FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

What gets an automatic BLOCK for you?

Jump to newest
 

By *ocothumpa OP   Man
over a year ago

quite close to you

My block list is lengthy; mainly because if I look on a profile and they put ‘white guys only’ or ‘no offence but my/our preference is white or Asian’ then they go on my block list

It’s the same as ‘no looking for single men’ or ‘bi-male wanted’

And profiles with LENGTHY wants/preferences or ‘No-No’s’ - I’ll just assume you’re not for me

You’re not looking for me I’m not going to waste my time looking at you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My block list is lengthy; mainly because if I look on a profile and they put ‘white guys only’ or ‘no offence but my/our preference is white or Asian’ then they go on my block list

It’s the same as ‘no looking for single men’ or ‘bi-male wanted’

And profiles with LENGTHY wants/preferences or ‘No-No’s’ - I’ll just assume you’re not for me

You’re not looking for me I’m not going to waste my time looking at you. "

If they message and I’m not interested then I usually block. Never blocked anyone I recognise from the forums though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Cock pics in the inbox is an automatic block.

People very close get blocked too.

Mrs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you prefer Length over Girth then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unpalatable social or political views. If I can see it on Fab, I don't want to see more of it in person.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics are an instant block.

Other than that I tend to tell people im not interested, if they continue to message they get blocked

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I hope I’m not being toooo picky, but I am very clear in my profile narrative about how to contact me and the criteria. I very rarely block … only if someone is persistent, but will often ignore.

R x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Coke/snow/420 friendly/HnH. What you smoke or snort is your own affair, but we want nothing to do with it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentions of drugs on their profile or status, or being a general dickwad on the forum.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Unpalatable social or political views. If I can see it on Fab, I don't want to see more of it in person."

This 100% with me also.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I can see the preview is unprovoked abuse… usually a case of small-man syndrome. Sometimes I choose violence and respond, sometimes instant block… all about balance

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't see the point of blocking. If they are so bad they could just make a new profile to make contact via.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *armiteloverMan
over a year ago

London

When I've messaged and they've read it and deleted it straight away without any reply. Plus everything _ocothumpa has put.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't even know you could see this. But I found it, and looked. I have blocked 4 profiles, and 1 person. That person is the owner of all 4 blocked profiles. I block them because they pollute my local updates thing with utterly vile pictures that make me want to stab myself in the eye with my own prostate.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nothing. I don't auto block for any reason really.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

That's a tough one.

Our profile is fairly detailed with what we don't want but we've reasons for each and as it's our choice on who we meet, why not list them? If they bother people that's okay, they can block us.

I personally can't stand someone sending dick pics in an intro and talking to me as a single woman when it's clearly a couples profile. It's rude and disrespectful and I can only imagine Fumbles reaction if we were out and some guy approached me seeing us together and acted like he wasn't there. That's an insta-block for me. Profiles that don't have content and aren't photo verified get blocked too, they just come across as lazy straight away.

Another that winds me up is people who ask for face pics but don't send themselves. Although I don't block for it, if they catch me in the wrong mood I have been known to.

This reads like I'm a total cow but I'm really not! Honest.

D x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I don’t just block based on profiles but will do if there’s a really unappealing message or someone who’s persistent.

I don’t think I’ve ever blocked someone because of a forum comment

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Finding someone i work with or family ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I used to block. I'd rather see them coming these days, though.

Plus: single guy, I don't read profiles, arf arf

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Unpalatable social or political views. If I can see it on Fab, I don't want to see more of it in person."

I fully agree. And doing it also has the benefits of preventing any DMs your way, that expand on their viewpoints.

Otherwise, it's standard for me to block, when anyone isn't palatable and mutually attractive, after messages

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Anyone local without public pictures or clearly fake profiles. Guys who constantly repeat message.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We only ever block if someone has blocked us.

Or we get nasty messeged about our preference.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have yet to block any one I just delete the messages

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Constant bombardment of boobs and intimate pics and the begging to meet.

Yet to use the block buttom.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Unpalatable social or political views. If I can see it on Fab, I don't want to see more of it in person."

This. It's astonishing how openly evil some people are willing to be on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Unpalatable social or political views. If I can see it on Fab, I don't want to see more of it in person."

