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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not evenly split and I doubt anyone is, so I tend to lean more towards women than men. I enjoy making love to my better half more than anything. It's just she hasn't got a couple of things I also enjoy playing with and at times crave for. It is amazing when she wants to join in, but she is also supportive with me to enjoy cock when she isn't up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? "

Do you mean the forum posts on Fabguys suggest that they prefer men?

If so then surely they are playing to the audience. It's a site for men so they say they want to fuck men.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? "

In 14 years on the forums I've never seen anything to evidence that view, certainly not from bi guys in couples.

For most it's an additional element to their sex lives, not the priority.

A

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

No quite the opposite. I prefer joanne more than any guy. I am more towards women than men. For me sex with men is just an extention of my sexlife just as sex with women is to joanne. I think you will find in most bi mf cpls the guy prefers sex with women over men.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

It’s not true for me. Some days my preference leans towards men, others it leans towards women, but I enjoy sex with both and I don’t prefer either to sex with my partner.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Preferring men vs women and men vs wives/gf, are two different things…

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

I’m greedy both at the same time would be most ideal !!

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? "

No sex with my wife comes first ...any bi play is just a bonus, not a replacement

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Is that a fantasy one though, like when guys cheat on their partners with other guys?

Personally I don't know any bi guys that would choose to do that over a loved partner. Sexual nsa meets sure, it all depends what sexual encounter they fancy at the time.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I list myself as bi, but I'm attracted to feminine people.

So women, mtf TS, convincing TVs, twinks.

Not saying I'd turn down a blowjob from a man, especially when playing with a couple, but not likely to pick a man over a woman.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why?

In 14 years on the forums I've never seen anything to evidence that view, certainly not from bi guys in couples.

For most it's an additional element to their sex lives, not the priority.

A"

It was a forum post over the weekend, a lot of guys saying they struggle to maintain a hard on with their wife/gf but with guys they don’t and it’s because they prefer gay sex

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? "

Do you mean the Forum of the Fabguys? What a silly website…sorry to the Forum Mods by the way…it’s supposed to be a site geared at lots of bi men, yet you’re not allowed to create posts about threesomes with women or even post photos of women on your own profile because it’s considered “nasty material”?! I wouldn’t count on the ‘bi men preferring men’ thing. If you’re bi, you should enjoy both, one way or another

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why?

Do you mean the Forum of the Fabguys? What a silly website…sorry to the Forum Mods by the way…it’s supposed to be a site geared at lots of bi men, yet you’re not allowed to create posts about threesomes with women or even post photos of women on your own profile because it’s considered “nasty material”?! I wouldn’t count on the ‘bi men preferring men’ thing. If you’re bi, you should enjoy both, one way or another "

Yes the forum on fabguys lol we know what you mean about the mere mention of a female lol

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"I'm not evenly split and I doubt anyone is, so I tend to lean more towards women than men. I enjoy making love to my better half more than anything. It's just she hasn't got a couple of things I also enjoy playing with and at times crave for. It is amazing when she wants to join in, but she is also supportive with me to enjoy cock when she isn't up for it."

I’m happy for my Mr to suck cock and receive safe anal as I don’t have a cock to give him that side of pleasure from, he only does with guys what we can’t do together

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If guys had tits

I enjoy bi fun but find a woman’s body to be a source of endless fascination. Sometimes I find myself craving cock so I visit a sauna, other times I just want to get my rocks off quickly and can generally find a willing mouth lol.

Ultimately I prefer sex with a woman but when that’s not readily available then I will find a guy/guys.

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By *amantha ABCTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm not evenly split and I doubt anyone is, so I tend to lean more towards women than men. I enjoy making love to my better half more than anything. It's just she hasn't got a couple of things I also enjoy playing with and at times crave for. It is amazing when she wants to join in, but she is also supportive with me to enjoy cock when she isn't up for it.

I’m happy for my Mr to suck cock and receive safe anal as I don’t have a cock to give him that side of pleasure from, he only does with guys what we can’t do together "

but surely you can buy a strap on to pleasure him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferring men vs women and men vs wives/gf, are two different things…"

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"I'm not evenly split and I doubt anyone is, so I tend to lean more towards women than men. I enjoy making love to my better half more than anything. It's just she hasn't got a couple of things I also enjoy playing with and at times crave for. It is amazing when she wants to join in, but she is also supportive with me to enjoy cock when she isn't up for it.

I’m happy for my Mr to suck cock and receive safe anal as I don’t have a cock to give him that side of pleasure from, he only does with guys what we can’t do together but surely you can buy a strap on to pleasure him"

Do you honestly think a piece of plastic/rubber feels the same as a cock? Lol I know I don’t lol

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Sometimes I prefer guys, sometimes I prefer women and often I prefer someone in-between. I like sex with my GF but the novelty of sex with a new person is nice.

There is no absolute. It varies.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Some guys will be bi romantic as well as bi sexual. I can be romantic with another guy and not indulge in any sex at all. But that’s with my crossdressing being a part of that scenario and my urge to feel more feminine.

Unfortunately not many men are looking for a crossdressing guy as a romantic partner, it’s mainly about sex. Even the TV admirers who message me, are more interested in play rather than dating.

So from my experience a lot of bi guys see it as an extension to sexual play, rather than a possibility to have some type romantic same sex relationship in the future.

