FabSwingers.com forum: Should I admit defeat?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So back when BB and I first got together last year before we did this site and were sussing each other out a challenge was set. Get a photo of a cock in her mouth giving someone a blow job. No exes allowed and no other sex acts.

Well BB pulled it off in three weeks and sent it to me whilst I was away at work - which set us on the path here

I was supposed to reciprocate getting a photo of my cock in someone's mouth (heavily prefer women just to be clear here). Same no exes and no other sex acts.

I knew it wasn't going to be simple, let's face it there's hardly a queue of women that are up for a blow and go let alone take a photo of it and then doing nothing in return. I don't go out many places on my own and actually think that it would be a really shitty thing to try and convince a random vanilla to do this. Most clubs don't allow photos so that option doesn't support.

It's been over a year now so unless you sexperts can suggest something out of the box I am going to have to concede that I've lost here big time.

What say you the forum jury?

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

Of course you've lost

A challenge based on who has easier access to casual sex, a man or woman?

You were never gonna win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s brilliant but I think it might be time to admit the defeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think women are generally more reluctant to have such intimate photos taken by others tbf. So even if you find yourself with your cock in their mouth will they be happy with you taking a pic of their face doing it?

But good luck in the search. It’s not infeasible so you never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep admit defeat! I don’t know many women who’d want to suck off a guy with nothing given in return! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you say you "heavily prefer women", but, how much do you wanna win?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nick a picture off the net

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course you've lost

A challenge based on who has easier access to casual sex, a man or woman?

You were never gonna win lol"

I know I'm 50 and hardly an oil painting and may have a dodgy haircut but I thought that having a year and active encouragement I might have had a slim chance... PFFF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you seen The Capture?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know you say you "heavily prefer women", but, how much do you wanna win?

I'm extremely competitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know you say you "heavily prefer women", but, how much do you wanna win?

I'm extremely competitive

Pay for it if that desperate to win

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You should have gotten better odds, 5/1 maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course you've lost

A challenge based on who has easier access to casual sex, a man or woman?

You were never gonna win lol"

That would be men that have the easier access to casual sex contery off popular beliefs

You just have to swing both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know you say you "heavily prefer women", but, how much do you wanna win?

I'm extremely competitive

Pay for it if that desperate to win"

Oh yeah that's not allowed either - unsporting behaviour

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Get one of those cardboard masks ..you could probably get a camilla mask just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know you say you "heavily prefer women", but, how much do you wanna win?

I'm extremely competitive

Pay for it if that desperate to win

Oh yeah that's not allowed either - unsporting behaviour

Sounds like you agreed to rules with your cock rather than the brain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know you say you "heavily prefer women", but, how much do you wanna win?

I'm extremely competitive

Pay for it if that desperate to win

Oh yeah that's not allowed either - unsporting behaviour

Sounds like you agreed to rules with your cock rather than the brain

It was equal terms

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It sounds like she needs to think of a creative forfeit

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Using others for challenges....charming!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It sounds like she needs to think of a creative forfeit

Hey don't go giving her ideas!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Using others for challenges....charming!"

Well the guy she asked didn't complain - and yes she asked him. Likewise I wouldn't do a walk by seagulling on some poor random. Only thing I can't do is explain that it's a challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Well the guy she asked didn't complain - and yes she asked him. Likewise I wouldn't do a walk by seagulling on some poor random. Only thing I can't do is explain that it's a challenge."

Because many guys on here are desperate!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Fabguys?

Could sort your issue in 5 minutes probably....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Using others for challenges....charming!"

Isn’t it just

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Isn’t it just "

Pretty disgusting IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Isn’t it just

Pretty disgusting IMO. "

Agreed

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've just taken on the same challenge..so I need a blowjob ASAP too

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Isn’t it just

Pretty disgusting IMO. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not fussy, if any hot lass* wants to use me for the “wriggle on his face” challenge I’m up for being used

(*minimum 8 / 10ers with exceptional hygiene)

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Isn’t it just

Pretty disgusting IMO.

