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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? " This  | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? " Actually it is! Said man's face isn't in the picture so obviously concent thing is a little more lenient! | |||
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"I would genuinely HATE finding photos of me sucking a dick online posted by anyone but myself! " Are you saying the picture shows the face of the female? | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Actually it is! Said man's face isn't in the picture so obviously concent thing is a little more lenient! " Really? You are just assuming the ladies have no idea, you really don’t know their situation or what was agreed | |||
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But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics! 
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? " Interesting thought to be fair, essentially double standards? | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Interesting thought to be fair, essentially double standards?" It’s just another stick to beat the men of Fab with | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Actually it is! Said man's face isn't in the picture so obviously concent thing is a little more lenient! " Interestingly, I do also agree with the notion of this comment too. One would hope that consent had been given before posting the photo! | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? " Well said
Op if it bothers you single guys posting pics getting bj ( pics are approved by mods anyway ) just don't look at them, simple. | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Interesting thought to be fair, essentially double standards? It’s just another stick to beat the men of Fab with "The equivalent would be hundreds of women posting photos and videos of men giving them oral, and no photos of their own faces. | |||
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"What irks me is these men don't show their faces and can't be recognised, but they'll happily post photos of women who could be recognised. " They would have to be very flexible getting their faces by their penii  | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Interesting thought to be fair, essentially double standards? It’s just another stick to beat the men of Fab with
The equivalent would be hundreds of women posting photos and videos of men giving them oral, and no photos of their own faces.
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Interesting thought to be fair, essentially double standards? It’s just another stick to beat the men of Fab with "I'm not saying you can do that but... I'm not saying you can't but yeah, there is definitely a fine line between right and wrong for single guys in many respects on this site | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying "Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner? | |||
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"What irks me is these men don't show their faces and can't be recognised, but they'll happily post photos of women who could be recognised. " AMEN! I've also been a victim of a person who took photos without permission. He sent me one three years after taking them. I'm still scarred from it 
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"What irks me is these men don't show their faces and can't be recognised, but they'll happily post photos of women who could be recognised. They would have to be very flexible getting their faces by their penii "I meant don't show their faces in any of their public photos. Some have barely any of their body showing at all. If I'm looking at a single person's photos I'd like there to be more of them in them than whoever they are fucking. I like some photos of people having sex. I don't want to see a scrunched up face sucking off a cock. | |||
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"Well it's like dick pics, the odd one on a profile is OK" The odd one - yes! When that odd one includes ladies on fab profile name - even better - that way you know for sure she's concented. Profile full of bj pics from 10 different people - Jesus take me away and let me never meet that person 
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner? "Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent? | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?"If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given. As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared. Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities. How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though? 
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Actually it is! Said man's face isn't in the picture so obviously concent thing is a little more lenient! " | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?"Do you think that hundreds of women on hundreds, possibly thousands of photos on here all say it's ok for them to be recognisable? And why do men just show their penis in public pics without their faces showing? | |||
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"Personally I believe that BJ pics should be on straight women’s profile just as men giving oral should be on mens profiles. Just my personal opinion however these pictures are approved by admins and I’m sure that these have been consented to. It’s the conversation to have before you start having sex whether or not you want to take photos or not and then afterwards work through what can be kept and what can’t x" 100% if you want your face to be shown even you suck on a cock or pussy regardless of your gender- feel free to express yourself. My post was about what's happening in reverse - would you like someone else to share photos of you sucking a cock!? That's the question! | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
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"What irks me is these men don't show their faces and can't be recognised, but they'll happily post photos of women who could be recognised. " This! | |||
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"If it's a single guy's profile I prefer to see pictures of him, not who he's been with" That too! Looking at some profiles you would think 11 dick hungry women were running them rather than one guy, simply for the fact that you could recognise the women if you knew them and not the man | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
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I always assume they don't have consent and would never meet them. "Thats fine. There are far more women who are attracted by those pics and will meet, its evidence the man is desireable and other women want him. Which as we all know, many women are driven by | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
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I always assume they don't have consent and would never meet them.
Thats fine. There are far more women who are attracted by those pics and will meet, its evidence the man is desireable and other women want him. Which as we all know, many women are driven by"Yes... same reason so many people love to see veris and some don't.  | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
Missus
I always assume they don't have consent and would never meet them.
Thats fine. There are far more women who are attracted by those pics and will meet, its evidence the man is desireable and other women want him. Which as we all know, many women are driven by
Yes... same reason so many people love to see veris and some don't. "The vast majority do though. Just like the vast majority of women like to know a man has fucked women on here and women have sucked him off. They wont admit it but they like the first hand witnessing of it | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
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I always assume they don't have consent and would never meet them.
Thats fine. There are far more women who are attracted by those pics and will meet, its evidence the man is desireable and other women want him. Which as we all know, many women are driven by"It's not, 9 X out of 10 you can only see an inch of the guys cock it could literally be anyone & the evidence of that is I've had to report at least 4 single male profiles that were using one mine & my husbands bj photos It makes the bloke look like a 14yr old trying to prove he's had a BJ | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
Missus
I always assume they don't have consent and would never meet them.
Thats fine. There are far more women who are attracted by those pics and will meet, its evidence the man is desireable and other women want him. Which as we all know, many women are driven by
It's not, 9 X out of 10 you can only see an inch of the guys cock it could literally be anyone & the evidence of that is I've had to report at least 4 single male profiles that were using one mine & my husbands bj photos
It makes the bloke look like a 14yr old trying to prove he's had a BJ"Ok but they are ones that you are suspicious of. The ones that are clear it is the profile owner getting sucked off, or fucking multiple women, those ones ill bet you like to see as its serious verification of him and evidence other women like him | |||
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"I have some photos of me giving a man oral in my friends only pictures..." Thanks, and I do appreciate you keeping those private… | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
Missus
I always assume they don't have consent and would never meet them.
