FabSwingers.com forum: What is a friend ?

By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Simple as that. What is a friend?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You can think inside, outside, underneath and inspite of the box........

Just think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone u can trust...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you help when they are down x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is there for you even when you can’t be there for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty someone who is there for someone regardless of fate in spite of the world and willing to sacrifice to maintain that friendship even if it only lives in the mind rather than reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their heart is true, they're a pal and a confidant.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Someone I've got to know in person, and they me, over an extended period of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who still has time for you, even when you are being a twat.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Simple as that. What is a friend?"

The best friend you can have. The ine yiu can today trust and rely on is yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their heart is true, they're a pal and a confidant."
cheers im in gilf mode now

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Simple as that. What is a friend?

The best friend you can have. The ine yiu can today trust and rely on is yourself."

What is a friend ?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

somebody who is always there for you, good times and bad times,

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Someone you can be your daft crazy self in front of and they don’t judge you for it, in fact they are quite happy to let their crazy out in front of you too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A rare thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who knows the real you

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

The person who you contact without hesitation no matter what the time is, they want to help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple as that. What is a friend?"

What do you think granny?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've got two friends. One I exchange Christmas and birthday cards with. Another I'm in weekly contact with or more.

I know a lot of people but they're acquaintances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who checks in daily and will not hesitate to send for help if don't get reply within certain time frame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple as that. What is a friend?"

Friend is an expensive word .

Is not a mate that drinks , and hang out . That u only good to keep they table entertained.

A friend cares , protects , share trust and honesty . Is there for you and you can count on it . . . Supports you . Helps when you hurt .

If sexy friendship even better

My first Fab girl , in first social became my NSA , she is a very good friend . We had a super sweet , no pressure sexy friendship . I respect her .

We don’t see each other any more , but we are Stil friends , on WhatsApp . When I feel low she is there for me . When she feels low I’m there for her . We support each other .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend is someone I met when I was really low...life has not been kind to her past year and she's drifted away more and more every day.i

want to reach out and help her but if she doesn't want that

,all I can do is be here for her if she ever needs someone

I miss her every day.whether or not she still sees me as a friend doesn't matter, I will always be hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who owes me money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who owes me money. "
im not friends with hmrc

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By *ustintime69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Someone who tells you the truth about yourself and forgives you for your stupidity

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Simple as that. What is a friend?"
a friend is someone you never have to say sorry too...... You do but they will understand either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got two friends. One I exchange Christmas and birthday cards with. Another I'm in weekly contact with or more.

I know a lot of people but they're acquaintances "

Same here, less than a handful o would consider friends

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over a year ago

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By *ozapperMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

A dog, definitely as they are never judgmental.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Simple as that. What is a friend?"

Someone that is hard to come by, but when you find them you keep them.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I don’t really have much point of reference here, but I think is someone you actively seek out to spend time with as you enjoy their company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who owes me money. im not friends with hmrc"

Haha. They think I am, they keep sending me letters.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Someone who reciprocates and gives as much as they take.

Someone who keeps your secrets and doesn't use them as currency with others.

Someone you can expose yourself to and strip yourself bare without ever removing an item of clothes.

There are friends and then there are friends you can be naked with while fully dressed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You can think inside, outside, underneath and inspite of the box........

Just think "

Someone who brings you a box with a present in it for no reason except you’re their friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know I don’t have any.

If you read that #youknowwhoyouare #treatthemwithrespect

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

A good friend will help you move.

A great friend will help you move the body.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable, they understand your past, accepts you just the way you are but willing to tell you if you need to change even if you may not like it. They are someone who doesn't need to be messaged to know that they are your friend, they just know but will listen when you need to chat. Few of us listen, we think we do but we're usually trying to formulate what we want to say next rather than hearing what is being said. They don't expect anything in return in being your friend because that in itself is enough.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Someone who will tell me when I’m wrong and know it’s ok, we’re not going to fall out. Someone I’ll let take my car in an emergency and not worry if they’re insured

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

To my one and only bébé...

