FabSwingers.com forum: Female led relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated "

Shouldn't you ask her?

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

What is a family led relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are just both very new and wondering if any couple live the same lifestyle x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated

Shouldn't you ask her?

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exactly she's your leader now....... Remember and start conversation 'oh so gracious one'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever "

Doesn’t sound like a relationship to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

Doesn’t sound like a relationship to me "

Sounds more like marriage

Mrs C

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A female led relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Potentially it does sound like a marriage but she chooses every thing she moulds our relationship how she wants it and I cannot say no. Right down to little details of choosing what I wear, when I can go out etc

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

Doesn’t sound like a relationship to me "

Yeah I thought that...is it a sub and humiliation type thing?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Sounds doomed to failure - women make awful decisions.. some of them have even shagged me…. If that’s not proof???!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated

Shouldn't you ask her?

exactly she's your leader now....... Remember and start conversation 'oh so gracious one'

We are still in the stage of discussing things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

Doesn’t sound like a relationship to me

Yeah I thought that...is it a sub and humiliation type thing? "

Yes I’m a way. So I would say my love language is serving. I just want to make her happy in anyway I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she brought you cock cage yet?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated

Shouldn't you ask her?

exactly she's your leader now....... Remember and start conversation 'oh so gracious one'

We are still in the stage of discussing things "
yes but you have to be subservient to her

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

Doesn’t sound like a relationship to me

Yeah I thought that...is it a sub and humiliation type thing?

Yes I’m a way. So I would say my love language is serving. I just want to make her happy in anyway I can "

I would say know your limits. Have you been together long? Some people are people pleasers, other people can be advantage takers and abusers.

Communication Communication communication.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has she brought you cock cage yet?"

No not yet. She has said I’m not allowed to masturbate anymore. Or I have to ask her. So maybe it would be a good thing to bring up. We are still in the very early stages. I don’t want to rush things I want her to feel comfortable in her making the decisions if you get me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated

Shouldn't you ask her?

exactly she's your leader now....... Remember and start conversation 'oh so gracious one'

We are still in the stage of discussing things yes but you have to be subservient to her

I am prepared for that I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

Doesn’t sound like a relationship to me

Yeah I thought that...is it a sub and humiliation type thing?

Yes I’m a way. So I would say my love language is serving. I just want to make her happy in anyway I can

I would say know your limits. Have you been together long? Some people are people pleasers, other people can be advantage takers and abusers.

Communication Communication communication. "

We’ve been together like 8 months and our relationship was ok just arguments about me not spending enough time with her maybe, and I’ve always been naturally submissive so when I brought it up it came as a little bit of a shock, but then she liked the idea and here we are. And yes I told her that this will only work with communication all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to her. I cannot think of anything worse than taking every decision for a grown adult who is perfectly capable of doing it themselves. I can just imagine irritability, resentment, anger and frustration creeping in. Even if this is the dynamic you both have chosen, have you discussed how you might tackle those feelings should they arise?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fair play to her. I cannot think of anything worse than taking every decision for a grown adult who is perfectly capable of doing it themselves. I can just imagine irritability, resentment, anger and frustration creeping in. Even if this is the dynamic you both have chosen, have you discussed how you might tackle those feelings should they arise?"

I mean I’ve always believed I should serve a woman. I believe men should do all the work around the house etc, so I don’t think I would cause an issue to arise. But we are still just discussing what rules we want in place for our relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant those issues might arise from her side because she has to take responsibility for every decision

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I meant those issues might arise from her side because she has to take responsibility for every decision "
don’t worry I’ve made it perfectly clear that if she’s want to make all the decisions and she’s adamant she ants to because it makes her life happier and better

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

She might also find making all the decisions quite stressful - I did when I was in a relationship as responsibility for it also means accountability for it and it can be the root of disagreements if things don’t go well - lots of things to be mindful of - but good luck to you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She might also find making all the decisions quite stressful - I did when I was in a relationship as responsibility for it also means accountability for it and it can be the root of disagreements if things don’t go well - lots of things to be mindful of - but good luck to you both

This is my thoughts too.

As mentioned above op you need to make sure You set very clear boundaries, and talking regularly about how it's going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is my thoughts too.

