FabSwingers.com forum: Aim for the stars .. even if you miss you might hit the moon ..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this your Fab and / or life philosophy?

You know, nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that.

Maybe you think you can be the next big thing in the media or online. Or you’re going to take a punt on messaging that out of this world hottie top of the most Fabbed list in hope of securing a meet?

Or are you more pragmatic in your approach .. why waste time and effort chasing unlikely dreams and instead focus your attention on more realistic goals? The rewards might not be quite so great but the likelihood of achieving them is much greater.

I’m curious to know, Fabsters.

Me? Mostly the latter. But sometimes the former. And sometimes it’s even worked!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends on the situation. If I want to double my salary I'm wasting my time and my boss' time asking for a pay rise so I'll do it by tailoring my skills to the next role and moving on.

If it's something that's achievable (even if it's a stretch) then I won't count myself out by not going after it. If there's someone I like the sound of I have no issues saying so. If I think there's a deal to be done I'll try for it before I walk away.

If I don't ask for what I want then the answer is always no. If I ask then the answer may still be no, but there's a chance it'll be yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... If a star was as close to me as the moon I'd be very fucking worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch!!!!! My fucking head man

thanks a bunch no wonder space men wear helmets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer i already been among the stars happily shining until the earths gravity dragged me back down to this damn rock of reality

So i decided to ground myself falling that far honestly just bloody hurts

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Well, you always have a parachute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m finding very challenging to read this question I tried about 6 times .

Maybe I’m getting tired .

How do I know she is a dream out of my league . You don’t know til she ignores you or reply …

“ oh she is so hot , she will never text a little shit like me “

Is that what you mean ?

No doesn’t stop me . If I like her I say hello

That’s why I say hello . Cause I like her .

She is more more fabbed or not I have no clue I don’t check that ….

If her tities are smaller then stars

I’m in

If her bum is bigger then the moon

I’m in

There’s no limits x x

I don’t buy shoes that I think :

“ oh that will do . “. I just can’t do that … can take me 2 to 3 years to buy some trainers …

Tho …. If I see some I like and I don’t need , I grab the chance , on the spot . I go for it

Not 100% sure I’m answering right to the question ….

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

The main pholosophy when in your late 50s is "life is too short" too short to be pussy footing about, too short to not make the best of every opportunity, too short to be getting messed around and too short to be explaining yourself to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... If a star was as close to me as the moon I'd be very fucking worried

this made me

thank you...!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m finding very challenging to read this question I tried about 6 times .

Maybe I’m getting tired .

How do I know she is a dream out of my league . You don’t know til she ignores you or reply …

“ oh she is so hot , she will never text a little shit like me “

Is that what you mean ?

No doesn’t stop me . If I like her I say hello

That’s why I say hello . Cause I like her .

She is more more fabbed or not I have no clue I don’t check that ….

If her tities are smaller then stars

I’m in

If her bum is bigger then the moon

I’m in

There’s no limits x x

I don’t buy shoes that I think :

“ oh that will do . “. I just can’t do that … can take me 2 to 3 years to buy some trainers …

Tho …. If I see some I like and I don’t need , I grab the chance , on the spot . I go for it

Not 100% sure I’m answering right to the question ….

Yeah kind of.

Like imagine you’re Gary Goals, looking for a new football team to play for.

Do you contact Manchester City asking for a trial, they might say yes after all, even if it is unlikely. Until you ask you’ll never know.

Or do you contact the Dog & Duck Sunday Reserves. You know, in your heart you know really that they’re much more your standard. And they’re in need of new players after that unfortunate incident in that nightclub.

That’s what it’s all about.

Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The main pholosophy when in your late 50s is "life is too short" too short to be pussy footing about, too short to not make the best of every opportunity, too short to be getting messed around and too short to be explaining yourself to everyone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Shoot for the stars, so if you fall you land on a cloud.’ [redacted]- Homecoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Risks are good, gambles less so.

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Reach for the ground. By Jeffrey Bernard. Excellent read

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I’m finding very challenging to read this question I tried about 6 times .

Maybe I’m getting tired .

How do I know she is a dream out of my league . You don’t know til she ignores you or reply …

“ oh she is so hot , she will never text a little shit like me “

Is that what you mean ?

No doesn’t stop me . If I like her I say hello

That’s why I say hello . Cause I like her .

She is more more fabbed or not I have no clue I don’t check that ….

If her tities are smaller then stars

I’m in

If her bum is bigger then the moon

I’m in

There’s no limits x x

I don’t buy shoes that I think :

“ oh that will do . “. I just can’t do that … can take me 2 to 3 years to buy some trainers …

Tho …. If I see some I like and I don’t need , I grab the chance , on the spot . I go for it

Not 100% sure I’m answering right to the question ….

You’ve made my head hurt

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

If i aimed for the stars id probably land in a black hole

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

Reach for the stars, stops your boobs looking saggy

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, you have to be realistic, otherwise you're just wasting everyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding very challenging to read this question I tried about 6 times .

Maybe I’m getting tired .

How do I know she is a dream out of my league . You don’t know til she ignores you or reply …

“ oh she is so hot , she will never text a little shit like me “

Is that what you mean ?

No doesn’t stop me . If I like her I say hello

That’s why I say hello . Cause I like her .

She is more more fabbed or not I have no clue I don’t check that ….

If her tities are smaller then stars

I’m in

If her bum is bigger then the moon

I’m in

There’s no limits x x

I don’t buy shoes that I think :

“ oh that will do . “. I just can’t do that … can take me 2 to 3 years to buy some trainers …

Tho …. If I see some I like and I don’t need , I grab the chance , on the spot . I go for it

Not 100% sure I’m answering right to the question ….

Yeah kind of.

Like imagine you’re Gary Goals, looking for a new football team to play for.

Do you contact Manchester City asking for a trial, they might say yes after all, even if it is unlikely. Until you ask you’ll never know.

That’s what it’s all about.

Simple really

Oh that ? Higher . Always go higher …

U just gave an example of how my real life at work …

I just gone back to a previous boss cause the

“ trials “ didn’t gone very well . To much on …

Is not the end of the story . The gates are open

There will be more trikes in next round

Never surrender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, is this thread about not fearing to punch above your weight without fear of rejection...in a fab sense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, is this thread about not fearing to punch above your weight without fear of rejection...in a fab sense?"

That, possibly. And Gary Goals’ Manchester City trial

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