FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Do they? Is this all women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All. There was a poll. Did you not get your form?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

Are you sending yours first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any holes is the goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, this is all about what you want and how to get it.

Screw their positions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All. There was a poll. Did you not get your form?"

Does it say “all”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do they? Is this all women?"

Does it say “all”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, this is all about what you want and how to get it.

Screw their positions."

Why wouldn’t you want to see a face before investing time?

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

It’s not just women, lots of men do it too. I think they expect people are desperate enough to say yes to anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it isn't needed. Why do you think doggy and reverse cowgirl are a thing?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Do they? Is this all women?

Does it say “all”?"

This is why I’m asking

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s not just women, lots of men do it too. I think they expect people are desperate enough to say yes to anything "

I think that may be the case for a lot of men on here to be fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, this is all about what you want and how to get it.

Screw their positions.

Why wouldn’t you want to see a face before investing time? "

Because maybe, it's not up to me when I see it.

And if after chatting and getting to know each other, I do find out it's like a can of spam that's been kicked down the aisles a few too many times, so be it.

Everyone is entitled to anonymity and privacy in keeping with their own standards.

If you can't get that, should you really be here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do they? Is this all women?

Does it say “all”?

This is why I’m asking

Well if it doesn’t say “all” then you’d be safe to assume, “not all”

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Do they? Is this all women?

Does it say “all”?

This is why I’m asking

Well if it doesn’t say “all” then you’d be safe to assume, “not all”

Great thanks for clarifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attraction for me is the mind

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind "

Does the face not come into it at all though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do they? Is this all women?

Does it say “all”?"

It doesn't say "some".

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yes, this is all about what you want and how to get it.

Screw their positions.

Why wouldn’t you want to see a face before investing time? "

Again. Do you send yours first before expecting them to send theirs?

If not then you can hardly blame them.

If so, then maybe they've decided you're not for them.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It’s the same with some men. No biggy, just move on and chat to someone that is willing to share a face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t answer your question really. Have you tried having that conversation with the women who refuse to show you a picture?

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Mines public probably being used by others to keep kids away from the fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol"

May I see yours ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"attraction for me is the mind

Does the face not come into it at all though?"

I was thinking this too. Surely someone that you get on with really well but isn’t attractive is just a friend… I think people who say “looks don’t matter” are lying haha

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

There's this funny thing called discretion.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

...says a man who doesn't have any face photos available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

Would you entertain a leather face mask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol

May I see yours ? "

Sent

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

What do you mean "...what I have to look at"?

If you find this a chore there are things to do that don't involve looking at people you're not attracted to.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind

Does the face not come into it at all though?

I was thinking this too. Surely someone that you get on with really well but isn’t attractive is just a friend… I think people who say “looks don’t matter” are lying haha "

Not sure. Maybe they don’t to some. If I don’t like someone’s face it wouldn’t matter what anything else was like it wouldn’t be happening. Still need to be attracted to everything else too but face first for me personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman says "no" I'm quite sure the reply isn't "can I have a face pic"

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

You have to respect if someone doesn't want their face showing, their job could be at risk or the threat of sexual assault if seen in public. I have my face on show, but that's my choice, I'm certainly no oil painting, but I can hold a conversation and if I click with the person I am messaging then what their face looks like should be the last of my concerns. If the face is such a big deal, agree to a club meet where you both wear Masquerade Ball masks and pretend you are both pretty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol"

Strange that as you’re not in my block list but I can’t see your profile…

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

I prefer the demand for your photos, yet their profile has non, not even private ones.

Hilarious, but yeah visually blank profiles are a bit pointless on this sort of site..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour. "

To be fair he has a point. Unless I’ve misread the op. Not many would meet without seeing a face pic. Or would they? Maybe they would. I wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol

May I see yours ? "

WOW gorgeous x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely? "

For that there are gloryholes Babs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"attraction for me is the mind

Does the face not come into it at all though?

