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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Some couples only show pictures of the women, that confuses me.

Some couples say they don’t meet alone but the man messages you privately to meet alone

I suppose it takes all sorts

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

[Removed by poster at 16/10/22 08:15:50]

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Seems quite common unfortunately.

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Some couples eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than interested, if anyone wants to play. Let the good times role

Claire

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Fab (or sex in general) warps some peoples' minds.

I guess some think that hope can turn into reality or they just enjoy any ounce of tittilation they can get, if even only in fantasy/trolling.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?"

If that is their kink so be it, there are plenty of people on here where the male is not interested in being involved. If it doesn't fit your criteria then move on. We all use fab differently that is what makes it a wonderful place to be.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

If you don't like the dynamics of a couples (or singles) profile,don't message them.We are all here for our own reasons,not to comply with someone else's.

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By *onnynclaireCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Guilty of only having pictures of her.

Will take pics with me included when a little bit more body confident.

We usually share a face pic with people we’d like to meet though so that they know what they’re letting themselves in for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked once, why no pics of him, and got a snippy reply of 'why would we, sure no one wants to see him'

I thought to myself, what a lovely attitude to have about your partner.

Even if they were being sarcastic and it came across poorly in text (which given their tone before it I very much doubt) I'd never talk down a partner or poke fun in chat like that. You each are the other's champion. No shit talk outside of the two of you

Instant nope and block

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?

If that is their kink so be it, there are plenty of people on here where the male is not interested in being involved. If it doesn't fit your criteria then move on. We all use fab differently that is what makes it a wonderful place to be."

Oh, I took this post to mean couples profiles who claim they play as a couple but it's really just the man.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?

If that is their kink so be it, there are plenty of people on here where the male is not interested in being involved. If it doesn't fit your criteria then move on. We all use fab differently that is what makes it a wonderful place to be."

Isn't it possibly coercion if one male or female is playing and not interested?

Is that a kink now?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?"

Whats your evidence Horace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked once, why no pics of him, and got a snippy reply of 'why would we, sure no one wants to see him'

I thought to myself, what a lovely attitude to have about your partner.

Even if they were being sarcastic and it came across poorly in text (which given their tone before it I very much doubt) I'd never talk down a partner or poke fun in chat like that. You each are the other's champion. No shit talk outside of the two of you

Instant nope and block"

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?"

Some people try things in order to please a partner

Some potentially are pushed into it

Some agree hoping it grows and decreases their shyness

Not saying any are correct or the approach best for a swinging site but it's their lives...

You do you

Meet the people you connect/feel comfortable with

Leave them to do their own thing

Move on

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?

If that is their kink so be it, there are plenty of people on here where the male is not interested in being involved. If it doesn't fit your criteria then move on. We all use fab differently that is what makes it a wonderful place to be.

Isn't it possibly coercion if one male or female is playing and not interested?

Is that a kink now?"

That is a possibility and we have met a few couples like that but it quickly becomes apparent during the social part of the meet that one of them is only there due to some pressure from their partner and at that point we make our excuses and leave.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?

If that is their kink so be it, there are plenty of people on here where the male is not interested in being involved. If it doesn't fit your criteria then move on. We all use fab differently that is what makes it a wonderful place to be.

Oh, I took this post to mean couples profiles who claim they play as a couple but it's really just the man."

To us that is just a fake profile and their are plenty of them on Fab. If we have any doubts about about a couple during the email exchanahe then we make clear that if we meet we expect all to turn up and all to play otherwise we will just walk way.

It is the same as when you arrange a meet with a couple and only the male turns up claiming babysitter issues etc etc. Makes no difference to us the meet is over before it began and we will and have left at that point.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some couples are playing when the man isn't interested too.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think there's many fab couples that are actually just a man using an unsuspecting woman's pics

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Some people on here are playing when the the fem is not interested in playing, WTF?

If that is their kink so be it, there are plenty of people on here where the male is not interested in being involved. If it doesn't fit your criteria then move on. We all use fab differently that is what makes it a wonderful place to be.

Isn't it possibly coercion if one male or female is playing and not interested?

Is that a kink now?

That is a possibility and we have met a few couples like that but it quickly becomes apparent during the social part of the meet that one of them is only there due to some pressure from their partner and at that point we make our excuses and leave."

Can relate to your point about it being obvious and off-putting when one partner in our experience the female is not interested..

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