Exactly this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Dunno, ask the people who block me for apparent reason other than I have a penis and am complimentary

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Guys telling us they are wanking over our pics - instant block so they can’t again.

We don’t block any other people unless they become incessant when we say no.

We just delete messages that are just cock pics, hi, FaF messages.

K

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Lots of locals based on their pictures occasionally but frequently on their status updates.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Only block in a 30 mile radius

Vag & Dick pics, partner doesn’t know I’m here, my partner knows I’m here, instant block.

Don’t block forum user’s as you can still the posts.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have "

Yes I agree! On my profile I have tried to make clear what I'm looking for, but if someone other messaged me I'd still be flattered! Guess that makes me a bit of a saddo, right? Haha!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have "

Why allow anyone to start or continue messaging if not interested?

I wouldn't call it negative, I'd call it a proactive way of keeping unwanted penises out of my inbox.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block those who don’t read my profile or follow a basic requested rule. Let’s face it, if you can’t follow an early requested rule then there’s no point moving forward

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We only use our block as a extra filter for people we have talked to and for whatever reason theirs no connection.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have "

Getting good things out of the site, and avoiding negative things on the site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Only peeps I block are rude people sometimes counter block as well my block list is small x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone whose criteria I don’t meet.

Why waste time?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies but we’re actually quite rare to block.

You have to be a bit offensive, rude or needy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Mentions of chem or 420

Pics of gapping holes... not sexy to see at all!

Persistent messages after I've said thanks but no thanks

My block list is rather big and growing every day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Incompatible profiles are not a ‘block’ for me…it would be more like, an abusive unprovoked message. Or if I get bombarded with unsolicited requests to “fuck the woman in your photo” (on another site).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When smokers contact us, who clearly have not read our profile. Equally same with 420 or HnH. Not decrying or belittling their recreation choices. But those choices mean we are an immediate non match. Also , sending friends invitation without any messages will illicit a block

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Anyone who mentions drugs

Awful dick pics

Multiple action shots

Bald

Calls women females

Staying in a local hotel

There's so many... lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block when I doubt of the realness of a profile or if someone pestering me privately.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

[Removed by poster at 10/10/22 11:43:39]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Most of those on my block list are there because of inane and insane(thanks phone) status updates or because of something they've said in the forums.

The latter is usually to prevent them commenting on my profile when they are sniping on here.

Introductory messages that give me a list of demands (instructions isn't a strong enough word) and/or those who like to tell me what I'm doing wrong and how I will never succeed on here get blockety blocked too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Just blocked someone for trying to fetishize my weight... but didn't want me to verify them after we met as his friends are on here and he couldn't be verified by a "fatty"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/10/22 11:50:13]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often block people just from my search results as I don't want them repeatedly showing up...

1. Women whose profiles consist mainly of things they don't want.

2. Crossdressers -- they're not women or TS and in all honesty the tv/ts category needs an update to reflect the difference.

3. Anyone with obviously poor self-care.

4. Homophobes, racists / excessively racial fetishisers, transphobes etc.

5. Anyone excessively woke -- i.e. the pronoun obsessed types who don't have their politics based in reality.

6. Women who obviously (by their profile) don't want me -- no point in keeping them from showing up if we're not compatible.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block anyone. I can always just ignore what I don't want to read. Or delete..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have "

It’s not negative it’s positive actually when you see it as improving your time on fab

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I hope I’m not being toooo picky, but I am very clear in my profile narrative about how to contact me and the criteria. I very rarely block … only if someone is persistent, but will often ignore.

R x"

You get to be as picky as you like. It will poor since people off but they probably wouldn't be the right person for your anyway. So it's no loss.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who clearly haven’t read our profile…

The one worders…

The dick pictures…

The unsolicited friend request…

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just blocked someone for trying to fetishize my weight... but didn't want me to verify them after we met as his friends are on here and he couldn't be verified by a "fatty""

Not fat… beautiful!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Automatic block is someone being really derogatory, ignorant or asking me to do really weird shit.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

Auto block for me is usually guys who message and ask if I can meet now, when told no because I need to plan ahead having a life and a job they keep messaging saying oh go on I really want to meet you now.

If they can’t understand No at this stage I automatically assume they also don’t understand no when it comes to consent so they get blocked.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have 3 blocked.