As mentioned above op you need to make sure You set very clear boundaries, and talking regularly about how it's going. "

Yes I made it very clear we need to communicate all the time for this to work

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m off to Google …

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes we have discussed how important communication is going to be. It’s just all a little overwhelming at first

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m off to Google … "
hahah see your reply soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She the bread winner?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She the bread winner?"
actually yes but she also has my wallet and controls my finances and I have to ask if I can buy anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

Potentially you are correct haha. I’m just a jnaturally submissive person and we both think it will be great for our relationship

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Did you look into this before signing up to it? It all sounds a bit hung ho to me. Especially the financial side. 8 months isn’t very long to really get to know someone OP.

I’d be wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

Potentially you are correct haha. I’m just a jnaturally submissive person and we both think it will be great for our relationship "

She’s going to tell you what to eat and when? Who you can talk to? She could tell you to bin all social media and contact with family?

Where are you drawing the lines?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you look into this before signing up to it? It all sounds a bit hung ho to me. Especially the financial side. 8 months isn’t very long to really get to know someone OP.

I’d be wary."

I’ve been submissive since literally being 18-19 so I know a lot about the lifestyle. She is still very new and vanilla but she said she likes to take control of a relationship. So I figured it works for both of us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

Potentially you are correct haha. I’m just a jnaturally submissive person and we both think it will be great for our relationship

She’s going to tell you what to eat and when? Who you can talk to? She could tell you to bin all social media and contact with family?

Where are you drawing the lines?"

She’s already said that she wouldn’t take the mick financially and no I can talk to my family etc I don’t have to bin anything just respect when she wants me to come off of them to spend time with her

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Go clothes shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

Potentially you are correct haha. I’m just a jnaturally submissive person and we both think it will be great for our relationship

She’s going to tell you what to eat and when? Who you can talk to? She could tell you to bin all social media and contact with family?

Where are you drawing the lines?

And she knows you are on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

Potentially you are correct haha. I’m just a jnaturally submissive person and we both think it will be great for our relationship

She’s going to tell you what to eat and when? Who you can talk to? She could tell you to bin all social media and contact with family?

Where are you drawing the lines?

And she knows you are on here?"

She does yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

Potentially you are correct haha. I’m just a jnaturally submissive person and we both think it will be great for our relationship

She’s going to tell you what to eat and when? Who you can talk to? She could tell you to bin all social media and contact with family?

Where are you drawing the lines?

And she knows you are on here?

She does yes "

Sounds bonkers to me but good luck OP

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Potentially it does sound like a marriage but she chooses every thing she moulds our relationship how she wants it and I cannot say no. Right down to little details of choosing what I wear, when I can go out etc "
Nothing about this sounds like a marriage well a healthy balanced marriage anyway. I would be wary about giving up control with someone I have only known for 8 months.It seems like a recipe for disaster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

Potentially you are correct haha. I’m just a jnaturally submissive person and we both think it will be great for our relationship

She’s going to tell you what to eat and when? Who you can talk to? She could tell you to bin all social media and contact with family?

Where are you drawing the lines?

And she knows you are on here?

She does yes

Sounds bonkers to me but good luck OP

Yeah it’s not for a lot of people. But it’s what works best for our relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Potentially it does sound like a marriage but she chooses every thing she moulds our relationship how she wants it and I cannot say no. Right down to little details of choosing what I wear, when I can go out etc Nothing about this sounds like a marriage well a healthy balanced marriage anyway. I would be wary about giving up control with someone I have only known for 8 months.It seems like a recipe for disaster."

Oh no sorry we’ve been together 8 months, we’ve actually known each other or whole lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She the bread winner? actually yes but she also has my wallet and controls my finances and I have to ask if I can buy anything "

I would entertain being a lad of leisure for a boss b!tch

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Sounds like a nightmare for her. Carrying the whole mental load for two adults is exhausting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She the bread winner? actually yes but she also has my wallet and controls my finances and I have to ask if I can buy anything

I would entertain being a lad of leisure for a boss b!tch "

That’s the way I think mate. I just want to serve her in every way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like a nightmare for her. Carrying the whole mental load for two adults is exhausting."

I get that it comes across like that. But it what she wants it’s not like I’m incapable of making my own decisions. It’s more of if she wants me to do something I will do it. Not like she’s a parent figure if that makes sense. Just that I’m submissive and ready to serve whenever she wants x

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Sounds doomed to failure - women make awful decisions.. some of them have even shagged me…. If that’s not proof???!

Thatcher, May and Truss. Not the best examples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She the bread winner? actually yes but she also has my wallet and controls my finances and I have to ask if I can buy anything

I would entertain being a lad of leisure for a boss b!tch

That’s the way I think mate. I just want to serve her in every way "

The opposite really. Her as cuckqueen dynamic

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

To be honest I have been in a cock-led relationship most of my life and well, let’s just say, he hasn’t always got things right!

