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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you find it difficult to share a bed with your playmate?

I talked about finding it difficult to share a bed with another person with my colleague today, whose girlfriend lives some distance away from him, and they meet up from time to time whenever they can etc...

And he whole-heartedly agreed with me that they too find it difficult to share a bed together as they have been sleeping on their own for so long!

I don't expect my playmates to stay the night, and tell them so in advance.

And I always carry and supply earplugs in case they do.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have done it but don't like it.

I like my bed for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate sharing a bed with anyone. I wait until they asleep then sleep on sofa. Then I can snore away to my hearts content

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

total opposite .. luv guys sharing the bed with me

nothing better for me than waking up with a guy either side !!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am afraid after 6 years of living alone I tend to use all of my double bed, and when I share with my FB he is the same so I end teetering on the edge of the bed all night.

Twin doubles is the way to go, although I'd still end up sleeping in the wet patch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't spend the night in some strangers bed. I need a good nights sleep.

I must be getting old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my own bed. I do an incredible naked starfish impression. I very very very rarely do overnight stays and they are never at mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like sleeping alone thats why i tend to book my own hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on my own for 10 years now and had my bed all to myself, so can lay like a starfish if I want, having someone else in my bed would be strange, but it's a risk I'm willing to take

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My dog sleeps on the spare side of the double bed on top of the duvet.

He gets the hump whenever he has to sleep on a makeshift bed on the floor.

Luckily for him that I no longer accommodate at home.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

im a nightmare to sleep with.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

never had an overnight stay, after having my bed to myself for 7 years, I'm to selfish! Cats only on my bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The cat does not like sharing the bed with the dog, so she sleeps under the dressing table instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles in bed and waking up next to someone is the best feeling that is the one thing I miss sleeping on my own but I don't miss her snoring lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

one of my friends tucks me up in bed before he goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do miss being cuddled to sleep, and being woken up by something stiff against my back in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do miss being cuddled to sleep, and being woken up by something stiff against my back in the morning. "

Try moving your bed next to the wall!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him... "

I miss that

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him...

I miss that "

Awww sweet cheeks you have me hahah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him... "

Almost all of my nights are spent sleeping on my own, but on the odd occasion when a lady stays over, it's rather special to wake in the morning with her beside me. Plus, these mornings usually involve a bit of a lie-in, not sure why!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him...

I miss that

Awww sweet cheeks you have me hahah xx"

Haha but do you give good cuddles?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him...

I miss that

Awww sweet cheeks you have me hahah xx

Haha but do you give good cuddles?"

I give great cuddles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've been fortunate to be offered the opportunity to stay overnight but it's something and although it would be nice to wake up next to someone I tend to shy away from it...... part of the enjoyment of the casual side of things for me is the fact that no one has to know if i do or dont belch/fart/snore/scratch my arse/hog all the duvet etc when i snuggle down for some well earned rest...

... for me that's like going to the loo with the door open... we all know what goes on, but there's no need to advertise it to all and sundry!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do miss being cuddled to sleep, and being woken up by something stiff against my back in the morning.

Try moving your bed next to the wall!

"

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No chance, as it is in the middle of the room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him...

I miss that

Awww sweet cheeks you have me hahah xx

Haha but do you give good cuddles?

I give great cuddles x"

Ooohhh good to know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only have sleep overs with my fb, and he usually tells me off for being on his side by morning...but it's his fault cause he steals all the covers and I can never wrestle them back! Might have to take a blanket in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do miss being cuddled to sleep, and being woken up by something stiff against my back in the morning.

Try moving your bed next to the wall!

"
thank for cheering me up, that comment is class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmm you can give me cuddles

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I enjoy waking up to someone... though I have to fancy them and know them... done it twice with someone and its nice waking up next to him...

I miss that

Awww sweet cheeks you have me hahah xx

Haha but do you give good cuddles?

