FabSwingers.com forum: What's the secret to a happy relationship

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Morning all. For me never go to bed on an argument .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't get into one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the toilet seat down.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Tea..

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Laughter, Trust, shit hot sex

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Don’t wear matching coats!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Variety do stuff together yes but have things that you enjoy and do on your own, communication, communicate with each other have holidays, travel etc

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Find someone you're happy with.

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

"Laughter, Trust, shit hot sex

This

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By *i_Blonde_BabeWoman
over a year ago

cardiff or just passing through

Trust, honesty, support, tenderness, matching kinks, exploration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Team work , having a similar sense of humour and understanding each others love language

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Smile and nod. Realise that nobody else would have either of you

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

Flirting, compliments, don't start petty arguments. Don't cheat.

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Main ones for me are respect and recognition of their opinions and feelings.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Having enough in common, being open and honest with each other, oodles of trust, respect, understanding and fulfilling each others needs, mutual desire to make it work and stay together through bad times, being happy in each others company without having to say or do anything, last but not least...plenty of sex with others

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Let her fuck other guys if she wants to - that’s what hubbies tell me when I meet them

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By *pen to offers!Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Keep it open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good communication, compromising, making time for each other, date nights & swinging

Mrs C

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Good communication, compromising, making time for each other, date nights & swinging

Mrs C "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My Granddad always used to claim it was saying 'yes dear'. To be fair, apart from a bit of unpleasantness in the 40s with some Germans, my Granddad never had an argument in his life, had loads of friends and no one ever had a bad word to say about him, so he may have been onto something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errmmmmmmm I’ll let you know when I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be on the same wavelength, both parties think the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people tell us never go to bed on an argument, always miss each other goodnight.

We rarely argue tbh, we bicker sometimes but hardly and even if I am asleep first (which is rare) we always kiss goodnight (must admit it's doughnut that always does the kissing, I'm not very good at affection lol), I think I can count on one hand how many times he hasnt kissed me good night.

Before we leave each other we kiss each other (just a peck), even if it's just down to the bins!

I honestly don't know, all I know is our relationship is a happy one (probably because we get to shag other people, that probably is what keeps us fresh and happy!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Don't have one ha ha

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Constant communication. Trust even when your demons are hounding you! Laughter and silliness. X

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Dating each other forever x

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

When the woman does the cooking and the man does the driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention. That is all.

Pay attention to them when they share things

Give attention, all the different kinds, bucket loads... and you will get even more in return

Be attentive to their needs

Notice things, like changes in their lives or in their needs.

Just be present and interested... it shows you care. The lack of attentionshows you don't and neglect will wither a relationship to the stump over time

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Variety do stuff together yes but have things that you enjoy and do on your own, communication, communicate with each other have holidays, travel etc

This ^

plus hot sex.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’m still single at 38, here for the tips

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Have a relationship and be happy together. And treasure every moment of it. If there are things wrong that are your fault, try to put them right. We all age and change, sometimes we cannot be who we used to be, but we can at least be kind and thoughtful and accept if it cannot be what it was, without pushing blame around.

Love each other.

Understand your own failings, try to be better, but don't destroy yourself with agony if you can't be perfect (believe me, this is hard, sometimes I have caused myself so much pain when I felt I let her down, even if it might have been impossible to do better).

Love each other.

Be honest. But maybe not painfully honest - if total honesty cannot possibly improve anything and can only hurt, then try to balance on the knife edge, be the best you can but don't be cruel. Bloody difficult and you always end up failing...

Don't throw your own faults onto the other person.

Love each other.

Forgive and hope to be forgiven.

You don't own the other, the other doesn't own you, you freely give of each other to each other.

If things do fall apart, then separate with love, not with hate. Remember the good times, try to forgive the bad times.

Well, bugger me, this started off as a one liner, ended up as another Polly essay. Maybe just ignore everything except the first line. With love, Polly xxx

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Trust…feeling equal…laughter and having the filthiest sex you can

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By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

Making me laugh

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Have a relationship and be happy together. And treasure every moment of it. If there are things wrong that are your fault, try to put them right. We all age and change, sometimes we cannot be who we used to be, but we can at least be kind and thoughtful and accept if it cannot be what it was, without pushing blame around.

Love each other.

Don't throw your own faults onto the other person.

Love each other.

Forgive and hope to be forgiven.

You don't own the other, the other doesn't own you, you freely give of each other to each other.

If things do fall apart, then separate with love, not with hate. Remember the good times, try to forgive the bad times.

Well, bugger me, this started off as a one liner, ended up as another Polly essay. Maybe just ignore everything except the first line. With love, Polly xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happiness is only designed to be temporary

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Teamwork and don't be a doormat.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Honesty, compromise and a similar sense of humour are all necessary.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Build positive communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Team work , having a similar sense of humour and understanding each others love language

I second this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all. For me never go to bed on an argument .

And always know when to keep my gob shut

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Keep talking to each other .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staying single

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Communication and things in common also doing your own things occasionally

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Morning all. For me never go to bed on an argument .

I remember my grandad saying this on their 60th wedding anniversary. It has always stayed with me.

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Love each other.

Don't throw your own faults onto the other person.

Love each other.

Forgive and hope to be forgiven.

You don't own the other, the other doesn't own you, you freely give of each other to each other.

If things do fall apart, then separate with love, not with hate. Remember the good times, try to forgive the bad times.

Well, bugger me, this started off as a one liner, ended up as another Polly essay. Maybe just ignore everything except the first line. With love, Polly xxx"

this x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Being friends and respecting the other that simple.

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Honesty and respect for each other.

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