Thank you for being a friend

Traveled down a road and back again

Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant

I'm not ashamed to say

I hope it always will stay this way

My hat is off, won't you stand up and take a bow

And if you threw a party

Invited everyone you knew

Well, you would see the biggest gift would be from me

And the card attached would say

Thank you for being a friend

If it's a car you lack

I'd surely buy you a Cadillac

Whatever you need, any time of the day or night

I'm not ashamed to say

I hope it always will stay this way

My hat is off, won't you stand up and take a bow

And when we both get older

With walking canes and hair of gray

Have no fear, even though it's hard to hear

I will stand real close and say

Thank you for being a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend is someone who has seen you at your worst and at your best who doesn't judge who's your keeper of secrets,who you can laugh and cry with and most of all who loves you for simply being you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A friend is someone who has seen you at your worst and at your best who doesn't judge who's your keeper of secrets,who you can laugh and cry with and most of all who loves you for simply being you"

This just about sums it up

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

A friend won’t be there to soothe your head after a long night of debauchery.

A friend will have been alongside you all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me... to some. Okay a few. One or two...

I'm picky okay? People suck and let you down and don't understand the real meaning of loyalty or honesty so yeah, proper blood-in-blood-out friends are rare.

I treat mine like they mean the world to me, because they do

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Someone who never judges you, no matter what you do

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

No idea as I don't have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who never judges you, no matter what you do "

I think I’d judge very harshly Dahmer !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends on here tend to be those you would love to meet and chat to regular

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

A name I only truly assign to a handful of people and they have been in my life for many years.

Real friendship, in my world does not happen overnight but evolves over a long period of time. It involves a deep level of trust, affection, respect and acceptance from both sides and a deep felt loyalty in difficult times.

Friendship is incompatible with lies. Somebody who lied to me for any other reason than to protect me (the only exception I would make) is no longer my friend. It does not mean I stop talking to them but they are no longer at the same level as before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A name I only truly assign to a handful of people and they have been in my life for many years.

Indeed, I have circles of friendship. Only the innermost get the scoop, doesn't mean I can't enjoy the company of others on a more superficial level but still in a genuine way

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"A name I only truly assign to a handful of people and they have been in my life for many years.

I think you can tell a lot about a person by the number of friends they have for 10 or 20 years etc. Real friendships cost a lot.

Some people have a whole new set of friends every few years

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

A friend is someone who you feel you can talk to and can talk to you in confidence. You have each other’s backs and even when one of you is being a dick it’s perfectly ok to be flawed and except that. You don’t have to live in each other’s pockets or be in each other’s ears every day but pick up where you left off the last time and have great stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know I don’t have any.

If you read that #youknowwhoyouare #treatthemwithrespect"

Ricky loves you. Most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea lately. I genuinely, don’t really have anyone to call a friend. Acquaintances, people I see occasionally, people I chat to sometimes. But none of them are friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend is someone you enjoy the company of. Someone who gets you as a person. You support each other, you're comfortable around each other and there's loyalty between you both. It's someone you look forward to chatting with.

I think everyone has a different definition of what a friend is, but that's a friend to me. A very good friend.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"A name I only truly assign to a handful of people and they have been in my life for many years.

I think you can tell a lot about a person by the number of friends they have for 10 or 20 years etc. Real friendships cost a lot.

Some people have a whole new set of friends every few years "

I'm not in touch with a single person from my schooldays because the friendship was hard work and all one way.

I was there for them in times of need, if they needed support or money or companionship but none of them reciprocated so I let all those friendships fizzle out.

I've had work colleagues over the years but none that I spent time with outside the working environment and we never set foot in each others homes.

I can honestly say from my mid 20s until my mid 40s I didn't have a single male friend.

I now have maybe a dozen including one I met through a fab social group.

Friends aren't supposed to be hard work.

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