FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Meets...how long!

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Picture the scene if you will, you've taken a nice bath (or shower), washed your hair, tided up the lady garden, applied make up and what not, selected that perfect outfit, struggled with stockings (both making sure they are the right way round and pinning them to your belt etc)...it's taken a couple of hours and then you meet your chosen victim for the liaison to be over in less than an hour. This has happened to me a few times in the past few months, I'm starting to think I might go with full on gorilla legs and vagina, bareface and Chuck a tracksuit on!

I know there isn't a timelimit and the assignment is fullfied but just wondering what the average meet time is for others? And I am talking, you've been on a social, decided they are the chosen one etc.

Much love x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Sounds like a Panda.

Eats shoots and leaves.

Maybe try to not let them cum so quickly and string it out longer.

Once the balls are empty some men feel the urge to disappear.

A

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

2 plus for me. Cuddles, chat, go again. No need to rush

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and a meet lasts as long as the cake does.

In other news, one of the reasons I don't meet single guys is it would take me a few hours to get ready. I'd drive to theirs. We'd start playing, they'd shoot their load within 5 minutes and then immediately want me gone so they could go back to full on hetero mode.

It got to the point where I'd deliberately protect my make up so I could go on to a bar afterwards.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"2 plus for me. Cuddles, chat, go again. No need to rush "

See I love a good cuddle after!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like a Panda.

Eats shoots and leaves.

Maybe try to not let them cum so quickly and string it out longer.

Once the balls are empty some men feel the urge to disappear.

A"

Thanks for the tip!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have 12/24 hour meets now at the weekend and will only tolerate a fuck and go on an outdoor meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *D - CharlieMan
over a year ago

wirral

Would depend on the partner - I see it as an experience, need the warm up chat, the tease and play followed by a couple of hours enjoyment

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay until the farts are coming

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It used to be a dayuse hotel from 9-3 or 10-4 but haven't done that in a few years for various reasons.

Now it's usually a couple of hours but sometimes an overnighter.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orny bi sub 82Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Can't stand quick hook ups now, almost meaningless. I'd love to accommodate a hot guy overnight for cuddles etc but it's not something most guys want once they've cum....

I'd love to do the same, hang out at a guys place with no rush or pressure. Last time was watching mama Mia with a cute younger guy who cooked for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why I have invented ways to keep the person occupied during down time

It takes me like a day and hafe to get ready and stuff for a meet so for it to be over in 30 minutes to a hour it isn’t worth it so invented ways to keep the meet prolonged

Ie during brakes and stuff I will go change outfits

While I am doing that I hand them the tv remote and tell them to put on they choosen porn

Then when I come back I will strut around in the outfit give them a sort off cat walk show and then on to a lap dance off sorts before Geting back down to it

Basically killing time till they regenerate to go again

Do this 2-3 times and before you know it you killed like 3-4 hours

But with like only a hour off real sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour to two hours for me, else I get bored x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour to two hours for me, else I get bored x"

I would have finished way before

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Picture the scene if you will, you've taken a nice bath (or shower), washed your hair, tided up the lady garden, applied make up and what not, selected that perfect outfit, struggled with stockings (both making sure they are the right way round and pinning them to your belt etc)...it's taken a couple of hours and then you meet your chosen victim for the liaison to be over in less than an hour. This has happened to me a few times in the past few months, I'm starting to think I might go with full on gorilla legs and vagina, bareface and Chuck a tracksuit on!

I know there isn't a timelimit and the assignment is fullfied but just wondering what the average meet time is for others? And I am talking, you've been on a social, decided they are the chosen one etc.

Much love x"
I like a few days especially if we meet in the sun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a week. Sex chat in the days before, flirting over some food, fuck .. chat .. fuck a few times, sex chat reliving it all afterwards.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how well they can undo knots.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The meetings I've had last at least at least 2 hours, in fact on reflection, 3 is nearer the mark. You're clearly getting involved with the wrong men..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Got to be 3 to to 4 hours

Have a chat, play, cuddle and chat and go again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour??

No sorry, there needs to be some aftercare as well, I’m not a cum dump (some women are for that and that’s cool) I think the best way to deal with it is to manage expectations beforehand.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 plus for me. Cuddles, chat, go again. No need to rush

See I love a good cuddle after!"

Double night sleep over

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

When my FWB and I meet its usually over a long weekend x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Picture the scene if you will, you've taken a nice bath (or shower), washed your hair, tided up the lady garden, applied make up and what not, selected that perfect outfit, struggled with stockings (both making sure they are the right way round and pinning them to your belt etc)...it's taken a couple of hours and then you meet your chosen victim for the liaison to be over in less than an hour. This has happened to me a few times in the past few months, I'm starting to think I might go with full on gorilla legs and vagina, bareface and Chuck a tracksuit on!

