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By *osierdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

derbyshire

Hotel meets ? Thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

um, yes.

I don’t really know what else to say really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"um, yes.

I don’t really know what else to say really.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My preferred choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good thoughts

And memories

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

My favourite kind

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

It's the way to go, unless you're looking for something quick and dirty (we sometimes are)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have ALL the fun

Head home when done

What's not to love

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hotel meets ? Thoughts "
expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x"

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Greggs and an Irn Bru for me

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey

Haven’t tried one….yet

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Northwich (just visiting)

"Hotel meets ? Thoughts "

Good thoughts and hot memories

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

All valid points

Totally different if you're meeting with an established partner as I do.

It's a step away from home and all the responsibilities. A free space to leave your cares at the door and just focus on each other's pleasure.

No risk of an unexpected visitor or interruptions of whatever kind.

No tidy up needed before or after.

Lots of pluses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel meets ? Thoughts "

Great minds (dirty b*stard)

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

If you're a couple you just stay there by yourselves, chilling out, eating Pringles in your pants and having a decent break. It's a win-win

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I think it has been pre covid since I had a hotel meet - tbh I prefer clubs -

I do advertise for hotel meets but no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never meet anyone at hotels anymore .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re alright

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Love hotel meets.

*this post is sponsored by Booking.com*

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Entertaining at home is great too.

*sponsored by AirBnB*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if I was ever minded to meet a new connection at some point, I'd not be telling them my home address. And I'd not be turning up at a random address alone.

You could argue it's a false sense of security in a hotel but there's no great option here really and it's the better of the three imho.

Also, I don't live alone so there's others to consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love hotel meets.

*this post is sponsored by Booking.com*"

Booking dot yeah

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Norman Bates

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich

Hotels can be fun, some better than others, wonder if there is a thread that lists good and discreet hotels ideal for meets.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

They clean the sheets for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them. There is something very sexy about meeting a stranger in a hotel for sex.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I like regular so I find hotels quickly get too expensive and it all fizzles out too quickly. So other than the occasional treat its usually a no for me.

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By *ocky 85Man
over a year ago

London

Actully looking for someone to join me in a hotel tonight!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

You have to know how to vet people before you meet them and then improvise in the situation....or have I just been lucky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fine hotel rooms very erotic. Lots of mirrors and a locked door. Sometimes unique or unusual shower facilities.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Hotel meets ? Thoughts expensive

one night in a cheap hotel in London is 100 or less for two people. so 50 each. I can afford this once a week like a good dinner at a restaurant.

I'm not rich. I make enough to save a little and I don't have kids, a car or a mortgage to support. I don't mind splitting meet/date bills.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"It's the way to go, unless you're looking for something quick and dirty (we sometimes are)"

Quick and dirty is a London hotel. lol! Easier to do dogging in the countryside but there's always someone about in London in public....including criminals and the mentally unstable.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x"

Oh dear...don't know what hotels you've been to.

I've been to many with lovers, committed partners, alone, one nightstands, FB, FWB...didn't catch anything....

Where does the sleaze come in? As long and it's private and clean enough, I'm good.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

All valid points

Totally different if you're meeting with an established partner as I do.

It's a step away from home and all the responsibilities. A free space to leave your cares at the door and just focus on each other's pleasure.

No risk of an unexpected visitor or interruptions of whatever kind.

No tidy up needed before or after.

Lots of pluses

Yup. I'm neurodivergent and I tend to un-mask at home and it's my safe space. I've experienced trauma in the past at home so I don't really let people into my flat and I don't always expect people to let me into their home.

Hotel/club/spa is neutral territory until trust and comfort is built.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

If you're a couple you just stay there by yourselves, chilling out, eating Pringles in your pants and having a decent break. It's a win-win"

Heck I've been alone in hotels many times. Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I think it has been pre covid since I had a hotel meet - tbh I prefer clubs -

I do advertise for hotel meets but no luck "

I literally never look at the advertised meets. Lol!

I guess my inbox is enough work.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Love hotel meets.

*this post is sponsored by Booking.com*"

also sponsored by the Hilton, Radisson, Premier Inn, Travelodge, the Ritz ( if you are posh and rich), Sandals, lastminute.com and hotels.com

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

Which is why a social meet is advisable first.