However I do note as this site is about casual sex meets, my opinion maybe being skewered by this site and the type of bi guys who are members.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

My Mr has no interest in guys except their cock

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Myself its women for penetrative sex but not adverse to oral with females or males whether it be giving or receiving

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

He likes guys but only when dressed. Love seeing him with a guy and being all girlie, I know it's sex with a guy but hes more like a girl.

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry


"He likes guys but only when dressed. Love seeing him with a guy and being all girlie, I know it's sex with a guy but hes more like a girl. "
. I have to agree with these comments the minute I sleep into something sexy changes me from a normal street guy wanting to feel most women get the pleasure out of … A nice cock . If that makes any sense .. I adore woman’s body but I also enjoy the force of a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pussy wins every time with me

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By *unkmiMan
over a year ago

Stalybridge

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By *unkmiMan
over a year ago

Stalybridge

They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Absolutely not. I much prefer women to men and by far Dumble to any bloke. There's nothing like the touch, smell and taste of a woman.

And don't be worried by that last sentence. I don't plan to turn people in to a coat.

Fumble

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry


"Absolutely not. I much prefer women to men and by far Dumble to any bloke. There's nothing like the touch, smell and taste of a woman.

And don't be worried by that last sentence. I don't plan to turn people in to a coat.

Fumble"

. Huh

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Absolutely not. I much prefer women to men and by far Dumble to any bloke. There's nothing like the touch, smell and taste of a woman.

And don't be worried by that last sentence. I don't plan to turn people in to a coat.

Fumble. Huh "

The last time I saw someone talk about enjoying the taste and smell of a woman they were accused of being Buffalo Bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely prefer women over guys in almost every situation . Im a big fan of anal play and a guys cock feels better than any toy and that's the reason I play with guys . If I found a women who loved to peg I probably wouldn't play with a guy anymore . Well not as often

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? "

not for me. I prefer sex with women. Or preferably both at the same time.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x"

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner "

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. "

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? "

I think it's a simple case of wanting to try something new and different. There is a very good chance that a guy has been having sex with his female partner for years and craves something a little bit different so when the chance to try something new you are gonna want to try it out and play with it until something new again comes along.

I speak as a guy who has been in this situation myself personally.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

I'm on fabguys and read the forums. Bi guys prefer women I'd say from what I read, some only interested in men because the wife isn't interested (or so they say).

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi "

Fiercely disagree.

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

If the woman can use a strap on then I’d probs not even be bi

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"If the woman can use a strap on then I’d probs not even be bi "

A strap on isn’t the same as a real cock, doesn’t get hard in your mouth, doesn’t feel the same penetrating your arse

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree."

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree."

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? "

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. "

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi "

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude."

I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys.

Ps I’m the Mrs lol

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude.

I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys.

Ps I’m the Mrs lol "

Sex is just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferring men vs women and men vs wives/gf, are two different things…"

I 100% agree and thought that was obvious but it doesn't seem so...

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude.

I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys.

Ps I’m the Mrs lol

Sex is just sex.

"

Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"This question is aimed at the bi guys….

Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? "

Not really, it's just exciting to have something different and me fucked by a guy

Prefer women

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude.

I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys.

Ps I’m the Mrs lol

Sex is just sex.

Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship "

As in, there would be a romantic element also?

That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude.

I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys.

Ps I’m the Mrs lol

Sex is just sex.

Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship

As in, there would be a romantic element also?

That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it?"

You are totally misquoting me!

I am talking about a few guys on fabguys saying they don’t want sex with their wives/gf because they prefer man sex, now in my eyes that means they are gay if they only want sex with men.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude.

I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys.

Ps I’m the Mrs lol

Sex is just sex.

Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship

As in, there would be a romantic element also?

That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it?

You are totally misquoting me!

I am talking about a few guys on fabguys saying they don’t want sex with their wives/gf because they prefer man sex, now in my eyes that means they are gay if they only want sex with men."

Oh.

Well I don't know those guys, so I couldn't comment. Maybe they are gay, though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferring men vs women and men vs wives/gf, are two different things…"

Precisely this...

And what about bi men in same sex marriages/partnerships?

If they prefer sex with their spouse/partner to a woman outside of their relationship, are they deemed to be more gay?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner

Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex.

If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi

Fiercely disagree.

So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it?

Your original statement said 'prefers'.

But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker.

I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi

In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences.

Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude.

I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys.

Ps I’m the Mrs lol

Sex is just sex.

Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship

As in, there would be a romantic element also?

That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it?

You are totally misquoting me!

I am talking about a few guys on fabguys saying they don’t want sex with their wives/gf because they prefer man sex, now in my eyes that means they are gay if they only want sex with men.

Oh.

Well I don't know those guys, so I couldn't comment. Maybe they are gay, though!

"

And that was my point all along lol

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x

I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner "

If you’re talking about an actual post I could hazard a guess. Either the guy is genuinely attracted to his wf/gf and he just feels sec with her is too traditional/restrictive as opposed to the allegedly kinkier sex he can have with other men or the guy belongs to an older generation whereby marriage to a woman was more out of social norms rather than genuine feelings/attraction and he’s actually more gay…just my guess though.

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By *ylon lover 47Man
over a year ago

Beccles

It's not that i prefer sex with men but there are things I enjoy e.g. anal, that my wife has never been interested in so I look elsewhere & in my experience it's much easier to arrange no strings sex with men than it is with women.

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