Having a foo tell you want to do takes the pressure off of you..

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Sounds like a nightmare for her. Carrying the whole mental load for two adults is exhausting.

Allowing the better organiser to plan stuff, is an example of "I'll be the brawn and you can be the brains" aka specialism.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She the bread winner? actually yes but she also has my wallet and controls my finances and I have to ask if I can buy anything

I would entertain being a lad of leisure for a boss b!tch

That’s the way I think mate. I just want to serve her in every way

The opposite really. Her as cuckqueen dynamic "

I don’t know if it would turn into a cuckold situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like a nightmare for her. Carrying the whole mental load for two adults is exhausting.

Allowing the better organiser to plan stuff, is an example of "I'll be the brawn and you can be the brains" aka specialism. "

Exactly mate. And normally women know what’s best for a relationship to be the best it can be

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Yes, I'm in an FLR. But we have been together for 20 years, married for 18 and I don't expect or would want full control of absolutely everything even down to his finances.

If your profile bio is true and correct, your girlfriend knows about it and what it says, and she is wanting a 100% control off every element of your life if I would be concerned.

If she has been having problems with thinking you're not spending enough time with her and then this has been suggested, it would be a massive red flag to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I'm in an FLR. But we have been together for 20 years, married for 18 and I don't expect or would want full control of absolutely everything even down to his finances.

If your profile bio is true and correct, your girlfriend knows about it and what it says, and she is wanting a 100% control off every element of your life if I would be concerned.

If she has been having problems with thinking you're not spending enough time with her and then this has been suggested, it would be a massive red flag to me. "

I’m honest very happy to give her all control of it though

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Have a Google of a MD/lb dynamic, yes I've been In one and we had strict boundaries and clear concise communication, you won't find much about it on here, it's not a popular fab kink.

Pm me if you want more info and good luck

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"She the bread winner? actually yes but she also has my wallet and controls my finances and I have to ask if I can buy anything

I would entertain being a lad of leisure for a boss b!tch

That’s the way I think mate. I just want to serve her in every way

The opposite really. Her as cuckqueen dynamic

I don’t know if it would turn into a cuckold situation "

I think that bridge has already been crossed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She the bread winner? actually yes but she also has my wallet and controls my finances and I have to ask if I can buy anything

I would entertain being a lad of leisure for a boss b!tch

That’s the way I think mate. I just want to serve her in every way

The opposite really. Her as cuckqueen dynamic

I don’t know if it would turn into a cuckold situation

I think that bridge has already been crossed

How so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji? "

I’m sorry? Why?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

This is making me anxious just thinking about it. The thought of having to think for Swing as well as myself

It would definitely be very short lived and one of us would end up under the patio

Good luck op I hope you find the information you’re looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is making me anxious just thinking about it. The thought of having to think for Swing as well as myself

It would definitely be very short lived and one of us would end up under the patio

Good luck op I hope you find the information you’re looking for

Thankyou very much. It’s not a case really of her having to do my thinking for me. But I will do whatever she wants per say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

I’m sorry? Why?"

The voluntary abdication of human free will for one thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

I’m sorry? Why?

The voluntary abdication of human free will for one thing. "

Have you never read up on female led relationship’s before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do some people think this would lead to being cuckolded?

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever "

Fuk dat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

Fuk dat

I imagine it’s not for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what makes you happy OP. As long as you are safe and happy and not being manipulated into making this choice and have free will to say if/when you’d like the arrangement to end.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do what makes you happy OP. As long as you are safe and happy and not being manipulated into making this choice and have free will to say if/when you’d like the arrangement to end. "

Yes I have free will still don’t worry, I’ve just submitted to her is all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

I’m sorry? Why?

The voluntary abdication of human free will for one thing.

Have you never read up on female led relationship’s before?"

Nope and I have no intention of ever doing so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

I’m sorry? Why?

The voluntary abdication of human free will for one thing.

Have you never read up on female led relationship’s before?

Nope and I have no intention of ever doing so. "

Fair enough, sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose if it works for both of you then why not? It wouldn’t work for me though.

I bet a lot of relationships are female-led anyway without the label

I was just about to post this…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

I’m sorry? Why?

The voluntary abdication of human free will for one thing.

Have you never read up on female led relationship’s before?

Nope and I have no intention of ever doing so. "

Quite right. When has ignorance ever stopped someone posting their opinion on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

I’m sorry? Why?

