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By *aulupforit OP   Man
over a year ago

Corbridge

Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sick of it too, Paul. Shall we burn it down?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Given the size of the site, I'm sure plenty of people get sick of it. Come and go, in and out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye then.

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By *illygirlWoman
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

See ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, ever since I first joined 3years ago!

Fortunately I’ve met a few amazing people on here, and the fact that I’m a perv, that keeps me here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bye then."

You're so so cruel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Seems good to me

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If you’re sick of it why are you still here?

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By *aulupforit OP   Man
over a year ago

Corbridge


"I'm sick of it too, Paul. Shall we burn it down?"

Ha ha is it that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sick of getting hundreds of messages from desperate women lmao

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By *aulupforit OP   Man
over a year ago

Corbridge


"Bye then."
No one mentioned they where leaving?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Bye then. No one mentioned they where leaving? "
Where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bye then.

You're so so cruel "

Why is it cruel? Don't like it then leave it.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Turn the lights off when you leave please

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By *aulupforit OP   Man
over a year ago

Corbridge


"If you’re sick of it why are you still here?"

It is like drink,Never doing it again after a good sesh.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Bye then.

You're so so cruel

Why is it cruel? Don't like it then leave it. "

tell it like it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has changed this site. Was good a few years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bye then.

You're so so cruel

Why is it cruel? Don't like it then leave it. tell it like it is "

I always do

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Bye then.

You're so so cruel

Why is it cruel? Don't like it then leave it. tell it like it is

I always do "

to be fair, she does

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

All depends on how you "View" the site and what you hope to get out of it ?? endless meets with sex on tap....far better sites for that and even sites where you are 100% sure of getting laid but.....and been lucky has met some amazing people so we are quite content ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bye then.

You're so so cruel

Why is it cruel? Don't like it then leave it. "

Am only messing ..that's why the two smiley faces were on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get fed up I take some time away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fed up of people.

The site is a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close the door quietly behind you when you leave

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"If I get fed up I take some time away."

This - I don't think the site has changed as such but maybe people and their expectations have changed a bit (I include myself in this)

We live in different times, pandemic, inflation, war etc and a lot of uncertainty, anxiety and maybe even a desire to make the most of each day, so our approach may be different perhaps and we expect more to happen at an accelerated pace.

Just a thought.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Just have a little break and don't set your expectations too high. Tom was getting a little tired a few months back and when he returned a fabber messaged and she said that people were literally dancing in the streets like when Mandela was released ...

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Yeah, ever since I first joined 3years ago!

Fortunately I’ve met a few amazing people on here, and the fact that I’m a perv, that keeps me here!"

You're such a glass-half-full girl, peony!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

See you then,shut the door on your way out.

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


" All depends on how you "View" the site and what you hope to get out of it ?? endless meets with sex on tap....far better sites for that and even sites where you are 100% sure of getting laid but.....and been lucky has met some amazing people so we are quite content ... "

Name said sites, please..? Just let me go get a pen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fed up with all the guys wanting sex with me.

I'm fully booked till 2024 FFS.

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Tell us more - what's wrong Bro?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I'm fed up with all the guys wanting sex with me.

I'm fully booked till 2024 FFS.

"

but you're ugly...... Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fed up with all the guys wanting sex with me.

I'm fully booked till 2024 FFS.

but you're ugly...... Why? "

I'm just as puzzled as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fed up with all the guys wanting sex with me.

I'm fully booked till 2024 FFS.

"

^Message her at 20.25

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nope not at all x

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I'm fed up with all the guys wanting sex with me.

I'm fully booked till 2024 FFS.

but you're ugly...... Why?

I'm just as puzzled as you. "

you can't be it's impossible

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm loving every second of it

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It has flattened out. I wish it had a sister dating site side where we can meet like minded people. There needs to be a refresh or something. But is it due to the financial crisis?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not sick of the site as it's a lovely distraction away from things that do make me feel sick of

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By *oldwing1832Couple
over a year ago

Co durham

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Membership is optional, not compulsory.

A

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"
Hide your profile for a bit and come back when your ready to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

No, it’s not just you.

I hope that answers your question.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Said no woman ever

Men will get sick of it because the ratio is unbalanced and you're fighting to get attention in an over saturated site.

Fuck me, if I wasn't on a couples profile I doubt I'd get no attention at all.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm sick of people whining about situations they can change fairly easily... But that's not just here

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

Said no woman ever

Men will get sick of it because the ratio is unbalanced and you're fighting to get attention in an over saturated site.

