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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? " Do you mean the forum posts on Fabguys suggest that they prefer men? If so then surely they are playing to the audience. It's a site for men so they say they want to fuck men. | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? " In 14 years on the forums I've never seen anything to evidence that view, certainly not from bi guys in couples. For most it's an additional element to their sex lives, not the priority. A | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? " No sex with my wife comes first ...any bi play is just a bonus, not a replacement | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? In 14 years on the forums I've never seen anything to evidence that view, certainly not from bi guys in couples. For most it's an additional element to their sex lives, not the priority. A" It was a forum post over the weekend, a lot of guys saying they struggle to maintain a hard on with their wife/gf but with guys they don’t and it’s because they prefer gay sex | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? " Do you mean the Forum of the Fabguys? What a silly website…sorry to the Forum Mods by the way…it’s supposed to be a site geared at lots of bi men, yet you’re not allowed to create posts about threesomes with women or even post photos of women on your own profile because it’s considered “nasty material”?! I wouldn’t count on the ‘bi men preferring men’ thing. If you’re bi, you should enjoy both, one way or another | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? Do you mean the Forum of the Fabguys? What a silly website…sorry to the Forum Mods by the way…it’s supposed to be a site geared at lots of bi men, yet you’re not allowed to create posts about threesomes with women or even post photos of women on your own profile because it’s considered “nasty material”?! I wouldn’t count on the ‘bi men preferring men’ thing. If you’re bi, you should enjoy both, one way or another " Yes the forum on fabguys lol we know what you mean about the mere mention of a female lol | |||
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"I'm not evenly split and I doubt anyone is, so I tend to lean more towards women than men. I enjoy making love to my better half more than anything. It's just she hasn't got a couple of things I also enjoy playing with and at times crave for. It is amazing when she wants to join in, but she is also supportive with me to enjoy cock when she isn't up for it." I’m happy for my Mr to suck cock and receive safe anal as I don’t have a cock to give him that side of pleasure from, he only does with guys what we can’t do together | |||
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"I'm not evenly split and I doubt anyone is, so I tend to lean more towards women than men. I enjoy making love to my better half more than anything. It's just she hasn't got a couple of things I also enjoy playing with and at times crave for. It is amazing when she wants to join in, but she is also supportive with me to enjoy cock when she isn't up for it. I’m happy for my Mr to suck cock and receive safe anal as I don’t have a cock to give him that side of pleasure from, he only does with guys what we can’t do together " but surely you can buy a strap on to pleasure him | |||
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"Preferring men vs women and men vs wives/gf, are two different things…" | |||
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"I'm not evenly split and I doubt anyone is, so I tend to lean more towards women than men. I enjoy making love to my better half more than anything. It's just she hasn't got a couple of things I also enjoy playing with and at times crave for. It is amazing when she wants to join in, but she is also supportive with me to enjoy cock when she isn't up for it. I’m happy for my Mr to suck cock and receive safe anal as I don’t have a cock to give him that side of pleasure from, he only does with guys what we can’t do together but surely you can buy a strap on to pleasure him" Do you honestly think a piece of plastic/rubber feels the same as a cock? Lol I know I don’t lol | |||
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"He likes guys but only when dressed. Love seeing him with a guy and being all girlie, I know it's sex with a guy but hes more like a girl. " . I have to agree with these comments the minute I sleep into something sexy changes me from a normal street guy wanting to feel most women get the pleasure out of … A nice cock . If that makes any sense .. I adore woman’s body but I also enjoy the force of a man | |||
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"Absolutely not. I much prefer women to men and by far Dumble to any bloke. There's nothing like the touch, smell and taste of a woman. And don't be worried by that last sentence. I don't plan to turn people in to a coat. Fumble" . Huh | |||
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"Absolutely not. I much prefer women to men and by far Dumble to any bloke. There's nothing like the touch, smell and taste of a woman. And don't be worried by that last sentence. I don't plan to turn people in to a coat. Fumble. Huh " The last time I saw someone talk about enjoying the taste and smell of a woman they were accused of being Buffalo Bill. | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? " not for me. I prefer sex with women. Or preferably both at the same time. | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x" I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner " Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. " If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? " I think it's a simple case of wanting to try something new and different. There is a very good chance that a guy has been having sex with his female partner for years and craves something a little bit different so when the chance to try something new you are gonna want to try it out and play with it until something new again comes along. I speak as a guy who has been in this situation myself personally. | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi " Fiercely disagree. | |||
