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By *inda May Simmons OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.

I think from House Of Cards, but I had a trip out recently to a nice and naughty place where I was lucky enough to have lots of fun, but this quote seemed to fit a lot of the interactions I was lucky enough to share in.

I wonder how other fabsters feel this quote applies to there experience ?

Oh! Should I say: I am NOT asking for a friend?

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Everything is about joy. Sex is a channel for, and intensification, of joy. Power and control are merely directional.

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By *inda May Simmons OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"Everything is about joy. Sex is a channel for, and intensification, of joy. Power and control are merely directional."

Have you read Schopenhauer? Certainly human drive may aspire to “joy” or “happiness” but sex is a baser need, it doesn’t require high intelligence, it is a driver like eating, sleeping and breathing. It is required to maintain life.

Certainly the rituals we develop to make the function more entertaining can become quite elaborate and can lead to joy, but I don’t think that is really what it is about. Power and control directional?

Power and control are drivers and joy perhaps a destination, or a desire… which is not always achieved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughty naughty. Very naughty?

*one for the 90 music fans. (Loosely works)

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.

I think from House Of Cards, but I had a trip out recently to a nice and naughty place where I was lucky enough to have lots of fun, but this quote seemed to fit a lot of the interactions I was lucky enough to share in.

I wonder how other fabsters feel this quote applies to there experience ?

Oh! Should I say: I am NOT asking for a friend?"

Too deep for 7.30 on a Monday morning

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

There are plenty who use sex for power (or withhold for same).

There are those that it’s an expression of love.

For me it’s just a bloody good hobby. . It’s about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.

I think from House Of Cards, but I had a trip out recently to a nice and naughty place where I was lucky enough to have lots of fun, but this quote seemed to fit a lot of the interactions I was lucky enough to share in.

I wonder how other fabsters feel this quote applies to there experience ?

Oh! Should I say: I am NOT asking for a friend?"

It definitely is, both consciously and subconsciously, that's how and why it is so often mis-used and abused as a tool for bad deeds

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex


"There are plenty who use sex for power (or withhold for same).

There are those that it’s an expression of love.

For me it’s just a bloody good hobby. . It’s about sex. "

Sex = fun, fulfilling an emotional and physical need and for its own sake. And to scratch our kinky itches. That’s our tale - sure others have a different view x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sex is an expression of life ,of feeling human and part of the human race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty naughty. Very naughty?

*one for the 90 music fans. (Loosely works)"

He’s a c*nt, he’s a c*nt, the referees a c*nt..

This song was briefly popular at football grounds at the time but surprisingly never properly persisted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is about joy. Sex is a channel for, and intensification, of joy. Power and control are merely directional.

Have you read Schopenhauer? Certainly human drive may aspire to “joy” or “happiness” but sex is a baser need, it doesn’t require high intelligence, it is a driver like eating, sleeping and breathing. It is required to maintain life.

Certainly the rituals we develop to make the function more entertaining can become quite elaborate and can lead to joy, but I don’t think that is really what it is about. Power and control directional?

Power and control are drivers and joy perhaps a destination, or a desire… which is not always achieved! "

This, not only Schopenhauer but If you read Mallow's hierarchy of needs model. Sex also falls within the ground floor level of basic needs similar to food, water, heat, shelter etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maslow not Mallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty naughty. Very naughty?

*one for the 90 music fans. (Loosely works)

He’s a c*nt, he’s a c*nt, the referees a c*nt..

This song was briefly popular at football grounds at the time but surprisingly never properly persisted "

Some football chants are genius.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I shag therefore I am

I saw

I conquered

I came..twice or more

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ask not what your cunt can do for me

Ask me what I can do for your cunt

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ich bin ein 7 incher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ich bin ein 7 incher "

Ich bin win Berliner with a 6 incher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ich bin ein 7 incher

Ich bin win Berliner with a 6 incher "

Ich bevorzuge 10 Zoll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ich bin ein 7 incher

Ich bin win Berliner with a 6 incher

Ich bevorzuge 10 Zoll "

Tu m’as perdu là

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ich bin ein 7 incher

Ich bin win Berliner with a 6 incher

Ich bevorzuge 10 Zoll

Tu m’as perdu là "

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


" Ich bin ein 7 incher

Ich bin win Berliner with a 6 incher

Ich bevorzuge 10 Zoll "
zoot alors!!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


" Ich bin ein 7 incher

Ich bin win Berliner with a 6 incher

Ich bevorzuge 10 Zoll zoot alors!!!"

Good Moaning. I was pissing by

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford


"Naughty naughty. Very naughty?

*one for the 90 music fans. (Loosely works)"

Totally came in here to do this myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.

I think from House Of Cards, but I had a trip out recently to a nice and naughty place where I was lucky enough to have lots of fun, but this quote seemed to fit a lot of the interactions I was lucky enough to share in.

I wonder how other fabsters feel this quote applies to there experience ?

Oh! Should I say: I am NOT asking for a friend?"

Not sure I agree with the wise words .

I love sex .

I hate power . I really hate power .

Really don’t give 2 fucks about fame or popularity.

So really don’t see how that Great man calculates that …

For me sex is all about happiness . Being alive .

Sharing the love and the passion and the pleasure …

Max power i see about sex is me as a Dom and owning a Sub . Wich goes back to share the love .

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Everything is about joy. Sex is a channel for, and intensification, of joy. Power and control are merely directional.

Have you read Schopenhauer? Certainly human drive may aspire to “joy” or “happiness” but sex is a baser need, it doesn’t require high intelligence, it is a driver like eating, sleeping and breathing. It is required to maintain life.

Certainly the rituals we develop to make the function more entertaining can become quite elaborate and can lead to joy, but I don’t think that is really what it is about. Power and control directional?

Power and control are drivers and joy perhaps a destination, or a desire… which is not always achieved! "

I've read The World as Will and Idea, but I'm with Nietzsche, who once said it was wrong to see him as the great No-sayer. It's just that before one can build again, one must often clear the ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty naughty. Very naughty?

*one for the 90 music fans. (Loosely works)"
you got any Vera's sorted

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Wallace and Gromit

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