I give great cuddles x

Ooohhh good to know x"

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Did this for the very first time last night...first time anyone had stayed over since i bought my new bed...was lovely actually as was getting woken at whatever o'clock.....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I havent shared a bed more than 5 times in last 20 years. Sometimes it would be lovely to cuddle up with someone..

I probably snore and would be embarrassed nowadays. I do like my own space though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice to have someone to put my cold feet and cold arse on haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wear a hat to prevent cold feet, it works, honest!

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By *allayWoman
over a year ago

West Cumbria

I've been on my own so long now I find it very hard to settle let alone sleep if sharing a bed, if someone is staying over, I do warn them that I will probably migrate to the spare bed as soon as they've dropped off, typically I can't sleep well when I know there's someone else in the house, inc. the grand kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told I'm like a hot water bottle in bed nice and warm to snuggle into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear a hat to prevent cold feet, it works, honest! "

lol I look like a right muppet with a hat on

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By *allayWoman
over a year ago

West Cumbria

I over heat in bed, even now I've still just got a 4.5 duvet on, it's always far worse if sharing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wear a hat to prevent cold feet, it works, honest!

lol I look like a right muppet with a hat on "

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Who is going to see you if you are on your own?

I wear one to bed when I go camping in the winter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I over heat in bed, even now I've still just got a 4.5 duvet on, it's always far worse if sharing "

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2 singles with different TOG rating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore overnighters, love snuggling up and sleeping with a sexy play mate. And the mornings........mmmmmmm

Utter bliss.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I never liked sharing my bed all night with meets when i was a single femme, but miss my OH when hes away as he is lovely to cuddle up to, and he lets me steal his body heat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do miss being cuddled to sleep, and being woken up by something stiff against my back in the morning. "

I miss that but can't see me sharing the bed with anyone else for some time. Never ever have with swinging.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I change my mind? I want a bed buddy tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread speaks volume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets a bit hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear a hat to prevent cold feet, it works, honest! "

ONI if ya wear it on yer feet !

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I sleep with my missus but play only for anyone else

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I over heat in bed, even now I've still just got a 4.5 duvet on, it's always far worse if sharing

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2 singles with different TOG rating?

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LOL 4.5 tog is the summer duvet I over heat too

Tried Mums 10 tog and was soaked by 2 am so back to the window open and my 4.5 tog down one.. the bedroom is like 58 degrees cold ..suits me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Wear a hat to prevent cold feet, it works, honest! "

When did you feel my feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find securely manacling them to a small proportion of the bed works wonders along with a gag it reduced 80% nose and movement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I over heat in bed, even now I've still just got a 4.5 duvet on, it's always far worse if sharing

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2 singles with different TOG rating?

LOL 4.5 tog is the summer duvet I over heat too

Tried Mums 10 tog and was soaked by 2 am so back to the window open and my 4.5 tog down one.. the bedroom is like 58 degrees cold ..suits me "

I used to be like that then i switched to goosedown duvets - i sweat like a nun at a penguin shoot if i sleep under a polyester duvet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married until 3.5 years ago which is the last time I shared a bed regularly. Since being single I have got way too used to sleeping alone and really find sharing difficult now. Just can't get comfy and at 6ft 4" I do like to snaffle most of the bed!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I over heat in bed, even now I've still just got a 4.5 duvet on, it's always far worse if sharing

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2 singles with different TOG rating?

LOL 4.5 tog is the summer duvet I over heat too

Tried Mums 10 tog and was soaked by 2 am so back to the window open and my 4.5 tog down one.. the bedroom is like 58 degrees cold ..suits me

I used to be like that then i switched to goosedown duvets - i sweat like a nun at a penguin shoot if i sleep under a polyester duvet!"

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I prefer feather/down duvets and don't like synthetic ones.