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"If the woman can use a strap on then I’d probs not even be bi " A strap on isn’t the same as a real cock, doesn’t get hard in your mouth, doesn’t feel the same penetrating your arse | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree." | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree." So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? " Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. " I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi " In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude. | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude." I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys. Ps I’m the Mrs lol | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude. I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys. Ps I’m the Mrs lol " Sex is just sex. | |||
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"Preferring men vs women and men vs wives/gf, are two different things…" I 100% agree and thought that was obvious but it doesn't seem so... | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude. I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys. Ps I’m the Mrs lol Sex is just sex. " Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship | |||
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"This question is aimed at the bi guys…. Our Mr is on fabguys as well as here and the forum posts suggests that bi guys prefer to have sex with other guys rather than their wife/gf, would any bi men elaborate on if this is really the case and if so why? " Not really, it's just exciting to have something different and me fucked by a guy Prefer women | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude. I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys. Ps I’m the Mrs lol Sex is just sex. Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship " As in, there would be a romantic element also? That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it? | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude. I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys. Ps I’m the Mrs lol Sex is just sex. Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship As in, there would be a romantic element also? That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it?" You are totally misquoting me! I am talking about a few guys on fabguys saying they don’t want sex with their wives/gf because they prefer man sex, now in my eyes that means they are gay if they only want sex with men. | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude. I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys. Ps I’m the Mrs lol Sex is just sex. Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship As in, there would be a romantic element also? That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it? You are totally misquoting me! I am talking about a few guys on fabguys saying they don’t want sex with their wives/gf because they prefer man sex, now in my eyes that means they are gay if they only want sex with men." Oh. Well I don't know those guys, so I couldn't comment. Maybe they are gay, though! | |||
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"Preferring men vs women and men vs wives/gf, are two different things…" Precisely this... And what about bi men in same sex marriages/partnerships? If they prefer sex with their spouse/partner to a woman outside of their relationship, are they deemed to be more gay? | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner Probably for reasons including, but not exclusive to, sex. If a guy would sooner have sex with a guy than his woman he is gay not bi Fiercely disagree. So If the female in the relationship wants sex, the guy doesn’t want to but wants sex with guys what reason is it? Your original statement said 'prefers'. But even in this switch, sex isn't the only marker. I also stated that some guys had said they can’t get hard with their woman but can with a guy, I agree sex isn’t the main thing in a relationship but if a woman wants sex from her husband/bf and he doesn’t but does from guys then surely he is gay not bi In that particular hypothetical? I'm still seeing a man/woman couple, where both are clearly aware of purely physical preferences. Sounds pretty bi-ish to me, dude. I don’t see how when the guy isn’t interested in sex with his female partner but is with guys. Ps I’m the Mrs lol Sex is just sex. Sex is not just sex between a couple in a relationship As in, there would be a romantic element also? That would indicate not gay, wouldn't it? You are totally misquoting me! I am talking about a few guys on fabguys saying they don’t want sex with their wives/gf because they prefer man sex, now in my eyes that means they are gay if they only want sex with men. Oh. Well I don't know those guys, so I couldn't comment. Maybe they are gay, though! " And that was my point all along lol | |||
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"They satisfy different needs for me. So apples and oranges. Hope that helps x I totally agree with that but when a guy says he prefers sex with guys than sex with his woman (especially when it’s on tap so to speak) it makes you wonder why he is with his partner " If you’re talking about an actual post I could hazard a guess. Either the guy is genuinely attracted to his wf/gf and he just feels sec with her is too traditional/restrictive as opposed to the allegedly kinkier sex he can have with other men or the guy belongs to an older generation whereby marriage to a woman was more out of social norms rather than genuine feelings/attraction and he’s actually more gay…just my guess though. | |||
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