Thats fine. There are far more women who are attracted by those pics and will meet, its evidence the man is desireable and other women want him. Which as we all know, many women are driven by
It's not, 9 X out of 10 you can only see an inch of the guys cock it could literally be anyone & the evidence of that is I've had to report at least 4 single male profiles that were using one mine & my husbands bj photos
It makes the bloke look like a 14yr old trying to prove he's had a BJ
Ok but they are ones that you are suspicious of.
The ones that are clear it is the profile owner getting sucked off, or fucking multiple women, those ones ill bet you like to see as its serious verification of him and evidence other women like him"I've genuinely never seen a profile where it's clear it's the same guy We want to see you the person we are hoping to meet, your previous conquests are of no interest to me unless they are joining us on the meet I presume at 30-50 whatever age the guy I'm meeting is that he's had some king of sexual contact with a woman, photographic evidence will never be necessary As others have said, there's no way of proving they have the other persons consent to share those images & as the female is always the main focus of the images the person you can generally see 90% of it also makes the guy seem indiscreet and untrustworthy | |||
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"Not a dig at you OP
But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying
Would you be happy if someone posted a photo of you sucking a cock who isn't even your long term partner?
Are we to 'assume' they didn't ask for consent in this 'pessimistic scenario' or do we know for sure they didn't ask for consent?
If profile name isn't listed in video or photo - I automatically assume there was no consent given.
As a person who's photos were taken and shared without permission- I know first hand how unpleasant it feels to be a victim of this and how easily this shit is shared.
Thankfully none of my previous partners who weren't on fab ever taken any photos or videos of such activities.
How many women's who aren't on fab and don't know what fab is photos do end up on fab without any checks for consent though?
Missus
I always assume they don't have consent and would never meet them.
Thats fine. There are far more women who are attracted by those pics and will meet, its evidence the man is desireable and other women want him. Which as we all know, many women are driven by
It's not, 9 X out of 10 you can only see an inch of the guys cock it could literally be anyone & the evidence of that is I've had to report at least 4 single male profiles that were using one mine & my husbands bj photos
It makes the bloke look like a 14yr old trying to prove he's had a BJ"Exactly!! Massive turn off. | |||
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"Why does there need to be pros and cons? Surely a man can display what whatever he pleases on his profile. The pros and cons are just whether you like his content or not isn't it? If he likes showing women giving him a BJ then why shame him for it assuming the worst just because it's not your thing? And why bring up consent about these women being in the pics when you dont actually know if there was any consent or not? Don't the men of fab all end being tarnished by the same brush if you make assumptions like that and generalise it to men of fab. If it puts you off meeting a man seeing it, then you you do you. Others may not bat an eyelid at or may love it. Any man on here has probably been qiven a BJ by more than one women. Why does seeing it in picture format cause such a fuss when it's seen all the time in porn? T" Consent. | |||
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"Why does there need to be pros and cons? Surely a man can display what whatever he pleases on his profile. The pros and cons are just whether you like his content or not isn't it? If he likes showing women giving him a BJ then why shame him for it assuming the worst just because it's not your thing? And why bring up consent about these women being in the pics when you dont actually know if there was any consent or not? Don't the men of fab all end being tarnished by the same brush if you make assumptions like that and generalise it to men of fab. If it puts you off meeting a man seeing it, then you you do you. Others may not bat an eyelid at or may love it. Any man on here has probably been qiven a BJ by more than one women. Why does seeing it in picture format cause such a fuss when it's seen all the time in porn? T Consent." Is there not an assumption here that consent wasn't given and no evidence to back it up? I totally agree that posting without consent is very wrong. And I also understand that it can be off putting if you assume consent was not given. T | |||
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"Why does there need to be pros and cons? Surely a man can display what whatever he pleases on his profile. The pros and cons are just whether you like his content or not isn't it? If he likes showing women giving him a BJ then why shame him for it assuming the worst just because it's not your thing? And why bring up consent about these women being in the pics when you dont actually know if there was any consent or not? Don't the men of fab all end being tarnished by the same brush if you make assumptions like that and generalise it to men of fab. If it puts you off meeting a man seeing it, then you you do you. Others may not bat an eyelid at or may love it. Any man on here has probably been qiven a BJ by more than one women. Why does seeing it in picture format cause such a fuss when it's seen all the time in porn? T Consent." "And why bring up consent about these women being in the pics when you dont actually know if there was any consent or not?" They don't seem to understand the concept of that. | |||
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" Is there not an assumption here that consent wasn't given and no evidence to back it up? " Yes, that's probably the safest assumption | |||