1 is an ex and the other 2 are just knobs. Takes a lot for me to block someone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I haven’t blocked many, I just ignore

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I only block if they are really whiny , it takes a lot. I have blocked occasionally for my own good to prevent me doing booty calls where I know that are bad for me.

I sometimes click on profiles to see if I’m blocked yet and am often pleasantly surprised

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I block just about everyone.....(before they block me lol)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I block if someone sends a rude or crude message. Be better, I say to those people

I counter-block if I notice I’m blocked.

I have blocked a few from the forums because I didn’t care for the way they conducted themselves. If people are going to be unpleasant to others then we definitely won’t get along.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I block if someone sends a rude or crude message. Be better, I say to those people

I counter-block if I notice I’m blocked.

I have blocked a few from the forums because I didn’t care for the way they conducted themselves. If people are going to be unpleasant to others then we definitely won’t get along. "

I just checked if I was blocked.

Phew.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason I ever block anyone is to counterblock if I notice they’ve blocked me, I’m petty like that, but not petty enough to block anyone else on an internet fuck site just because I might not agree with them on the forums or whatnot. Life’s too short for all that bobbins!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

[Removed by poster at 10/10/22 12:49:30]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Tricky, but I block racism and homophobia. Some of the things that are peevs for others like a huge list of dos and don'ts are usually because they have been messed about and we all get that, we're allowed to want what we want. Just because I'm Bi doesn't mean I'll see anyone, I like my men pretty. Does that make me shallow? Probably, but at least I haven't restricted myself to women only.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.

I generally only block if someone has messaged and I send a no thanks in return and they keep messaging. I did block someone for asking me to tell him all the details of our first (and only) verification. Ummmmm..No! I did have a day where I thought I would block locals we weren't interested in, but I feel bad about that now. Wish I hadn't done it, as it seems kinda harsh.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Just blocked someone for trying to fetishize my weight... but didn't want me to verify them after we met as his friends are on here and he couldn't be verified by a "fatty""

Do they realise this is the real world and it isn't populated by Pornhub models? You look fabulous, dahling. I'm going to mail you privately ok?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Generally after popping into the Politics part of the forum

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Asking to meet now

Sending cock pics or v graphic messages when we've never spoken.

Pests who keep messaging .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The only time I auto block is if I discover they have blocked our profile.

Otherwise I just make a note on their profile about why we wouldn’t be a match.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that just read Hi or How's you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block. "

Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block.

Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you?"

Getting them off?

You said it yourself, you get off if they get off!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath. No excuses.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igGs19Woman
over a year ago

Castle Douglas

Monosyllabic messages, such as simply "hi" or "fun?"

Flurry of cock pics and nothing else.

Messages that show they've clearly not read my profile, e.g, it clearly states I won't do short notice meets / meets without a bit of chatting, etc., They then message with "I really loved your profile do you wanna meet tonight?", Can't have loved my profile buddy...

Spam in local updates, there's a few who post a new cock pic or six every day... Really? It's still there buddy, it hasn't fallen off, give it a break.

Abusive/ keyboard warrior types on the forums, if they're in a reasonable radius of me or any clubs I may intend on visiting. If I'm unlikely to cross their path outwith the forum, I won't block.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block.

Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you?

Getting them off?

You said it yourself, you get off if they get off!"

Probably an oversimplification on my part, but in my head I know what I meant. People should respect what you want.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outside of the forums I only block for the same reasons as you OP.

On the forums I block for lots of reasons, mostly for racism though.

#StayWoke

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

A full graphic description of what they want to do to me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block.

Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you?

Getting them off?

You said it yourself, you get off if they get off!

Probably an oversimplification on my part, but in my head I know what I meant. People should respect what you want."

In theory that is what should happen, but in practice, in their heads they are sex gods who will make me surrender and make me their sex toy thing. They will be the ones who change my mind

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Any talk of 'family', either mine or their's

Racists

People who have blocked me

People looking for BBC only (I havent got one)

People who are rude to me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

Black cock only

Stupid or offensive statuses

Straight men who message me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"A full graphic description of what they want to do to me "

Does squeezing your boobs and shout 'HONK' at the same time count?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who haven't bothered to even read and abide by the 1st few lines of our profile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Mostly people who post views on the forum we don't like or agree with.

People who spam incessant cock pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Fakes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lack of patience. The first message, followed by ‘guess not then’ a couple of minutes later. Petulant toddler behaviour, hate it.

