FabSwingers.com forum: What is sex?

By *izzmasterzero OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

What actually counts as sex... penis + vagina = sex? but no, what about two ladies in a relationship smooshing vaginas, does scissoring count as sex? or is it defined by penetration? If so then does a finger up the butt count as sex? if a woman is pegging a man does that count as sex even though the woman has no penetration or orgasmed? Does giving oral count as sex?

It must mean different things for different people so how does everyone here define sex?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.

If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The context is far more important than the act

Just wrote to look like I know what I am talking about, but I absolutely don’t.

I read that line at hull’s gloryhole

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.

If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex. "
lol

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

At a guess, many (straight folk) will define it by penetration

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In my opinion it's any sexual activity. Bill Clinton disagrees

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think there is sex and there is sexual intercourse

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.

If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex. lol

Are you laughing because you think I told a joke or because you don't have the capacity to understand what I mean and even less capacity to say what you think?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I think there is sex and there is sexual intercourse"

Non penetrative and penetrative

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Here's a thought contradictory to what I said ........

I said if sexual pleasure is gained then sex has occured...

Under that definition , what if one of the people didn't enjoy it.... did they have sex ?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London, South East & Europe

"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.

If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex. "

It doesn't sound very consensual. If someone looked at me and orgasmed (unlikely I know), then I wouldn't say we'd had sex. Assuming I even knew about it

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beats me ....or at keast a specific part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone reading this struggles to define what is or isn't a sexual act or sexual contact or intercourse.

If you're sexually aroused.... whatever you do to get that way and whatever you do with it is a sexual thing = sex.

Just leave the non-consenting living and non-living out of it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.

If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex.

It doesn't sound very consensual. If someone looked at me and orgasmed (unlikely I know), then I wouldn't say we'd had sex. Assuming I even knew about it"

No but I might have done....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's label everything with a full set of attributes, activities and intentions, and create an encyclopaedia of the sexy stuff. I have in mind one of those Pokemon strategy guides with the cross reference tables and reference lookups etc. That should sort it out.

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By *izzmasterzero OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Hmmm... sounds like it's hard to define what sex is. Some say any sexual act and some disagree, some say penetration and some disagree, some say that the other person doesn't even have to be involved as long as they make you cum?

When you break it down you could definitely cause some trouble...

My doctor gave me a prostate exam and I enjoyed it a little too much, therefore the doctor just had sex... or according to some peoples definition anyways, or does that mean that I just took sexual advantage of my doctor? no because we both consented to the act I guess?

We definitely need this guid book to happen so we don't end up in trouble

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

The doctor didn't have sex. The doctor performed an examination and had no sexual sensation from it.

You got a reaction from it.... you'll have to decide whether it was a sexual reaction you had.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think we all know it when we do it

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By *izzmasterzero OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I think we all know it when we do it

Yeah... but can you define it?

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By *izzmasterzero OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't think it can be done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex doesn’t have to be penetrative which is why I believe virginity as we define it is a heteronormative idea.

What it [sex] actually is I imagine differs from person to person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex = penis in vagina.

Lesbian sex does not exist.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Sex = penis in vagina.

Lesbian sex does not exist."

Don't you quote the law at me !

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Depends really most straight males think it's all about ?? and then also depends on your pay grade and standing in society as getting someone pregnant isn't proof of having had sex ?? etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex = penis in vagina.

Lesbian sex does not exist.

Don't you quote the law at me !"

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By *izzmasterzero OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Sex doesn’t have to be penetrative which is why I believe virginity as we define it is a heteronormative idea.

What it [sex] actually is I imagine differs from person to person.

I agree that everyone has their own opinion on what it is but we need to agree on a definite answer. You say that it doesn't have to be penetrative so what does that look like? Is it me flicking your nipples till you cum therefore I just had gay sex?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's something that, almost without exception, many forum posters like to over complicate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex doesn’t have to be penetrative which is why I believe virginity as we define it is a heteronormative idea.

What it [sex] actually is I imagine differs from person to person.

