FabSwingers.com forum: Ask your Auntie Wendi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok boys and girls and all those in-between. It's time again for your favourite Agony Aunt, so anything you need help with ask away and I shall give you my advice.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

Im a bottom bi guy who has trouble relaxing certian muscles in the sack. Any advice that doesnt involve a small bottle of solvent?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im a bottom bi guy who has trouble relaxing certian muscles in the sack. Any advice that doesnt involve a small bottle of solvent?"

Make sure you're totally comfortable with your partner. Relaxation is key.

Forplay and toys will help before any sexual penetration, always use a silicone based lube as these tend to dry out less.

Always go at your own pace too.

Love Auntie Wendi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do TV/TS folk message straight people...when it's fairly clear that isn't the type they are seeking??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do TV/TS folk message straight people...when it's fairly clear that isn't the type they are seeking??"

Same as straight guys messaging us or couples, when you say you're not looking them.

Lots don't read profiles and chance their arm on here.

Just blocked them from messaging you if it bothers you.

Love Auntie Wendi x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

maybe there testing you naughty girls

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By *orny guy 6630Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Am I that repulsive that no one wants to meet for a play date with me?

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By *reatmekindWoman
over a year ago

West Suffolk

How do you let someone down gently if the conversation has run dry and you're really not feeling it? Don't want to hurt any feelings but there's really no chemistry at all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I that repulsive that no one wants to meet for a play date with me? "

None is that repulsive. The amount of guys to women,couples on here is far greater.

Clubs and socials are a great way to meet people on here.

Use the forums to engage with other fabbers. Start your own threads. This will get people to see your profile and you more.

Remember your profile is like a shop window. If it dosent stand out in the abundance of all the others it'll go unmissed.

Love Auntie Wendi x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you let someone down gently if the conversation has run dry and you're really not feeling it? Don't want to hurt any feelings but there's really no chemistry at all x"

Honesty is your best friend here, just say your not feeling it and don't want to waste their time.

No one likes to here this but better being honest than stringing someone along.

Sometimes things look better on paper.

Love Auntie Wendi x

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By *reatmekindWoman
over a year ago

West Suffolk

"How do you let someone down gently if the conversation has run dry and you're really not feeling it? Don't want to hurt any feelings but there's really no chemistry at all x

Honesty is your best friend here, just say your not feeling it and don't want to waste their time.

No one likes to here this but better being honest than stringing someone along.

Sometimes things look better on paper.

Love Auntie Wendi x "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Auntie Wendi I been looking at a set off legging boots

If your not shour what they are they basicly look like tights but with boots at the feet

My problem is my ass just keeps getting bigger

And I don’t want to shell out the money and them not fitting in 3-4 months time do I still order they do look awesome though

They called You Alright Heeled Boots - Neon Pink if you want to look them up x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Auntie Wendi I been looking at a set off legging boots

If your not shour what they are they basicly look like tights but with boots at the feet

My problem is my ass just keeps getting bigger

And I don’t want to shell out the money and them not fitting in 3-4 months time do I still order they do look awesome though

They called You Alright Heeled Boots - Neon Pink if you want to look them up x"

I've had a quick look Nat.

We boot know you're going to buy them, your just looking for someone else who will agree saying yes girl buy more shoes.

Rambert your feet aren't going to get bigger.

There's stretch in the ass you can also sell them online and get some money back.

Love Auntie Wendi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Auntie Wendi I been looking at a set off legging boots

If your not shour what they are they basicly look like tights but with boots at the feet

My problem is my ass just keeps getting bigger

And I don’t want to shell out the money and them not fitting in 3-4 months time do I still order they do look awesome though

They called You Alright Heeled Boots - Neon Pink if you want to look them up x

I've had a quick look Nat.

We boot know you're going to buy them, your just looking for someone else who will agree saying yes girl buy more shoes.

Rambert your feet aren't going to get bigger.

There's stretch in the ass you can also sell them online and get some money back.

Love Auntie Wendi x "

Thanks and yes I think your right in the looking for someone to say it’s ok buy more shose ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Auntie Wendi I been looking at a set off legging boots

If your not shour what they are they basicly look like tights but with boots at the feet

My problem is my ass just keeps getting bigger

And I don’t want to shell out the money and them not fitting in 3-4 months time do I still order they do look awesome though

They called You Alright Heeled Boots - Neon Pink if you want to look them up x

I've had a quick look Nat.

We boot know you're going to buy them, your just looking for someone else who will agree saying yes girl buy more shoes.

Rambert your feet aren't going to get bigger.

There's stretch in the ass you can also sell them online and get some money back.

Love Auntie Wendi x

Thanks and yes I think your right in the looking for someone to say it’s ok buy more shose ha ha x "

You're lucky I came back to answer you got distracted.

Always remember you can resell your stuff online so you'll always make something back.

Love Auntie Wendi x

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Aunty Wendi ... dilemma of all dilemmas ... Red or white wine...?!

Assuming it's ok on a school night too xox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Auntie Wendi I been looking at a set off legging boots

If your not shour what they are they basicly look like tights but with boots at the feet

My problem is my ass just keeps getting bigger

And I don’t want to shell out the money and them not fitting in 3-4 months time do I still order they do look awesome though

They called You Alright Heeled Boots - Neon Pink if you want to look them up x

I've had a quick look Nat.

We boot know you're going to buy them, your just looking for someone else who will agree saying yes girl buy more shoes.

Rambert your feet aren't going to get bigger.

There's stretch in the ass you can also sell them online and get some money back.

Love Auntie Wendi x

Thanks and yes I think your right in the looking for someone to say it’s ok buy more shose ha ha x

You're lucky I came back to answer you got distracted.

Always remember you can resell your stuff online so you'll always make something back.

Love Auntie Wendi x "

Awwww thank you so much hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aunty Wendi ... dilemma of all dilemmas ... Red or white wine...?!

Assuming it's ok on a school night too xox"

I'm pouring muluself a glass of white.

The twins are old enough to get themselves to school themselves

Which ever you prefer. I take notions for each.

Can't do rosey though gives me to much heart burn.

Love Auntie Wendi x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aunty Wendi ... dilemma of all dilemmas ... Red or white wine...?!

Assuming it's ok on a school night too xox

I'm pouring muluself a glass of white.

The twins are old enough to get themselves to school themselves

Which ever you prefer. I take notions for each.

Can't do rosey though gives me to much heart burn.

Love Auntie Wendi x "

Myself self have to stop typing so fast that's without a sip lol.

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