FabSwingers.com forum: Are you feeling sexy?

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

This is a question that I’ve been pondering a fair amount recently or more specifically; what makes you feel sexy and if you don’t feel it, can you/ how do you change that?

I must admit that I’ve been feeling very ‘meh’ of late and I’m interested as to how others remedy that

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

When I wake up energetic. My skin is clear, my hair looks good. I look in the mirror and see how glorious I look. That's when I feel sexy.

Also, when I'm in the middle of a gangbang or threesome and get up to pop to the loo and see all these men watching me hungrily. Man that makes me feel sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though. "

Tell me more about this garlic bread

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

Tell me more about this garlic bread"

Is it penis shaped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very meh too.. Do you think it's the onset of winter?

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"When I wake up energetic. My skin is clear, my hair looks good. I look in the mirror and see how glorious I look. That's when I feel sexy.

Also, when I'm in the middle of a gangbang or threesome and get up to pop to the loo and see all these men watching me hungrily. Man that makes me feel sexy

I can do the popping to the loo, the hang bang and threesomes, not so much

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm very meh too.. Do you think it's the onset of winter? "

Possibly. That and dozens of other things too in my case

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"When I wake up energetic. My skin is clear, my hair looks good. I look in the mirror and see how glorious I look. That's when I feel sexy.

Also, when I'm in the middle of a gangbang or threesome and get up to pop to the loo and see all these men watching me hungrily. Man that makes me feel sexy

I can do the popping to the loo, the hang bang and threesomes, not so much"

*Ahem* you were pretty good at the old threesome to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

Tell me more about this garlic bread"

The good stuff you get in Italian restaurants, no idea how it's made but it's got oil on it and it just oooozes garlic, but not soggy buttery rubbish like you get from Tesco (other supermarkets are available).

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"When I wake up energetic. My skin is clear, my hair looks good. I look in the mirror and see how glorious I look. That's when I feel sexy.

Also, when I'm in the middle of a gangbang or threesome and get up to pop to the loo and see all these men watching me hungrily. Man that makes me feel sexy

I can do the popping to the loo, the hang bang and threesomes, not so much

*Ahem* you were pretty good at the old threesome to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

Tell me more about this garlic bread

Is it penis shaped? "

Don't ruin it for me.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

Tell me more about this garlic bread

*drools*

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

Tell me more about this garlic bread

Is it penis shaped?

Don't ruin it for me. "

Sorry.

Is it the same size and shape as a sky remote?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always sexy. Check out my photos.

I’m up and down, but this is why I get rid if negative people. I don’t mind if someone I know is having a bad time, but those that have nothing but drama are not sexy people. They bring everyone down.

Happy people are what this world needs, and a big orgy.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Nope. Not feeling sexy at all of late. Can’t seem to do anything about it either. I’m here for any tips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

Tell me more about this garlic bread

*drools* "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always sexy. Check out my photos.

Happy people are what this world needs, and a big orgy.

Did you figure out the optimum number yet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not today I'm not. It ebbs and flows depending on hormones, medication, stress etc. Eating processed carby crap has a very detrimental effect on my mojo too. Fortunately, I occasionally have an amazing day of feeling full of life, energy and sexiness, so I'm content with having the 'meh' days.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To me sexy is a social feeling. I feel sexy in relation to other people (when I'm not tired, etc).

At the moment I'm not around people much if at all, so I rarely feel sexy. It's a nice holiday from distracting feelings getting in my way.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've been struggling all year and feeling meh so in my case it's nothing to do with winter.

I don't have any solutions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not today I'm not. It ebbs and flows depending on hormones, medication, stress etc. Eating processed carby crap has a very detrimental effect on my mojo too. Fortunately, I occasionally have an amazing day of feeling full of life, energy and sexiness, so I'm content with having the 'meh' days."

I think that too.. I'm trying to eat my way back to feeling vital

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Everyone on this thread so far is sexy as duck as far as I can see!!!

I’m definitely not looking at all sexy right now. But damn I feel it

Mrs

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Hope you feel more

soon Tea x

I surround myself with people who are in a positive sexual energy when I'm In a Meh mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that too.. I'm trying to eat my way back to feeling vital "

Yes. All the women in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that too.. I'm trying to eat my way back to feeling vital

Yes. All the women in this thread.

What about the men?

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I imagine that peaks and troughs are to be expected and natural to a degree?

Thank you for sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling utterly unsexy, really don't like what menopause has done to my body and mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy? No

Horny? Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine that peaks and troughs are to be expected and natural to a degree?

Thank you for sharing "

Absolutely, but the troughs are more frequent and pronounced these days due to me taking fluoxetine. I've gone from almost having raging permahorn to feeling mildly frisky once every few days or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that too.. I'm trying to eat my way back to feeling vital

Yes. All the women in this thread.

What about the men? "

Depends if we promise not to touch each other. Or if we do, we don’t ever mention it when I’m drinking from a beer bottle.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I imagine that peaks and troughs are to be expected and natural to a degree?

