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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s people’s views/thoughts on age limits for meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet ppl within my age limit but it is extremely difficult to find women who are this age x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's just people's preferences, I don't want to sleep with people young enough to be my kids or old enough to me my mum.

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My age limits are there for a reason and I don't go outside them regardless of who asks. If others don't think the limits apply to them that's not my problem.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like some people within my age limits and few who aren't. For single men it's obviously better to just target those who have your age as their preferences

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"My age limits are there for a reason and I don't go outside them regardless of who asks. If others don't think the limits apply to them that's not my problem. "

Haha have you just changed your preferred age range purely for the bants of this group .. that's dedication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them interesting as I'm sure in a club setting people don't ask age. The important thing is the attraction.

Therefore mine are fairly wide and not really a hard rule

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"My age limits are there for a reason and I don't go outside them regardless of who asks. If others don't think the limits apply to them that's not my problem.

Haha have you just changed your preferred age range purely for the bants of this group .. that's dedication "

Why would I do that?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"My age limits are there for a reason and I don't go outside them regardless of who asks. If others don't think the limits apply to them that's not my problem.

Haha have you just changed your preferred age range purely for the bants of this group .. that's dedication

Why would I do that? "

Didn't mean to reply to your comment was that bloke above you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age limits mean nothing to me, I enjoy good conversation and people with common sense which is highly important to me prior to a meet.

You can have a switched on educated person with common sense at any age just the same as you can have an idiot at any age.

Young or old, age is just a number, I look for maturity in a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure. People have age limits. Like buying alcohol, …..

you need to look a certain age, but legally you can be a few years younger but need to ask you for ID.

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

If they're younger than 18 or older than 99 it's a hard no for me

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Sure. People have age limits. Like buying alcohol, …..

you need to look a certain age, but legally you can be a few years younger but need to ask you for ID. "

Hahaha what the hell ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure. People have age limits. Like buying alcohol, …..

you need to look a certain age, but legally you can be a few years younger but need to ask you for ID.

Hahaha what the hell ?"

that reads funnier and stranger than I expected. Not bad for being half awake.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Sure. People have age limits. Like buying alcohol, …..

you need to look a certain age, but legally you can be a few years younger but need to ask you for ID.

Hahaha what the hell ?

that reads funnier and stranger than I expected. Not bad for being half awake. "

It was like the ramblings of a mad man hahaha

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

They’re guidelines, something to work to

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I like older women and younger

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i enjoy chatting and having banter with younger and older,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure. People have age limits. Like buying alcohol, …..

you need to look a certain age, but legally you can be a few years younger but need to ask you for ID.

Hahaha what the hell ?

that reads funnier and stranger than I expected. Not bad for being half awake.

It was like the ramblings of a mad man hahaha "

‘Like’ ramblings!!! Next week may well be the ACTUAL ramblings of a madman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s people’s views/thoughts on age limits for meets?

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What are your views on age limits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My views it are people's bodies aren't equal opportunities, if someone wants to have an age limit that's up to them

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Just re read our profile anyone know how to remove the word only from an age preference?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I tend to meet geriatric men as they can’t run away. That said a fair few men on here fib about their age (the devils!) so I set my limits low to counterbalance that.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i only meet people same age as me 99

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"What’s people’s views/thoughts on age limits for meets?

"

Tony- no limits as long as there's attraction.

Cherry - over 35's only as she couldn't imagine sex with someone younger than her children (she has broken that rule in clubs on occasion if unaware of their age )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every now and then I get a message from someone who has 40 something on their profile and a few messages in, says - ‘oh btw, I’m 32, I’m sure it doesn’t matter but I thought I’d say’. I find it a real pain in the arse.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Just re read our profile anyone know how to remove the word only from an age preference?"

You can't remove the word "only", it is on everyone's profile . You could either extend your age limit or put a comment in your profile regarding it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My views it are people's bodies aren't equal opportunities, if someone wants to have an age limit that's up to them "

This.

Personally, my lower age limit isn't negotiable, while the upper end has a lot more variability, depending on chemistry and attraction.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What’s people’s views/thoughts on age limits for meets?

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they are filters, barriers, they can't be traversed just move to the next one even if you are just one year over but look and feel 15 years younger lol they are like a fortress of protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A boundary that should be respected.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"What’s people’s views/thoughts on age limits for meets?