I love hotel meets. I always get a good hotel with a king size bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

For me personally there is no other perfect substitute.

A clean and neutral environment, a perfect setting, the sensual build-up, anticipation and the long-awaited embodiment of dopamine-filled pleasure and entwining.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Tbh if I was ever minded to meet a new connection at some point, I'd not be telling them my home address. And I'd not be turning up at a random address alone.

You could argue it's a false sense of security in a hotel but there's no great option here really and it's the better of the three imho.

Also, I don't live alone so there's others to consider "

Due to trauma, I don't let anyone non-professional into my home. Only my mum has been once. My sister came for an hour.

Definitely don't go to someone's home without meeting them first for a 2-hour social so I can sus them out first. Women's safety 101. If I go to their home after the social meet, then I give my saftey buddy the address.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Hotel meets are great. Its on neutral ground, and you know what to expect so no surprises. I get all the people saying about first meets but thats why it should be sort out before, and there should never be pressure, and anyone can still say no, whether in a hotel, personal house or club.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I like regular so I find hotels quickly get too expensive and it all fizzles out too quickly. So other than the occasional treat its usually a no for me. "

I'd like regular but people are busy and can't always accomodate so I can afford to split the cost of a hotel once a week.

I'm busy in London too.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"It's the way to go, unless you're looking for something quick and dirty (we sometimes are)

Quick and dirty is a London hotel. lol! Easier to do dogging in the countryside but there's always someone about in London in public....including criminals and the mentally unstable. "

Yep, big fan of dogging in theory, but in practice we aren't very good at it. We enjoy the anticipation though

A hotel meet would be a lot more relaxing

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a hotel meet but I much prefer going to their house so I can leave my toothbrush there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love a hotel meet but I much prefer going to their house so I can leave my toothbrush there "

More like steal hoodies. Be on the lookout guys, gyals, they/them etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to accommodate at mine , as we can drink and sleep over with no commitments next day .

Or visit the lady .

But is hard to gain that trust from new strangers . Cause of them weirdos out there .

So … hotel is a good way out when is needed .

Just very expensive tho . Specially when u have so much on ….

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"I'd love a hotel meet but I much prefer going to their house so I can leave my toothbrush there "

Im with you on that though it's cost me a fortune in toothbrushes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

All valid points

Totally different if you're meeting with an established partner as I do.

It's a step away from home and all the responsibilities. A free space to leave your cares at the door and just focus on each other's pleasure.

No risk of an unexpected visitor or interruptions of whatever kind.

No tidy up needed before or after.

Lots of pluses

Hotel/club/spa is neutral territory until trust and comfort is built."

Yeah that’s the thing . Gain the trust , making a friend .

That’s what I like about socials and happy hang out .

Not just for feeling safe but to know the lady

By the time something gets to happen u actually have it with someone you like

And not just a body of a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone else cleans up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Agree plus imagine paying for a hotel then realising you don't really want to have sex with the person you have just met

Which is why a social meet is advisable first.

I love hotel meets. I always get a good hotel with a king size bed. "

That’s the thing

I prefer a couple

Of socials then accommodate with sleeping over more then welcome .

I think hotels is more appropriate for hook ups or one-offs . Or someone who has kids or family n can’t accommodate.

Then go in hotel . The money we spend in hotel to be invected by 12 pm May just well have a meal or a decent take away , few drinks and a have a good laugh …

I can accommodate, I prefer . Food , space , no rush no pressure x x

Need stop arriving cause I only paied 56,4 pence for t this advert x x

Thank you for reading

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Not for me seems sleazy somehow x

Oh dear...don't know what hotels you've been to.

I've been to many with lovers, committed partners, alone, one nightstands, FB, FWB...didn't catch anything....

Where does the sleaze come in? As long and it's private and clean enough, I'm good."

Just the whole thought of meeting in hotel is the sleaze bit never actually met anyone for sex in a hotel! Either mine or theirs! I can rarely have people over which is why I've found the best fwb I've had in past can accom and are local had a few of these set ups over past few years! Nothing to do with catching anything at all x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

What is there not to enjoy about a hotel meet

Ruby

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't even have to make the bed after.

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