FabSwingers.com forum: Are Women more shallow than Men?

By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Ummmmmm. I don't know. Do you have a depth gauge please?

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Swings and roundabouts I think, I have met some really shallow examples of both through the years

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes. They always been the prize so have been able to be more picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Controversial thread this one.

Either side of the fence you are damned if you take a side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. They always been the prize so have been able to be more picky. "

Vagina voodoo is stronger than Penis power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the ones that won’t get nekkid with me. Shallow egotistical fuckers.

Other than that.. dunno really. You won’t get ME dissing the ladies on a fuck site ..

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Controversial thread this one.

Either side of the fence you are damned if you take a side"

Show some gumption man !?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Depends how deep you bury them I guess.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Firstly I think men and women are equally guilty of this. I just think it depends on the platform. Of course here women outweigh men but in general I’ve seen many women be as shallow as guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life or on here?

On here women are much more shallow probably because they can afford to be. With so many men willing to fuck anything that moves whether they’re attracted to them or not. #notallmen before anyone starts.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’ve heard that some boast deeper foos than the Mariana Trench…

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ? "

Oh the irony, I’m chuckling at your status

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"Depends how deep you bury them I guess.

That's damn dark fella

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"In life or on here?

I meant in life not on fab !!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

My guess is it's probably more dependant on the person than their gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is it's probably more dependant on the person than their gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ? "

How would you classify 'shallow'?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ?

How would you classify 'shallow'?"

I asked for a depth gauge, but access denied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn bi you have a blast

And no don’t need to take

Can always be a giver

They be no shortige off “fun” and the odds will swing your way

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Depends how deep you bury them I guess.

Really

at this

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"Depends how deep you bury them I guess.

Really

at this

Glad it wasnt just me

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ?

How would you classify 'shallow'?"

“” like shallow people who judge others on their looks and how much money they have.””

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ?

How would you classify 'shallow'?

“” like shallow people who judge others on their looks and how much money they have.””"

Generally speaking... yes, I think women are more shallow than men in that context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ?

How would you classify 'shallow'?

“” like shallow people who judge others on their looks and how much money they have.””

Generally speaking... yes, I think women are more shallow than men in that context.

I disagree.

'Some' women may be of course. But going by that definition I've seen far more men being judgemental about earnings, status, material possessions such as cars, houses, gadgets and gizmos, particularly in regard to other men. Many are also particularly shallow when it comes to their choice of female partner. Not gym fit or a little tubby? Fine for a no strings bunk up on here but wouldn't be seen out with them in case their mates saw them. They're probably less fussy about a woman's earnings of course as they already pride themselves on their huge Bank balance, like to show it off and be seen as an alpha male capable of spoiling and funding their partner.

So nope. IRL I think men are more guilty of it.

And on here I don't see women as being shallow. Just focussed and less willing to go outside their preferences fo casual sex. Is that because the ratios allow them to? Probably. But that doesn't make them shallow.

*typos corrected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shallow was a great song.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Only sith deal in absolutes

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Should women just settle for skint ugly guys then?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Only sith deal in absolutes "

Isn’t that statement itself an absolute….?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should women just settle for skint ugly guys then?

What chance have we got otherwise ?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Not at all, in my experience men are far more shallow.

My experience is me, blocking someone in the past for not having 36 pictures of themselves naked. And by 'in the past', I mean just now, purely so I could participate in this thread.

...I should unblock them, they seemed cool.

In summary: sure? Or maybe not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s your opinion op?

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ?

How would you classify 'shallow'?

“” like shallow people who judge others on their looks and how much money they have.””

Generally speaking... yes, I think women are more shallow than men in that context.

I disagree.

So nope. IRL I think men are more guilty of it.

*typos corrected."

Alpha males are motivated by deep seated insecurity. They have a need to be higher status.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"What’s your opinion op?"

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here "

I’m curious, can I ask why?

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why? "

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex. "

Do you think your perception of women affects your interactions?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If anyone thinks I'm shallow it's because they judged me on how I look and decided not to take the time to get to know me.

