FabSwingers.com forum: Double standards

By *oppabear82 OP Man
over a year ago

near you

Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not wrong, it's just your preference......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not wrong if that’s your preference then that’s ok

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anyone can ask for anything they want (within site rules)

Anyone can feel about that however they want

Anyone can react to that any way they want (within site rules).

No double standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

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why is it wrong for a man to ask for a slim lady ? Who says it’s wrong ?

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By *illanelleWoman
over a year ago

Ryde, Isle of Wight

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Personally I don't think either is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though."

This

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Who said it’s wrong? You want to meet who you want to meet. End of. Plenty of people and reasons I don’t want to meet some. I don’t feel the need to slap it all over my profile though or give any reasons why.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Just out of interest who says one is OK and the other isn't?

I wouldn't have a problem with someone saying either of those things.

Why would anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

It's not ok

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Just out of interest who says one is OK and the other isn't?

I wouldn't have a problem with someone saying either of those things.

Why would anyone?

No idea. They do though.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Who told you that?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Plenty of guys say they prefer BBW, so it's no different. Each to their own.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I only want to meet black men with big cocks it doesn't make me a racist.

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By *oppabear82 OP Man
over a year ago

near you

Understand its preferance and everyone likes what they like

But posted this to my status a few days ago and got some very harsh messages.

just opened my eyes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Understand its preferance and everyone likes what they like

But posted this to my status a few days ago and got some very harsh messages.

just opened my eyes. "

Ignore them. Nowt better to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the internet....stop liking things I don't like!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s wrong with women younger than 30 or over 70.

How dare you?

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By *heDeliveryManMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's no problem for me, I prefer a little cushion for the pushin.

they're generally a much better personality too.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

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because women rule here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a bit shady pushing peoples buttons here around race etc just because you claim to have gotten a few messages.

I call bs

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

How dare people put on their profile what they want and don’t want shocking I tell you shocking

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By *oppabear82 OP Man
over a year ago

near you

"I think it's a bit shady pushing peoples buttons here around race etc just because you claim to have gotten a few messages.

I call bs"

Not pushing buttons. Just asking a question. As for race, just something iv seen a number of times. And I can guarantee others have too just noone mentions it.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"I think it's a bit shady pushing peoples buttons here around race etc just because you claim to have gotten a few messages.

I call bs

Not pushing buttons. Just asking a question. As for race, just something iv seen a number of times. And I can guarantee others have too just noone mentions it. "
in regards to racism I’ve not a problem with people stating black men only what irritates me is when they insert the usual stereotypical nonsense in reference to their penis size I find it tacky

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By *oppabear82 OP Man
over a year ago

near you

I dont have any problem with it. None at all.

Was only a question and all hell has broken loose.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"I dont have any problem with it. None at all.

Was only a question and all hell has broken loose. "

be prepared for it to get worse when the usual suspects turn up

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think it's a bit shady pushing peoples buttons here around race etc just because you claim to have gotten a few messages.

I call bs

Not pushing buttons. Just asking a question. As for race, just something iv seen a number of times. And I can guarantee others have too just noone mentions it. in regards to racism I’ve not a problem with people stating black men only what irritates me is when they insert the usual stereotypical nonsense in reference to their penis size I find it tacky "

I don’t like to see no blacks/Asians etc. I’d block them. Just my personal opinion. I don’t like it and they wouldn’t be my type of person. Slim only and bbw only, tall/short/beards/no beards etc I don’t have an issue with at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have any problem with it. None at all.

Was only a question and all hell has broken loose. "

Whoops... don't act surprised

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Says who?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Understand its preferance and everyone likes what they like

But posted this to my status a few days ago and got some very harsh messages.

just opened my eyes. "

What exactly did your status day?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

It’s still deemed acceptable to be fattist though."

This

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I dont have any problem with it. None at all.

Was only a question and all hell has broken loose. "

Where

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I dont have any problem with it. None at all.