Fuck me, if I wasn't on a couples profile I doubt I'd get no attention at all.

"

If you think "the women" don't get sick of this site, you are sorely mistaken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it gave me covid but turned out it was just a computer virus

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

Said no woman ever

Men will get sick of it because the ratio is unbalanced and you're fighting to get attention in an over saturated site.

Fuck me, if I wasn't on a couples profile I doubt I'd get no attention at all.

If you think "the women" don't get sick of this site, you are sorely mistaken "

Not for the lack of attention I'm willing to bet

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

no stay on here keep perving its a bit of fun.. its good for your mental health,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of the site? No

Of guys fronting bs and lying? Yes

Of the hunt for a kinky, ride-or-die co-driver for this jalopy called life? Not yet, probably not ever

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site has changed in the years I’ve bee on it but if you stand still you die something for everyone here still enjoy or leave

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

Said no woman ever

Men will get sick of it because the ratio is unbalanced and you're fighting to get attention in an over saturated site.

Fuck me, if I wasn't on a couples profile I doubt I'd get no attention at all.

"

Not all attention is good attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention is for the needy.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

Said no woman ever

Men will get sick of it because the ratio is unbalanced and you're fighting to get attention in an over saturated site.

Fuck me, if I wasn't on a couples profile I doubt I'd get no attention at all.

Not all attention is good attention."

Even I know that and I'm the male. I get sick of the unwanted attention she gets

Is there some sort of mental issue going on that prevents people from not getting the hint?

However, I envy their persistence because I couldn't do it

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"Attention is for the needy. "

Well put.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Taking a break from searching and messaging helps, instead use the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


" All depends on how you "View" the site and what you hope to get out of it ?? endless meets with sex on tap....far better sites for that and even sites where you are 100% sure of getting laid but.....and been lucky has met some amazing people so we are quite content ... "

Which sites are those ?

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Well you did get it confused with Fab Trapeze Artists ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, ever since I first joined 3years ago!

Fortunately I’ve met a few amazing people on here, and the fact that I’m a perv, that keeps me here!"

You naughty girl ^^

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By *orny bi sub 82Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Not really sick of it as such, recently come back on here and it's ok... Not much happening in Shropshire though lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

No is just you .

100% loving it and more and more proud of be part of this and happy to be here .

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

My first meet I vomited - literally. But that's Fabswiggers for you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given the size of the site, I'm sure plenty of people get sick of it. Come and go, in and out. "

I love a good in n out …. Hmmm with loads of kissing even better x x x

I’m in .

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lots of people suffering from moaning sickness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Not just you, there are plenty of these moaning threads and have been for years.

Sick of the site? Don't just whinge about it, take a break or leave it.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

No I think the site is brilliant

I'm getting loads of interest

And do you know why ???

because I put the F@#£ing effort in

All these people moaning about not getting meets blah blah blah

If your not happy then it's simple

Leave the site

Rant over....good evening everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our moments. If I'm fed up then I just don't log on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a young man called Paul

Who at first was having a ball

He said “not being a dick,

But this site makes me sick

Now I’m not getting any sex at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a young man called Paul

Who at first was having a ball

He said “not being a dick,

But this site makes me sick

Now I’m not getting any sex at all!"

This made me giggle

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By *ourtoyboy1Man
over a year ago

local

what a legend i was but now im not

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By *ourtoyboy1Man
over a year ago

local

dan berks you legend

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By *ourtoyboy1Man
over a year ago

local


"There was a young man called Paul

Who at first was having a ball

He said “not being a dick,

But this site makes me sick

Now I’m not getting any sex at all!

This made me giggle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your veri’s it looks like you’ve been here a long time OP, certainly a lot longer than some of the more dismissive ones who have replied on your thread.

I’m part of a couple’s profile which is a few years old. When we get fed up or disillusioned we hide our profile for a while as others have suggested.

Hope it works out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise! Only about the perv part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

It's a fun place to meet really nice and like-minded people, but the expectations on size are a bit exhausting. Anything less than 7 inches is considered useless on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

It's a fun place to meet really nice and like-minded people, but the expectations on size are a bit exhausting. Anything less than 7 inches is considered useless on here"

That’s me out then

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Why are you sick of the site,OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard we thottin in here?

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Not us, we're loving it.

Still newbies, but we're having a great time.