I think it's fine to be shallow on fab and I think it's fine to judge people on how they look off fab too. Surely nobody is suggesting I give the guy shadowing me in a deserted street who looks deeply suspicious a chance by getting to know him

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex. "

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex? "

Ooh that's a great point: OP, now you have to go fuck a bunch of dudes to science out your hypothesis.

...heh. Oh, science. Always with the buttsex, so crazy.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ?

How would you classify 'shallow'?

“” like shallow people who judge others on their looks and how much money they have.””"

As a general rule of thumb in the past, I think women judge on looks more especially of each other. Men more on job positions, what car they own etc. But I think there is less of a divide these days. I think social media has made us more judgemental, why post pictures of your car, holiday your abs on Instagram and the like. If you're not looking to be judged and judge others?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So the threads started by guys praising the body type or particular physical attribute they find most attractive aren't shallow?

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Do you think your perception of women affects your interactions?"

No not really. Both sexes have there own pros and cons I get. People assume on here if you have a perception like this it’s because you have have had a shit experience on here. Quite the opposite for me, I’ve had and will continue to have a great time here. Anyone who has looked at my profile will see that I often punch way above in the looks department so I can honestly say the ladies I have met on fab have been far from shallow. My OP was asking the question “ in general “

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ? "

Yes they are.

All these fickle bitches turning me down because I’m too tall, to short, too fat, too thin, too bald, too hairy, too well endowed, not well endowed enough, too pale, too dark, have my own teeth, too alpha, not cuck enough, too rich, too poor, too southern, not southern enough, too hard, too soft etc. etc.

I mean what is with all that? Its just a fuck site after all

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"So the threads started by guys praising the body type or particular physical attribute they find most attractive aren't shallow?"

Of course they are but the question wasn’t really asking for point scoring, more of “ if you had to pick a sex that was more shallow than the other who would you pick” ?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex?

Ooh that's a great point: OP, now you have to go fuck a bunch of dudes to science out your hypothesis.

...heh. Oh, science. Always with the buttsex, so crazy.

Being shallow isn't just about sex.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think anyone can be shallow and no sex is more shallow than the other.

Men might rate women on appearance; women might rate men on wealth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Do you think your perception of women affects your interactions?

I wasn’t assuming anything. I was asking a genuine question, and it was in regards to both on and off fab.

I’m curious about the punching way above in the looks department, would you consider this shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which woman are you using as an example compared to which man?

The simple answer is - Some are, some aren’t.

If I wrote more than that, nobody will read it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Do you think your perception of women affects your interactions?

I wasn’t assuming anything. I was asking a genuine question, and it was in regards to both on and off fab.

I’m curious about the punching way above in the looks department, would you consider this shallow?"

Judging people on looks is shallow behaviour and I believe men and women do it just as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Do you think your perception of women affects your interactions?

I wasn’t assuming anything. I was asking a genuine question, and it was in regards to both on and off fab.

I’m curious about the punching way above in the looks department, would you consider this shallow?

Judging people on looks is shallow behaviour and I believe men and women do it just as much.

I think like anything, it’s subjective.

I think probably an equal amount of men and women judge on looks.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Generally in life I've found them to be yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally speaking in your opinion do you think Women are more shallow than Men ? "

My observation would say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think anyone can be shallow and no sex is more shallow than the other.

Men might rate women on appearance; women might rate men on wealth. "

Once again, its a question reducing all behaviour through the lense of a single word, which without proper definition within the context of the question, can mean just about anything to everybody and does.

It's all swings and roundabouts really, the metric is subjective assessment built on skewed sampling bias.

When does personal preference, become being shallow? Wheres the point of change, what delineates one from the other?

Yes I'm sure we can all pick out an extreme example, but I think generalising it to an entire gender is churlish.

Also it's women.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Most people are shallow, and it is society that makes them so. Money-worship, material success, fleeting fame, 'reality' TV: everything we see tells us that looks and wealth matter more than anything.

I choose my friends for their ability to show self-knowledge and think differently, and have far more female friends than male. Maybe that's me being shallow, as a heterosexual man. Maybe it's happenstance. But being shallow is the norm fir a reason, and it ISN'T human nature.

After all, 'deep' people don't drive the economy.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Speaking in general terms, I think we all know the answer

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex?

Ooh that's a great point: OP, now you have to go fuck a bunch of dudes to science out your hypothesis.