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"Why does there need to be pros and cons? Surely a man can display what whatever he pleases on his profile. The pros and cons are just whether you like his content or not isn't it? If he likes showing women giving him a BJ then why shame him for it assuming the worst just because it's not your thing? And why bring up consent about these women being in the pics when you dont actually know if there was any consent or not? Don't the men of fab all end being tarnished by the same brush if you make assumptions like that and generalise it to men of fab. If it puts you off meeting a man seeing it, then you you do you. Others may not bat an eyelid at or may love it. Any man on here has probably been qiven a BJ by more than one women. Why does seeing it in picture format cause such a fuss when it's seen all the time in porn? T Consent. Is there not an assumption here that consent wasn't given and no evidence to back it up? I totally agree that posting without consent is very wrong. And I also understand that it can be off putting if you assume consent was not given. T " Assumption is the road to all failures. As I said in my previous responses - if woman's profile name is mentioned in a photo of her sucking a cock - that indicates a very clear consent. If there's a photo of a woman sucking a cock but she can't be identified (silhouette style, shadows, angles etc) - shady area, but no harm done. If you are a single guy, but have 15 photos of different women's faces clearly displayed where there's only a half an inch of your cock and three inches of pubes - it's safe to say that you A) prefer looking at your phone and taking photos then the actual bj you're receiving. B)not enjoying the bj, but like the look of whoever is doing it at the given moment missus | |||
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"There's no right answer. There is no wrong answer. Each to their own. For me personally...to use an inferior analogy... ° You know when one goes on holiday and books themselves into a hotel. You walk into that room and it effuses all the hallmarks of unblemished virginal quality, the impression that you're the first guest to ever visit that room and use the bed; the first person to use the spotless bath tub and everything around the room is pristine and not sullied. That wonderfully reassuring feeling, but of course deep down inside we know that we're not the first to truly use the room: it's been used and abused by many preceding guests who have left their indelible mark on the room in whatever form. I have a penchant for a profile with seductively clean photos, as opposed to seeing crude images of (her) sucking and gnawing. So when I meet someone I want to imagine (naively) that she's doing this for the first time and that her mouth wasn't wrapped unceremoniously around a man's phallus the week before....with photos to prove that ritualistic episode." Gnawing | |||
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"There's no right answer. There is no wrong answer. Each to their own. For me personally...to use an inferior analogy... ° You know when one goes on holiday and books themselves into a hotel. You walk into that room and it effuses all the hallmarks of unblemished virginal quality, the impression that you're the first guest to ever visit that room and use the bed; the first person to use the spotless bath tub and everything around the room is pristine and not sullied. That wonderfully reassuring feeling, but of course deep down inside we know that we're not the first to truly use the room: it's been used and abused by many preceding guests who have left their indelible mark on the room in whatever form. I have a penchant for a profile with seductively clean photos, as opposed to seeing crude images of (her) sucking and gnawing. So when I meet someone I want to imagine (naively) that she's doing this for the first time and that her mouth wasn't wrapped unceremoniously around a man's phallus the week before....with photos to prove that ritualistic episode." Unblemished virginal quality. Interesting. | |||
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"Op are you aware of the site rules regarding pictures? If a picture clearly shows a face that is identifiable and it doesn’t belong to the user it isn’t allowed. You mentioned consent that’s one of the reasons why it isn’t allowed. So you should report the profile to admin
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"Yes but the point is surely more about the type of man who thinks it's ok to put such a pic on public display. A face - even if slightly obscured - is more identifiable than an inch of cock stuck in their mouth. | |||
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"There are lots of pics on here where the face is not showing but person is identifiable to anybody that knows them. Body shape, hair, clothes, tattoos, jewellery etc. Plenty of cases where if was your wife, sister, mum, daughter etc you would recognise - we have even spotted people we've met before in other peoples pics (face not showing) Couples profiles often the worse. The Fab rules say you must have permission but no way of confirming this of course (just an honour system) and we've had direct experience in another context of people saying they have permission when it has transpired they don't and person involved was furious. So generally we are not fans of too many pics involving others - it is not the others we are hoping to meet and we don't need action shots to decide if we want to meet. But each to their own.... | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Actually it is! Said man's face isn't in the picture so obviously concent thing is a little more lenient! " No its the same I am in loads of other people's pics on social media but 100% no dick pics there. Consent is concent either way | |||
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But it's coming across as you are assuming men posting pics getting BJ have not asked consent to post these pics!
Ofcourse some men will post without consent (some)
Should we assume ladies and couples who post pics from their meets all asked consent to post pics of those men? Again some would have & some not just saying "Yes this! | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? Actually it is! Said man's face isn't in the picture so obviously concent thing is a little more lenient! No its the same I am in loads of other people's pics on social media but 100% no dick pics there. Consent is concent either way " Agree. Found a video of my hand in action on another site once and it was being monetised and felt a touch pissed off and violated and that was just my hand | |||
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"Extremely patronising post. I'm well aware of site rules. Thanks. Pity reality doesn't match the theory.. Especially when dozens of our own photos that do not break any rules are constantly rejected while it's perfectly acceptable to see Auntie Mary hanging off a cock on a faceless profile | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? " *claps* Judgemental post I’d say. Entitle to your opinion but you are jumping to conclusions with no knowledge of the person/people involved. | |||
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https://m.fabswingers.com/articles/photo-rules
Extremely patronising post.
I'm well aware of site rules. Thanks.
Pity reality doesn't match the theory..