Was only a question and all hell has broken loose. "

This... Isn't exactly all hell breaking loose

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Some people just got a bee in their bonnet. I had men have a go at me for being a size queen. It's my choice. Noone elses. So ignore the haters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god this again…. Groundhog Day where is bill Murray,? My poor eyes

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

[Removed by poster at 15/10/22 22:54:31]

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Much easier to use self filters this really gets their backup.

Remember being a swinger does not mean you will fuck anybody or anything at any time.

Personally choice is key.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Unpleasant jibes at certain types of people is nasty, likely to be offensive and potentially upsetting. And avoidable, of course.

Stating your interest in selected preferences, with just that interest expressed, isn't a slur or denigrating anyone. Though some services do restrict expressions of such interest but I think Fab does well in its acceptance of it. It's up to us as users to keep things respectful to everyone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

I've never seen this situation in 15 years here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its perfectly fine to have a preference. Some types of people will always take offence, they have a complex, they just cant help themselves! If it doesnt offend them personally, theyll take offence on someone elses behalf. Poor things

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I wrote a long response then realised OP was a troll and the rule is that you should not feed trolls. Particularly if they have issues with race.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Never heard anyone on here say either were wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though."

It's not fattest lol

People have preferences

If people only want meet slimmer partners then thats upto them

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though."

Accuracy level 100000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a bit shady pushing peoples buttons here around race etc just because you claim to have gotten a few messages.

I call bs"

100% cause the 2 are not comparable

Yet whenever the topic is preference there are always certain people who play the 'race card'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though.

It's not fattest lol

People have preferences

If people only want meet slimmer partners then thats upto them"

I'm 'huge', but have no quarms if someone is a different skin tone to me... That's just odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though.

It's not fattest lol

People have preferences

If people only want meet slimmer partners then thats upto them"

Absolutely! Its no different to those who seek BBW etc..no need to get ya panties in a bunch if you're not what they're looking for people like what they like. Keep it moving, there's someone for everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though.

It's not fattest lol

People have preferences

If people only want meet slimmer partners then thats upto them

Exactly

As long as people are respectful with their preferences

It shouldn't be an issue

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

What a load of shite. Both aren't comparable and no one says one is right and the other is wrong.

People have preferences some know how to state them without being insulting to others. Usually it's when it's stated in a way to get a reaction they then act shocked when they do get one.

If people concentrated on what they are looking for and not on what others are looking for especially when they don't fit in with it ,they may not get so upset.I look at profiles and if I don't fit the criteria of what the person wants I just move on.Its pretty simple to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said it’s wrong?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I wrote a long response then realised OP was a troll and the rule is that you should not feed trolls. Particularly if they have issues with race."

Why is he a troll?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Understand its preferance and everyone likes what they like

But posted this to my status a few days ago and got some very harsh messages.

just opened my eyes. "

Harsh messages from who?

White men with small cocks or fat women?

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"Its perfectly fine to have a preference. Some types of people will always take offence, they have a complex, they just cant help themselves! If it doesnt offend them personally, theyll take offence on someone elses behalf. Poor things

I think society has enabled this type of behaviour tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't wrong.

Sometimes it's distasteful how its stated on profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s nothing wrong with one having their own preferences. We’re all entitled to “choice”, is a basic human right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't wrong.

Sometimes it's distasteful how its stated on profiles "

It's the 'how' it's stated that puts me off. People can choose whoever they do or don't want to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s nothing wrong with one having their own preferences. We’re all entitled to “choice”, is a basic human right."

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Who is telling you it's wrong

The site isn't

Because we're all free to have our own preferences

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Meet whomever you like - its your preference and your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Doesn't bother me if men say they want the opposite to me, I like men with hair, says on my profile, if men said they like their woman with normal hair, wouldn't bother me. We like what we like and should be able to state what we like.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Because black lives matter

In all honesty I don't see the correlation

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

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I think the inference is that you know what you want but you don't have to say it out loud eg in your profile write up, I personally don't give a damn but I try and avoid needless conflict

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

It’s fab , common sense / logic are not permitted by most

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I genuinely didn't know that fattist was a thing. I've heard of fat shaming, are they the same thing?