I was thinking this too. Surely someone that you get on with really well but isn’t attractive is just a friend… I think people who say “looks don’t matter” are lying haha

Totally agree

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs "

Babs loves a glory hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour.

To be fair he has a point. Unless I’ve misread the op. Not many would meet without seeing a face pic. Or would they? Maybe they would. I wouldn’t. "

It's the expectation of it, up front, early doors or strewn across a profile.

If someone doesn't want to do that, that's their prerogative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour.

To be fair he has a point. Unless I’ve misread the op. Not many would meet without seeing a face pic. Or would they? Maybe they would. I wouldn’t. "

I wouldn't meet unless I've seen a face pic, there has to be some attraction first, I usually send one when I've arranged to meet someone, as it says in my bio

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer the demand for your photos, yet their profile has non, not even private ones.

Hilarious, but yeah visually blank profiles are a bit pointless on this sort of site.. "

I have lots of photos on here and always send face photos with first message…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously we don't have the full story (or stories) so it's easy for folk to have a different interpretation of your comment... But if you send first and they don't find you attractive, it's unlikely they'll send one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole "

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west !

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Any holes is the goal. "
This lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol

May I see yours ?

WOW gorgeous x"

So are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any holes is the goal. This lol

Shag validating me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour.

To be fair he has a point. Unless I’ve misread the op. Not many would meet without seeing a face pic. Or would they? Maybe they would. I wouldn’t.

It's the expectation of it, up front, early doors or strewn across a profile.

If someone doesn't want to do that, that's their prerogative.

Of course it is. I wouldn’t carry on chatting for long without a face pic to be honest. This is why I asked if he meant “all women”. It’s a waste of time to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"attraction for me is the mind

Does the face not come into it at all though?"

I'll ask to see the face at the last moment, but more so i know who I'm looking out for... But by that time i know them pdw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol

May I see yours ?

WOW gorgeous x

So are you

Shame about the distance

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west ! "

If I get messages about this you two are in bother

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west ! "

. She’ll have your guts for garters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction starts in the mind. I'm fussy so I only send face pictures when I know I like someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west !

If I get messages about this you two are in bother

Nora started it !! She even added that your anus love swallowing dicks’ semences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obviously OP didn't like mine as we're blocked lol"

Check your block list.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west !

If I get messages about this you two are in bother

Nora started it !! She even added that your anus love swallowing dicks’ semences. "

Babs won’t believe that. She knows I’m an angel. And I would have never come up with the word semences. Is it even a word?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west !

If I get messages about this you two are in bother

Nora started it !! She even added that your anus love swallowing dicks’ semences.

Babs won’t believe that. She knows I’m an angel. And I would have never come up with the word semences. Is it even a word?!"

You may have mixed French language with English ! We know your ways mrs je parle français !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour.

To be fair he has a point. Unless I’ve misread the op. Not many would meet without seeing a face pic. Or would they? Maybe they would. I wouldn’t.

It's the expectation of it, up front, early doors or strewn across a profile.

If someone doesn't want to do that, that's their prerogative.

Of course it is. I wouldn’t carry on chatting for long without a face pic to be honest. This is why I asked if he meant “all women”. It’s a waste of time to me. "

Yup, I'm not denying the importance of physical attraction.

However, if someone doesn't want to share their face quick enough, or decided you weren't for them so declined sending one back, thats the end of it. Move on.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west !

If I get messages about this you two are in bother

Nora started it !! She even added that your anus love swallowing dicks’ semences.

Babs won’t believe that. She knows I’m an angel. And I would have never come up with the word semences. Is it even a word?!

You may have mixed French language with English ! We know your ways mrs je parle français ! "

. Ja vielleicht

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

I like a good face! If the guy is much taller than me it doesn’t matter I suppose! can just eye ball his nipples ••

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour.