Especially when dozens of our own photos that do not break any rules are constantly rejected while it's perfectly acceptable to see Auntie Mary hanging off a cock on a faceless profile "Sorry I wasn’t trying to be, I was trying to be helpful. My point was report the pictures and if they’re breaking the rules they’ll be removed. With regards to pictures of your own that have been rejected despite being within the rules, try resubmitting. Mistakes and glitches can happen when tech and humans are involved. There’s also the volume of pictures that must be submitted to consider too. | |||
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"There's no right answer. There is no wrong answer. Each to their own. For me personally...to use an inferior analogy... ° You know when one goes on holiday and books themselves into a hotel. You walk into that room and it effuses all the hallmarks of unblemished virginal quality, the impression that you're the first guest to ever visit that room and use the bed; the first person to use the spotless bath tub and everything around the room is pristine and not sullied. That wonderfully reassuring feeling, but of course deep down inside we know that we're not the first to truly use the room: it's been used and abused by many preceding guests who have left their indelible mark on the room in whatever form. I have a penchant for a profile with seductively clean photos, as opposed to seeing crude images of (her) sucking and gnawing. So when I meet someone I want to imagine (naively) that she's doing this for the first time and that her mouth wasn't wrapped unceremoniously around a man's phallus the week before....with photos to prove that ritualistic episode." And how many times have you had the pleasure? | |||
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"There's no right answer. There is no wrong answer. Each to their own. For me personally...to use an inferior analogy... ° You know when one goes on holiday and books themselves into a hotel. You walk into that room and it effuses all the hallmarks of unblemished virginal quality, the impression that you're the first guest to ever visit that room and use the bed; the first person to use the spotless bath tub and everything around the room is pristine and not sullied. That wonderfully reassuring feeling, but of course deep down inside we know that we're not the first to truly use the room: it's been used and abused by many preceding guests who have left their indelible mark on the room in whatever form. I have a penchant for a profile with seductively clean photos, as opposed to seeing crude images of (her) sucking and gnawing. So when I meet someone I want to imagine (naively) that she's doing this for the first time and that her mouth wasn't wrapped unceremoniously around a man's phallus the week before....with photos to prove that ritualistic episode. And how many times have you had the pleasure?" ° I'll tell you at the next STP. These walls have ears! | |||
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"I notice nobody wonders if photos from couples or women with other men, women or couples displayed have consent. Or is this just purely a single guy bashing thread??" I've yet to see a faceless woman's profile full of different mens faces in full display sucking cocks. When I see it - I'll create a thread about it too | |||
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"I notice nobody wonders if photos from couples or women with other men, women or couples displayed have consent. Or is this just purely a single guy bashing thread?? I've yet to see a faceless woman's profile full of different mens faces in full display sucking cocks. When I see it - I'll create a thread about it too "Yet there are loads of photos of other single women, single guys and couples on other couple or single ladies profiles, where is the proof of consent?? | |||
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"It depends on the photo, I have just one such photo on my profile but it came from the couple themselves, had been cropped so no-one could be identified and they were happy for me to post it, I think such photos can be very erotic if taken well but I wouldn't put photos of every meet on my profile like a trophy and certainly not without permission." This is exactly how mine came about. Mine is set to private though. | |||
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Missus "Hi OP, you've got some great pics on your profile! There are specifically two pics with two women in. How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics? I'm sure she did, but others might not believe you. Gbat | |||
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Hi OP, you've got some great pics on your profile! There are specifically two pics with two women in. How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics?
I'm sure she did, but others might not believe you.
Gbat "1. Those women are well known on fab where we live. 2. Their faces aren't recognisable because they're not on show. 3. They're not shown performing oral sex on either of us. Hope this answers your question Missus | |||
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"What are the pro's and cons of single men having lots of photos of them receiving BJ's from many different people in their profile photos? Personal opinion: Cons: *As a woman I wouldn't want to meet that person nevermind sucking their dick just in case they decide to pull out their phone in the middle of it. *there's no way of telling who consented with sharing those photos for all Internet randos to see and who didn't. Pros: *proof that someone found that dick palatable enough to suck it *crickets What are your thoughts? missus " I hear what you're saying and pics with different women is off putting, especially if they are bareback but that's another topic Use it as a filter, you don't like it then move along and let people govern their profiles If you feel it needs reporting then report it As for consent, ask them if they got consent instead of assuming they haven't. One of my FWB took pictures of me sucking him off, he sent me the pictures and he asked if he could use them on his profile, of course he can. I'd be upset if someone assumed saw those and assumed he didn't and all they'd need to do is ask him, they can ask me too if it means that much to them. Some guys are good guys, don't tarr them all with one brush | |||
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Haha!! This. "So, all the hundreds of thousands of pics in couples and single female profiles on FAB that show others are also "big game hunting pics are they ? If they aren't, then as i said earlier, just another single bashing thread. | |||
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"I dont know why its a big thing to have on profile. Surly they are looking at the mans profile and not the women doing the sucking. Like loads have said trophy keeping i think." The problem for me is usually the woman is the main focus of the photos, and all you can see is an inch of cock inserted somewhere Often I can't even see the guy in the photo then you'll spot a finger nail at the very edge of a photo presumably a hand holding the ladies bum cheek (it's like one of those kids spot the difference games but here you are trying to spot the fab user in their own photo) Obviously if it's clearly stated in his bio that he has a FB that he often plays with & it's her in the photos, fair play but if he's advertising purely as a single male I want to be able to see him & his body in his photos to see if I like the look of him, I can't get that from an inch of cock or a fingernail | |||
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"What are the pro's and cons of single men having lots of photos of them receiving BJ's from many different people in their profile photos? Personal opinion: Cons: *As a woman I wouldn't want to meet that person nevermind sucking their dick just in case they decide to pull out their phone in the middle of it. *there's no way of telling who consented with sharing those photos for all Internet randos to see and who didn't. Pros: *proof that someone found that dick palatable enough to suck it *crickets What are your thoughts? missus " I’d guess, it’s a bit of a turn off for other women…. The “many different people” part, it’s like seeing endless Verification, one, two or three, yeah, shows you’re real, you’re relevant, not crazy, but loads in the last few weeks/months…. Vom , Of course, there are exceptions like a party etc… still not sure I want to know how much cock or pussy some one has been through in a short period of time… But like someone else said, it’s our choices to look or not. Good forum questions though. | |||
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Hi OP, you've got some great pics on your profile! There are specifically two pics with two women in. How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics?