My opinion on this is if one man can have a preference for bbw why can't others state that they are not attracted to BBWs.

Perhaps it's how it's written which can offend but preferences are just preferences. We can't all like the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

You can not be serious

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

You can not be serious"
he’s very serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung"

That's a no on the 'new material' then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh"

So you laugh at anyone below 8 inches? What a horrible person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh

So you laugh at anyone below 8 inches? What a horrible person"

No, cammo, the exchange is amusing. I’m aware of the back story.

Is this your kink? Going on about how disadvantaged you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh

So you laugh at anyone below 8 inches? What a horrible person

No, cammo, the exchange is amusing. I’m aware of the back story.

Is this your kink? Going on about how disadvantaged you are?"

No, it's not a kink. I actually just fucking hate my tiny dick. And I hate the obvious disadvantage it gives me

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh

So you laugh at anyone below 8 inches? What a horrible person

No, cammo, the exchange is amusing. I’m aware of the back story.

Is this your kink? Going on about how disadvantaged you are?

No, it's not a kink. I actually just fucking hate my tiny dick. And I hate the obvious disadvantage it gives me "

Are you sure it's not all in your mind?

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

"It's no problem for me, I prefer a little cushion for the pushin.

they're generally a much better personality too. "

I’d Duck now if I were you.!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you sure it's not all in your mind?"

No, it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh

So you laugh at anyone below 8 inches? What a horrible person

No, cammo, the exchange is amusing. I’m aware of the back story.

Is this your kink? Going on about how disadvantaged you are?

No, it's not a kink. I actually just fucking hate my tiny dick. And I hate the obvious disadvantage it gives me "
I suspect this will go unheard but I would seriously consider seeking some help here my friend. Your posts smack of body dysmorphia. Especially as bringing that energy into any interaction is going to be a bigger disadvantage than the one you perceive you have ATM. And that would be true even if you had a micropenis.

Remember in the Inbetweeners when Simon punched himself in the dick coz he couldn't get it up. And how much that freaked tha gal out. That's kinda where you are my friend.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"Are you sure it's not all in your mind?

No, it's not."

There's obviously some sort of back story that we are not aware of... but dick size is generally more important to guys than girls (not all the time I'm sure).

I don't have an 8" cock (unless it counts when I put it in twice) but we have a good sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending you virtual love cammo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you sure it's not all in your mind?

No, it's not.

There's obviously some sort of back story that we are not aware of... but dick size is generally more important to guys than girls (not all the time I'm sure).

I don't have an 8" cock (unless it counts when I put it in twice) but we have a good sex life.

Mr"

He idolises BigHarold to a concerning degree, persistently posts sermons on dick size and likes to tell women they are wrong and that he knows better what women want

There is no point engaging or trying to counsel him as he is like teflon and clings to his ideas fanatically.

He has been told to seek help every time he posts.

At this point, I'm wondering if he actually is as big as BigHarold and just trolling for funsies

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Dude, if you're dealing with women you've just got to accept that there are going to be double standards. My Dad taught me that when I was like thirteen. You can point them out, you can get a woman to admit to having them, even get her to admit that it's unfair, but get her to abandon them? Good luck with that!

But having said all of that, to address your particular question - it's not wrong to have preferences. Even ones based on race. Just be very careful how you express them is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" He has been told to seek help every time he posts.

Why would I need to seek help for something that is accurate and true?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Understand its preferance and everyone likes what they like

But posted this to my status a few days ago and got some very harsh messages.

just opened my eyes. "

You get messages?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh

So you laugh at anyone below 8 inches? What a horrible person

No, cammo, the exchange is amusing. I’m aware of the back story.

Is this your kink? Going on about how disadvantaged you are?

