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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you have never spoken to them….. I know this is some users way of filtering the wheat from the chaff but don’t you feel a little deflated when you never got the chance to speak to them or are you more bullish and think they weren’t for you anyways? Penny for your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don’t give a shit. Even if I spoke to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not arsed, I don’t even give it a second thought. They don’t wanna interact with me, that’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Meh.

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really no. It was never going to work was it if they have no interest in you.

Why would anyone want to meet or contact someone that clearly wasn’t interested in them? That’s my philosophy anyway. No loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block men I am attracted to because I have a habit of falling in love and moving into their garden without asking them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people from the forums all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they’ve blocked single guys. Maybe you specifically. It’s not worth dwelling on. They’ve saved you time. Move on.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I wasn’t going to let them touch my pee pee anyway so no real loss

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm usually bereft when they unceremoniously block me.

But then I block them back in my puerile schoolboy way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block men I am attracted to because I have a habit of falling in love and moving into their garden without asking them first "

^^^^^^^

Is telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be any number of reasons, don't sweat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really no, tbh, it's probably a fairer way of saying "not my type" and getting a ton of aggressive abuse for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spoke to my therapist about the same thing this week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to think fuck it, they weren’t what I’m here for anyways, it doesn’t appeal to my soft in the head philosophy but that’s the world nowadays

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I couldn't care less if someone I never spoke to blocks me I just counter block and don't give them another thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you block random people it stops you meeting unlucky* people.

* perspectives may vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have never spoken to them….. I know this is some users way of filtering the wheat from the chaff but don’t you feel a little deflated when you never got the chance to speak to them or are you more bullish and think they weren’t for you anyways? Penny for your thoughts "

Couldn't care less if someone blocks me.What others do is entirely up to them,got better things to concern myself with than some stranger on the internet blocking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not really bothered. Their loss that they miss out on all'a THIS

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

It really doesen't bother me if someone blocks me especially if I've never spoken to them, complete strangers to me and I have zero interest in who they are or why they blocked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have never spoken to them….. I know this is some users way of filtering the wheat from the chaff but don’t you feel a little deflated when you never got the chance to speak to them or are you more bullish and think they weren’t for you anyways? Penny for your thoughts "

Couldn't care less really, this is a place to find the good few, not appease the masses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It honestly doesn't bother me. I have noticed it a few times from forum peeps.

NBVN x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No.

It's unrealistic to expect that you will be mutually compatible with anything but a minority of people.

Unrealistic expectations are 1 of the biggest ressons that people are unhappy here.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I couldn't give 2 hoots what a stranger online thinks. Some deserve it x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"When you have never spoken to them….. I know this is some users way of filtering the wheat from the chaff but don’t you feel a little deflated when you never got the chance to speak to them or are you more bullish and think they weren’t for you anyways? Penny for your thoughts "

Its not a question of 'they weren't for you'.

They decided you weren't for them for whatever reason and that's all that matters.

We proactively block when browsing profiles for all manner of reasons. We don't tell anyone it's happening and most will probably never know unless they try and view/message us.

A

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A bit of both.

I probably wouldn't have wanted to meet them anyway, so it's no big deal.

I also don't object to them looking at my profile and thinking I'm a loon and blocking me.

What I do object to is if they block all trans as a matter of course, as that just seems rude - it's not enough to apply filters, but the thought of any of us even looking at them gives them the shudders. However, as you don't get a chit saying why, I don't know if any do block for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As weird as it sounds - I wish more people would do this. Block everybody you wasn’t interested in. That way at least we won’t waste our time sending you a message - I’m not one of these that copy and paste - I read the profile, write the message (sometimes taking me 10-15 minutes to write a message) and I’d be thankful that I’d not wasted my time in somebody if they’d already blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a complement. They could have just moved on but they made that extra effort.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

OP just like everyone here they are only here to get THEIR rocks off. They make their OWN choices and that is very much up to themselves. Don’t fret yourself with what they may or may not be thinking. Believe in yourself and find your own fun. That way you’ll know that YOUR life is being lived exactly as YOU want it

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Just move on.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I only block men I am attracted to because I have a habit of falling in love and moving into their garden without asking them first "

Not blocked But I have a small garden so I assume that's why...

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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If I felt deflated over complete strangers blocking me then I would decide this wasn't the place for me. I have bigger issues to worry about.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You weren't what they're looking for.... Simple as that

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I spend about 5 seconds wondering why we are blocked by certain profiles but then I move on and think about more important stuff…

K

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