To be fair he has a point. Unless I’ve misread the op. Not many would meet without seeing a face pic. Or would they? Maybe they would. I wouldn’t.

It's the expectation of it, up front, early doors or strewn across a profile.

If someone doesn't want to do that, that's their prerogative.

Of course it is. I wouldn’t carry on chatting for long without a face pic to be honest. This is why I asked if he meant “all women”. It’s a waste of time to me.

Yup, I'm not denying the importance of physical attraction.

However, if someone doesn't want to share their face quick enough, or decided you weren't for them so declined sending one back, thats the end of it. Move on."

Fair enough but I don’t think he was lambasting

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I wouldn’t share my face photo just like that. If you think how many messages you receive, if you sent a face photo to everyone that you reply to, you might as well take out an ad in the paper.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't attribute your own tastes, wants and needs onto everybody else and expect them to play accordingly.

This is how it is, if you don't like it, find it too much bother, or feel the rewards don't match the time invested... well you know what to do.

And no, it's not start a thread lambasting anyone else that doesn't fit into your idea of appropriate behaviour.

To be fair he has a point. Unless I’ve misread the op. Not many would meet without seeing a face pic. Or would they? Maybe they would. I wouldn’t.

It's the expectation of it, up front, early doors or strewn across a profile.

If someone doesn't want to do that, that's their prerogative.

Of course it is. I wouldn’t carry on chatting for long without a face pic to be honest. This is why I asked if he meant “all women”. It’s a waste of time to me.

Yup, I'm not denying the importance of physical attraction.

However, if someone doesn't want to share their face quick enough, or decided you weren't for them so declined sending one back, thats the end of it. Move on.

Fair enough but I don’t think he was lambasting "

Thanks for support. No harm meant. Just gets annoying sometimes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I wouldn’t share my face photo just like that. If you think how many messages you receive, if you sent a face photo to everyone that you reply to, you might as well take out an ad in the paper.

Oh yeah I agree. I rarely share mine. If there’s a chance of the conversation carrying on though I would. I usually know pretty quickly if it will. Hence I rarely share my face

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t share my face photo just like that. If you think how many messages you receive, if you sent a face photo to everyone that you reply to, you might as well take out an ad in the paper.

Oh yeah I agree. I rarely share mine. If there’s a chance of the conversation carrying on though I would. I usually know pretty quickly if it will. Hence I rarely share my face

Same here

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

I guess it is about the same as guys thinking all women want to see is cocks up /down and half mast , shrugs I prefer faces .

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I wouldn’t share my face photo just like that. If you think how many messages you receive, if you sent a face photo to everyone that you reply to, you might as well take out an ad in the paper.

Oh yeah I agree. I rarely share mine. If there’s a chance of the conversation carrying on though I would. I usually know pretty quickly if it will. Hence I rarely share my face

Same here

I like your face where it was the last time we met Babs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west ! "

I can't confirm or deny this!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t share my face photo just like that. If you think how many messages you receive, if you sent a face photo to everyone that you reply to, you might as well take out an ad in the paper.

Oh yeah I agree. I rarely share mine. If there’s a chance of the conversation carrying on though I would. I usually know pretty quickly if it will. Hence I rarely share my face

Same here

I like your face where it was the last time we met Babs

My face enjoyed being exactly where it was Nora and if I had the chance again I would be straight in there

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west !

I can't confirm or deny this!"

Oi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t share my face photo just like that. If you think how many messages you receive, if you sent a face photo to everyone that you reply to, you might as well take out an ad in the paper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

They probably want privacy until they have chatted a while.

If you want a face pic early then just ask. If they say no then you're not compatible.

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind "

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You don't *have* to look at it Op, save yourself the hassle of getting a face pic and do her from behind.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x"

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a trick?

Feels like a trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't *have* to look at it Op, save yourself the hassle of getting a face pic and do her from behind.