Thank you for sharing

Absolutely, but the troughs are more frequent and pronounced these days due to me taking fluoxetine. I've gone from almost having raging permahorn to feeling mildly frisky once every few days or so. "

I’m sorry to read that!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that too.. I'm trying to eat my way back to feeling vital

Yes. All the women in this thread.

What about the men?

Depends if we promise not to touch each other. Or if we do, we don’t ever mention it when I’m drinking from a beer bottle.

It’s ok Woody, I promise not to touch you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na na na naaaaa na.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that too.. I'm trying to eat my way back to feeling vital

Yes. All the women in this thread.

What about the men?

Depends if we promise not to touch each other. Or if we do, we don’t ever mention it when I’m drinking from a beer bottle.

It’s ok Woody, I promise not to touch you"

& I promise not to touch yours…. So we’re in then. Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great clothes do. I dress to compliment myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope havent done so in a long while

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By *ockyroad666Man
over a year ago

Maesteg

Nope

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By *ungle VIP 1Man
over a year ago

colchester

Something about today making me feel very unsexy, seems i dont attract anyone and making me feel shit about myself and looks. Hopefully tomorrow is a better day and its just winter kicking in

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Always

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I felt damned sexy on Saturday night when I was out and about in Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't.

Nothing makes me feel sexy at this moment in time.

Except maybe garlic bread, good garlic bread though.

Tell me more about this garlic bread

Olive oil + garlic . Is a superb combination .

Olive oil . Makes wonders .

How do Italians make a pizza taste like real pizza ?

Secret ? Is a fin line of olive oil on top

Olive oil + sliced garlic makes everything a higher level . Salads and cooked food . Fried …hmmm

Grilled cod , they fry in a good load of olive oil and loads of garlic … with salted little full roast potatoes .

Very popular in Portugal . Hmmm divine …

Rub a fresh Clove of garlic is a slice of toast then a nice line on top …

Or u hate it or u love it .

Even just the olive oil on toast instead of butter .

Home made big bread then fresh out of oven , Stil hot n deep it in olive oil n eat it

Hmmmm x x

Fry everything in olive oil + garlic

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

This very minute? No, not in the slightest. I'm too much in non-sexy mode and not in that particular headspace. I've been feeling more sexy recently because I'm taking better care of myself. Doing little things that boost my mood and trying to get decent sleep. I think the biggest feeling of feeling sexy comes from within me although having typed that...

Feeling desired makes me feel sexy as well, knowing that someone I find attractive wants me always boosts my mood and libido.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

ilkley and Stockport

I think that too.. I'm trying to eat my way back to feeling vital

Yes. All the women in this thread.

What about the men? "

What about those of us who aren't sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not right now, no.

I’ve let a few bad habits creep back into my existence, which has done me no good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes im feeling sexy ,had nice shower ,dressed up and went our for breakfast with a friend .Its nice to feel confident and catch mens eye and women .Feel not bad for 50 .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t rely on others to feel sexy! Putting on a nice dress or lingerie, having my nails done and having good hair makes me feel sexy. I didn’t ever feel sexy prior to my weight loss so I’d add having the figure I desired also makes me feel sexy

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

ilkley and Stockport

It's been a not particularly good several years for me. Life, love, family, community, country, continent, world. Everything seeming a bit fucked up on all scales. Occasionally being around nice people lifts me a little and I can feel desirable for a while. Mostly though "sexy" is just a bloody annoyance when I wake in the night in an aroused state that I don't really want, is just pure mechanical action to get rid of, and usually leaves me with slight distaste for my body.

Crap, I'm depressing myself now.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm (Mrs) struggling with the sexy at the moment, it's hard to get feeling that way, the Mr does a great job of turning that around though, but on my own I'm lacking the sexy feeling.

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By *exySwitches203Couple
over a year ago

Felixstowe

I (mr) havent felt proper sexy for a couple of months, the giving up smoking (not had one since june) has led to a little stomach that hasnt been there before. To many its not a bad thing but for me its been a sight for sore eyes considering my athletic background.

My partner has been my rock and regularly reminds me of how attractive i am in her eyes and really helps to turn it around for me, its amazing what she does for my mental health and i do tell her about this.

What do i do to help combat my thoughts?.. i try to pick clothes i know that make me feel good and sexy. I try to regularly do some kind of exercise whether a walk or rugby training. But most of all i just try to keep telling myself that im sexy and hot, my partner knows i am so therefor if shes right then it must be true..?

But seriously, its a rollercoaster however this is my body and its here with me till the day i go… so i try to embrace as much as possible…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes me happy when a lady is happy with me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not feel sexy. In fact, I never feel sexy. If the OP takes that to mean some for of exuding sexual confidence or attraction. And, the weird thing is, I only just realised... I mean, I feel horny and all the other good stuff, but no I've never once stopped to think "I'm damn sexy right now!" Going to think about this, genuinely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day I’m right on point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a question that I’ve been pondering a fair amount recently or more specifically; what makes you feel sexy and if you don’t feel it, can you/ how do you change that?