No, it's not a kink. I actually just fucking hate my tiny dick. And I hate the obvious disadvantage it gives me "

That's surely a you problem though because not every woman craves a guy over 8".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" He has been told to seek help every time he posts.

Why would I need to seek help for something that is accurate and true?"

To gain a healthy perspective on your obssession with your penis, to learn to live with your 'truth' whatever it may actually be and to be a happier person.

For starters

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

" He has been told to seek help every time he posts.

Why would I need to seek help for something that is accurate and true?"

The only thing that is accurate and true is your hatred of your own body. Don't project that on to all women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" He has been told to seek help every time he posts.

Why would I need to seek help for something that is accurate and true?"
to help understand the nature of truth ?

"This is my truth, tell me yours"

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

The hell with preferences...you all need to find me attractive...ALL OF YOU!!!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Double standards are just part of life it is what it is

It's not wrong though having preferences, we like what we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Aha there he is

Better late than never

Got any new material yet?

Just addressing OP. There's a big difference between superficial preferences and women being able to get pleasure from a penis - hence why it's a very common "preference" of women that men are hung

That's a no on the 'new material' then

This really has made me laugh

So you laugh at anyone below 8 inches? What a horrible person

No, cammo, the exchange is amusing. I’m aware of the back story.

Is this your kink? Going on about how disadvantaged you are?

No, it's not a kink. I actually just fucking hate my tiny dick. And I hate the obvious disadvantage it gives me "

There is nothing wrong with tiny dicks, I had a regular playmate with a very small dick. Stop worrying about it..

The average size of a cock is lower than 8"....I myself do not like big dicks... smaller is preferable. Plus I find a small one is better to suck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hell with preferences...you all need to find me attractive...ALL OF YOU!!!"
I like my men with two left feet tho ... Sorry

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Who said it's wrong, everyone's entitled to their preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is nothing wrong with tiny dicks

If only there were some more women like you. The wonderful 1%

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

There's plenty that don't think either is appropriate

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"The hell with preferences...you all need to find me attractive...ALL OF YOU!!!I like my men with two left feet tho ... Sorry

I said all of you!!! No exception!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is nothing wrong with tiny dicks

If only there were some more women like you. The wonderful 1%

What you don't grasp is that, taking all of our individual likes/ dislikes /turn-ons and nopes, we're all looking for the Wonderful 1%

Be grateful for what you DO have and make peace with the rest

Above all, stop telling other people they don't know what they like and enjoy

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We all have our preferences, just some are much blunter with how they describe theirs.

Personally I prefer average sized dicks, they don't hurt my cervix, they're much more fun to suck and I can bounce around on them to my heart content. Skin colour is irrelevant, personality matters much more.

Some stipulations/requirements people have are down to past experiences though.

It is what it is.

D x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Its not. Both types of discriminatory behaviour and should be expunged from this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Be grateful for what you DO have"

You haven't seen it - you'd hate it as well if you saw it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Be grateful for what you DO have

You haven't seen it - you'd hate it as well if you saw it"

^He's right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Be grateful for what you DO have

You haven't seen it - you'd hate it as well if you saw it"

There you go again thinking and deciding for other people

Need to break that habit

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

" Be grateful for what you DO have

You haven't seen it - you'd hate it as well if you saw it

There you go again thinking and deciding for other people

Need to break that habit"

I've seen it, it looked like a normal sized willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though."

Racist?

no it’s not… racism is the belief that people of some races are inferior to others.

It’s not racist to want to meet a black man/woman.

It’s not “fattest” (is that even a word?) to want to meet a slim person or a fat one. It’s all to do with preferences

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

"It's no problem for me, I prefer a little cushion for the pushin.

they're generally a much better personality too.

I’d Duck now if I were you.!!!!!!! "

That’s a whole new can of worms to open

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By *omilikeCouple
over a year ago

Round our Way!