The voluntary abdication of human free will for one thing.

Have you never read up on female led relationship’s before?

Nope and I have no intention of ever doing so.

Quite right. When has ignorance ever stopped someone posting their opinion on fab?

I thought the same

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't know alot about flr op ,but think 8 months is a bit soon to give someone total control over you and your money /life.

Sometimes people aren't all they pretend to be ,if you still ho ahead good luck but be vigilant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know alot about flr op ,but think 8 months is a bit soon to give someone total control over you and your money /life.

Sometimes people aren't all they pretend to be ,if you still ho ahead good luck but be vigilant."

Thankyou for your advice x

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

I think this is the standard married relationship.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated

Shouldn't you ask her?

exactly she's your leader now....... Remember and start conversation 'oh so gracious one'

We are still in the stage of discussing things "

I knew someone like this , he even changed his last name to hers , they weren’t married. He was actually very dominant in many ways, and strong outspoken opinions on many things, including his views that women were to be worshipped and adored by men. He completely organised his whole life around her wishes/needs, last I heard of him they were very happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated

Shouldn't you ask her?

exactly she's your leader now....... Remember and start conversation 'oh so gracious one'

We are still in the stage of discussing things

This fills me with a lot of hope and happiness, thankyou

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Lots of very happy and loving F Ok R out there. Once the dynamics are flowing freely ,they are the best relationships. But can be full of potholes. Not all are perfect mine lasted four years but now am single and in search of my own FLR.best of luck to you two , hope it works out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When are Fab finally going to give us the face palm emoji?

I’m sorry? Why?

The voluntary abdication of human free will for one thing.

Have you never read up on female led relationship’s before?

Nope and I have no intention of ever doing so.

Fair enough, sorry x"

You really shouldn't be apologising for the ignorance of others. Good luck to you and your partner x

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Me and my other half recently agreed to a female led relationship and I was wondering if anyone e had any advice for us. It would be much appreciated "

ask her, but if this is genuine, she would be on here asking as a female led relationship

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We're all in a female led relationship.

Politically......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever

Uh huh….You’re new to this whole ‘relationship’ thing, aren’t you? You have much to learn about who really rules the roost.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Is it female led if you told her that's what you wanted?

As a concept, if it's something that happens organically, I can see it working.

But not if it's instigated by the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read up on for but from what I'm reading in this thread scares me, so I need some clarification if that's ok OP?

You say you have free will and can stop it whenever you choose to, but what if she says no this is how it's staying?

What happens if she takes out massive loans/credit cards in your name and doesn't pay them how would you know (as she's in charge of finances) be wary of this my ex took out a catalogue in my name ran up £2k on there then left me do this part is particularly concerning.

As to why people think it might turn into a cuckold situation, what of she decides that what she wants? You in a cock cage watching from the corner of the room while she's having sex with another bloke saying how much better he is you can't say no because she makes all of the decisions.

Fair play to you for living your kink but as people have said 8 months is not a long relationship to give someone this much control.

Maybe start off small then get bigger if it works for you?

Sorry if I seem ignorant I'm just concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it female led if you told her that's what you wanted?

As a concept, if it's something that happens organically, I can see it working.

But not if it's instigated by the man "

I see the point you're making but I think you're taking a blinkered, short sighted view if you think simply because it wasn't the woman that initially came up with the idea then it will be doomed to failure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not a relationship.... it's a dictatorship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is essentially a role reversed version of 50 shades of grey, except unless OP is hiding something she's not a billionaire

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By *WINGStars23Couple
over a year ago

Northwest UK

"A female led not family. So my girlfriend makes every single decision and I have no say what so ever "

That's a recipe for disaster.

Equal decisions, equal responsibility, equal trust. As a couple on fab, we discussed what we both want, so both of us get what we need out of being swingers together.

If you have no say, the time may come when you don't like something in life or in your sex life and what you say doesn't matter, so you life started to become more unhappy.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We're all in a female led relationship.

Politically......

Well that comment aged well.......

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

"We are just both very new and wondering if any couple live the same lifestyle x"

I would say what you may be describing is a cuckold relationship

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

"We're all in a female led relationship.

Politically......

Well that comment aged well.......

Pmsl

Liz must have read this comment and thought hold my beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are just both very new and wondering if any couple live the same lifestyle x

I would say what you may be describing is a cuckold relationship "

I would say you are wrong. Where has the OP said his partner is having sex with other men?

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