FabSwingers.com forum: Question...

By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Fab names.

When you get chatting to someone, or people, do you like to know their real name? Prefer the aspect of anonymity?

I guess it depends if their username is like standing on lego but, I think you know what I mean.

Cheers tiny phone people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I like to know people's names but I've rarely called them by there names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really.

But if the situation evolves I’d like to know their real first name at last.

Had an experience where I was seeing a woman on a regular basis, like 5 days a week during 2 years to discover that she didn’t even give me her real first name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah … if is not asking much . I do like feel a bit closer if I chat a lady .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab names.

When you get chatting to someone, or people, do you like to know their real name? Prefer the aspect of anonymity?

I guess it depends if their username is like standing on lego but, I think you know what I mean.

Cheers tiny phone people. "

If I’m willing to meet up with someone outside of fab, I give my name, and ask gif theirs.

If I think it’ll just stay on fab. I don’t. Weird I know.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I don’t ask names. Even when chat moves to other platforms. If they want to tell me they can when they are ready.

It’s not a big deal to me either way

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

It’s nice to find out when you get to arranging to meet stage. But I’d never push. But then I don’t push anything.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I only usually give my real name if we meet. There are a couple of exceptions, a couple of people on here I’ve known for years know it.

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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

See, I quite like the... I dunno, allure? Of the persona as opposed to the reality. This is a fantasy lifestyle after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See, I quite like the... I dunno, allure? Of the persona as opposed to the reality. This is a fantasy lifestyle after all"

You were crap at keeping you're real name mystery from me!

Nell

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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"See, I quite like the... I dunno, allure? Of the persona as opposed to the reality. This is a fantasy lifestyle after all

You were crap at keeping you're real name mystery from me!

Nell"

Listen, Ethel, just because we opened up, doesn't give you the right to barge in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer anagrams although mine is pretty easy to guess.

Regards, Anal.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Some people really lean in to their Fab alter-ego. So much so that their real name doesn’t seem to fit as well as their chosen pen name. That can be a lot of fun.

Others are just themselves. And for some, sharing their real name is a sign of trust and intimacy - in which case damn right I’ll call them by it.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Depends on how well I get to know someone and if get to the meet and more stage. Think I knew someone's real name I'd still refer to them as their name on here if that's their preference as view it as nickname almost xT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, people are forever known as their fab name.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've usually built a good rapport with someone I'm planning on meeting that exchanging names feels natural x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to be called Sally when I meet, even though it isn't my real name. When I am Sally I feel sexy, not like the mum and housewife in leggings and a cardigan I really am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See, I quite like the... I dunno, allure? Of the persona as opposed to the reality. This is a fantasy lifestyle after all

You were crap at keeping you're real name mystery from me!

Nell

Listen, Ethel, just because we opened up, doesn't give you the right to barge in here

Pffft, don't get salty with me, Derek.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It doeen't take a genius to work out what my name is.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We generally go by our Fab names.

People we know well will know our real ones.

For one off meets or club/social stuff it'll be the Fab ones.

Does it really make a difference if you don't know someone's name, exact age, address, phone number, inside leg measurement or where they holidayed 10 years ago.....

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I give my real name if I'm chatting to someone and they tell me their name, I have had a couple of men stop talking to me when they found out my real name isn't Scarlett they were very disappointed, my real names not that bad tho honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.

If I was meeting someone for sex that I didn't know that well or attending a big social I'd use my middle name.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"I like to be called Sally when I meet, even though it isn't my real name. When I am Sally I feel sexy, not like the mum and housewife in leggings and a cardigan I really am. "

That other woman sounds sexy too

Just realised yesterday that my long standing swinger friend didn't know my real name when I told her not to address a parcel to [username]! So it does happen that sometimes a username will stick.

Last time I met with someone he didn't tell me his name and didn't ask for mine which I thought was weird, first time this has happened to me, but I guess real names don't mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not even sure we’ve ever had a meets real name. We give ours but that’s only because we’d mess up if we gave fake names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given my real name at group socials, mainly because it seems odd that they would say my Fab name out loud in a public place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them. "

Princess Consuela Banana Hammock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer anagrams although mine is pretty easy to guess.

Regards, Anal.

Lana?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"….. I have had a couple of men stop talking to me when they found out my real name isn't Scarlett they were very disappointed, my real names not that bad tho honest!

Pardon?

people are weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.

Princess Consuela Banana Hammock?"

Ah fuck. You got me.

You did make me laugh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.

Princess Consuela Banana Hammock?

Ah fuck. You got me.

You did make me laugh!!