Unending messages and not taking a hint.

Abuse and trolling (obviously)

Any misogyny or racism, they don’t deserve to see my free porn

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of pics of his dick inside different women and no condoms used.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get asked weird requests..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

When somebody sends unsolicited cock pictures - it is in my profile, so no excuse.

Also when somebody becomes too pushy after an initial pleasant exchange, making demands.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Cock picture or obviously hasnt read my profile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

For us, just cock pictures are a block. Fancy some fun now messages received @ 03:00 in the morning, any profile related to drugs both get blocks , as do ( and not in a nasty way) single guy profiles that do not appeal to us both, and the final blocks are the pushy people

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Very lengthy what I want profiles, folk who can't say no thank you not for me. And folk looking for a specific type of person.

All get blocked by me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly not reading my profile as I have quite specific requirements and still send me a cut and paste mail, if there is a cock in the profile picture and the classic "how's you".

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you

A block is someone using that word breed !! I hate it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

A first message with a cock picture

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Mentions of drugs on their profile or status, or being a general dickwad on the forum."

I just find myself in agreement with you most of the time!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Cock profile pics

Cheating

Referring to Xeno as "she" or "her"

Profile pic switcheroos

Pushing certain acts

The list goes on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Cock profile pics

Cheating

Referring to Xeno as "she" or "her"

Profile pic switcheroos

Pushing certain acts

The list goes on "

I'll add that this isn't in reference to gender, more that I like to be referred to by name - Xeno

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I find it easy enough to ignore any messages I don't like and haven't encountered anyone persistent enough to warrant a block.

I wouldn't block anyone based on forum posts...I'm not conceited enough to think they might contact me with a view to meeting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gawd I’m quite harsh with the blocking

Anyone not my type

Dick pics in first message

Wanna meet messages

Poor profiles and no pics

Messages going straight into sexual chat

Anyone I recognise

One worded messages

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've no need to waste my energy blocking.

The only real reasons would be:

Someone I'm not intrested in or dislike continuing to message me, wink me, like my photos etc.

After a creepy message

Or simply the profile of someone I recognise where us interacting (even on a platonic level) or knowing of each others presence on here would not be helpful. I.e. a family or work colleague. My lifestyle isn't some dark secret but it's not something splash about the place. I chose the friends and family I happy to know about this life. For others my presence on here is none of their business and likewise their presence on here is non of mine.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few of the above but also anyone who messages from a hidden profile. What is the point?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

- Profiles that mention their 'twitter or OF accounts'

- People who contradict themselves

or are hypocrites! Eg some lady

messaged 1st & asked for my

facepic! This same person had

posted 'no1 reads profiles anyone

status post previous'. Well had

she read my profile would have

seen 'I clearly stated you ask

for facepic you send yours 1st'

- Anyone rude or entitled I

ain't got time for brats lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are rude to me I'll block

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have not one person on our blocked list I have a ok memory and self filter now removed all people who where blocked not had a problem either.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

If they are rude, abusive or use overly crude language in first message… also those who relentlessly message after saying “no thanks”

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

Empty profiles.

Racist profiles.

Profiles from people that obviously failed to read mine.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have

Yes I agree! On my profile I have tried to make clear what I'm looking for, but if someone other messaged me I'd still be flattered! Guess that makes me a bit of a saddo, right? Haha! "
naaaa I'm on your side

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overly crude statuses/bio

420 friendly

Couples posing as single women

Ignorance

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Cock pics, messages that just say “hi”

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Threads about blocks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics, messages that just say “hi” "

What about a cock pic with a hi along with it?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Cock pics, messages that just say “hi”

What about a cock pic with a hi along with it? "

Well now we’re talking

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is now the size of a small continent, I have sooo many reasons why I block The main reason is usually the constant follow up messages asking why not or being abusive after I’ve taken the time to send a really polite no thank you (and I mean genuinely polite)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Begging

Spamming us for attention

Ignoring our profile aims

Asking US when the Mrs is putting out for THEM

Being demanding for a meet

Not taking no fir an answer everytime it says we're online.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they delete my message I know there not interested

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igGs19Woman
over a year ago

Castle Douglas


"My block list is now the size of a small continent, I have sooo many reasons why I block The main reason is usually the constant follow up messages asking why not or being abusive after I’ve taken the time to send a really polite no thank you (and I mean genuinely polite) "

There's no winning, you respond and say no, you get abuse, you don't respond at all, you get abuse...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I discover that someone is the sort of someone, who parks in reserved kids or disabled bays without said kids or disability.