I know there isn't a timelimit and the assignment is fullfied but just wondering what the average meet time is for others? And I am talking, you've been on a social, decided they are the chosen one etc.

Much love x"

Jesus, an hour !. We'd prefer all evening (a good four hours or more). Hopefully staying over . Lots of breaks, naked cuddles by an open log fire, drinks and nibbles then at it again...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Yeah, pretty much an hour, two at most.

It was always like that. As you say- all that time invested in getting ready… no more for me. I’d be looking for a whole morning/afternoon, including having a drink and a chat, not just shagging. They can always say no beforehand if this doesn’t fit with what they’re looking for….

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah hour? Not for me! I have longer meets, no fuck and go here. I like to spend time with someone and make an evening & breakfast of it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer longer meets an hour just don't feel enough for me, not because I last hours or anything but the fun of a meet is the playfulness that should come with it

I can't stand a cum and go situation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer longer meets an hour just don't feel enough for me, not because I last hours or anything but the fun of a meet is the playfulness that should come with it

I can't stand a cum and go situation "

To be fair one of your meets lasted almost 7 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like our meets to be a good few hours, just to make sure all are satisfied thoroughly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

If its a meet where we going to get naked.. Then at least 24hours.. But I much prefer a whole weekend meet... Fuck and go isn't for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do the whole sleeping over with someone.

I'll go an hour and a half all in.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A minimum of 3 hours, though I do like an overnight

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picture the scene if you will, you've taken a nice bath (or shower), washed your hair, tided up the lady garden, applied make up and what not, selected that perfect outfit, struggled with stockings (both making sure they are the right way round and pinning them to your belt etc)...it's taken a couple of hours and then you meet your chosen victim for the liaison to be over in less than an hour. This has happened to me a few times in the past few months, I'm starting to think I might go with full on gorilla legs and vagina, bareface and Chuck a tracksuit on!

I know there isn't a timelimit and the assignment is fullfied but just wondering what the average meet time is for others? And I am talking, you've been on a social, decided they are the chosen one etc.

Much love x"

For me it would take an hour just find out if we get on, i would expect a meet to last a few hours atleast.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Our last few times we’ve got together with friends have been weekends - relaxing, socialising and playing.

A few hours if it’s a hotel meet.

K

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my FWB and I meet its usually over a long weekend x"

Love that . Specially if u drive from far …

My NSA used too when was possible ^^

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

If there's been some form of build up the week or days before then I'd expect it to last atleast the evening (4 or 5hrs).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

If its not a good few hours long at least it wouldn't be worth the drive over or the charging of the car!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If there's been some form of build up the week or days before then I'd expect it to last atleast the evening (4 or 5hrs). "

7.22pm to 22.03pm only

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see the issue, the time invested for yourself versus what a "typical" and I use that term loosely, will vary quite a bit.

I suspect it might be worth taking the time beforehand to figure out the lay of the land, so not to catch you by surprise when they do decide it's time to go.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm clearly meeting the wrong men lol x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on a mo, let me work it out.

Introductions / ice breaker 5 mins

Head to room, awkward small talk 3 mins

Fumble, kisses, unbutton blouse 3 mins

Remove rest of clothes 2 mins

Foreplay 3 mins

Penetration (3 thrusts) 1 min

Desperate apologies for coming so quickly 3 mins

Wipe cock in curtains 1 min

Get dressed 2 mins

Leave lady perplexed and disappointed on bed as make rapid exit 3 mins

Contingency for overruns 4 mins

Yeah, I reckon I could be done in about 30 minutes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hang on a mo, let me work it out.

Introductions / ice breaker 5 mins

Head to room, awkward small talk 3 mins

Fumble, kisses, unbutton blouse 3 mins

Remove rest of clothes 2 mins

Foreplay 3 mins

Penetration (3 thrusts) 1 min

Desperate apologies for coming so quickly 3 mins

Wipe cock in curtains 1 min

Get dressed 2 mins

Leave lady perplexed and disappointed on bed as make rapid exit 3 mins

Contingency for overruns 4 mins

Yeah, I reckon I could be done in about 30 minutes "

Shit! Was you watching me again?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hang on a mo, let me work it out.

Introductions / ice breaker 5 mins

Head to room, awkward small talk 3 mins

Fumble, kisses, unbutton blouse 3 mins

Remove rest of clothes 2 mins

Foreplay 3 mins

Penetration (3 thrusts) 1 min

Desperate apologies for coming so quickly 3 mins

Wipe cock in curtains 1 min

Get dressed 2 mins

Leave lady perplexed and disappointed on bed as make rapid exit 3 mins

Contingency for overruns 4 mins

Yeah, I reckon I could be done in about 30 minutes "

Playa!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I prefer all night meets.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top