I'm sure she did, but others might not believe you.
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1. Those women are well known on fab where we live.
2. Their faces aren't recognisable because they're not on show.
3. They're not shown performing oral sex on either of us.
Hope this answers your question
Missus "Hi missus, No, not really. There are nearly 35,000 people using Fab just this minute and your photos are visible to more people than just those in your area. Even so, if I lived in your area, perhaps there's a detail that identifies these women and I could recognise them? Perhaps in the photos you dislike the woman is well known on Fab in that area? Why is it okay for you and not a single man? You are right, they aren't shown performing oral sex but I have to confess, I thought your original post ran a bit deeper and was about about consent rather than fellatio. The question I actually asked was as above. "How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics?" Personally, I like your pics but I think it smacks of double standards to criticise others when you could be seen as doing something along similar lines. This isn't a personal attack, just me joining the debate you started. Thanks for listening, Gbat | |||
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"I'd worry if the ladies knew they were on here and it doesn't look very discreet. Plus on a single male account I like to see the man ,not wide open pics of all the women he's met . So I delete messages from these types of profiles ,up to them what they put on their profile,up to me not to want to take it any further ." This is exactly how I am. If it's a single profile, I want to see single pics. Not his dick in all his previous partners. I never respond to profiles with pics containing other women. Makes my fanny dry tbh | |||
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Hi OP, you've got some great pics on your profile! There are specifically two pics with two women in. How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics?
I'm sure she did, but others might not believe you.
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1. Those women are well known on fab where we live.
2. Their faces aren't recognisable because they're not on show.
3. They're not shown performing oral sex on either of us.
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No, not really.
There are nearly 35,000 people using Fab just this minute and your photos are visible to more people than just those in your area. Even so, if I lived in your area, perhaps there's a detail that identifies these women and I could recognise them?
Perhaps in the photos you dislike the woman is well known on Fab in that area? Why is it okay for you and not a single man?
You are right, they aren't shown performing oral sex but I have to confess, I thought your original post ran a bit deeper and was about about consent rather than fellatio.
The question I actually asked was as above. "How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics?"
Personally, I like your pics but I think it smacks of double standards to criticise others when you could be seen as doing something along similar lines.
This isn't a personal attack, just me joining the debate you started.
Thanks for listening,
Gbat "1. Those women also have had the same photos posted on their profiles. 2. My post WAS about faces that are easily identifiable while performing oral. 3. My point about consent is : If your boss seen a photo of your naked ass - they wouldn't know its you. If your boss would see your face on a swingers site with a big cock hanging out of your mouth - they would likely recognise your face and depending on your job you could potentially get fired. It's all about how recognisable are you in photos that someone else took and often (not always, but if you bothered reading above comments you would see that it does happen) uploaded without permission or knowledge of said person who is in clear, responsible view in a very compromising position. Someone mentioned women and couples having other people in photos. My point was not about having other people in photos. My sole point was- peoples who don't belong to a profile (I.e. Women on single men's profile, men on single women's profile etc.) FACES being recognisable while performing oral sex. This whataboutery is literally what is wrong with society- one person is talking about apples and everyone suddenly feels offended about how and why tomatoes, bananas and salads in general didn't get a mention | |||
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Hi OP, you've got some great pics on your profile! There are specifically two pics with two women in. How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics?
I'm sure she did, but others might not believe you.
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1. Those women are well known on fab where we live.
2. Their faces aren't recognisable because they're not on show.
3. They're not shown performing oral sex on either of us.
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Hi missus,
No, not really.
There are nearly 35,000 people using Fab just this minute and your photos are visible to more people than just those in your area. Even so, if I lived in your area, perhaps there's a detail that identifies these women and I could recognise them?
Perhaps in the photos you dislike the woman is well known on Fab in that area? Why is it okay for you and not a single man?
You are right, they aren't shown performing oral sex but I have to confess, I thought your original post ran a bit deeper and was about about consent rather than fellatio.
The question I actually asked was as above. "How do we know that the other woman consented to these pics?"
Personally, I like your pics but I think it smacks of double standards to criticise others when you could be seen as doing something along similar lines.
This isn't a personal attack, just me joining the debate you started.
Thanks for listening,
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1. Those women also have had the same photos posted on their profiles.
2. My post WAS about faces that are easily identifiable while performing oral.
3. My point about consent is :
If your boss seen a photo of your naked ass - they wouldn't know its you. If your boss would see your face on a swingers site with a big cock hanging out of your mouth - they would likely recognise your face and depending on your job you could potentially get fired. It's all about how recognisable are you in photos that someone else took and often (not always, but if you bothered reading above comments you would see that it does happen) uploaded without permission or knowledge of said person who is in clear, responsible view in a very compromising position.
Someone mentioned women and couples having other people in photos. My point was not about having other people in photos.
My sole point was- peoples who don't belong to a profile (I.e.
Women on single men's profile, men on single women's profile etc.) FACES being recognisable while performing oral sex.