If you did that with me I’d say we had sex of some sort. Don’t need to add gay before it. Sex is sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re unsure of using the word sex, people on here love the word play/playing as an umbrella term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re unsure of using the word sex, people on here love the word play/playing as an umbrella term.

You know it

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"In my opinion it's any sexual activity. Bill Clinton disagrees "

I was waiting for that comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re unsure of using the word sex, people on here love the word play/playing as an umbrella term.

You know it

Oh you

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Is that what some mean when they send us a dick pic asking if we want some fun ?? asking for a friend xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion it's any sexual activity. Bill Clinton disagrees

I was waiting for that comment."

Give that man a cigar

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No idea. I lost all concentration after the word scissoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more"

No dear. That’s love

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There's lots of types of sex, penetration sex, oral sex, not necessarily cock in vag = sex

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

If I touch my chip implanted fingertips against a computer simulation and get it on ....... is that sex ?

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By *izzmasterzero OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"There's lots of types of sex, penetration sex, oral sex, not necessarily cock in vag = sex "

Ah yes, but I wouldn't count oral as sex though. I could go down on women and received nothing in return, but I wouldn't go as far to count that as sex. If oral or even a good old fashioned finger bang counts as sex then everyone's body count would be doubled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more

No dear. That’s love "

no wonder I get funny looks on the karaoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.

If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex. "

Bill Clinton would disagree

He did naht have sexual relations with that woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I touch my chip implanted fingertips against a computer simulation and get it on ....... is that sex ?"

Elon has entered the chat

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Haydock

When people ask on here, how many times you have sex, I never know how to answer because what counts as one time?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"When people ask on here, how many times you have sex, I never know how to answer because what counts as one time?

Answer......... Why do you ask ?

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By *izzmasterzero OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"When people ask on here, how many times you have sex, I never know how to answer because what counts as one time?

So if your a repeat cummer and you shoot your load let's say 3 times in one session, and the other person cums once, how many times did you have sex? One session = one time or is it counted by the load?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"There's lots of types of sex, penetration sex, oral sex, not necessarily cock in vag = sex

Body count. Grim. I can't quite express how much I hate that term so I'll settle for grim.

That aside, of course oral is sex. Oral. Sex. It's actually a term. The idea that sex is only if it's a penetrative penis in vagina thing is heteronormative at it's greatest. There's not a definite answer, even by the great fora hive mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I touch my chip implanted fingertips against a computer simulation and get it on ....... is that sex ?

Elon has entered the chat "

I musk admit, that made me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's lots of types of sex, penetration sex, oral sex, not necessarily cock in vag = sex

Definitely counts

It's sexual contact

I mean, going on a tangent a little, if you did any of that without consent it'd be sexual assault or oral r*p*

So, yeah, they're all versions of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people ask on here, how many times you have sex, I never know how to answer because what counts as one time?

Ahhh the beauty of the english language strikes again.

'We had sex once' could mean we had a ons and fucked like rabbits until we lost count

The literal once, one single trip round the honeypot and up the flagpole went she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Haydock

"Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

Scissoring

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

Scissoring

Tis a beautiful sight to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

Scissoring

Tis a beautiful sight to watch "

Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.

I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

Scissoring

Tis a beautiful sight to watch

Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.

I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain

Hell no I’m not kidding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

Scissoring

Tis a beautiful sight to watch

Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.

I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain

Hell no I’m not kidding!"

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Haydock

"Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

Scissoring

Tis a beautiful sight to watch "

I can confirm, having been a witness to said act a number of times, that scissoring is hot AF

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"In my opinion it's any sexual activity. Bill Clinton disagrees

I was waiting for that comment.

Give that man a cigar

Bill can have it, filthy dirty thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have that feeling of disappointment, regret, what the fuck have I just done?

Yeah, that's sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been that long, OP?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Come on! Are there no George Michael fans here who can sing the chorus to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consensual arousal which may or may not involve penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god, he said scissoring.

Now I'm having impure thoughts.

Send me female help!

Scissoring

Tis a beautiful sight to watch

Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.

I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain

I certainly wasn't kidding!

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