I must admit that I’ve been feeling very ‘meh’ of late and I’m interested as to how others remedy that"

Currently basking in afterglow, so yes I feel sexy

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Mega sexy.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Sadly not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at the minute, no. I've let some bad eating habits creep in recently so end up feeling a bit crap at night before bed so could do with tightening it up a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but I have been feeling horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeling utterly unsexy, really don't like what menopause has done to my body and mind."

Totally this!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I'm not feeling sexy, at all. Mixture of reasons why but stress, tiredness and weight gain are the main reasons. Making some changes in my life to relieve some stress and tiredness and signing up to the new gym in town this week. Thankfully my husband understands me and is so incredibly supportive of me. He will help me have my mojo back by the end of the year I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not right now, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at this moment im in my wanking jacket and shorts and just quit the gym so im on the decline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, sometimes I have to avoid the mirror or reflective surfaces lest I excite myself too much.

It's the same old same old, take care of yourself, eat right, move and sleep hygiene. Slip up on the basics and the rest will tumble too.

Also being a raging narcissist really helps too.

And moisturising.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Honestly, sometimes I have to avoid the mirror or reflective surfaces lest I excite myself too much.

It's the same old same old, take care of yourself, eat right, move and sleep hygiene. Slip up on the basics and the rest will tumble too.

Also being a raging narcissist really helps too.

And moisturising. "

It's mainly the narcissism though, let's be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, sometimes I have to avoid the mirror or reflective surfaces lest I excite myself too much.

It's the same old same old, take care of yourself, eat right, move and sleep hygiene. Slip up on the basics and the rest will tumble too.

Also being a raging narcissist really helps too.

And moisturising.

It's mainly the narcissism though, let's be honest.

I'll be honest, this spf 20 daily moisturiser is so light, yet so rich, I'm really starting to feel such a wonderful glow developing whilst protecting myself from harmful uv rays.

Plus I'm fucking amazeballs.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Honestly, sometimes I have to avoid the mirror or reflective surfaces lest I excite myself too much.

It's the same old same old, take care of yourself, eat right, move and sleep hygiene. Slip up on the basics and the rest will tumble too.

Also being a raging narcissist really helps too.

And moisturising.

It's mainly the narcissism though, let's be honest.

I'll be honest, this spf 20 daily moisturiser is so light, yet so rich, I'm really starting to feel such a wonderful glow developing whilst protecting myself from harmful uv rays.

Plus I'm fucking amazeballs. "

Ha. Daft sod. Send a link to it please via another platform. I'm currently bathing my whole eye area in Ordinary Caffeine stuff. Not got the glow yet. Don't feel sexy, it kind of stings. Hmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, sometimes I have to avoid the mirror or reflective surfaces lest I excite myself too much.

It's the same old same old, take care of yourself, eat right, move and sleep hygiene. Slip up on the basics and the rest will tumble too.

Also being a raging narcissist really helps too.

And moisturising.

It's mainly the narcissism though, let's be honest.

I'll be honest, this spf 20 daily moisturiser is so light, yet so rich, I'm really starting to feel such a wonderful glow developing whilst protecting myself from harmful uv rays.

Plus I'm fucking amazeballs.

Ha. Daft sod. Send a link to it please via another platform. I'm currently bathing my whole eye area in Ordinary Caffeine stuff. Not got the glow yet. Don't feel sexy, it kind of stings. Hmmm."

That same telegram group we use to make fun of people?

Illumine, illuminated, illumination, ill communication, the la-li-le-lu-lo?

Why can't I say it? Damn Patriots.

Meli-Con, come in? This is Solid Flake.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Plus I'm fucking amazeballs.

Ha. Daft sod. Send a link to it please via another platform. I'm currently bathing my whole eye area in Ordinary Caffeine stuff. Not got the glow yet. Don't feel sexy, it kind of stings. Hmmm.

That same telegram group we use to make fun of people?

Illumine, illuminated, illumination, ill communication, the la-li-le-lu-lo?

Why can't I say it? Damn Patriots.

Meli-Con, come in? This is Solid Flake."

Reading you loud and clear Solid Flake, this is Meli-Con.

Suggestion to be discussed at a later date, Illuminated. Perfect falafel mix.

Over and out.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't feel sexy at all.

I'm currently devoid of all sexiness and unlikely to find a trace of it in whatever manifestation it happens to crop up (unlikely).

The traits of my sexiness have diminished. Even my cologne has given up on me.

I hope it's short-lived. I want my sexy feeling and sexiness to return from exile.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

With apologies, this has actually been a really reassuring thread! I'm definitely feeling a bit 'meh' too, certainly not sexy, so quite nice to know I'm not the only one!

Sure our mojos will return soon enough...fingers crossed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sexy when I'm freshly shaved, showered, hair done, a little make up on etc and in lingerie and heels. Or dressed nice to go out somewhere.

Rest of the time I feel like a scruff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling particularly fat and ugly the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently lacking the feeling of sexy, need to lose the 15lbs I've gained and some age defying liquids to feel top again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been feeling particularly sexy for a month or so tbh, mostly due to life getting in the way etc. I am sure it will pass tho, soon I hope

Lee

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