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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We should make a list of them in your area so noone falls for them lies again

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Cocksucker1 complete time waster see the problem ? What’s stopping people posting so and so is a time waster

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By *immyGGMan
over a year ago

South Cheshire

Just block them and move on mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll add my name.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

What exactly is a time waster so many have different definitions for it. And naming and shaming is wide open to abuse on here as the poster above has proven how easily someone can just name and shame anyone.

I prefer to make my own mind up about someone and if I think they are wasting my time I just stop interacting with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What exactly is a time waster so many have different definitions for it. And naming and shaming is wide open to abuse on here as the poster above has proven how easily someone can just name and shame anyone.

I prefer to make my own mind up about someone and if I think they are wasting my time I just stop interacting with them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you add me?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m only ever here to waste time, add me to the list please

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Naming and shaming them will get you a ban OP

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We should make a list of them in your area so noone falls for them lies again "

Maybe they don't waste everyone's time?

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

Far too open to abuse and too difficult to police. Simply block and move on and chalk it up to experience.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

What makes a timewaster? Someone who doesn't reply to a message? Someone who declines a meet after a few messages? Someone who is on here, but not meeting at the moment? Someone who doesn't bring Jelly babies to a meet?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just block ..then you won't waste your time on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve wasted so much time this morning.

All my own though.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

As it’s subjective, it’s impossible to sort time wasters from people who have either had a change in circumstances so can’t meet or have decided they don’t wanna meet you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them and move on.

I was called a time waster for meeting someone for a coffee and then deciding I didn't want to play with them.

It's too difficult to manage. Block and move on

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

[Removed by poster at 10/10/22 13:23:02]

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Cocksucker1 complete time waster see the problem ? What’s stopping people posting so and so is a time waster "

Yes this is exactly why naming and shaming is not allowed. We have only one side if the story. For instance a while back I had made plans with a guy for a first meet. Then some of things he was saying made be feel very very wary so I cancelled on the day. He would probably call me a time waster but from my point of view, I felt it was unsafe to meet him.

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By *panking masterMan
over a year ago

Washington


"We should make a list of them in your area so noone falls for them lies again "
i totally agree ,,, and have done it before but the only snag is you get all your profile wording deleted by admin,,, maybe admin should put up a list of time wasters,,

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"We should make a list of them in your area so noone falls for them lies again i totally agree ,,, and have done it before but the only snag is you get all your profile wording deleted by admin,,, maybe admin should put up a list of time wasters,, "
again what’s stopping me reporting you to admin making some bullshit up in regards to you being a time waster and you end up on a list this is why admin won’t allow naming other people

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"We should make a list of them in your area so noone falls for them lies again i totally agree ,,, and have done it before but the only snag is you get all your profile wording deleted by admin,,, maybe admin should put up a list of time wasters,, "

Just added cocksucker1 and _panking master to the list of timewasters.

Winston

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Like others have said op just block them if you think they are wasting your time.

I'd class a time waster as someone who arranges a meet and then doesn't show up & doesn't let you know .If you're chatting and they change their mind or they cancel a meet in advance ,that doesn't mean they're time wasters .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cocksucker1 complete time waster see the problem ? What’s stopping people posting so and so is a time waster "

You’ll get a ban for naming & shamming on the forum

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Cocksucker1 complete time waster see the problem ? What’s stopping people posting so and so is a time waster

You’ll get a ban for naming & shamming on the forum "

It’s the Op

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Cocksucker1 complete time waster see the problem ? What’s stopping people posting so and so is a time waster

You’ll get a ban for naming & shamming on the forum "
I was simply pointing out how easy it is to name and shame

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin have said they won't be having a name and shame list. If you report the profile with the reason why you think someone is a timewaster they will look into for you.

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