Those sort of someone's are a lower form of life - block.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I discover that someone is the sort of someone, who parks in reserved kids or disabled bays without said kids or disability.

Those sort of someone's are a lower form of life - block. "

I’m just interested how THAT comes up in conversation on Fab!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I discover that someone is the sort of someone, who parks in reserved kids or disabled bays without said kids or disability.

Those sort of someone's are a lower form of life - block.

I’m just interested how THAT comes up in conversation on Fab! "

Well, we are pretty bizarre.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

People who have obviously not read the profile..lazy ass, Hi how are you type rubbish..rude or horrible lists of what they want to do to Mrs FF..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Anything abhorrent (eg, "no blacks or asians", far-right political views, anti-vaxxers or conspiracy theorists)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that say hi babe when clearly we're a joint profile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages from guys who's profile doesn't say looking for TV.

Even worse when I get a response " I am but don't know how to change it." Utter BS

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Usually once they see my face it's an instant block for me from them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message and or wink/friend req who clearly aren’t what I’m looking for.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who supports Rangers.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coke/snow/420 friendly/HnH. What you smoke or snort is your own affair, but we want nothing to do with it."

Yes, me too, I agree.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coke/snow/420 friendly/HnH. What you smoke or snort is your own affair, but we want nothing to do with it."

What's HnH? I know the other 3.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Coke/snow/420 friendly/HnH. What you smoke or snort is your own affair, but we want nothing to do with it.

What's HnH? I know the other 3."

Hungry 'N Hippo. I've seen so many burgeoning relationships founder after an over-competitive swallow.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

Occasionally we block for messages devoid of thought or grammar. The worst by far was "wanna fuc". We haven't as yet, received any abuse.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really pious and severe individuals.

You're not winning any awards, no one cares.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've received a pretty swift block tonight.

As soon as I mentioned I wasn't into phone sex, I was blocked. Not a problem, it saves any further wasted messages.

I was just surprised at how quickly I went from being sexy to nothing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orny-chubbyMan
over a year ago

East London

After chatting to a bloke for a bit plus chatted on Watsup too to arrange a future meet , I called him buddy

He replied “I not your buddy “

I responded by saying , true you are not and ignored him .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After chatting to a bloke for a bit plus chatted on Watsup too to arrange a future meet , I called him buddy

He replied “I not your buddy “

I responded by saying , true you are not and ignored him ."

I really wish you had gone full terrence and phillip at this.

"I'm not your buddy, pal..."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Generally only block when people get in touch repeatedly after we've previously declined.

Also occasionally bloke local guys who will repeatedly like Mrs pics. Like every day like a few more. We're not looking to meet men and frankly it's just creepy. I wonder if people think it'll catch people's attention

That said I am curious how many people have blocked us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I don't really block a lot if I do its usually because someone has been abusive, or they keep msging me after I've made it clear i'm not interested.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Occasionally we block for messages devoid of thought or grammar. The worst by far was "wanna fuc". We haven't as yet, received any abuse. "

You’re lucky, I’ve even received abuse because my daily status updates aren’t funny enough

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Occasionally we block for messages devoid of thought or grammar. The worst by far was "wanna fuc". We haven't as yet, received any abuse.

You’re lucky, I’ve even received abuse because my daily status updates aren’t funny enough "

I've seen that status update, it's not that funny, but certainly nothing you should get abuse for, you're here for swinging not stand up comedy.

Amazing body, by the way

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Anyone who goes on to become whiny or needy ... the ick kicks in, rapidly followed by the block

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Coke/snow/420 friendly/HnH. What you smoke or snort is your own affair, but we want nothing to do with it.

What's HnH? I know the other 3."

High’n’horny apparently according to the slang dictionary.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm very generous with the block button. People I don't like the look of. People who spam my local updates. People who are unpleasant.

I even pre-emptively block people from the forums who I think might be prone to taking disagreements off the boards and into my inbox.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've only ever blocked 1 person. It was a persistent message who wouldn't have it that I was straight.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top