Are all cock supposed to be hard instantly? Offer some cock worship first

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"I would hope you would need to see the face. Otherwise it’s just about your body surely?

For that there are gloryholes Babs

Babs loves a glory hole

I know ! She is called the Dyson of the north west !

I can't confirm or deny this!

Oi!

Maybe that's why I'm not getting any conversations .. my big face is on my profile picture lol

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over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?"

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some would say

"if you don't want to polish the mantelpiece then don't stoke the fire"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"You don't *have* to look at it Op, save yourself the hassle of getting a face pic and do her from behind.

Are all cock supposed to be hard instantly? Offer some cock worship first "

very good! Sorry you've had to read my love of it. I think I've got a bit of cock worship going spare somewhere around here....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x"

Ok. That’s nice though

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over a year ago

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?"

Message me please

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Thank u

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got too be an attraction ,but also got too be that spark and sexual chemistry .

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

Haha. That’s in the eye of the beholder though anyway. I rarely find the stereotypical “good looking” people attractive to be honest. Most of the celebrities people go mad for on here I just don’t see it.

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I say that to my female friend .. she says she's not pretty .. I tell her she is .. I also tell her " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " which is very true x

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over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I say that to my female friend .. she says she's not pretty .. I tell her she is .. I also tell her " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " which is very true x"

It really is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got too be an attraction ,but also got too be that spark and sexual chemistry .

Equally is a help

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I say that to my female friend .. she says she's not pretty .. I tell her she is .. I also tell her " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " which is very true x

It really is x"

I see what u meant by celebrities on here .. they all love themselves and want all there photos fabbed .. I prefer the quiet one at the back of the class lol x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's the same as some men and some couples too op.

I had a man tell me I didn't need to see his face for a social meet ,needless to say it went no further .

It's not gender specific I don't think .I'm half a couple and we've had couples who won't show their face but expected to meet,we just stopped chatting .

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over a year ago

"It's the same as some men and some couples too op.

I had a man tell me I didn't need to see his face for a social meet ,needless to say it went no further .

It's not gender specific I don't think .I'm half a couple and we've had couples who won't show their face but expected to meet,we just stopped chatting ."

Thanks for reply. Hope you’re good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about the face for me.

Hence when some hot bodied guy messages on the forums I just reply to them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

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over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes."

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

If I haven’t sent a face pic it’s either

My need for discretion

I didn’t like your face, but see no need to be hurtful

I did like your face but want to see if I like the personality that goes with it first

I’m also quite shy of my face apart from the discretion side of it

The mr has his spidey senses going and tells me to hang back (he’s usually right as well)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Men are definitely more guilty of this than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its all about the face for me.

Hence when some hot bodied guy messages on the forums I just reply to them...."

Thank fuck I lack anything even remotely interesting

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over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

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over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I completely agree. To flip OPs original question, why are some people so focused on physicality as a judge of attractiveness?

Someone could be absolutely stunning but I couldn't find them attractive because they're not my sort of person on the inside.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times."

And they say romance is dead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times.

And they say romance is dead..."

He loves me really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times.

And they say romance is dead...

He loves me really. "

Woah woah woah. We haven’t discussed the L word yet. Calm your tits

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over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times.

And they say romance is dead...

He loves me really.

Woah woah woah. We haven’t discussed the L word yet. Calm your tits

Ah come on now Dec, don't be shy.

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over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times.

And they say romance is dead...

He loves me really.

Woah woah woah. We haven’t discussed the L word yet. Calm your tits

Ah come on now Dec, don't be shy. "

I’ve only just admitted I like you. Don’t push it JUG.

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over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times.

And they say romance is dead...

He loves me really.

Woah woah woah. We haven’t discussed the L word yet. Calm your tits

Ah come on now Dec, don't be shy.

I’ve only just admitted I like you. Don’t push it JUG."

I'm changing my name to something that can't be abbreviated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just need to see the tits, arse and vag. It’s not like I’m fucking the sparkle in her eyes.

