FabSwingers.com forum: Read profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So our profile says single guys send face pic if you message

We get loads of messages without and when we don't reply they send shit?

Don't message in first place its simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says I'm gay but I still sometimes get messages from men asking to meet.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My profile says I'm straight, but stoll get men asking to meet.

Some people just don't read or just ignorant.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Meh I don't really care anymore if people read my profile or not. I just delete the ones that obviously haven't. Life's too short to be getting annoyed by what others do on here and what I can't change.

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By *skyouneverknowMan
over a year ago

Calne

I'm not sure that anyone has ever read my profile, guess that won't help me find the elusive mffffff

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Our profile states we don't kik or the like but the number of messages asking if we kik is unreal. Any message we get now that is clear they haven't taken time to read our profile just gets deleted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My profile says I'm straight, but stoll get men asking to meet.

Some people just don't read or just ignorant.

I get people try there luck but if we message and don't get a reply cos we have tried our luck we don't get abusive just moved on

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We need a Spam folder in our messages.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

‘No straight guys’ took my profile out of hidden yesterday, first message received, straight guy.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I’m not meeting, couldn’t be any clearer on my profile. They still message. It doesn’t matter a jot what you say on your profile when little Johnny needs to get wet he needs to get wet. You could have three heads and a wizard’s sleeve they’d still message

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"So our profile says single guys send face pic if you message

We get loads of messages without and when we don't reply they send shit?

Don't message in first place its simple "

If you're not interested in them just block them.

Guarantees you won't be sent any shit.

Simples.

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire / South Bucks

"Meh I don't really care anymore if people read my profile or not. I just delete the ones that obviously haven't. Life's too short to be getting annoyed by what others do on here and what I can't change. "

Absolutely Agree x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My profile clearly suggests I'm a loon, but I still get messages

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its a good filter I use tbh

I can tell right away with some of the crap messages that they haven't read any of my profile & I delete unless I'm feeling sarky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with all that us said...I dint think most do, although I have written an essay lol

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"So our profile says single guys send face pic if you message

We get loads of messages without and when we don't reply they send shit?

Don't message in first place its simple "

I must admit I got a bit confused by this first time, I have full face pics on my profile. An intro message with a pic isn't even close enough to pass on all the information, I expected that they would open the profile and take a look. I'm not for everyone, but at least you would be informed. Sending just a face pic with a message attached is still lazy in my opinion. Every message I get will have me read that profile. If I'm clearly not right for that person, I wonder why they messaged me in the first place.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I’m not meeting, couldn’t be any clearer on my profile. They still message. It doesn’t matter a jot what you say on your profile when little Johnny needs to get wet he needs to get wet. You could have three heads and a wizard’s sleeve they’d still message

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

To be fair, I sometimes message people to complement them on their pictures, knowing full well we will never, ever meet. Seriously, who's is going to drive 300+ miles into the wild of Scotland? But, good feedback and recognition is always given to those that make my willy twitch.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We only meet in clubs but people always try their luck.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If you put a status up saying "NO WINKS", put on the first line of your profile "NO WINKS", guess what happens? We did it and were winked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's called "chancing your arm, you'd never know, it might get a response "...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in other news....the sun rose this morning

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"If you put a status up saying "NO WINKS", put on the first line of your profile "NO WINKS", guess what happens? "

I don't contact you ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If it's clear they haven't read my profile I just delete. Used to politely reply until the pleading or nasty messages started...no I just can't be arsed to deal with the childlike behaviour x

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"My profile says I'm straight, but stoll get men asking to meet.

Some people just don't read or just ignorant.

Damn!

So that is my chances knocked on the head then

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Great attitude

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Ours says dont send random friend invite or get blocked.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"I'm not sure that anyone has ever read my profile, guess that won't help me find the elusive mffffff"

Just read your profile, a quick read and I would have to say, it doesn’t really make it clear that you are looking for a. Mfffffffff encounter!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"So our profile says single guys send face pic if you message

We get loads of messages without and when we don't reply they send shit?

Don't message in first place its simple "

Thanks. I won’t send a message then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprising that you always get abuse

Is your rejection message a tad harsh?

We get abused by about one in fifty polite rejections.

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By *skyouneverknowMan
over a year ago

Calne

"I'm not sure that anyone has ever read my profile, guess that won't help me find the elusive mffffff

Just read your profile, a quick read and I would have to say, it doesn’t really make it clear that you are looking for a. Mfffffffff encounter!

Ha ha sums up this thread - there's me thinking it is obvious (even though I don't actually mention it as such)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we have noted quickly is most don't bother to read profile. Many hust say hi/want a fuck/etc. The worse ones are that pretend to write you a personal message but you just know it's genric with your names added I often just block them.

There are a few nice gents around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is the name of the game and I wanna play the game with you.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"I'm not sure that anyone has ever read my profile, guess that won't help me find the elusive mffffff

Just read your profile, a quick read and I would have to say, it doesn’t really make it clear that you are looking for a. Mfffffffff encounter!

Ha ha sums up this thread - there's me thinking it is obvious (even though I don't actually mention it as such) "

Hmmmm

It might just be me but no, it’s not obvious…

It is clear you are sexually generous. That is indisputable, even if I haven’t got a clue what that means?

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"What we have noted quickly is most don't bother to read profile. Many hust say hi/want a fuck/etc. The worse ones are that pretend to write you a personal message but you just know it's genric with your names added I often just block them.

There are a few nice gents around"

Just a friendly note on the profile, asking for white men is probably unnecessary as the bulk of the people on here are white men and it can put off some people as discriminatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understand the logical thinking behind giving someone who ignored you, more abuse lol. What's the goal?

Perfect example of emotion just trumping logic and reason right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says I'm gay but I still sometimes get messages from men asking to meet.

Sent you a wink just because I had to go and look at your profile lol

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

"Never understand the logical thinking behind giving someone who ignored you, more abuse lol. What's the goal?

Perfect example of emotion just trumping logic and reason right there. "

Totally! It's like I've ignored you and you think hurling abuse at me will suddenly make me want to drop my pants and bend over!

To be fair I've only had that from one girl on here. Mostly it's guys and most of them have no profile pics anyway!

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