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Genuine profiles - Red Flags

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By *ature BBW Lover 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

So there are obviously plenty of fake -non genuine profiles on here , what are people’s red flags or things they look out for that may not add up ? I find even some that have supporter’s subscription or verifications to seem a bit dodgy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say as it’s not wise to say

As it just gives them away to doge thinks that tip the red flag meter

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's no fool proof way of telling. The best thing to do is message and go by the answers. Young, extremely attractive women who want to meet immediately after exchanging explicit sex talk are unlikely to be waiting at your chosen venue at the agreed time

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By *ature BBW Lover 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter


"I can’t say as it’s not wise to say

As it just gives them away to doge thinks that tip the red flag meter "

Ahh yes actually that is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They message me.

Or reply.

Either way somethings wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say as it’s not wise to say

As it just gives them away to doge thinks that tip the red flag meter

Ahh yes actually that is true "

Only thing I can say is think about the way they word or say things

And ask you selfs would a woman word it like that say something like that or is that something a guy would say or come out with

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I just block everyone within ten miles till they either sort photos or delete the profile

My block list empties itself most of the time

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"So there are obviously plenty of fake -non genuine profiles on here , what are people’s red flags or things they look out for that may not add up ? I find even some that have supporter’s subscription or verifications to seem a bit dodgy ? "
profiles that have been on for many months or years with no verifications, not been photo verified or any pics,,,, got a long list or hidden friends list,, and do not give real location,, e.g. near you,, 3rd rock from the sun,, in the woods,, etc,, usually most are female profiles but its actually a guy just wanting to see other peoples pics,,,

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

No pictures, no tag, no bio.

How the hell am I supposed to make an informed decision on send a message or not? Simply being woman/couple/man that is in my age range and breathing is not sufficient.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also develop a bull shit meter. Don't believe everything you're told just because you're offered a meet, don't set off for a meet after being given just a post code, don't book and pay for a hotel room until you've met at least once and ask yourself is this too good to be true?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So there are obviously plenty of fake -non genuine profiles on here , what are people’s red flags or things they look out for that may not add up ? I find even some that have supporter’s subscription or verifications to seem a bit dodgy ? "

On site over a year with no verification.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone insisting on a meet straight away. Surely anyone genuine wants to mitigate their own time being wasted/personal security? Or am I being paranoid?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

No pictures, or photos which are an obvious black-banded screenshot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there are obviously plenty of fake -non genuine profiles on here , what are people’s red flags or things they look out for that may not add up ? I find even some that have supporter’s subscription or verifications to seem a bit dodgy ? "

Usually when a couple profile isn't photo verified, only the guy ever seems to talk, and starts hinting that the first meet doesn't involve the lady of the couple

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

To me red flags come in the shape of shouty, ranting updates and a general negativity about the having been let down.

It happens unfortunately but the way to handle it is to move on. If a profile feels aggressive, obsessive or extreme in their views it would not be for me

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

In my (limited) experience if they mail you suggesting something that sounds too good to be true then it probably is…

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

If they’re an Exeter City supporter - total red flag for us

J x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Single guys that post about wife/gf chat.

Bit of a giveaway and seriously disrespectful and indiscreet.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones with pictures that look like they're from Nuts/Zoo magazeine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Magazine*

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm always suspicious when someone is verified ,but all the profiles that did so are hidden .

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So there are obviously plenty of fake -non genuine profiles on here , what are people’s red flags or things they look out for that may not add up ? I find even some that have supporter’s subscription or verifications to seem a bit dodgy ? "
no veris and mostly pics of their penis I'd say were good signs lol but then most guys are this including me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On over a year without a meet verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My favourite was when they used pics of the 90s porn star Wend Whoppers, who hadn't aged a day in the 20 years that had passed and had moved from LA to Lancashire

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

When been member for over 6months and no meet veri

Last veri was from 4yrs ago

Not 1 single public photo yet want you to sent a face pic . I know discretion and all but is anyone gonna recognise your ankle in heels haha

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