FabSwingers.com forum: Protection or no

By *xb82 OP Woman
over a year ago

kent

I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is photoshopped

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

They may have been wearing a face mask

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

X"
yes perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As safe as shoving a cucumber up your arse.

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By *xb82 OP Woman
over a year ago

kent

But if they don’t wear condoms they can get infected or even get HIV ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is photoshopped "

^He's fashionably latex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They may have been wearing a face mask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if they don’t wear condoms they can get infected or even get HIV ? "

Do you think that only bi men don't use condoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As safe as shoving a cucumber up your arse. "

That's one way to get your five a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have gay sex* I always go bareback.

(* I don’t have gay sex)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have gay sex* I always go bareback.

(* I don’t have gay sex)"

My sex is always gay somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have gay sex* I always go bareback.

(* I don’t have gay sex)"

It's still straight if you fuck a man as long as he doesn't push back.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"When I have gay sex* I always go bareback.

(* I don’t have gay sex)

It's still straight if you fuck a man as long as he doesn't push back.

That sounds like you've had some dive training from a particular technical instructor - one of his favourite quotes

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

I've just noticed form your pics, the protection is on the wrong end of the cucumber, you know that's how you catch vegetarianism.....

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

Two bodyguards at the door and one body double at the end of the bed makes them feel safe!

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I think browsing pictures on fab and assume how many men do or don't use protection is probably not a definitive or accurate study

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

Of course not . and thank you for asking .

Research google . Gay and bisexual men sex is considered the highest risks of sex.

As I love bare sex a woman who loves sex with bi man is a off putting as I’m aware of high risk it is .

https://www.cdc.gov/msmhealth/for-your-health.htm

This is a very serious matter . And I’m a impressed on a bad way

How people here are joking and having a laugh

With out help x I’m a joker . I’m a

Comedian my own way .

But please help as well …

Always ask sweetheart, never feel shy .

Ask here on forums , people privately , ask google

There is plenty of information

For example in :

https://www.cdc.gov/msmhealth/for-your-health.htm

Says :

“Most gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men get HIV by having anal sex, which is the riskiest type of sex for getting or spreading HIV. During anal sex, it’s possible for either partner—the insertive (top) or the receptive (bottom) to get HIV. However, if you are HIV-negative, bottoming without a condom puts you at much greater risk for getting HIV than topping. If you are HIV-positive, being on the top without a condom is riskier for giving HIV to your partner.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely not. You should be using safety goggles to look at the hot pics.

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By *ayporterMan
over a year ago

Baltic Triangle, Liverpool

A individual’s sexuality has zero impact on whether or not they choose to use condoms.

The statistics show us some groups are more likely to forgo condoms and use PreP to protect against HIV but when talking on an individual basis you can’t use someone’s sexuality to jump to a conclusion.

Maybe just discuss it with them?

I don’t see any people who label themselves as straight using condoms for oral on here; and that comes with a risk. So the idea that bi or gay men are solely responsible or somehow inherently more risky than any other group is probably a subconscious form of bias or homophobia.

Look at individual behaviours - not group trends.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Filter your own behaviour and choices. Many do different things with long-term partners, compared to NSA ones and you'll not be able to interpret and understand much, from a photo on the Internet.

Your life is your responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He might be using a full on all over bodysuit

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

Protection all the way I have no idea why anyone would take a chance with health bi or straight it’s mind blowing to think people take risks

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes of course. Sex is only definitely safe if you’re bi.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

It's perfectly safe, the screen on your phone is engineered sufficiently enough to keep you safe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Protection always for me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

Most?

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if they don’t wear condoms they can get infected or even get HIV ? "

You just answered you own question, Google is great for this kind of enquiry, save you getting peppered with humiliation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

Two bodyguards at the door and one body double at the end of the bed makes them feel safe!

Haha!!!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

Most?

Really?

Sample size: one profile.

Conclusion: sweeping generalisation.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I just noticed from the pics that most of bi men don’t use any protection. Is it safe ?

Most?

Really?

Sample size: one profile.

Conclusion: sweeping generalisation."

Yep. Bilut then bi male bashing is all par for the forums. Always has been.

I see plenty of single male and single female photos with bareback shots. I see plenty of couple photos where it's obviously not the husband with bareback shots.

The simple thing to do is not worry about what those you're not planning to meet are doing, assume everyone at some point goes bare and just ensure they don't with you.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

There are many many bareback pics and vids on here across all men regardless of their sexual orientation. So I prefer to just generalise and unless they tell me differently, assume that most bareback. That means I can take the necessary precautions for my sexual health

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x"

So you met men and didn't use protection. So women don't use protection too then?

Do you assume women don't now or just bi men?