I have no sparkle.

Hey ...

Still haven’t seen the vag

You know sometimes you regret asking for something? This is one of those times.

And they say romance is dead...

He loves me really.

Woah woah woah. We haven’t discussed the L word yet. Calm your tits

Ah come on now Dec, don't be shy.

I’ve only just admitted I like you. Don’t push it JUG.

I'm changing my name to something that can't be abbreviated!"

I will find a way

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I completely agree. To flip OPs original question, why are some people so focused on physicality as a judge of attractiveness?

Someone could be absolutely stunning but I couldn't find them attractive because they're not my sort of person on the inside.

My sentiments exactly x

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

If a face picture is so important why doesn't OP have a face picture on his profile or is that missing the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a face picture is so important why doesn't OP have a face picture on his profile or is that missing the point?"

People can send face pics via private messages. Not wise to have public face pics.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"If a face picture is so important why doesn't OP have a face picture on his profile or is that missing the point?

People can send face pics via private messages. Not wise to have public face pics. "

Well if that's the case why is it an issue? If you request one and they don't send it; surely just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will put up HD face photos just for you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I say that to my female friend .. she says she's not pretty .. I tell her she is .. I also tell her " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " which is very true x

It really is x

I see what u meant by celebrities on here .. they all love themselves and want all there photos fabbed .. I prefer the quiet one at the back of the class lol x"

I didn’t mean celebrities on here

I’m not aware of any. I meant actually celebrities that people on here go mad for haha. Sorry perhaps I didn’t word it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will put up HD face photos just for you.

Come on now, he didn't deserve that.

We don't deserve that.

Be kind.

Be blurry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will put up HD face photos just for you.

Come on now, he didn't deserve that.

We don't deserve that.

Be kind.

Be blurry."

He does deserve to see it.

I want to make him vomit the way you did when you first saw my face in high quality definition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im attracted to penguin biscuit slurping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"HD face photos"

Herpes diseased.

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over a year ago

"I will put up HD face photos just for you.

Come on now, he didn't deserve that.

We don't deserve that.

Be kind.

Be blurry.

He does deserve to see it.

I want to make him vomit the way you did when you first saw my face in high quality definition."

Well that was my fault for putting on my glasses for that "high quality definition" in real life.

It just, compounded things.

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I say that to my female friend .. she says she's not pretty .. I tell her she is .. I also tell her " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " which is very true x

It really is x

I see what u meant by celebrities on here .. they all love themselves and want all there photos fabbed .. I prefer the quiet one at the back of the class lol x

I didn’t mean celebrities on here

I’m not aware of any. I meant actually celebrities that people on here go mad for haha. Sorry perhaps I didn’t word it well

I thought u meant the ones that are on here that think they ARE celebrities .. there are 4 where I am from .. love themselves and have photos on everyday looking for attention and to be fabbed to No1 .. one of them is very pretty .. the others are very average .. would I go for a social with them .. no .. I like the girl who is at the back of the class who doesn't think she is anything special but has a lovely nature .. looks are not the be all and end all x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I say that to my female friend .. she says she's not pretty .. I tell her she is .. I also tell her " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " which is very true x

It really is x

I see what u meant by celebrities on here .. they all love themselves and want all there photos fabbed .. I prefer the quiet one at the back of the class lol x

I didn’t mean celebrities on here

I’m not aware of any. I meant actually celebrities that people on here go mad for haha. Sorry perhaps I didn’t word it well

Noooooo I meant actual celebrities lol x

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Im attracted to penguin biscuit slurping "

Taste the biscuit, taste the goodness of the biscuit!

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"attraction for me is the mind

I must admit I do like someone who you can have a laugh and a conversation with, connection is key x

Absolutely it is definitely key. But if you weren’t attracted to their face would you still meet them?