W & LA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sick of prawn crackers. I’ve just eaten a full bag to myself.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I’m sick of prawn crackers. I’ve just eaten a full bag to myself. "

Piglet!

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London


"I’m sick of getting hundreds of messages from desperate women lmao"

Yeah all asking for dick pics!!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

You have 6 veries and you are sick of the sight. Be greatful some people been here years and not had one meet let alone 6!

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I love everything about it.

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By *un Times 1Man
over a year ago

coventry


"If I get fed up I take some time away.

This - I don't think the site has changed as such but maybe people and their expectations have changed a bit (I include myself in this)

We live in different times, pandemic, inflation, war etc and a lot of uncertainty, anxiety and maybe even a desire to make the most of each day, so our approach may be different perhaps and we expect more to happen at an accelerated pace.

Just a thought."

Yes, I tend to agree with what you wrote here. We are definitely living through some uncertain times. I personally don’t think we have ever really recovered from the credit crunch, Brexit, pandemic, Ukraine etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as much as I’m sick of pointless threads …. Sorry was I typing out loud

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

A man who is tired of Fab is tired of Fetlife.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm sick of all the hot men having high standards.

I demand they fuck me

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sick of all the hot men having high standards.

I demand they fuck me "

All the hot men make it impossible for genuine guys like me to get a chance at meeting anyone.

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Just have a little break and don't set your expectations too high. Tom was getting a little tired a few months back and when he returned a fabber messaged and she said that people were literally dancing in the streets like when Mandela was released ..."

I think Mandela was worthy of dancing in the streets though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me! I just can’t be bothered with it! I needs cuddles and spooning rather than orgasms right now!

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

why oh why do these wise folk not tell me this before i cough up for site membership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fed up with all the guys wanting sex with me.

I'm fully booked till 2024 FFS.

^Message her at 20.25"

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Only you. It’s your turn. Shout when you’re done so someone else can have a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all get tired of one thing or another on fab...it can be very draining mentally and tough on confidence...but hey, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger yes? .... No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes … is funny …

Oh … fabs is so hard …. Dah dah dah

Like life out there is any easier …..

Isn’t it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we all get tired of one thing or another on fab...it can be very draining mentally and tough on confidence...but hey, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger yes? .... No!"

Except Polio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we all get tired of one thing or another on fab...it can be very draining mentally and tough on confidence...but hey, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger yes? .... No!

Except Polio"

There Polio on Fab?

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

What you sick about

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"If you’re sick of it why are you still here?

It is like drink,Never doing it again after a good sesh."

You sound conflicted...or maybe that's just me....but it ( Never doing it again) is something I've heard bi-sexual and bi-curious people say before...

As for the drink....I always pace myself and plan to get wasted.....at I stay awa y from stuff I now will make me really ill like Sambucca.

Not sure how you would pace yourself with Fab. Lol!

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I'm just getting started!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only sick when you've paid for extra on the site and it has glitches like in the cam rooms unable to use seems a waste of money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will not renew . Looking at other sites .

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I've got no complaints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sick of prawn crackers. I’ve just eaten a full bag to myself.

Piglet!"

I know, it was ridiculous and I’m ashamed of myself.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Sick?? The forum is unique!! Where else can you have topical discussion with people alongside pictures of their private parts?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

That’s a shame OP, I quite like it.

If you’re enjoying it then stay but if you’re not, leave. It’s not a difficult one. Choose the one that brings you happiness

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"That’s a shame OP, I quite like it.

If you’re enjoying it then stay but if you’re not, leave. It’s not a difficult one. Choose the one that brings you happiness "

Ahhhh Grasshopper.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Agree, it did go down hill around 10 years ago. Too many men joining destroyed it.

I see fabs now more of a profit organisation, and just a money maker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you take this site too seriously… it’s good to perve and try to make some connections.. outside the front there is a real world… this should just be treated as a get away from it all…. Some lucky sods do make more than just connections - they actually meet and have sex… but.. for many more of us less fortunate souls - we just come on the forums and vent x

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"Agree, it did go down hill around 10 years ago. Too many men joining destroyed it.

I see fabs now more of a profit organisation, and just a money maker. "

Genuine question. If that's how you feel, why are still here?

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep... it doesn't work for me lol

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Sites like this are all about the people. If you find people who make you happy, it will work well for you,and vice versa. The site itself is mostly a vehicle.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Well I’m having loads of fun

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The site is what you make of it maybe op u need to take a break and come back in a couple of months,maybe freshen up your profile and see if anyone is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is pretty dire these days been on and off but never improves

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I like the site but fed up of the moaning men who complain they are not getting any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I get fed up I take some time away.