I use a double 3-in-1 duck feather/down duvet instead of sleeping bag when I go camping, snug as a bug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really miss sharing a bed i love spooning ") sometimes the unxpected "surprise" sex, the whole warmth of another body is amazing. I miss intamassy ---- probs not spelt right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind sharing a bed as I normally cling to the edge anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the person.

sometimes its great just to hold someone through the night if she needs it

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I prefer sleeping over,under or beside someone lol

I love skin2skin cuddles and kissing and caressing my lover to sleep mmmm

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Nothing better than to snuggle up in bed with someone and wake up next to them in the morning.

Really miss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing better than to snuggle up in bed with someone and wake up next to them in the morning.

Really miss it. "

Come and have a snuggle, moves over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing better than to snuggle up in bed with someone and wake up next to them in the morning.

Really miss it. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never have a stranger sleep over.

In fact I'd never have a stranger back to my house. Never ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't and I love cuddling up to someone or holding their hand, plus the waking up to breakfast in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one of my friends tucks me up in bed before he goes "
that's the best way, especially when they lock up & post the keys through the door

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I love the theory of sleeping with someone. Going to sleep cuddled up or spooning.

Every so often it happens with a close friend, and then the reality kicks in. They are fast asleep and snoring, I'm wide awake, but locked in their iron grip, and I can't get comfy.

Or they've stolen all the bedclothes, and I can't get comfy.

I just end up in the living room on the sofa.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't miss sharing a bed. Too bloody selfish and I snore badly.

Do share with my fb but we tend to foot wrestle for space!! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice in the last year I've broken my 'no overnighters' rule!

The first we just passed out after a long session of fun and drinks. The second was planned. Neither situation was awkward as both times were with people I'd met before.

The main reason I usually avoid it is the blurring of boundaries between simple, no strings fun and that little bit more emotional attachment.

It's never caused me any problems so far and I've no real plans to change my philosophy!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

My last fb said she'd never had a meet sleep over..... Till I came along.

Some rules are meant to be bent or smashed to smitherines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I luv sharing a bed! Waking up with others is good but i usually wake up on the wet patch!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"It would be nice to have someone to put my cold feet and cold arse on haha"

Hahaha I do that when my man stays over....I get hot so throw the covers off then wake up freezing so snuggle up against him and nick his body heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind sharing a bed as I normally cling to the edge anyways "

i hate being hot in bed, so if you wake up and im not there im either on the floor or the sofa lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sharing my bed with my swingle bud

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By *ighclassfunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"The cat does not like sharing the bed with the dog, so she sleeps under the dressing table instead.

"

It's a real pets corner!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Most of the last 25 years I have slept on my own but I really love waking up with a warm snuggly body next to me. I've had playmates sleepover on occasion but only the ones I know well.

BUT, I have a super kingsize bed. It means two people have plenty of room to sleep cuddled up or apart.

It's also a marvellous place for a tangle of many bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont accommodate so never have anyone in my bed, i have on occasion spent the night with guys in hotels but i dont like being touched while im going to sleep and to be honest usually just lay awake for hours

It is strange to sleep with someone when your used to sleep alone, its not that i dont like sleeping with people i just find it hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to snuggle up to a partner, have a cuddle & kiss and some idle pillow talk. Even if its only for 10 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so thought this thread was about something else ............ oooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so thought this thread was about something else ............ oooops "

get to the confessions thread asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so thought this thread was about something else ............ oooops

get to the confessions thread asap "

ok lol xxxx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I love to snuggle up to a partner, have a cuddle & kiss and some idle pillow talk. Even if its only for 10 minutes."

I'll give you fifteen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hardly slept a wink last night, so I am likely to have an early night to catch up on my sleep later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a huge bed all to myself. Have done for afew years now. I do miss not having someone to cuddle up to. You know the little touches nd kisses you get in the night. It's not quite the same having a meet stay over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to snuggle up to a partner, have a cuddle & kiss and some idle pillow talk. Even if its only for 10 minutes.

I'll give you fifteen. "

What you waiting for then?...lol X

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