This whataboutery is literally what is wrong with society- one person is talking about apples and everyone suddenly feels offended about how and why tomatoes, bananas and salads in general didn't get a mention "
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" My point was not about having other people in photos. My sole point was- peoples who don't belong to a profile (I.e. Women on single men's profile, men on single women's profile etc. So you've got no problem with a woman being the third person on a MF couples profile? Like on yours? Your sole point, as you said above, was about people who don't belong in a profile. Your profile is a male and a female couple, but you've got photos of two women, so by your definition, that is surely a person who doesn't belong to a profile. This isn't whataboutery, this is the kettle calling the pot black. By all means start a debate, but don't get disappointed when people point out the flaws in your argument Gbat " How many women who do not belong on our profile are performing oral sex with their faces out in the open? | |||
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"One of the big cons is that I think we have had a wink/message/view from a single lady or a couple because that is who the profile picture is of..."
I always ask him to bring his wife as she is in his pics.
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" How many women who do not belong on our profile are performing oral sex with their faces out in the open? None. How do we know that the extra women on your profile consent to being there? Gbat Their profile names The_squirrelss Panther Purrrs Ask them yourself "Perhaps the men could also provide the names if people asked, perhaps not. Personally we are don't like random people in pics whether profile is male, female or couple. Fab rejects most of the obvious pics with face on full view but so many it let's through still show people that are pretty recognisable if you know them (eg family members) even if faces are slightly obscured. Think Fab has got more lax on this in recent times. Apart from the issue of consent we prefer to leave a little to the imagination and we are not going to meet the extra people in the pics. Comes across a little s posting trophies of meets. Others free to see it differently of course and make their own choices on who to meet. | |||
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"I’m a single woman with a pic of me giving oral to a man, so what’s the difference? " this!
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"Thanks for finally answering the question! I'm not being touchy. You do your profile, I'll do my profile. There's even more people in my Friends Pics too. Gbat " Wow amazed Fab let those pics through. The ladies in your pics are pretty recognisable even with obscuring eyes/face in a minor way. No way of knowing if consent and it they were ladies we knew (sister, wife, daughter, friend, etc) we would recognise them. | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x" Consent to put in public? | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x Consent to put in public? " Yes! X | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x" That is not the legal definition of consent. Also not always clear if people know. Easy to have pics taken without you realising these days with phones. | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x That is not the legal definition of consent. Also not always clear if people know. Easy to have pics taken without you realising these days with phones. " I did say knowingly x | |||
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"Someone I know had her pics used on a single male profile and also on his couple profile without her permission a few years ago including BJ pics. They were reported and eventually removed. However even though she has had no contact since he uploaded them again this week on both profiles. Some have been taken down after reporting but she is still visible in his avatar pic and there are a number of different women on the couple profile so it has to be assumed they haven't given permission either. " Get this and yes have had vids taken from this site and put on h...... would never have known had I not been told from fab members! I did get them removed from there! But what I'm basically saying is that once I've uploaded or let others take pics/vids there is no control on what happens with them! | |||
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"Someone I know had her pics used on a single male profile and also on his couple profile without her permission a few years ago including BJ pics. They were reported and eventually removed. However even though she has had no contact since he uploaded them again this week on both profiles. Some have been taken down after reporting but she is still visible in his avatar pic and there are a number of different women on the couple profile so it has to be assumed they haven't given permission either. Get this and yes have had vids taken from this site and put on h...... would never have known had I not been told from fab members! I did get them removed from there! But what I'm basically saying is that once I've uploaded or let others take pics/vids there is no control on what happens with them! " These were not taken off her profile. He took them when they met once without her knowledge. | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x That is not the legal definition of consent. Also not always clear if people know. Easy to have pics taken without you realising these days with phones. I did say knowingly x" But we rarely know on Fab if taken knowingly. Regardless somebody consenting to a private pic does not give legal consent to display publicly. In practice always a possibility but not legal. | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x That is not the legal definition of consent. Also not always clear if people know. Easy to have pics taken without you realising these days with phones. I did say knowingly x But we rarely know on Fab if taken knowingly. Regardless somebody consenting to a private pic does not give legal consent to display publicly. In practice always a possibility but not legal. " Yes get that! Hence I said knowingly! X | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x Consent to put in public? Yes! X" It’s not though. It’s actually not even legal to do it. How does taking pics/videos together give consent for one to put in public?! I can’t even believe you think this. | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x That is not the legal definition of consent. Also not always clear if people know. Easy to have pics taken without you realising these days with phones. I did say knowingly x" It still does NOT give people consent for them to post them on a public site for everyone else to see. In fact that is known a revenge porn and anyone who thinks other wise is wrong . | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x Consent to put in public? Yes! X It’s not though. It’s actually not even legal to do it. How does taking pics/videos together give consent for one to put in public?! I can’t even believe you think this. " Not saying its moral! OK for instance a young woman from work found me here last week! Said she liked my content! Now if she decided to screen grab and print of those pics and post them all over work (which did cross my mind) momentarily it is a fear! But once those pics are out there on Internet u really have no control over them! If it did happen yes I could go along the route think it comes under revenge porn? Not sure? Anyhow by then the damage be done! What I'm saying is if u have those pics out there u really have no control! X | |||