Agreed

Women aren't ones for challenges

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"So back when BB and I first got together last year before we did this site and were sussing each other out a challenge was set. Get a photo of a cock in her mouth giving someone a blow job. No exes allowed and no other sex acts.

Well BB pulled it off in three weeks and sent it to me whilst I was away at work - which set us on the path here

I was supposed to reciprocate getting a photo of my cock in someone's mouth (heavily prefer women just to be clear here). Same no exes and no other sex acts.

It's been over a year now so unless you sexperts can suggest something out of the box I am going to have to concede that I've lost here big time.

What say you the forum jury?"

I would oblige but you don't live in London. Lol! Ok another idea....go to club chat up and some women ask them if they don't mind coming outside the club for a picture so you can finally be even with BB.

Mega props if you manage to chat up a group of regular from the swing club and they all go outside and take a photo with mulitple mouths on your cock. BB would be crushed. lol!

I'm really innocent really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did somebody say Just Pete?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did somebody say Just Pete"

Have you seen The Capture?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Using others for challenges....charming!"

Interesting. I wouldn't feel used. It's just a bit of fun for me. However, if anyone feels used don't do it!!

I dunno I've seen these things in vanilla clubs all the time. Out with mates with consent. I dare you to talk to that guy/girl. I dare you to kiss that guy/girl. I dare you to put your hand up her skirt/down his trousers. I dare you to dance dirty on that guy/girl.

The only issue for me is consent. I have to consent to it/ they have to consent to it.

I mean I go to Carnival and everyone grinds their crotch on everyone. You can say no but I don't because it's the one time I can just about tolerate multiple people touching me and I feel my less uptight self. Yes I'm on a swingers site calling myself uptight. lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did somebody say Just Pete

Have you seen The Capture?"

No but I'd like to see you capture the original posters dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did somebody say Just Pete

Have you seen The Capture?

No but I'd like to see you capture the original posters dick"

Quit playing games with my heart.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Isn’t it just

Pretty disgusting IMO.

Agreed

Women aren't ones for challenges

I am. but I've been told I'm a masculine woman so........I just roll with it...which reminds me a male fabster promised to kick a football with me..

Yes I play football with men....it's a challenge.....I also work with men....it's a challenge. Lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Isn’t it just

Pretty disgusting IMO.

Agreed

Women aren't ones for challenges

No just most of the ones in this thread. Bad Bitch was more than up for and to the challenge and it wasn't with anyone from Fab - it's was pre-fab no sprouts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did somebody say Just Pete

Have you seen The Capture?

No but I'd like to see you capture the original posters dick

Quit playing games with my heart."

I'll play games with your dick instead.

OP I wish you the best of luck!

I would say Rex Holes would definitely be willing though since Just Pete isn't up for the task.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did somebody say Just Pete

Have you seen The Capture?

No but I'd like to see you capture the original posters dick

Quit playing games with my heart.

I'll play games with your dick instead.

OP I wish you the best of luck!

I would say Rex Holes would definitely be willing though since Just Pete isn't up for the task. "

Well the rules don't allow for telling them about the challenge so posters in the thread can't help themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using others for challenges....charming!

Isn’t it just

Pretty disgusting IMO.

Agreed

Women aren't ones for challenges

No just most of the ones in this thread. Bad Bitch was more than up for and to the challenge and it wasn't with anyone from Fab - it's was pre-fab no sprouts!

Given you’ve been trying for a year without luck that suggests that women aren’t up for this challenge, no?

It’s hardly surprising she found a guy who was up for it as 1. It wouldn’t require a photo of his face just his cock and 2. A lot of men wont say no to a blow job as it’s sexually satisfying for him and many men would say yes to anyone but asking a woman to give you a blow job is sexually satisfying to you but less so for her. And then she has to have her face in the photo too. With nothing in return!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Of course you've lost

A challenge based on who has easier access to casual sex, a man or woman?

You were never gonna win lol"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

BB didn't do a fabber - she is genuinely pretty bloody amazing and somewhat successful at getting exactly what she wants, especially from guys.

With no actual brain waves here I think it's time to hold my hands up and admit I'm too old and rusty for this shit

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