Not a problem but it is best not to have expectations as anything can happen in a swingers club!!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Speaking for all women are you? 8 inches would bash my cervix which I can say with certainty isn’t pleasure!

You do know the g spot is literally an inch or two inside the vagina?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Speaking for all women are you? 8 inches would bash my cervix which I can say with certainty isn’t pleasure!

You do know the g spot is literally an inch or two inside the vagina? "

Damn, I better get down the enlargement clinic with cammo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once again this guy has derailed a conversation that has nothing to do with penis size and made it all about his penis

Does he ever rest?

Jheez3

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Ones Fattist and the other is Racist.

Its still deemed acceptable to be fattist though."

It's not acceptable to me to be fatist, or racist.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

You do know the g spot is literally an inch or two inside the vagina? "

Is it? All this time we've been trying to rearrange people's guts for no reason!

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

It’s peoples preferences enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a bit shady pushing peoples buttons here around race etc just because you claim to have gotten a few messages.

I call bs"

Bs is bi sexual ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Speaking for all women are you? 8 inches would bash my cervix which I can say with certainty isn’t pleasure!

You do know the g spot is literally an inch or two inside the vagina?

Damn, I better get down the enlargement clinic with cammo.

Treat yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Is ok because the woman is our Queen and she is the one who chooses who does the job .

They say that cause is what they want . End off .

U don’t like it ? Me neither . So what ?

Would u have sex with a white man with an average or small penis ? Well …they wouldn’t .

Me neither .

Not taking parts but anything with more then 2 legs for me is a no .

A man call for slims isn’t wrong either .

Why would it be ?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"Once again this guy has derailed a conversation that has nothing to do with penis size and made it all about his penis

Does he ever rest?

Jheez3"

Was thinking that myself I was trying get to how his comment related to the o.p's of not realising people are allowed to have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stating a preference is not wrong, how you state that preference can be wrong.

“I prefer coffee to tea or I will only drink coffee”, these are preferences, stated clearly for anyone who wants to get me a drink. They are not offensive statements.

“Tea sucks donkey dick or tea is an abomination and waste of boiling water” these are derogatory statements designed to be offensive and create a ruckus.

That also brings a whole new debate about the difference between being offensive and being offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

They're totally different to be fair.

Besides, race aside, women need a cock to be a minimum of 8 inches to get any kind of pleasure from it.

Which is unfortunate for the likes of me

Speaking for all women are you? 8 inches would bash my cervix which I can say with certainty isn’t pleasure!

You do know the g spot is literally an inch or two inside the vagina? "

Men usually can't even find the clit so.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone can ask for anything they want (within site rules)

Anyone can feel about that however they want

Anyone can react to that any way they want (within site rules).

No double standard."

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Personally I don't think either is right

I can’t remember we what this post is about due to you being so dam pretty!

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I was enjoying this post until.it became all about one member and their insecurities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

Personally I don't think either is right

I can’t remember we what this post is about due to you being so dam pretty! "

smooth !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, I'm looking for skinny white men and I get called racist. Sometimes ya just can't win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey, I'm looking for skinny white men and I get called racist. Sometimes ya just can't win. "

I don’t think u racist at all . call for white skinny man any time you like

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not wrong it’s just people forcing their insecurities on to you!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Sharing your bed is a gift.

Filtering who gets it is a right.

Yes, rejection sucks.

Black lives may matter; but that's no guarantee of a shag AND nor should it be.

Other ethnicities/differences are available.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Hey, I'm looking for skinny white men and I get called racist. Sometimes ya just can't win. "

Hello!

You are not racist, just have good taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question.

Why is it ok for a woman to say they will only meet Black men with big cocks. But a man saying he wants to meet a slim woman is wrong?

"
. I’m bald and totally not offended by this statement

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Hey, I'm looking for skinny white men and I get called racist. Sometimes ya just can't win. "

Lol not enough women here looking for that category in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello!

What’s going on in here then

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Hello!

What’s going on in here then

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