I knew it was you.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm happy with whatever name they prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer my fab name over my real name (I'm in my DDs phone as midnight

).... even if I've exchanged names, i mostly prefer to use fab names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like to know whatever they feel comfortable with I often call people their fab name though

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I tend to give out my real name if we are going to chat off site

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.

If I was meeting someone for sex that I didn't know that well or attending a big social I'd use my middle name."

AHH Rapunzel, Rapunzel. Your secret is safe.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I quite like my Maggy alias. I don't really like my real name anyway.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Having been at the receiving end of 4 black mail attempts on this site, and a very determined stalker, I don't give my real name to anyone unless they are trusted regulars.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes. It depends. Very rarely. Most people call me Meli anyway, even those I'm really close to! I think it's kind of stuck now. It kind of always surprises me when my close friends use my real name. I'm either in trouble or they're being adorkable.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Sometimes. It depends. Very rarely. Most people call me Meli anyway, even those I'm really close to! I think it's kind of stuck now. It kind of always surprises me when my close friends use my real name. I'm either in trouble or they're being adorkable."

Yes you are just Meli.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Having been at the receiving end of 4 black mail attempts on this site, and a very determined stalker, I don't give my real name to anyone unless they are trusted regulars. "

Bloody hell, this site creeps me out every so often.

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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Pretty even split I'd say. Thanks for the replies

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I go by Bo on here even when I meet someone I don't see the need to share my name unless we meet regularly. In saying that I was meeting one person for a few months when we realised we didn't know each others actual names.

I guess it could be a bit more awkward using fab names if the name is something along the lines of pussylicker or something

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Is being adorkable a good thing?

If it is then I want to be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to be called Sally when I meet, even though it isn't my real name. When I am Sally I feel sexy, not like the mum and housewife in leggings and a cardigan I really am. "

Leggings and cardigans are sexy too.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't always tell people, they don't always ask. I guess because my username is actually a proper name, some times I tell them it's my real name, short for Miriam.

But if we're going to meet and I'm giving them my number, they get my real name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People call me oye dickhead

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer real names, Mrs mocha doesn't sound quite right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're meeting then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I ask their name then immediately forget it and have to go scrolling back to find it if I arrange to meet them

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I don't mind giving my real name to people that I've chatted to beyond a superficial level, but most just call me Lily anyway. I don't mind either name as Lily doesn't sound too weird when people call me it in public.

In a previous incarnation on here my username was Theresa Green, and I used to get frequent messages warning me that I shouldn't use my real name because there are weirdos on here....always made me chuckle and remember the old knock knock joke that I'd got the name from. Guess they'd never heard it

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I always give my real name, I don’t mind people not giving their real name, but I get a little coy on a social if I have to walk up to someone and say “excuse me, are you flapsahoy?”

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I always give my real name, I don’t mind people not giving their real name, but I get a little coy on a social if I have to walk up to someone and say “excuse me, are you flapsahoy?”"

. That’s why I’m glad my username is an actual name. Even the ones who I've been friends for years with and know me really well call me nora. It’s a bit embarrassing when people shout it across a room though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like being called duchess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always give my real name, I don’t mind people not giving their real name, but I get a little coy on a social if I have to walk up to someone and say “excuse me, are you flapsahoy?”

I'm glad my username is a real name too.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I always give my real name, I don’t mind people not giving their real name, but I get a little coy on a social if I have to walk up to someone and say “excuse me, are you flapsahoy?”

I'm glad my username is a real name too.

You do actually call me by my real name haha. Not many do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like being called duchess

Reminds me of the Aristocats

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If they have my WhatsApp they have my real name.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I quite like being called duchess

Reminds me of the Aristocats

I've not got used to my dukedom yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends ive known for years I know them by there actual names anyone else by username.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I find I ask their name then immediately forget it and have to go scrolling back to find it if I arrange to meet them

Never change, Squigs. x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I draw the line at Oooooo yeah Granny......... do it to me Granny .....

Being nameless is okay ...... If pushed i'd make one up on the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.

Princess Consuela Banana Hammock?

Ah fuck. You got me.

You did make me laugh!!

Well if I told you my real name is Lord LoveRocket..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have my real name and some don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it fairly close.

Those who need to do.

The rest don't.

Makes no odds really but that's how I roll.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’ve gotten that used to being called Dancer my own name sounds odd!

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By *uddlesXXXCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield area

The only people who know our real names, are the people we've met, that we built a connection with. And even then, it's only first names we've given out

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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"I’ve gotten that used to being called Dancer my own name sounds odd! "

You're undoubtedly "dancer"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve gotten that used to being called Dancer my own name sounds odd! "
better than blitzen

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