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"There are many many bareback pics and vids on here across all men regardless of their sexual orientation. So I prefer to just generalise and unless they tell me differently, assume that most bareback. That means I can take the necessary precautions for my sexual health"

I don't know why people get so het up about profiles they've no interest in meeting. '\_

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*looks at profile, biog/photos not what I'm looking for.

Options;

1 - aaaaand the next profile please.

2 - start a thread bemoaning people I've no interest in.

My sexual health is within my control. I take that control seriously.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x

So you met men and didn't use protection. So women don't use protection too then?

Do you assume women don't now or just bi men?

That's not what I said though. I insisted that he covered up and he did. After that I chose not to meet any bi men at all because not all them would cover up for me x

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x

So you met men and didn't use protection. So women don't use protection too then?

Do you assume women don't now or just bi men?

That's not what I said though. I insisted that he covered up and he did. After that I chose not to meet any bi men at all because not all them would cover up for me x"

So your comment relates to men you met - not all bi men.

Almost as if people are individuals.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such an old fashioned view. We are in 2022!!!! Hiv is nearly non transmissible now (nearly not completely)! And it's more common in straight women than gay men now. You run the risk of every sti or std going if you go unprotected.. men or women.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don't know why people get so het up about profiles they've no interest in meeting. '\_

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*looks at profile, biog/photos not what I'm looking for.

Options;

1 - aaaaand the next profile please.

2 - start a thread bemoaning people I've no interest in.

My sexual health is within my control. I take that control seriously.

Winston

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x

So you met men and didn't use protection. So women don't use protection too then?

Do you assume women don't now or just bi men?

That's not what I said though. I insisted that he covered up and he did. After that I chose not to meet any bi men at all because not all them would cover up for me x

So your comment relates to men you met - not all bi men.

Almost as if people are individuals.....

I would say that most bi men do still have unprotected sex. We are all individuals and we all make our own choices. My choice is safe sex. We're all different x

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x

So you met men and didn't use protection. So women don't use protection too then?

Do you assume women don't now or just bi men?

That's not what I said though. I insisted that he covered up and he did. After that I chose not to meet any bi men at all because not all them would cover up for me x

So your comment relates to men you met - not all bi men.

Almost as if people are individuals.....

I would say that most bi men do still have unprotected sex. We are all individuals and we all make our own choices. My choice is safe sex. We're all different x"

How do you know unless you're meeting them?

Every bi guy we've ever met has worn protection but I'd never make a blanket assumption that all do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are rarely comments from enough bi and gay fabbers to gain an insight of their thoughts or preferences

I'd much rather hear from the group themselves than hearsay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x

So you met men and didn't use protection. So women don't use protection too then?

Do you assume women don't now or just bi men?

That's not what I said though. I insisted that he covered up and he did. After that I chose not to meet any bi men at all because not all them would cover up for me x

So your comment relates to men you met - not all bi men.

Almost as if people are individuals.....

I would say that most bi men do still have unprotected sex. We are all individuals and we all make our own choices. My choice is safe sex. We're all different x

How do you know unless you're meeting them?

Every bi guy we've ever met has worn protection but I'd never make a blanket assumption that all do.

It's quite simple really, if it's on their profile that they're bi, I stay away x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Back in the days when I did meet a bi man they didn't use protection. I have noticed that STI's are higher in bi and gay men so I'm assuming they still don't use protection x

So you met men and didn't use protection. So women don't use protection too then?

Do you assume women don't now or just bi men?

That's not what I said though. I insisted that he covered up and he did. After that I chose not to meet any bi men at all because not all them would cover up for me x

So your comment relates to men you met - not all bi men.

Almost as if people are individuals.....

I would say that most bi men do still have unprotected sex. We are all individuals and we all make our own choices. My choice is safe sex. We're all different x

How do you know unless you're meeting them?

Every bi guy we've ever met has worn protection but I'd never make a blanket assumption that all do.

It's quite simple really, if it's on their profile that they're bi, I stay away x"

As is your choice.

But that has absolutely nothing to do with anyone having protected or unprotected sex, does it?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think there are plenty of people of all persuasions who use protection and plenty that don't.

It's quite possible that pics showing those not using protection are with partners or other folk that they trust. It's hard to know without being fully conversant with the facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there are plenty of people of all persuasions who use protection and plenty that don't.

It's quite possible that pics showing those not using protection are with partners or other folk that they trust. It's hard to know without being fully conversant with the facts

Exactly. Pics could be old or could be of others not the profile owner. Could be of tested folk and clear-of-sti folk, or could be that the people lied to claim they were clear to get the bareback they enjoy.

A pic in a condom proves nothing to me.

We can only follow our instincts and live by our own preferences.

There's also oral health to consider. How many exclusively use condoms for that?

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