This - I don't think the site has changed as such but maybe people and their expectations have changed a bit (I include myself in this)

We live in different times, pandemic, inflation, war etc and a lot of uncertainty, anxiety and maybe even a desire to make the most of each day, so our approach may be different perhaps and we expect more to happen at an accelerated pace.

Just a thought."

I find this idea quite interesting. It makes sense that with all the chaos in the world, making the most of each day is obvious and so as Aphrodite said 'expect more to happen' within the swinging world e.g. meets and such to feel fulfilled or satisfied. But when it doesn't go as we expected, we get frustrated or take it personally. Patience is key.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well I’m having loads of fun "

Us too - Fab is great!

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple
over a year ago

coventry

I like it but very dated. also like discord as more personal and easier to have banter as flows better xx

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I like it but very dated. also like discord as more personal and easier to have banter as flows better xx"

Extremely dated! But it does what it says on the tin, and will probably never change.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

Said no woman ever

Men will get sick of it because the ratio is unbalanced and you're fighting to get attention in an over saturated site.

Fuck me, if I wasn't on a couples profile I doubt I'd get no attention at all.

If you think "the women" don't get sick of this site, you are sorely mistaken

Not for the lack of attention I'm willing to bet"

Not all attention is good attention

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

same here but keep coming back !! not had any meet yet , so frustrating

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m taking time away and hiding my profile. I don’t really spend too much time on here anymore, but it’s more about me than the site.

This place (the Forums) has always been the same a few provocative posts, women being worshipped and men moaning. But there are the precious few that make the place worthwhile, that don’t conform who do think differently than the masses.

It’s never the site, when we lose those willing to challenge respectfully or bring something new to the party, that’s when it’ll no longer worth spending time on here. Until that time I’ll occasionally look in and appreciate those topics, comments or people that make this place interesting.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope I'm in it for the long haul I'm a prisoner of fab

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?

Turn the lights off when you leave please"

Why do the rest of us have to sit in the dark just because he leaves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fed up with all the guys wanting sex with me.

I'm fully booked till 2024 FFS.

"

Let me know when booking for 2025 is open. I can even bring us a bag each…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100%!!

Men complain all time how hard it for them in here but I’ve not had anything but times wasters on here!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes. I need more tit

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Yes 100%!!

Men complain all time how hard it for them in here but I’ve not had anything but times wasters on here!"

I was chatting to someone from here the other day about how the bar for men on Fab is hilariously low, yet so many fail to clear it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place isn't for everyone, and if you can't stand out or find your niche then perhaps it isn't for you.

It's not for free, it's not owed or deserved.

You're selling a product or offering something. If you can't.

Tatty bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be a computer virus

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m normally fine , have a very high tolerance to pricks and whiners, but this evening has really tested me.

I just saw a post about knickers being pulled to the side and one of the replies used the words panties and gusset in the sane sentence.

I thought things couldn’t possibly get any worse but someone replied saying ‘mmmm’

I’m to sleep on it but could likely by ULNOS by morning.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"Yes 100%!!

Men complain all time how hard it for them in here but I’ve not had anything but times wasters on here!

I was chatting to someone from here the other day about how the bar for men on Fab is hilariously low, yet so many fail to clear it."

It should be so easy, the bar is on the floor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pics up and verifications and straight to the point and yet all men do is mess about and either disappear or don’t turn up!!!

Don’t seem to be many genuine guys on here. Get the impression many are married and just jump to get a fix then want actual meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I am getting sick of this site it's very repetitive. It's full of oddballs, no-shows, and time wasters. And to put it politely freaks. I know we have our different tastes and fantasies, but sometimes it's just. Disturbing.

Don't get me wrong, you do get the occasional genuine person.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Crumbs!

Another one of these threads !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't.. let the door hit you on the way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I am getting sick of this site it's very repetitive. It's full of oddballs, no-shows, and time wasters. And to put it politely freaks. I know we have our different tastes and fantasies, but sometimes it's just. Disturbing.