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"I think if you allow someone to take pics/video during a meet, regardless of if it’s for “personal use only”, you have to accept that it might find its way onto the net. Not saying that’s right, but trusting their word is a little naive. Being taken without your knowledge or consent is a whole other issue of course. In this case my advice would be to take screenshots for evidence and contact the admin of the site it is on. They will all but certainly remove it as there’s legal implications for them if they don’t. But if they don’t, send a cease and desist notice to them and the person showing the content, informing them that you will contact the police if the content is not removed. This comes under revenge porn and is taken very seriously. Neither the culprit or the site would want the publicity so this should work in 99% of cases. 10 years on the sex offenders register should scare the shit out of most people. If it doesn’t, call the police. " Yes x | |||
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"If u knowingly have your vid/pic taken then that is consent! Imo x Consent to put in public? Yes! X It’s not though. It’s actually not even legal to do it. How does taking pics/videos together give consent for one to put in public?! I can’t even believe you think this. " BTW! I did add to my first posting on this subject imo x | |||
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" Someone mentioned women and couples having other people in photos. My point was not about having other people in photos. My sole point was- peoples who don't belong to a profile (I.e. Women on single men's profile, men on single women's profile etc.) FACES being recognisable while performing oral sex." You clearly haven't read your original post. You clearly said there is no way of proving if there was any consent. You have photos of women on your profile with no proof of consent. However you have posted their user names so we can check, but you ASSuME that only single men might not have consent, why don't you ask them rather than treating as guilty without trial? | |||
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" Someone mentioned women and couples having other people in photos. My point was not about having other people in photos. My sole point was- peoples who don't belong to a profile (I.e. Women on single men's profile, men on single women's profile etc.) FACES being recognisable while performing oral sex. You clearly haven't read your original post. You clearly said there is no way of proving if there was any consent. You have photos of women on your profile with no proof of consent. However you have posted their user names so we can check, but you ASSuME that only single men might not have consent, why don't you ask them rather than treating as guilty without trial?" I wish there was a facepalm emoji! Mine would go straight through the face until it hits the wall behind me. Are you starting this ridiculously stupid discussion again to wind me up or is your reading comprehension just as challenged as previous gentleman's? This post is about photos of women SUCKING A DICK with their faces in clear view for everyone to see in single men's profiles. Not about other people. Not about a suggestive silhouette. Not people's hands. Not people's feet. Not photos taken from very far away. Not photos taken very close up. Not photos with people's back turned to camera. Not photos with people wearing masks. Not photos with 5 people if you can't see their faces. Not photos with 10 people if you can see their faces. Not photos of orgies if you cant see their faces. Not photos of holding hands. Not photos of hands holding genitals. ****ONLY**** Photos of women's faces in clear view where they're sucking someone's dick. Just those. Nothing else. Is this clear or would you like me to try to break it down? Missus | |||
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"That’s the thing with a debate though. It doesn’t always go where you want it to go. You were only talking about blow jobs (with a very strong segue into consent). Others here chose to concentrate on the consent issue. Sorry you don’t like other people joining in with a group chat. Gbat " https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1373024#last Here's an example of how common is concent in the SPECIFICALLY mentioned scenario. So please if you choose to talk about CONSENT - DO DISCUSS this mentioned CONSENT in specifically mentioned scenario (single man's profile containing clearly identifiable faces of women giving oral sex. Not people's feet, not people's backs, not people's hands, not group sex, not bandage, not apples, not picture frames, not walls, not hair, not chests, not nipples. Clearly. Visible. Faces. Performing. Oral. Sex. ) You are adamant to twist my words. Very adamant. Not today Satan. Missus | |||
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" Someone mentioned women and couples having other people in photos. My point was not about having other people in photos. My sole point was- peoples who don't belong to a profile (I.e. Women on single men's profile, men on single women's profile etc.) FACES being recognisable while performing oral sex. You clearly haven't read your original post. You clearly said there is no way of proving if there was any consent. You have photos of women on your profile with no proof of consent. However you have posted their user names so we can check, but you ASSuME that only single men might not have consent, why don't you ask them rather than treating as guilty without trial? I wish there was a facepalm emoji! Mine would go straight through the face until it hits the wall behind me. Are you starting this ridiculously stupid discussion again to wind me up or is your reading comprehension just as challenged as previous gentleman's? This post is about photos of women SUCKING A DICK with their faces in clear view for everyone to see in single men's profiles. Not about other people. Not about a suggestive silhouette. Not people's hands. Not people's feet. Not photos taken from very far away. Not photos taken very close up. Not photos with people's back turned to camera. Not photos with people wearing masks. Not photos with 5 people if you can't see their faces. Not photos with 10 people if you can see their faces. Not photos of orgies if you cant see their faces. Not photos of holding hands. Not photos of hands holding genitals. ****ONLY**** Photos of women's faces in clear view where they're sucking someone's dick. Just those. Nothing else. Is this clear or would you like me to try to break it down? Missus" A direct quote from your original post :- *there's no way of telling who consented with sharing those photos for all Internet randos to see and who didn't. So what is the difference between a single guy or a single lady or a couple posting a photo of someone else? Nothing, zip, diddly squat. Clearly a single guy bashing post! Because a few of us disagree with your post we are all wrong and you try to belittle anyone who has a diffence of opinion. | |||