"

It’s down to true person’s preference so it’s up to them honestly I’ve had a few meets that I was under their lower limit but that because I didn’t throw a wobbly about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not and go over or under but then the part of my head goes "but what if", few years either side I'll let slide but not anything more than 5.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

They're honestly just guidelines, not hard and fast rules for us. As others have said, age doesn't always reflect in how someone acts!

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Have to respect someone else’s desires. Personally, I just don’t want younger than my own children, but other than that, age is really nothing more than a number. Some very mature young people, and immature older people. As for looks and body, again, age is not always an indication of what you’ll find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s people’s views/thoughts on age limits for meets?

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No no

No-no no no

No-no no no

No . No there’s no limits

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

There will be a massive percentage of people on here that love age play anyway

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By *WINGStars23Couple
over a year ago

Northwest UK

We are an age gapped couple, I'm 22 and HM is 55. His daughter is the same age as myself and we are good friends.

We get a lot if messages on fab saying love the age gap, from women and couples of different age groups, which says to us that people are more open minded than they 7sed to be. And we have only had one comment in the three years of being together, and that was from an estate agent who asked are you looking to buy for yourself or your dad? When I said he's my partner not my dad, the estate agent said... "How do I find a younger woman?"

We don't think age matters. If you are aged 18-99 and the law says its legal to be here and you have personally chosen (and not pressured) to come to a place like fab to enhance your sexual desires and experiences, and genuinely here to play and not waste other poeoles time. Then play away and have lots of good times.

After all aren't we as swingers, sharing ourselves with others supposed to be more open minded?

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I find this really complicated. Some people look great for their age at 60, others look like an old boot. If we open our filters for that we always get overloaded with older men trying their luck regardless of us not having men in our "looking for" criteria so we keep it 10 years lower. We've only just recently raised it to that too, as had over 45s restricted but as we're getting older we thought we'd move the goalposts a bit.

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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After all aren't we as swingers, sharing ourselves with others supposed to be more open minded?"

I may be narrow minded

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I walk into a pub/club/shop/gym......

A very attractive man catches my eye. We talk for a while. I take a liking to him.

Our paths cross once or twice and eventually we go for a coffee..... or two ... arrange a night out/in ..... hit it off ..... have sex .......

At what point should I have asked his age ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No comments like ........

When his bus pass stuck in your ribs.....

Or when his mum phoned up to see where he was...

Or when his dummy fell out of his pocket...

I said man .....adult man

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By *nicorn4uWoman
over a year ago

telford


"There will be a massive percentage of people on here that love age play anyway "

You looking for a mummy??

Lol

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We have age limit between 45 yo 60.

We will, if we like the look meet outside the limit, but the main reason for it is to but off the guys in there early 20's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A boundary that should be respected. "

I've had guys message me where I'm over their age range , when I've said to them about it, they say age is just a number, yes it is, but if you've (them) got age range set at a limit then that's what you're interested in, Plus it works the other way, I've got a limit set, if I was looking outside of that then I would change it

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I only meet ppl within my age limit but it is extremely difficult to find women who are this age x "

Right with you on that one - I've tried shifting by 1 year in case I'm missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure. People have age limits. Like buying alcohol, …..

you need to look a certain age, but legally you can be a few years younger but need to ask you for ID.

Hahaha what the hell ?"

I did actually tell a young man aformer FWB was chatting to in regards to a MFMmeet....that they had to show ID to prove they were over 18...x

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a great filter to have isn't it?

Saves so many unwanted messages

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I find some people attractive.

I find some people a lot less attractive.

It’s never based on their age.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are an age gapped couple, I'm 22 and HM is 55. His daughter is the same age as myself and we are good friends.

We get a lot if messages on fab saying love the age gap, from women and couples of different age groups, which says to us that people are more open minded than they 7sed to be. And we have only had one comment in the three years of being together, and that was from an estate agent who asked are you looking to buy for yourself or your dad? When I said he's my partner not my dad, the estate agent said... "How do I find a younger woman?"

We don't think age matters. If you are aged 18-99 and the law says its legal to be here and you have personally chosen (and not pressured) to come to a place like fab to enhance your sexual desires and experiences, and genuinely here to play and not waste other poeoles time. Then play away and have lots of good times.

