FabSwingers.com forum: Bi Curious Men

By *unky_Fab_Fella OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Boston

Maybe it's me, but it seems as though the number of couple profiles where both M & F are bi/bi curious is increasing.

Is that the case or am I imagining things?

(Just to note, this is not a criticism, just an observation)

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think people have several influences on their coming out - firstly, as they gain experience, they may gain a greater understanding of their sexuality. And as more people come out, it has a social influence, thus encouraging others, who could have been hesitant to, if in a smaller group. There's been a major increase in social acceptance of others with differing sexualities since Fab started. It's reflected in clubs too

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I think you evolve the longer you spend on fab, boundaries move, while you have no physical attraction to men, it's possible some guy/guy touching may happen during group play, a dick might get licked as it's entering / exiting a partner

So people may arrive straight but choose to change their profile to curious if their boundaries have changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt a new word the other day which defines me perfectly:

Hetero flexible

I don’t fancy guys, but I’m not averse to some homosexual interaction in group play.

In not curious

I’m not fully bi

Definitely not gay

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I think if guys deal with their internalised homophobia, then they realise that being straight = narrow = boring. Less of the hate, more of the lurve! (or at least "don't mind")

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

Yep.

There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.

But it's a positive change rather than a negative one. Assuming it's not just because straight guys are changing their status in the hope of dangling a a dick shaped carrot to get to the female in bi couples........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if guys deal with their internalised homophobia, then they realise that being straight = narrow = boring. Less of the hate, more of the lurve! (or at least "don't mind")"

I really don't think that the way to get more people to choose "B" is to denigrate "A". There's a place for everything, through to "Z", and if that means being "M" and only doing stuff with other people who identify as "M" I hardly think calling it narrow and boring is constructive.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Being bi is good fun.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Being bi is good fun.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

All I can is .....lovely! XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being bi is good fun.

Agreed.

MrWho.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I hardly think calling it narrow and boring is constructive."

Well each to their own but I'm just going on my experience...

"Straight" guys who want to sex me either give me a list of things they will and won't do... Or ask me for a menu of stuff they would want to pick from.

You go figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hardly think calling it narrow and boring is constructive.

Well each to their own but I'm just going on my experience...

"Straight" guys who want to sex me either give me a list of things they will and won't do... Or ask me for a menu of stuff they would want to pick from.

You go figure!"

That's fair, but I figure that "straight" guys who want to sex you, and straight guys who don't, are perhaps not in the same Venn segment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learnt a new word the other day which defines me perfectly:

Hetero flexible

I don’t fancy guys, but I’m not averse to some homosexual interaction in group play.

In not curious

I’m not fully bi

Definitely not gay"

We've had het

exable on our profile since we joined. It pretty much sums us up perfectly.

MrWho.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"That's fair, but I figure that "straight" guys who want to sex you, and straight guys who don't, are perhaps not in the same Venn segment."

Where on the Venn they put themselves is not up to me to judge or police. Just get your kit off and jump in!

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

"Being bi is good fun.

Agreed.

MrWho."

Can confirm

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

Yep.

There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.

You will always get the "fab" bi guys who say they are bi just to fuck the female but will only suck dick

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

Yep.

There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.

You will always get the "fab" bi guys who say they are bi just to fuck the female but will only suck dick

Some of us have sensitive bums

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By *ilvelicker60Man
over a year ago

kettering

"Being bi is good fun.

Agreed.

MrWho."

Totally agree

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By *unky_Fab_Fella OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Boston

Lots of insightful comments.

I just want to be clear though, just an observation, not a criticism or an attempt to shame anyone.

Dannie

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We are equal opportunity pervs...

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I think it’s definitely becoming more prominent. I’m here for it

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By *amian300Man
over a year ago

dub city closer than you think not in uk

Bi bi here

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you tell a “straight” man you’re only gonna 49% gay him he might relax. Drop to 40% if he seems reluctant to give it up.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"If you tell a “straight” man you’re only gonna 49% gay him he might relax. Drop to 40% if he seems reluctant to give it up. "

Pmsl..... Almost spat my tea out.

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By *ordescourtMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I dont fancy men at all,but im mad for mutual oral with men, and ive only been in to it for 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont fancy men at all,but im mad for mutual oral with men, and ive only been in to it for 3 years "

Straight guys sucking cock is such good fun.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

Yep.

There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.

We had the fab bi guys contact us but we gathered they were only after fucking joanne really quickly and thats why we blocked all single guys soon after. We stick to cpls now.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

Yep.

There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.

We had the fab bi guys contact us but we gathered they were only after fucking joanne really quickly and thats why we blocked all single guys soon after. We stick to cpls now. "

I understand why you've done what you've done, but isn't that a little unfair on genuine bi guys that might want to play with you and not just Joanne?

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"That's fair, but I figure that "straight" guys who want to sex you, and straight guys who don't, are perhaps not in the same Venn segment.

Where on the Venn they put themselves is not up to me to judge or police. Just get your kit off and jump in!"

And who would blame them as you are beautiful.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Maybe it's me, but it seems as though the number of couple profiles where both M & F are bi/bi curious is increasing.

Is that the case or am I imagining things?

(Just to note, this is not a criticism, just an observation)

Youre imagining things

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"I dont fancy men at all,but im mad for mutual oral with men, and ive only been in to it for 3 years

Straight guys sucking cock is such good fun. "

Yeah, they're not straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont fancy men at all,but im mad for mutual oral with men, and ive only been in to it for 3 years

Straight guys sucking cock is such good fun.

Yeah, they're not straight "

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

Yep.

There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.

We had the fab bi guys contact us but we gathered they were only after fucking joanne really quickly and thats why we blocked all single guys soon after. We stick to cpls now. "

Equally there are straight women who might block certain acts.

I'm pansexual, but I'm attracted to feminine people whatever is inside their. Doesn't make me less bi.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

Societies attitude to sexuality is changing and that's a really good thing.

When i was growing up there was real homophobia and a lot of men wouldn't dream of admitting they found anything sexual with a man exciting, but the younger generation are much more relaxed and that's changed attitudes for everyone.

Also add to this the fact that people are finally starting to get comfortable with the idea that sexuality is a scale, and not a binary thing, and you'll find more and more people trying new things.

This is all an incredibly positive thing, for society in general, for pressures on men and for general mental health.

Long may it continue

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Societies attitude to sexuality is changing and that's a really good thing.

Also add to this the fact that people are finally starting to get comfortable with the idea that sexuality is a scale, and not a binary thing, and you'll find more and more people trying new things.

This is all an incredibly positive thing, for society in general, for pressures on men and for general mental health.

Long may it continue"

Society, sure.

Fab's about as dopey as ever though.

Long may that continue, it's hilarious, Merry Christmas you bunch of madheads

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.

We approve

I certainly do, would love to have another male fuckbuddy - my last relationship finished in August - and its even hotter that Rach is on board with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you evolve the longer you spend on fab, boundaries move, while you have no physical attraction to men, it's possible some guy/guy touching may happen during group play, a dick might get licked as it's entering / exiting a partner

So people may arrive straight but choose to change their profile to curious if their boundaries have changed "
curious I've played, bisexual gone all the way still learning

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