...heh. Oh, science. Always with the buttsex, so crazy.

Being shallow isn't just about sex. "

Everything is just about sex, if you are shallow enough.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think shallow is equal across genders, and those with more power are more open about it.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

If by shallow,you mean more fussy when taking a sexual partner,then yes,the majority of women can afford to be more shallow.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I think anyone can be shallow and no sex is more shallow than the other.

Men might rate women on appearance; women might rate men on wealth.

It's all swings and roundabouts really, the metric is subjective assessment built on skewed sampling bias.

When does personal preference, become being shallow? Wheres the point of change, what delineates one from the other?

Yes I'm sure we can all pick out an extreme example, but I think generalising it to an entire gender is churlish.

Also it's women. "

It's definitely men.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex?

Ooh that's a great point: OP, now you have to go fuck a bunch of dudes to science out your hypothesis.

...heh. Oh, science. Always with the buttsex, so crazy.

Being shallow isn't just about sex.

Everything is just about sex, if you are shallow enough.

To get to sex we have to look at physical traits. Women then use character to decide.

Men don't.

Men are more shallow than women

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex?

Ooh that's a great point: OP, now you have to go fuck a bunch of dudes to science out your hypothesis.

...heh. Oh, science. Always with the buttsex, so crazy.

Being shallow isn't just about sex.

Everything is just about sex, if you are shallow enough.

To get to sex we have to look at physical traits. Women then use character to decide.

Men don't.

Men are more shallow than women

...well that's funnier than anything I could type, I'm out

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex?

Ooh that's a great point: OP, now you have to go fuck a bunch of dudes to science out your hypothesis.

...heh. Oh, science. Always with the buttsex, so crazy.

Being shallow isn't just about sex.

Everything is just about sex, if you are shallow enough.

To get to sex we have to look at physical traits. Women then use character to decide.

Men don't.

Men are more shallow than women

That’s fine I was asking for people opinions, there is no right or wrong answer

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think men and women have different goals ..so they appear shallow to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think anyone can be shallow and no sex is more shallow than the other.

Men might rate women on appearance; women might rate men on wealth.

It's all swings and roundabouts really, the metric is subjective assessment built on skewed sampling bias.

When does personal preference, become being shallow? Wheres the point of change, what delineates one from the other?

Yes I'm sure we can all pick out an extreme example, but I think generalising it to an entire gender is churlish.

Also it's women.

It's definitely men.

Yeah, well, that's just, like, your opinion man.

The Dude does not abide.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"What’s your opinion op?

In my opinion yes I think they are. But it’s interesting to see the views of other people on here

I’m curious, can I ask why?

Just a lifetime of experience of the fairer sex.

Have you had the same amount of experience with the not so fairer sex?

Ooh that's a great point: OP, now you have to go fuck a bunch of dudes to science out your hypothesis.

...heh. Oh, science. Always with the buttsex, so crazy.

Being shallow isn't just about sex.

Everything is just about sex, if you are shallow enough.

Except sex...that's about power

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think men are more shallow. I mean, they'll fuck someone for the sake of a fuck but wouldn't be seen dead out with them, whereas women just wouldn't fuck em in the first place. I know which is worse to me.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Probably equally shallow but more acceptable for ladies. which is a bit unfair.

Seen it on lots of chat groups and sometimes in real life where ladies say things and fine but men get jumped on for similar comments.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So the threads started by guys praising the body type or particular physical attribute they find most attractive aren't shallow?

Of course they are but the question wasn’t really asking for point scoring, more of “ if you had to pick a sex that was more shallow than the other who would you pick” ? "

I wouldn't pick either. I've met people with the depth of a very small puddle of all genders.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"So the threads started by guys praising the body type or particular physical attribute they find most attractive aren't shallow?

Of course they are but the question wasn’t really asking for point scoring, more of “ if you had to pick a sex that was more shallow than the other who would you pick” ?

I wouldn't pick either. I've met people with the depth of a very small puddle of all genders.

Yup this is pretty much my take on it aswell.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No, it isn’t gender specific in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman are generally shorter than men. But that means they're in deeper, pro rata, than men when in shallow water. That's deep.

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