Don't get me wrong, you do get the occasional genuine person."

sorry I posted in the straight forums, not the gay forums on fabguys. I have no qualms with this site.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Yes, let down once again today. Was much better when we first joined some 9 years ago (couple profile too). 29 out of every 30 chats lead nowhere, fakes, pic collectors and fantasists who have no intention of meeting.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Yes, I'm going make a forum about it though at my wits end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Nope,,, not even one iota

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’m having loads of fun

Us too - Fab is great! "

Fab is a great word. I like fab.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I’m normally fine , have a very high tolerance to pricks and whiners, but this evening has really tested me.

I just saw a post about knickers being pulled to the side and one of the replies used the words panties and gusset in the sane sentence.

I thought things couldn’t possibly get any worse but someone replied saying ‘mmmm’

I’m to sleep on it but could likely by ULNOS by morning. "

Was the gusset of the panties moist?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have pics up and verifications and straight to the point and yet all men do is mess about and either disappear or don’t turn up!!!

Don’t seem to be many genuine guys on here. Get the impression many are married and just jump to get a fix then want actual meets "

Your profile is great Frankie and any guy who disappears on you or doesn’t show up must be mad

It’s very frustrating the amount of time wasters on here and some single guys ruining it for genuine single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but if RexHoles left I'd be sick of this place because he keeps the family spirit strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but if RexHoles left I'd be sick of this place because he keeps the family spirit strong "

C'mon sis don't say that?

Is that what you're going for? Too much?

Wait, just wait.

Step sis?

Better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but if RexHoles left I'd be sick of this place because he keeps the family spirit strong

C'mon sis don't say that?

Is that what you're going for? Too much?

Wait, just wait.

Step sis?

Better?"

Much better but RexHoles is my son so I can maybe be your auntie but it is strictly normal behaviour no getting stuck in things I hope this makes sense

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

I'm not ..but I reckon a lot of people on the site are getting sick of me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but if RexHoles left I'd be sick of this place because he keeps the family spirit strong

C'mon sis don't say that?

Is that what you're going for? Too much?

Wait, just wait.

Step sis?

Better?

Much better but RexHoles is my son so I can maybe be your auntie but it is strictly normal behaviour no getting stuck in things I hope this makes sense "

Gotcha, no getting stuck.

Plenty of lube.

Loud and clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have pics up and verifications and straight to the point and yet all men do is mess about and either disappear or don’t turn up!!!

Don’t seem to be many genuine guys on here. Get the impression many are married and just jump to get a fix then want actual meets "

I find that extraordinary; you look lovely, pretty face, good pictures etc. You deserve so much better.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Yeah, I am getting sick of this site it's very repetitive. It's full of oddballs, no-shows, and time wasters. And to put it politely freaks. I know we have our different tastes and fantasies, but sometimes it's just. Disturbing.

Don't get me wrong, you do get the occasional genuine person."

you are right some of the post/replies are very disturbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a love hate relationship with it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are getting sick of the site and all the people on it's probably a sign you need a break.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"Agree, it did go down hill around 10 years ago. Too many men joining destroyed it.

I see fabs now more of a profit organisation, and just a money maker. "

Yup, an awful lot of free to join sites are the same.

They must make millions out of all the free memberships they give away.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a love hate relationship with it xx "

Me too x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I have a love hate relationship with it xx

Me too x"

Me three.

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By *y naughty hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

I blame covid. We had more fun before that came along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blame covid. We had more fun before that came along "

I agree with this.

It’s taken a long time for my mojo to return. Before Covid I was immersed in the lifestyle especially on our couples profile.

Slowly kicking back in.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

It has it's ups and downs ... like everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" All depends on how you "View" the site and what you hope to get out of it ?? endless meets with sex on tap....far better sites for that and even sites where you are 100% sure of getting laid but.....and been lucky has met some amazing people so we are quite content ... "

Where are these sites haha definitely been hiding from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried other sites, but Ocado Customer Services just weren’t overly keen on getting a cumtribute

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I tried other sites, but Ocado Customer Services just weren’t overly keen on getting a cumtribute"

Maybe TrustaTrader would have been better option

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Yeah, ever since I first joined 3years ago!

Fortunately I’ve met a few amazing people on here, and the fact that I’m a perv, that keeps me here!"

I fully endorse this message.. a likeminded perv who perved my profile and actually fabbed a pic - she’s obviously depraved

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Is any one else getting sick of this site or is it just me?"

Moi? Never.

Taking breaks when needed helps a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick around Paul .. we need nice mannerly nice guys and girls in here to make it a fun and friendly place to come for a distraction from everyday life . Pay no attention to the idiots telling you to close the door and turn off the lights on the way out . Idiots .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good moaning

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