Yes .. if they are nice as a person that's all that counts .. beauty is only skin deep .. its the heart inside that counts x

Ok. That’s nice though

Don't get me wrong we all love a stunner on our arm if we go.out lol

I say that to my female friend .. she says she's not pretty .. I tell her she is .. I also tell her " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " which is very true x

It really is x

I see what u meant by celebrities on here .. they all love themselves and want all there photos fabbed .. I prefer the quiet one at the back of the class lol x

I didn’t mean celebrities on here

I’m not aware of any. I meant actually celebrities that people on here go mad for haha. Sorry perhaps I didn’t word it well

Noooooo I meant actual celebrities lol x"

Real celebrities are fake as well .. Real people are the ones like u and I .. xx

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I actually had a social with someone the other day and he hadn't seen my face until I turned up... Luckily for me he didn't do a runner. I didn't realise I hadn't sent him a face pic.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I thought u meant the ones that are on here that think they ARE celebrities .. there are 4 where I am from .. love themselves and have photos on everyday looking for attention and to be fabbed to No1 .. one of them is very pretty .. the others are very average .. would I go for a social with them .. no .. I like the girl who is at the back of the class who doesn't think she is anything special but has a lovely nature .. looks are not the be all and end all x"

Who are you to say if they're pretty or average?

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over a year ago

"I actually had a social with someone the other day and he hadn't seen my face until I turned up... Luckily for me he didn't do a runner. I didn't realise I hadn't sent him a face pic."

Lol that is kind of funny.

"Erm, yeah hi, are you? Oh thank god, how did i recognise you? Hah, erm, your, Jesus. Hmmmm, your eyes? Ok ok you got me, all of this, stuff, right... here... put my hands down? Yes yes, this is a public place."

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I actually had a social with someone the other day and he hadn't seen my face until I turned up... Luckily for me he didn't do a runner. I didn't realise I hadn't sent him a face pic.

Lol that is kind of funny.

Luckily he was the only person sat on his own, I just just asked if he was waiting for me.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I actually had a social with someone the other day and he hadn't seen my face until I turned up... Luckily for me he didn't do a runner. I didn't realise I hadn't sent him a face pic.

Lol that is kind of funny.

Luckily he was the only person sat on his own, I just just asked if he was waiting for me."

Even if he had seen your face, I can imagine you make a lot of men nervous, you are lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

I never go that impression from a single lady .

All I see is a need of discretion .

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

Cackle I get this from men all the time! They want to meet me without showing me their face!!

My attraction is only complete when I meet you in person and actually hear you string a sentence or several sentences together.

I don't spend all day/week/month staring at a photo fantasizing....I don't know how men do that...but then...porn...then they are disappointed when they meet a woman in the flesh....or they bottle it.

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over a year ago

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

Regardless of how things should be. A women on this site is viewed quite differently to a man. We are still the slappers and they are still the studs

I am happy to share a face pic. But I want to see yours first

Missy x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at.

Regardless of how things should be. A women on this site is viewed quite differently to a man. We are still the slappers and they are still the studs

I am happy to share a face pic. But I want to see yours first

Missy x"

We don't all think the ladies are slappers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is a joke thread, *chefs kiss* OP, well done!

If you’re being serious then I do think it weird that any person would insist on seeing a picture of you to ensure attraction but wouldn’t let you see theirs too. I think many women only send face pics in return to the faces that they find attractive. And I think it makes sense to do this given that, you know, men…

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "
Is this site about sex have you had much sex from it? I think it's about a miriad of complex physiological and psychological phoenomina some of which I understand and some I don't

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

"Why do women think we can form an attraction without seeing their face? This site is about sex and I want to be attracted to what I have to look at. "

Yes, I hear you. I used to allow the perceived double standard there to frustrate me too, but I just popped a polite request on my profile page to include a face or full body (clothed) pic with the first message anybody might choose to send me, and so now I just don't sweat it! After all, it's understandable that many women may not wish to be completely open about being on here

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