After all aren't we as swingers, sharing ourselves with others supposed to be more open minded?"

If you are Swingers why won't you meet 71 year olds?

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I have on occasion home outside my age limits of I got in well with the person

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I only meet ppl within my age limit but it is extremely difficult to find women who are this age x "

This made me chuckle

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I tend to meet geriatric men as they can’t run away. That said a fair few men on here fib about their age (the devils!) so I set my limits low to counterbalance that.

"

I fib about mine, I’m actually 78. FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve very occasionally gone outside of my age limits but only after careful vetting to check I don’t know them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like woman as old as yodas grandma they dont run away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walk into a pub/club/shop/gym......

A very attractive man catches my eye. We talk for a while. I take a liking to him.

Our paths cross once or twice and eventually we go for a coffee..... or two ... arrange a night out/in ..... hit it off ..... have sex .......

At what point should I have asked his age ?

"

Probably when you’re having coffee if you feel he looks like he might be close to below or above your usual age limits. You could just see if it comes up naturally in conversation. If not then probably pillow talk after you’ve had sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like woman as old as yodas grandma they dont run away "

Hi

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"It's just people's preferences, I don't want to sleep with people young enough to be my kids or old enough to me my mum.

Mrs "
Yup...im the same way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keanu Reeves is older than he looks so I sure wouldn't want to miss out on him for the sake of a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A boundary that should be respected.

I've had guys message me where I'm over their age range , when I've said to them about it, they say age is just a number, yes it is, but if you've (them) got age range set at a limit then that's what you're interested in, Plus it works the other way, I've got a limit set, if I was looking outside of that then I would change it"

I hear what you’re saying and agree mostly. But I think on here, age limits are not always fixed. I’ve said on my profile when I was actively looking for people ‘my upper age limit is flexible but my lower limit is not’. I just set it to probably the oldest age that someone has shown an interest in me. Women have messaged me and I’m clearly below their age limits but I don’t mind that if I feel like they’re genuinely interested in me. I understand that people can surprise you. You might not be generally interested in a 25 year old because they’re generally not interested in similar things to you but one or two might be and so you message them? Idk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keanu Reeves is older than he looks so I sure wouldn't want to miss out on him for the sake of a number. "

Good point ! He doesn’t age at all !

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I tend to meet geriatric men as they can’t run away. That said a fair few men on here fib about their age (the devils!) so I set my limits low to counterbalance that.

I fib about mine, I’m actually 78. FAF?"

Well I would…..but…..I’m above your age limit!!

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Still within my range

Mine are just another filter... I can choose to go outside of if I find the person interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just people's preferences, I don't want to sleep with people young enough to be my kids or old enough to me my mum.

Mrs "

Yeah that

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Age isn't much of a factor with us

We care more about other things like personality, intelligence, cleanliness, politeness, and so on...

Just prefer more mature meets than younger ones is all, they seem to work better for us somehow.

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

playa del ingles

It was bad enough at 51, it's worse at 56

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they're a good thing. 35 and under for me which is still 12 years older than i am. I think being with anyone old enough to be my parent would be a bit awkward for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine aren’t strictly set in stone, a few years either side is fine. Depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age limits are for this site. I meet older people at clubs and events and from the forums (shock horror)

If my filters are open and anyone can message its like opening the water gate for gross messages. My age filters limit the "ick" I have to wade through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s people’s views/thoughts on age limits for meets?

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It's a preference, you can't judge people for what or whom they're attracted to. Some are into older, some are into younger. You can't be everyone's cup of tea, regardless of age limits. Fab their pics and move on

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

18 to 99 is on the site, but clubs only allow from 21, so even though I leave the door open for messaging it's unlikely I will actually meet anyone aged under 21

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

My preference mid thirties to 60ish but no hard limits really within the 18 to 99 I always respect everyone's preferences on here, be rude not to but seems odd to say yes to a 49 year old 5 days before their birthday then in a week it's a definate hard no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just people's preferences, I don't want to sleep with people young enough to be my kids or old enough to me my mum.

Mrs "

me neither, it just seems wrong..

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

My preference mid thirties to 60ish but no hard limits really within the 18 to 99 I always respect everyone's preferences on here, be rude not to but seems odd to say yes to a 49 year old 5 days before their birthday then in a week it's a definate hard no.

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