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" Someone mentioned women and couples having other people in photos. My point was not about having other people in photos. My sole point was- peoples who don't belong to a profile (I.e. Women on single men's profile, men on single women's profile etc.) FACES being recognisable while performing oral sex. You clearly haven't read your original post. You clearly said there is no way of proving if there was any consent. You have photos of women on your profile with no proof of consent. However you have posted their user names so we can check, but you ASSuME that only single men might not have consent, why don't you ask them rather than treating as guilty without trial? I wish there was a facepalm emoji! Mine would go straight through the face until it hits the wall behind me. Are you starting this ridiculously stupid discussion again to wind me up or is your reading comprehension just as challenged as previous gentleman's? This post is about photos of women SUCKING A DICK with their faces in clear view for everyone to see in single men's profiles. Not about other people. Not about a suggestive silhouette. Not people's hands. Not people's feet. Not photos taken from very far away. Not photos taken very close up. Not photos with people's back turned to camera. Not photos with people wearing masks. Not photos with 5 people if you can't see their faces. Not photos with 10 people if you can see their faces. Not photos of orgies if you cant see their faces. Not photos of holding hands. Not photos of hands holding genitals. ****ONLY**** Photos of women's faces in clear view where they're sucking someone's dick. Just those. Nothing else. Is this clear or would you like me to try to break it down? Missus A direct quote from your original post :- *there's no way of telling who consented with sharing those photos for all Internet randos to see and who didn't. So what is the difference between a single guy or a single lady or a couple posting a photo of someone else? Nothing, zip, diddly squat. Clearly a single guy bashing post! Because a few of us disagree with your post we are all wrong and you try to belittle anyone who has a diffence of opinion. *there's no way of telling who consented with sharing those photos for all Internet randos to see and who didn't. By "such photos" meaning FACES IN FULL VIEW WHILE PERFORMING ORAL SEX. You make me feel.... you make me feel.... you make me feel like banging my head against a wall! (Cry)" I don't think it matters a single thing if someone's face is visible or not if you post a photo of anyone whiteout consent it's not right and is considered illegal. " You make me feel.... you make me feel.... you make me feel like banging my head against a wall! (Cry)" There we go with that belittling again | |||
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"I get why this topic is quite emotive. I am sure there are BJ photos that women haven’t consented to being on here. The flip of this is that by default everyone gets tarred with the same brush with posts like this. I have photos of women with me on my profile. Every one of them has had that ladies approval before I post. Blurring and blocking of any faces to conform with fab rules is also done. You see it’s all about showing respect and trust with those you play with. " Your photos are great! One can clearly see that you took time to make sure none of the people are recognisable and you still are the main focus of your own profile! Way it should be. Very well done photos too | |||
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"I get why this topic is quite emotive. I am sure there are BJ photos that women haven’t consented to being on here. The flip of this is that by default everyone gets tarred with the same brush with posts like this. I have photos of women with me on my profile. Every one of them has had that ladies approval before I post. Blurring and blocking of any faces to conform with fab rules is also done. You see it’s all about showing respect and trust with those you play with. Your photos are great! One can clearly see that you took time to make sure none of the people are recognisable and you still are the main focus of your own profile! Way it should be. Very well done photos too "Thanks for the compliments  I don’t see how a single person’s profile can post photos with a recognisable other in the pic. It’s against site rules and will be rejected | |||
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"I get why this topic is quite emotive. I am sure there are BJ photos that women haven’t consented to being on here. The flip of this is that by default everyone gets tarred with the same brush with posts like this. I have photos of women with me on my profile. Every one of them has had that ladies approval before I post. Blurring and blocking of any faces to conform with fab rules is also done. You see it’s all about showing respect and trust with those you play with. Your photos are great! One can clearly see that you took time to make sure none of the people are recognisable and you still are the main focus of your own profile! Way it should be. Very well done photos too
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"Also I didn't mention single women because they can do whatever the fuck they want with photos of their own faces. Didn't mention couples because couples very rarely have photos where other women's faces are in full view while sucking on a cock. It's not a single men bashing profile. It's posting photos of another person who very likely isn't even on fab face in full view with quarter of an inch of your cock hanging out of her mouth while you enjoy the luxury of remaining anonymous bashing post. If you want to discuss people sharing photos with other people who are not identifiable- create your own post and discuss it to your hearts content. "Then maybe think of what you write before you post because 1, it's a public forum where people will post things you don't like. 2, threads like this come across as single guy bashing | |||
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"I get why this topic is quite emotive. I am sure there are BJ photos that women haven’t consented to being on here. The flip of this is that by default everyone gets tarred with the same brush with posts like this. I have photos of women with me on my profile. Every one of them has had that ladies approval before I post. Blurring and blocking of any faces to conform with fab rules is also done. You see it’s all about showing respect and trust with those you play with. Your photos are great! One can clearly see that you took time to make sure none of the people are recognisable and you still are the main focus of your own profile! Way it should be. Very well done photos too
Thanks for the compliments I don’t see how a single person’s profile can post photos with a recognisable other in the pic. It’s against site rules and will be rejected
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"What are the pro's and cons of single men having lots of photos of them receiving BJ's from many different people in their profile photos? Personal opinion: Cons: *As a woman I wouldn't want to meet that person nevermind sucking their dick just in case they decide to pull out their phone in the middle of it. *there's no way of telling who consented with sharing those photos for all Internet randos to see and who didn't. Pros: *proof that someone found that dick palatable enough to suck it *crickets What are your thoughts? missus " Slightly passive aggressive statement ("*proof that someone found that dick palatable enough to suck it") regardless of the differing opinions on consent, perhaps this was the route of the perceived bashing - just be courteous, life is too short | |||
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"What are the pro's and cons of single men having lots of photos of them receiving BJ's from many different people in their profile photos? Personal opinion: Cons: *As a woman I wouldn't want to meet that person nevermind sucking their dick just in case they decide to pull out their phone in the middle of it. *there's no way of telling who consented with sharing those photos for all Internet randos to see and who didn't. Pros: *proof that someone found that dick palatable enough to suck it *crickets What are your thoughts? missus Slightly passive aggressive statement ("*proof that someone found that dick palatable enough to suck it") regardless of the differing opinions on consent, perhaps this was the route of the perceived bashing - just be courteous, life is too short " | |||
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