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So how do you see the difference to those two? | |||
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"Sex.. In the lounge  "It’s comfy in here
The vault ( swinging chat) is sticky carpets 
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"I find my wand more preferable to sex. Making love? What's that? " I just said this??? *the last part. I don’t have a wand.
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about." But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? | |||
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"I find my wand more preferable to sex. Making love? What's that? " You really throw your heart and soul into your Halloween thing, don't you? | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? " Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that. | |||
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"Sex.. In the lounge "Any room you like.... ..sex that is. I'm all out of love... | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that." What planning? Serious question. | |||
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"I find my wand more preferable to sex. Making love? What's that? " Do women get post nut clarity too? Semi-serious question. actually no, a serious one? | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that. What planning? Serious question. " A babysitter usually. | |||
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"Making love is finding someone you like, respect, love and you engage in pleasure that's unimaginable, you kiss, caress, touch and orgasm and afterwards eat drink and be merry, many here don't understand the concept of making love or indeed partners who you respect and love, notice I said many here not all, sex is a bodily function which it seems can be performed by many to the satisfaction of either recipient wearing a blindfold or mask or even a paper bag "Is making love more about you or them. This is my though (and I only use making love as an expression). I think it’s about them. Not about my pleasure, and if she thinks the same (for them, it’s about me!) then we are bothe getting something wonderful from each other. Their not having to worry about enjoying it, because I take care of that. And I’ll enjoy it because of why they are doing. Does this make sense? Sex? I’m getting off on you, your pretty and I feel horny. - that type of thing. Its masturbation almost, but with someone there. Kind of. | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that. What planning? Serious question. A babysitter usually. " Haha. As a couple, do you ever feel like you have to ‘chase or whoo’ each other to have something special like that? Set the scene, make an effort, get them feeling good etc? | |||
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"I recently met a guy at a friend of a friends BBQ we had instant attraction total sexual chemistry ...that had NEVER happened to me before ...and I have been married twice .However we soon decided that we would both love to be in the Hotwife scenario and we are going down that road ..He came over to mine recently and I left the camera running in the chat room while we had sex...I had loads of messages afterwards saying it was great to see you fucking in the chat room but it was like you were making love too ..so that's the difference sex with someone you have chemistry with IS different ....I think ???? " I agree, it's all in the connection. Animalistic fucking and making love can happen all at the same time if the connection is strong, and making love can be with someone you've known 10 years or 5 minutes. | |||
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"I find my wand more preferable to sex. Making love? What's that? You really throw your heart and soul into your Halloween thing, don't you?" I do . | |||
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"I find my wand more preferable to sex. Making love? What's that? Do women get post nut clarity too? Semi-serious question. actually no, a serious one?" It's saved me a lot of misfortune. | |||
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"It’s not a term I use. There’s all kinds of sex , lustful, primal, sensual, intimate, slow, fast, long, quick, kinky, vanilla … it’s just all sex." “it’s just all sex” - not a phrase I’d use. It’s never ‘just’ sex for me. *I over use “quotes” . I know. | |||
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"Making love, 10 minutes. Sex, 5 minutes. No need to overcomplicate these things, OP. "So making love is over two different times? Got it! | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that. What planning? Serious question. A babysitter usually. Haha. As a couple, do you ever feel like you have to ‘chase or whoo’ each other to have something special like that? Set the scene, make an effort, get them feeling good etc? " As boring as it sounds, it’s usually planned a month in advance. Being a couple with young kids makes all spontaneity is well and truly out the window. If Mrs NE could have her way she’d have a planner with bullet points and set times for the whole night | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that. What planning? Serious question. A babysitter usually. Haha. As a couple, do you ever feel like you have to ‘chase or whoo’ each other to have something special like that? Set the scene, make an effort, get them feeling good etc? As boring as it sounds, it’s usually planned a month in advance. Being a couple with young kids makes all spontaneity is well and truly out the window. If Mrs NE could have her way she’d have a planner with bullet points and set times for the whole night "Haha. Sound practical! I’m in | |||
