FabSwingers.com forum: To show or not to show

By *onkeyandBones OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

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"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?"

We always read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display mine, but do like to read others

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?"

We show a few selected ones.

Nothing graphic. Nothing OTT. Mostly social.

All we care about when looking at other people's veris is that they exist really. We don't want to see a blow by blow account of a meet, gory details, bragging or arse kissing, lamp post pissing or anything other than confirmation someone is real, turns up, is pleasant and nit an axe murderer.

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By *onkeyandBones OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Follow your heart

Now reading your profile, sounds like you don't mean that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do some people don’t

Truth be told I have take 0 stock in veris from around 2016

got burned badly from a guy

Who has over 300 showing veris

Ment to be knowing for hosting party’s and such

And also has glowing vers from most clubs around the uk

All these glowing veris didn’t stop him form standing me up at all

On the flip side I have meet a guy with no veris and he turned up and done exactly what was sed

From that point on I have seen veris as pontless

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I only show a few social ones but yeah I always look at veris. I’m very nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Follow your heart

Now reading your profile, sounds like you don't mean that

I don’t mean anything I say on the forums

You are hot by the way

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Follow your heart

Now reading your profile, sounds like you don't mean that

I don’t mean anything I say on the forums

You are hot by the way "

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?"
verifications mean something to one person and not a lot to the next, don't base your time here on them, they should just tell you that the person is genuine but to each of us we all have different taste so to you that means lol

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By *onkeyandBones OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Follow your heart

Now reading your profile, sounds like you don't mean that

I don’t mean anything I say on the forums

You are hot by the way "

But you said that on the forum :-/

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I show the most recent ones, just to prove I'm genuine and I do meet people.

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By *onkeyandBones OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I only show a few social ones but yeah I always look at veris. I’m very nosey

Think this is a good approach

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I only show a few social ones but yeah I always look at veris. I’m very nosey

Think this is a good approach

. You are hot by the way. And I always tell the truth on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get ya willy out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look, I think it tells me a bit about the person by what they choose to display. Anything too graphic and I know we're probably not compatible.

I display most of mine, I think they give a bit of an idea what I'm like too. The ones I don't show tend to be cam ones from randoms proclaiming my beauty (I don't want anyone feeling disappointed!) or ones that are overly sexual.

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By *onkeyandBones OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I only show a few social ones but yeah I always look at veris. I’m very nosey

Think this is a good approach

. You are hot by the way. And I always tell the truth on the forums

Why thank you

if I am honest I have been too busy perving on you to be replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show the ones that don’t go into detail of the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won’t meet anyone that doesn’t have any or someone that hides them.

Usual story of fantasists and time wasters that have taught us this approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is massive off putting .

All they do is talk about sexual activities .

They never say if she is nice or relaxing or funny or a sweetheart …

I don’t wanna know if u done ping or pong .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer them to have 0 showing and the summary hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is massive off putting .

All they do is talk about sexual activities .

They never say if she is nice or relaxing or funny or a sweetheart …

I don’t wanna know if u done ping or pong . "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I only show a few social ones but yeah I always look at veris. I’m very nosey

Think this is a good approach

. You are hot by the way. And I always tell the truth on the forums

Why thank you

if I am honest I have been too busy perving on you to be replying

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is massive off putting .

All they do is talk about sexual activities .

They never say if she is nice or relaxing or funny or a sweetheart …

I don’t wanna know if u done ping or pong . "

I like those kind. I’d rather see them. Makes me know I don’t want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look.

If their profile says one thing but the veris say everything opposite.... it's a very easy nope

Many veris don't see the light of day but if they have posted a veri then they have rubber stamped what is in it and are proud of it so again, anything I find unpleasant or a turnoff there would inform my decision on whether they are a good match for me

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I just check they have 'meet in person veris' if we discussing a meet

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I don't display mine, but do like to read others "

Ditto!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I did display mine before but now I'm just happy to share them with someone if they want to meet me

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I show the ones that show I'm awesome. The ones where they point out I'm a loon, or where Colonel Decker shows up, I don't show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?"

I don’t read them because generally they all say the same thing but I am more hesitant to interact if they don’t have any at all. Funny considering I don’t yet have any but I’ve been on here before

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I show the ones that show I'm awesome. The ones where they point out I'm a loon, or where Colonel Decker shows up, I don't show

Displaying the right selection of veri's can be a useful tool sometimes.

We have one on display from a TV/TS. (A definite loon

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Works as a great filter when people message to say they'd meet us if we hadn't.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I show all mine, as the majority in here don't trust a single guy if he has no veris. I also display my summary, because you lose veris when people leave the site, so at least a potential new friend will hopefully feel assured I will actually turn up for a meet

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't have any play veries so don't have to worry about showing them or not.

I only read them to see if they are consistent with the rest of the profile.

I've never seen a veri that would encourage me to meet someone but I've seen plenty that would put me off.

Usually because of who they were written by and I'm aware of the baggage they bring.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always check out veris but only show a few of mine.

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By *exyPirateMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Flop em out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show, it works for me and I don’t see any reason to hide them x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I show, it works for me and I don’t see any reason to hide them x "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?"

I might add; I don't pay much attention to webcam veris? They don't confirm someone is a reliable meet

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By *onkeyandBones OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?

Is that any on show? How about age of verification?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I only want to know someone is 'real'. I don't want to know who you've had sex with, how you went at it all night, how you arrived in your naughty lingerie, how you squirted in 5 secs, how much of a stallion you were

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep ,well I do anyway

It often gives me an idea of the type of meets they enjoy and the sort of people they meet .

Plus I'm nosy

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I show the ones that show I'm awesome. The ones where they point out I'm a loon, or where Colonel Decker shows up, I don't show

Displaying the right selection of veri's can be a useful tool sometimes.

We have one on display from a TV/TS. (A definite loon

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Works as a great filter when people message to say they'd meet us if we hadn't.

Yikes to people not meeting you, simply because you saw a glamorous Trans at a social, even though they are a total loon.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We read them, kind of gives you a little more insight to what the person/people are like from someone else’s view and not just their own.

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