marks are my battle scars and reminder of the babies

carried. I make no apology for them. Don't like it, don't come near me then"

Yeah, absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I’m ambivalent on this one. They certainly wouldn’t be a turn off in anyway but can’t say I particularly turned on by them either , they are what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Muscle growth can cause them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love them mean there a milf x

It really doesn't "

Ssssh don't ruin it for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them very sexy

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By *rissa86Man
over a year ago

WIRRAL


"My stretch marks are my battle scars and reminder of the babies

carried. I make no apology for them. Don't like it, don't come near me then"

So true and no you shouldn't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can see them on my last 2 pics.

If someone manages to get me naked, then I'll be pretty certain they won't be the type of person to be turned off by a very normal body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like them.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've had stretch marks since I was a teenager. And they really don't bother me in the slightest. I do wish that they weren't always associated with having kids. Men have them, women who have never been pregnant have them. We don't have to hide behind child birth to justify having them.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope, it's just part of life

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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I have them on my stomach, can see on recent black and white pic. Also have them on my thighs, I’m not bothered by them and wouldn’t be on others either

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By *igGs19Woman
over a year ago

Castle Douglas


"I love them mean there a milf x

It really doesn't

Ssssh don't ruin it for him."

It's either that or I've lost a set of triples somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love them mean there a milf x

It really doesn't

Ssssh don't ruin it for him.

It's either that or I've lost a set of triples somewhere "

Ssssh don't tell her...

Seriously, it's rubbish. Let them stay lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got them all over my body and hubby doesn’t give a flying fig. It shows I’ve grown 2 lives and currently growing another. I think women who choose to show them off are very brave.

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By *rissa86Man
over a year ago

WIRRAL

And I know not All stretch marks come from having kids just when I think of them I think a pregnant woman's Belly, or a mum tum that all I meant by milf no a fence ment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After carrying 4 babies, going from a size 8 to a size 20 over the yrs and bk down to a 14/16 i carry those marks with pride...

I have been seeing more and more women unafraid to show them on here and i love it. Stretch marks dont put inked or myself anybody else.

(Mrs)

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"So off the back of the Scars thread. What's people's thoughts on stretch marks, do they turn you off?

As for me they don't put me off, I actually quite like seeing them on boobs and hips. "

I like them on men. There was a guy at school who was tall and one of the first boys to get muscles and he had them on his shoulders....I still have sexy dreams about him so.....Stretch marks on men?: yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had stretch marks since I was a teenager. And they really don't bother me in the slightest. I do wish that they weren't always associated with having kids. Men have them, women who have never been pregnant have them. We don't have to hide behind child birth to justify having them. "

I agree with this, I had them before I had kids too but having children propelled them into showing up all over my body in a short amount of time.

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By *aylo555Man
over a year ago

worthing

I would never see them as a problem or turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually love seeing a hot guy with imperfections like stretch marks and body acne for some reason. Makes them seem more human.

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By *ocksareoff OP   Man
over a year ago

Out n About


"I actually love seeing a hot guy with imperfections like stretch marks and body acne for some reason. Makes them seem more human. "

That's got me contemplating revealing my spotty arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife’s really self conscious of hers but I love them. We haven’t had any complaints so far, if we did then they can swing one!

Wouldn’t put us off meeting anyone at all.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Not fussed. They're weird things though. Pregnancy gave me a load of them on my boobs but not a single one on my belly which actually, y'know, accommodated a whole new person. How does that make any sense?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Not a turn off

Not a turn on

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By *ancaster31Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Love love love them! So damn sexy!

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By *ntmc_2001Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

None issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither there just like scars a story of living

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Not bothered, love the thought of all that experience!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Simply battle scars on the road of womanhood to be embraced .and cherish if from child rearing especially if its your child .

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Couldn't care less tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My stretch marks is part of me . If you really like me, it won’t bother you,same with my mum belly. If it puts you off, walk by.

I’m a happy meal and I come with toys.

Mrs

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So off the back of the Scars thread. What's people's thoughts on stretch marks, do they turn you off?

As for me they don't put me off, I actually quite like seeing them on boobs and hips. "
why do you have them?

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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago

leeds

Being turned off by stretch marks is like saying your skin offends me.... I first got stretch marks when growing into a young lady and pubity hit. Then when I lost my father when I was 12 I eat more then my body was able to keep up, and then lost a lot of weight at 16 so my body has had to adjust as I grow.