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"Sex is never about just me. It's all about us. I only go for romantic connections now. Sure, pulling at a social for a night is fun. Does it satisfy my romantic needs now...No. " Like candles and flowers and everything? | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that. What planning? Serious question. A babysitter usually. Haha. As a couple, do you ever feel like you have to ‘chase or whoo’ each other to have something special like that? Set the scene, make an effort, get them feeling good etc? As boring as it sounds, it’s usually planned a month in advance. Being a couple with young kids makes all spontaneity is well and truly out the window. If Mrs NE could have her way she’d have a planner with bullet points and set times for the whole night
Haha. Sound practical! I’m in "We’ll need a PowerPoint presentation before we can make a final decision. | |||
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"For my own pleasure I just have a wank. My hand can be considered as a sexual recipient. However when I am having sex with someone I do thing about their own pleasure too " Can confirm.  | |||
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"Sex.. In the lounge "Still have the sofa burn on my knee  | |||
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"Making love is a birthday/anniversary thing. Fucking is what it’s all about. But what is fucking all about then? And making love is only good for once a year, or it’s a celebration, and off so, why just once a year then? Wouldn’t you want that more? Fucking is just wanting each other and going for it. Making love takes planning, scene setting and all that. Life’s too short for that. What planning? Serious question. A babysitter usually. Haha. As a couple, do you ever feel like you have to ‘chase or whoo’ each other to have something special like that? Set the scene, make an effort, get them feeling good etc? As boring as it sounds, it’s usually planned a month in advance. Being a couple with young kids makes all spontaneity is well and truly out the window. If Mrs NE could have her way she’d have a planner with bullet points and set times for the whole night
Haha. Sound practical! I’m in
We’ll need a PowerPoint presentation before we can make a final decision."Sounds time consuming. I’m out. | |||
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"Sex is never about just me. It's all about us. I only go for romantic connections now. Sure, pulling at a social for a night is fun. Does it satisfy my romantic needs now...No. Like candles and flowers and everything? "No fairy lights and room scent mist, hotels don't like candles being lit in their rooms 
Romantic dinners and all that Jazz Woody | |||
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Now.., let’s read the post lol | |||
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"Making love is finding someone you like, respect, love and you engage in pleasure that's unimaginable, you kiss, caress, touch and orgasm and afterwards eat drink and be merry, many here don't understand the concept of making love or indeed partners who you respect and love, notice I said many here not all, sex is a bodily function which it seems can be performed by many to the satisfaction of either recipient wearing a blindfold or mask or even a paper bag
Is making love more about you or them.
This is my though (and I only use making love as an expression).
I think it’s about them. Not about my pleasure, and if she thinks the same (for them, it’s about me!) then we are bothe getting something wonderful from each other. Their not having to worry about enjoying it, because I take care of that. And I’ll enjoy it because of why they are doing. Does this make sense?
Sex? I’m getting off on you, your pretty and I feel horny. - that type of thing. Its masturbation almost, but with someone there. Kind of. "yes I get that not quite as eloquently put as in my analogy mind | |||
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"Sex is never just about me, if I’ve chosen to have sex with someone I’m sure as hell wanting to pleasure them too. I’m not a selfish lover - I enjoy being pleasured but there’s something about bringing someone to a climax, watching there expressions, feeding on there body language, the tease, the anticipation, all that euphoric build up! I think it’s making love when there’s more than a physical connection to someone - when your invested in a person, there’s an emotional attachment. X" Totally this, although for me there is a world of difference between the emotional attachment to a fwb, someone you can talk and laugh with and whose company you enjoy, and someone you choose to be a life partner. | |||
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"Sex is never just about me, if I’ve chosen to have sex with someone I’m sure as hell wanting to pleasure them too. I’m not a selfish lover - I enjoy being pleasured but there’s something about bringing someone to a climax, watching there expressions, feeding on there body language, the tease, the anticipation, all that euphoric build up! I think it’s making love when there’s more than a physical connection to someone - when your invested in a person, there’s an emotional attachment. X" Sex 101.  | |||
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