I love that I have little stretch marks around my breasts, my hips, my bum and thighs.

Yes I was selfconscious at a stage because I grew up in the 90's/2000's and if you were not Kate Moss with porcelain skin you were not good enough. So I have a negative subconscious bias towards imperfections but Its a mental switch that's hard to switch off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All over Sun tan helps cover and try bio oil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All over Sun tan helps cover and try bio oil. "

Bio oil is overrated. It ruined my skin completely. But extra virgin coconut oil-the best.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not an issue

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By *ntmc_2001Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Being turned off by stretch marks is like saying your skin offends me.... I first got stretch marks when growing into a young lady and pubity hit. Then when I lost my father when I was 12 I eat more then my body was able to keep up, and then lost a lot of weight at 16 so my body has had to adjust as I grow.

I love that I have little stretch marks around my breasts, my hips, my bum and thighs.

Yes I was selfconscious at a stage because I grew up in the 90's/2000's and if you were not Kate Moss with porcelain skin you were not good enough. So I have a negative subconscious bias towards imperfections but Its a mental switch that's hard to switch off. "

It's not as dramatic as saying someone's skin offends you

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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago

leeds


"Being turned off by stretch marks is like saying your skin offends me.... I first got stretch marks when growing into a young lady and pubity hit. Then when I lost my father when I was 12 I eat more then my body was able to keep up, and then lost a lot of weight at 16 so my body has had to adjust as I grow.

I love that I have little stretch marks around my breasts, my hips, my bum and thighs.

Yes I was selfconscious at a stage because I grew up in the 90's/2000's and if you were not Kate Moss with porcelain skin you were not good enough. So I have a negative subconscious bias towards imperfections but Its a mental switch that's hard to switch off.

It's not as dramatic as saying someone's skin offends you "

Hahahha isn't it?

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Every mark on a body, whether that be stretch, scar, scratch etc tells a story and has contributed to who the person is today.

Not off putting at all

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith


"I love them mean there a milf x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love them mean there a milf x "

I have stretch marks. Am I a MILF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate my own, indifferent to everyone else's

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By *dventuresWithEveWoman
over a year ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


"I love them mean there a milf x

Not 100% sure only women get lines of time and adventure on their bodies let alone mothers.

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Definitely not only women, have had male partners with stretch marks, and it doesn't even have to be big people (men or women) or having had a child to have stretch marks. I have them and have had them since I was 14 in various places, even before I put on weight. My sister is a size 8 and she has had stretch marks since her teens. It's just a weakness of the tissue and people prone to it can't do much about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate mine, especially on the inside my thighs but I've learnt to live with them and now couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be proud of them they tell your story

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

I’ve got loads and not really bothered about them anymore. If anyone felt the need to comment negatively about them, they may find themselves with a few scars to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with stretch marks

Can't and won't judge, i also have the tiger stripes myself

Miss S x

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

It’s a fact of life that bodies change shape and size over the years - weight fluctuates for most people and stretch marks can be a bi product of that, honestly I’ve exercised my whole life and I still have some - I barely take notice of them and I’ve never had anyone mention them before

Embrace what you’ve got x

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Indifferent. As said, they’re just a part of you. Like wrinkles or my ever increasing grey hairs.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

We all have bits we don’t like on ourselves but glad I’m a personality type so after laughs and fun not to point fingers and say arghhhh?

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's not something that figures in me fancying someone

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I've had stretch marks since I was a teenager. And they really don't bother me in the slightest. I do wish that they weren't always associated with having kids. Men have them, women who have never been pregnant have them. We don't have to hide behind child birth to justify having them. "

This.

It's especially hard when that's the assumption and you're a woman who desperately wanted children and was unable to conceive

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

They are part of who we are and our journey through life. Nothing will erase them so embrace them - or at least accept them and be kind to yourself. I find these threads really affirming as a woman who wasted so many years worrying that my imperfections would turn guys off when most are completely oblivious to them.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I really dont like mine, hate seeing them. Which is why i dont watch my own videos back.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I find them amazing. They are like tiger stripes. My wife has some that look like waves on the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without getting in to the whole 'embrace your body' narrative & simply as a turn on or turn off?

It's an off

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